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Frames
@oxinabox.bsky.social
Minors DNI
Neurodivergent, queer, 30 something, EDS, POTS, hearing impaired. Lives in Australia.🏳️‍⚧️ she/it. Literally just a girl

If you know me IRL and see me horny posting be cool, ok?
Or stick to my professional bsky: @oxinabox.net
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I have the trans endocrinology autism.

Standing offer to (in DM or comments):
- explain exactly how HRT works and what it does
- help you workout how and what to DIY
- second opinion your doctors
- explain your blood test
- debug weird corner cases and interactions
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You couldn't publish this today. You'd have to cloak it under several layers of metaphor.
Literally a publication for eight-year olds 40 years ago
January 4, 2026 at 7:01 PM
Growing up I thought cheese and onion was only a flavour of chip.

It wasn't til I was 30 that I realised you can literally have cheese + raw* onion (ideally a less strong kind) . On own or or crackers or toast or etc.
And it's great.

*Or cooked onion, or pickled onion, or chopped and soaked onion
January 4, 2026 at 4:19 PM
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YOUR ATTENTION PLEASE.

in 45 minutes the earth hits perihelion. This is the closest point it approaches the sun.

That means it will be going the fastest it goes in its orbit.

In honour of this, today is designated SPEED DAY.
January 3, 2026 at 4:30 PM
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sex with me is like random access memory manufacturing. precisely milled silicon wafers vastly important. a negatively pressurized facility. the slightest particle of dust can invalidate an entire day's work. it takes years of prep work to get started, let alone competitive. but everyone needs it.
sex with me is like bowling. there’s a lot of drinking and cursing. sticking your fingers in weird holes. you have to rent shoes
January 4, 2026 at 3:36 PM
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sex with me is like poker. the odds of getting a straight are pretty low
sex with me is like bowling. there’s a lot of drinking and cursing. sticking your fingers in weird holes. you have to rent shoes
January 4, 2026 at 2:24 PM
sick of being harassed by dudes in cars.
Especially when I am out running at 10pm.
January 4, 2026 at 2:07 PM
January 4, 2026 at 12:55 PM
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If I had a dollar for every doctor who has taken a Hippocratic oath but refused to provide me healthcare that's specifically to do with being trans because they "don't really do that kind of thing", I'd have eight bucks, and still be $172 short for an appointment with my gender care specialist
kinda bullshit that my new GP was completely unconcerned about managing my Ménière's disease -- a complicated probably autoimmune condition that could randomly flare.
But was like "I can do repeats on your HRT but if you need to change anything with it the you will have to see a specialist"
January 4, 2026 at 8:03 AM
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Socially, transition is a lot like the movie Reservoir Dogs (1992). You make new friends and start getting into discourse, old hands are there giving advice to newbies, there's a bald man assembled entirely out of hams who gives you your new name, you can trap a cop in the boot of your car and tortu
May 25, 2025 at 9:35 AM
trans girls who are like "trans dudes have it so easy to pass" really do not know many trans guys.
January 4, 2026 at 4:17 AM
held a girls hand (virtually) while in a video call today while she did he first shot, and then when and taught a girl IRL how to do injections right after.

It's not yet noon and i have helped 2 girls get better healthcare :hearts:
A good day
January 4, 2026 at 3:45 AM
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kinda bullshit that my new GP was completely unconcerned about managing my Ménière's disease -- a complicated probably autoimmune condition that could randomly flare.
But was like "I can do repeats on your HRT but if you need to change anything with it the you will have to see a specialist"
January 3, 2026 at 9:53 AM
90% of transition advice for trans femmes is just girls repeating:

- You're wearing your skirt to low. Your waist is higher than you think.
- You should buy A-line / empire cut / fit and flare dresses.
- You are being under-dosed on estrogen. You are menopausal.

(They are correct)
January 3, 2026 at 10:05 AM
kinda bullshit that my new GP was completely unconcerned about managing my Ménière's disease -- a complicated probably autoimmune condition that could randomly flare.
But was like "I can do repeats on your HRT but if you need to change anything with it the you will have to see a specialist"
January 3, 2026 at 9:53 AM
found out about another trans girl in my city getting physically attacked for being trans in the last week.
Why is it getting worse?
January 3, 2026 at 8:27 AM
if it can't depression, it's not AI
January 3, 2026 at 8:25 AM
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one of the wildest parts of having DID is falling in love with your wife, who you had never really met until you had been married for over a decade.
January 2, 2026 at 12:34 PM
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if everyone hadn’t worked so hard to keep people like me out of sports, this could and would be me and i *would* have a competitive advantage but only because i started parm training before i could read.
Echoes of the Italian gymnast sponsored by parmesan cheese
January 2, 2026 at 5:50 PM
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Like it used to be i was extremely self-aware of my transness cuz of micro aggression and constant transphobia but these days its like "omg im so hot and interesting what is a gorgeous tranny like me doing in these environs"
January 2, 2026 at 1:49 PM
one of the wildest parts of having DID is falling in love with your wife, who you had never really met until you had been married for over a decade.
January 2, 2026 at 12:34 PM
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CORRECTED POST: :)

MPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: If you are trans at a convention I am at and someone gives you shit about it, let me know and I will come throw a fucking chair at them.

This service is complimentary.

Also, I have to start proofreading my posts!
January 1, 2026 at 6:49 PM
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It’s tiring to hear about how we should dismiss “theoretical” concerns when these are not only happening but seem to be a major use case
January 2, 2026 at 2:05 AM
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hi, i'm grad school for physics
January 2, 2026 at 1:14 AM
Hi, I'm my family
January 2, 2026 at 1:10 AM