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@oxinabox.bsky.social
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Neurodivergent, queer, 30 something, EDS, POTS, hearing impaired. Lives in Australia.🏳️⚧️ she/it. Literally just a girl
If you know me IRL and see me horny posting be cool, ok?
Or stick to my professional bsky: @oxinabox.net
Neurodivergent, queer, 30 something, EDS, POTS, hearing impaired. Lives in Australia.🏳️⚧️ she/it. Literally just a girl
If you know me IRL and see me horny posting be cool, ok?
Or stick to my professional bsky: @oxinabox.net
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@oxinabox.bsky.social
· Dec 24
I have the trans endocrinology autism.
Standing offer to (in DM or comments):
- explain exactly how HRT works and what it does
- help you workout how and what to DIY
- second opinion your doctors
- explain your blood test
- debug weird corner cases and interactions
Standing offer to (in DM or comments):
- explain exactly how HRT works and what it does
- help you workout how and what to DIY
- second opinion your doctors
- explain your blood test
- debug weird corner cases and interactions
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This is also I suspect why so many trans folks end up in utterly abusive relationships pre-transition, because if we are willing to bury such a core part as gender, then there are so many other things we will do to maintain conditional love.
And abusive people can read that willingness in us.
And abusive people can read that willingness in us.
January 6, 2026 at 3:29 AM
This is also I suspect why so many trans folks end up in utterly abusive relationships pre-transition, because if we are willing to bury such a core part as gender, then there are so many other things we will do to maintain conditional love.
And abusive people can read that willingness in us.
And abusive people can read that willingness in us.
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The biggest realisation for most people who transition after the age of 30 is not that they are trans but rather that love can be unconditional.
January 6, 2026 at 12:03 AM
The biggest realisation for most people who transition after the age of 30 is not that they are trans but rather that love can be unconditional.
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Godspeed You! Oblivious Lesbian
January 5, 2026 at 2:36 PM
Godspeed You! Oblivious Lesbian
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in penance I will say three “transmisogyny affects everyone”s and join the waiting list for a government-approved gender clinic
January 6, 2026 at 10:22 AM
in penance I will say three “transmisogyny affects everyone”s and join the waiting list for a government-approved gender clinic
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trans women are not women you can hit. no woman is a woman you can hit. stop hitting women.
January 5, 2026 at 8:07 PM
trans women are not women you can hit. no woman is a woman you can hit. stop hitting women.
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some 20 years ago, Laura Jane Grace described what has been my experience thus far:
"Will everyone
you ever meet or love
Be just a relationship based
on a false presumption?
Despite everyone
you ever meet or love
In the end,
will you be all alone?"
"Will everyone
you ever meet or love
Be just a relationship based
on a false presumption?
Despite everyone
you ever meet or love
In the end,
will you be all alone?"
January 6, 2026 at 12:59 AM
some 20 years ago, Laura Jane Grace described what has been my experience thus far:
"Will everyone
you ever meet or love
Be just a relationship based
on a false presumption?
Despite everyone
you ever meet or love
In the end,
will you be all alone?"
"Will everyone
you ever meet or love
Be just a relationship based
on a false presumption?
Despite everyone
you ever meet or love
In the end,
will you be all alone?"
The biggest realisation for most people who transition after the age of 30 is not that they are trans but rather that love can be unconditional.
January 6, 2026 at 12:03 AM
The biggest realisation for most people who transition after the age of 30 is not that they are trans but rather that love can be unconditional.
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look we're all making a big bet on AI! and if it pays off as big as we hope, well, it's going to make a handful of people super rich and you're going to lose your job but get to watch mickey mouse fuck geralt from the witcher. if it doesn't pay off well then you get to pay for the bailouts
December 29, 2025 at 2:25 AM
look we're all making a big bet on AI! and if it pays off as big as we hope, well, it's going to make a handful of people super rich and you're going to lose your job but get to watch mickey mouse fuck geralt from the witcher. if it doesn't pay off well then you get to pay for the bailouts
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did you know?
shes diggin
shes diggin
January 5, 2026 at 1:53 PM
did you know?
shes diggin
shes diggin
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i miss when there were consequences for things
January 5, 2026 at 1:09 PM
i miss when there were consequences for things
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In case anyone thought I was joking about the cost of "Fashions in Hair - the first 5000 years"
This book is an incredibly valuable reference and pretty difficult to get your hands on.
It contains hundreds of sketches of (predominantly western) historical hair styles, with a bibliography.
This book is an incredibly valuable reference and pretty difficult to get your hands on.
It contains hundreds of sketches of (predominantly western) historical hair styles, with a bibliography.
January 5, 2026 at 12:33 PM
In case anyone thought I was joking about the cost of "Fashions in Hair - the first 5000 years"
This book is an incredibly valuable reference and pretty difficult to get your hands on.
It contains hundreds of sketches of (predominantly western) historical hair styles, with a bibliography.
This book is an incredibly valuable reference and pretty difficult to get your hands on.
It contains hundreds of sketches of (predominantly western) historical hair styles, with a bibliography.
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I've completely lost interest in debating generative models or how big tech has almost completely transitioned into an authoritarian political project. These days what I try to do is just mentally flip the bozo bit on anybody still defending this shit and then do my best to move on.
January 5, 2026 at 11:50 AM
I've completely lost interest in debating generative models or how big tech has almost completely transitioned into an authoritarian political project. These days what I try to do is just mentally flip the bozo bit on anybody still defending this shit and then do my best to move on.
I feel like we could write an essay on this.
you can put a (very femme!) cis woman in the mental state of being a trans woman merely by accusing her of being trans
January 5, 2026 at 12:24 PM
I feel like we could write an essay on this.
If people want to know why I hate and fear the Australian summern, read this thread.
