The Male Hysteric
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The Male Hysteric
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I'm very normal.
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I needed to share this here because holy shit hahaha #jayvik
January 4, 2026 at 10:40 PM
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Speaking of “why many women and others who aren’t cis white guys are feeling REAL reluctant to pivot to creating video at this EXACT point in history where AI makes it crazy easy for bad actors to steal and exploit our faces”
“If a woman dares to show herself in public in any way, then she can and will be sexually harassed with the aid of genAI-driven tools that can easily turn her face into highly realistic pornography” is an absolute red-alarm human rights disaster
The end goal of Grok sexual harassment is to make women afraid to be visible. It’s a punishment for daring to exist in a way the perpetrators can’t control. There’s no one solution to this, because the problem isn’t just technological. It’s cultural. It’s misogyny. This is just one expression of it.
January 5, 2026 at 3:10 AM
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This has always been the goal—I taught chapters from Carol Brooks Gardner’s 1995 book on street harassment, Passing By, last semester, which clearly speak to that—but new technologies dramatically, frighteningly extend the reach & duration of “public harassment”
The end goal of Grok sexual harassment is to make women afraid to be visible. It’s a punishment for daring to exist in a way the perpetrators can’t control. There’s no one solution to this, because the problem isn’t just technological. It’s cultural. It’s misogyny. This is just one expression of it.
January 5, 2026 at 1:50 AM
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You hired the roaches because you consider your roommate who called the exterminator to be worse and lower than roaches, in the hope that the roaches would convince him to move out.
if I hire an exterminator to handle a roach infestation and he instead presents me with a list of reasons he is incapable of doing so while asking for more money so that he can maybe handle it later, I am not angrier at the roaches, I am in the market for a better exterminator
January 4, 2026 at 11:11 PM
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this particular inclination — that one must always be Condemning, otherwise one is Endorsing — is dubious but plausible when talking about institutions but patently ridiculous when applied to someone's social media posts. We've learned the hard way that social media is real life but also: Chill out!
January 4, 2026 at 9:26 PM
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January 1, 2026 at 1:01 PM
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learned an incredible yiddish song from the 1800s called THE BEARD (די באָרד) about a woman absolutely losing her shit over how her religious husband just up and shaved his beard one day

"Did the beard somehow hurt you? Did it cost you any great expense? Did it demand your food?? OY GEVALD"
January 4, 2026 at 6:55 PM
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I have genuinely been laughing at this for the past 35 minutes. Every time I open WhatsApp to reply I see it and start laughing again.

Sharing it in case your day needs improving.
January 3, 2026 at 8:53 PM
I am not sure if it's a good thing that my first instinct upon bad things happening is to hoard.
January 4, 2026 at 3:19 AM
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Candid answer - as someone who handled constituent affairs calls for years - while they’re not checking the phone right now, the urgency of the moment is important.

Show them you care enough to make the weekend call, and be counted that way. Staffers will clock and report this upstream.
Is there actually a benefit to leaving a VM now vs getting a staffer on Monday? Can do both but just curious
January 3, 2026 at 4:03 PM
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This is why they deserve lentils when they ask for peas
January 3, 2026 at 5:18 PM
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Not that it wasn’t clear before, but launching a major war out of the blue with zero real effort to build public support and absolutely no approval from Congress demonstrates how much Trump perceives himself as a pure dictator
January 3, 2026 at 7:04 AM
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Reminder:

All
People
Had
To
Do
Was
Fill
In
A
Little
Oval
Next
To
The
Smart
Black
Lady’s
Name.
April 7, 2025 at 2:34 AM
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Yup. Trump has completely lost his mind. There must be something huge in the Epstein files that he is willing to start a war to hide.
January 3, 2026 at 12:51 PM
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We’re gonna inspire a generation of terrorists that can just hop in a Toyota and drive up here.
January 3, 2026 at 12:55 PM
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I’m thinking this morning about all the people I spoke to last year who were absolutely convinced, and tried to convince me, that Trump would be antiwar compared to Biden and Harris.

In the past week alone he has attacked Nigeria and then Venezuela and also threatened to attack Iran (again).
January 3, 2026 at 1:18 PM
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gonna make a movie about herman melville's tragic gay love for nathaniel hawthorne and call it humpback mountain
January 3, 2026 at 4:37 AM
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As a Jew I'm quite excited for the 5th "new year" of the year lol
December 31, 2025 at 9:44 PM
It's funny to me how much media on mending is about some kind of Very Serious Anticapitalist Politics where as I'm just a fat transsexual who wants to wear my clothes to the point they are no longer recognizeable as clothes than go through the mortifying experience of trying on clothes again
January 3, 2026 at 2:45 AM
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my friend @jynxdrawsstuff.bsky.social drew this jayce giopurra for me months ago when i was having a really shite day, and im finally able to present to you my addition:

the Machine Mouserald

he is taunting jayce with his laser

hehe

#vikjayce #myart
January 2, 2026 at 5:02 AM
Question:

I want to make kimchi jjigae and traditionally it's made with pork shoulder. Any ideas for a kosher-friendly alternative?
January 3, 2026 at 1:51 AM
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My nephew just asked me “if you get scared half to death twice does that mean you’re dead” so naturally I launched into a lecture about infinite series
January 3, 2026 at 12:59 AM
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also a jermtor… vikma? I did for his b day #jerma985 #viktorarcane
January 2, 2026 at 7:59 PM
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i'm really having a hard time getting past the "surely we can all agree that Somalis are worse than trash" thing. this feels new and very bad
January 2, 2026 at 3:36 PM
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It seems like the through line here is that people really struggle to understand state collapse as anything other than a kind of collective moral failing because if it can happen for other reasons that would have troubling implications for their project of crippling the state.
January 2, 2026 at 3:41 PM