It's that plus I will burn in the sun if caught out for more than 5 minutes without protection. Even without a heatwave.
I got burnt looking for the car in the car park the other day.
It's that plus I will burn in the sun if caught out for more than 5 minutes without protection. Even without a heatwave.
I got burnt looking for the car in the car park the other day.
For many years I lived in an apartment without aircon. My list of places I could go to escape the heat in metro Melbourne
January 5, 2026 at 10:36 AM
If people want to know why I hate and fear the Australian summern, read this thread.
It's that plus I will burn in the sun if caught out for more than 5 minutes without protection. Even without a heatwave.
I got burnt looking for the car in the car park the other day.
It's that plus I will burn in the sun if caught out for more than 5 minutes without protection. Even without a heatwave.
I got burnt looking for the car in the car park the other day.
@developher.net carried a kiss all the way across the world to @punk-doll.goodgirls.online for me.
Yay!
Yay!
January 5, 2026 at 6:53 AM
@developher.net carried a kiss all the way across the world to @punk-doll.goodgirls.online for me.
Yay!
Yay!
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You couldn't publish this today. You'd have to cloak it under several layers of metaphor.
January 4, 2026 at 7:01 PM
You couldn't publish this today. You'd have to cloak it under several layers of metaphor.
Growing up I thought cheese and onion was only a flavour of chip.
It wasn't til I was 30 that I realised you can literally have cheese + raw* onion (ideally a less strong kind) . On own or or crackers or toast or etc.
And it's great.
*Or cooked onion, or pickled onion, or chopped and soaked onion
It wasn't til I was 30 that I realised you can literally have cheese + raw* onion (ideally a less strong kind) . On own or or crackers or toast or etc.
And it's great.
*Or cooked onion, or pickled onion, or chopped and soaked onion
January 4, 2026 at 4:19 PM
Growing up I thought cheese and onion was only a flavour of chip.
It wasn't til I was 30 that I realised you can literally have cheese + raw* onion (ideally a less strong kind) . On own or or crackers or toast or etc.
And it's great.
*Or cooked onion, or pickled onion, or chopped and soaked onion
It wasn't til I was 30 that I realised you can literally have cheese + raw* onion (ideally a less strong kind) . On own or or crackers or toast or etc.
And it's great.
*Or cooked onion, or pickled onion, or chopped and soaked onion
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YOUR ATTENTION PLEASE.
in 45 minutes the earth hits perihelion. This is the closest point it approaches the sun.
That means it will be going the fastest it goes in its orbit.
In honour of this, today is designated SPEED DAY.
in 45 minutes the earth hits perihelion. This is the closest point it approaches the sun.
That means it will be going the fastest it goes in its orbit.
In honour of this, today is designated SPEED DAY.
January 3, 2026 at 4:30 PM
YOUR ATTENTION PLEASE.
in 45 minutes the earth hits perihelion. This is the closest point it approaches the sun.
That means it will be going the fastest it goes in its orbit.
In honour of this, today is designated SPEED DAY.
in 45 minutes the earth hits perihelion. This is the closest point it approaches the sun.
That means it will be going the fastest it goes in its orbit.
In honour of this, today is designated SPEED DAY.
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sex with me is like random access memory manufacturing. precisely milled silicon wafers vastly important. a negatively pressurized facility. the slightest particle of dust can invalidate an entire day's work. it takes years of prep work to get started, let alone competitive. but everyone needs it.
sex with me is like bowling. there’s a lot of drinking and cursing. sticking your fingers in weird holes. you have to rent shoes
January 4, 2026 at 3:36 PM
sex with me is like random access memory manufacturing. precisely milled silicon wafers vastly important. a negatively pressurized facility. the slightest particle of dust can invalidate an entire day's work. it takes years of prep work to get started, let alone competitive. but everyone needs it.
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sex with me is like poker. the odds of getting a straight are pretty low
sex with me is like bowling. there’s a lot of drinking and cursing. sticking your fingers in weird holes. you have to rent shoes
January 4, 2026 at 2:24 PM
sex with me is like poker. the odds of getting a straight are pretty low
sick of being harassed by dudes in cars.
Especially when I am out running at 10pm.
Especially when I am out running at 10pm.
January 4, 2026 at 2:07 PM
sick of being harassed by dudes in cars.
Especially when I am out running at 10pm.
Especially when I am out running at 10pm.
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If I had a dollar for every doctor who has taken a Hippocratic oath but refused to provide me healthcare that's specifically to do with being trans because they "don't really do that kind of thing", I'd have eight bucks, and still be $172 short for an appointment with my gender care specialist
kinda bullshit that my new GP was completely unconcerned about managing my Ménière's disease -- a complicated probably autoimmune condition that could randomly flare.
But was like "I can do repeats on your HRT but if you need to change anything with it the you will have to see a specialist"
But was like "I can do repeats on your HRT but if you need to change anything with it the you will have to see a specialist"
January 4, 2026 at 8:03 AM
If I had a dollar for every doctor who has taken a Hippocratic oath but refused to provide me healthcare that's specifically to do with being trans because they "don't really do that kind of thing", I'd have eight bucks, and still be $172 short for an appointment with my gender care specialist
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Socially, transition is a lot like the movie Reservoir Dogs (1992). You make new friends and start getting into discourse, old hands are there giving advice to newbies, there's a bald man assembled entirely out of hams who gives you your new name, you can trap a cop in the boot of your car and tortu
May 25, 2025 at 9:35 AM
Socially, transition is a lot like the movie Reservoir Dogs (1992). You make new friends and start getting into discourse, old hands are there giving advice to newbies, there's a bald man assembled entirely out of hams who gives you your new name, you can trap a cop in the boot of your car and tortu