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@oxinabox.bsky.social
Minors DNI
Neurodivergent, queer, 30 something, EDS, POTS, hearing impaired. Lives in Australia.🏳️‍⚧️ she/it. Literally just a girl

If you know me IRL and see me horny posting be cool, ok?
Or stick to my professional bsky: @oxinabox.net
Pinned
I have the trans endocrinology autism.

Standing offer to (in DM or comments):
- explain exactly how HRT works and what it does
- help you workout how and what to DIY
- second opinion your doctors
- explain your blood test
- debug weird corner cases and interactions
"hate the sin but love the sinner" sure is nonsense when you have defined a core part of someone's identity as a sin.
You cannot love someone while hating who they are
November 11, 2025 at 2:17 PM
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We sell croissants! Here they are under the CROISSANTS sign. Ooh, we now sell pan au chocolat. Pop them in the same area of the shop and change the sign to PASTRIES so everything is included.

Transphobes: THIS IS CROISSANT ERASURE >:(
November 11, 2025 at 1:43 PM
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👁️ Concept: girl who is loved.
November 11, 2025 at 1:03 PM
💃Concept: boyfriend
November 11, 2025 at 12:59 PM
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Time fools us

We fancy ourselves historians,
Or perhaps oracles,
But the past is no more real than the future
Shadows on the wall of the cave

To be, is to be now
To live, is to exist only in one moment
Trapped in the present like an insect in amber

There is no escape without escaping life
November 11, 2025 at 11:33 AM
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Their parents, who were radicalised by hate propaganda from the: Daily Mail, Telegraph, Times, Guardian, Sun, BBC, Conservative Party, Labour Party and more besides. Get the parents off social media, that will do more good than isolating children to be further indoctrinated by radicalised parents.
And how do those children typically access the media they've been radicalised by? 🤔

Measures like this are not intended *instead of* measures to keep trans kids and adults safer, but they're not at odds with those objectives either.
November 11, 2025 at 11:31 AM
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Calling myself bi because the girl parts of me are gay and the boy parts of me are straight
November 11, 2025 at 11:43 AM
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Joanca is the only trans woman in animated media I've personally seen that is overtly transgender and not in a transmisognistic caricature way, but rather a humanizing way.

from 40 years ago btw.
November 11, 2025 at 1:43 AM
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So what did other cultures do before prisons.

Prisons were only for people you could not kill...and those people were captives or hostages essentially. Royals. People with money and/or allies.

Aztecs would enslave you, but the word 'slavery' means LOTS OF DIFFERENT THINGS. Aztec 'slavery' ...
yeah it's quite wild to think that PRISONS were ...a reform from maiming people or killing them.
Judge Turpin's intro in Sweeney Todd has him sentencing a child to hang in a case he wasn't paying attention to
November 10, 2025 at 11:56 PM
I want to get deep V french tips like shown in this screenshot.
But black, over maybe red, or blue, or maybe gold??

I wonder if my nail place will do it.
I feel like the deep V takes advantage of the nails being very long in a way normal french tips do not.
November 11, 2025 at 12:18 AM
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“Oh no we can’t clock her which we means we can’t distinguish her from rea- I mean cis women”
November 11, 2025 at 12:04 AM
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*Women receive substantially lower "potential" ratings despite receiving higher performance ratings
*Differences in potential ratings account for half of the gender promotion gap
*Women’s lower potential ratings do not reflect future performance: women subsequently outperform male colleagues
November 10, 2025 at 2:54 PM
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transition is not something that just magically happens to you. you have to be an active participant in creating your own future
November 10, 2025 at 10:15 PM
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I have been thinking about why I keep drawing patches on myself. I think it is because they are a powerful symbol of bodily autonomy.

Patches that can be removed for servicing.
Because I am user-maintainable and can have aftermarket parts installed etc, if I want.
biblically accurate girl
November 10, 2025 at 1:23 AM
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i have never seen something more me coded in my life
November 10, 2025 at 3:10 PM
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does anyone remember when i said this and then people told me that it was still harm reduction because there actually could be even more harm because it can always be worse?

ahhhhhhhh good times..... good times.....
What is the argument for voting for Democrats for harm reduction if the harm is not fucking reduced
November 10, 2025 at 6:01 AM
CW locker room talk:

The absolute worst shit I heard guys talking about in the school locker room was doing a circle jerk (no homo bro -- not if you're thinking about girls), and one of them leaving the cum on his hand then high fiving this girl called Jazz.

They called her Jizz til graduation.
November 10, 2025 at 2:42 PM
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It is a peculiar quirk of the Australian social security system that when given the option to either engage with Centrelink for the disability support pension, or work to death for slightly better yet still poverty level wages, many women will choose the non-centrelink option, and try to hug it
We're working on chronic pain stuff & my therapist tried to geently float the idea that I might be too disabled for conventional employment so I went "oh! dw, you're not the only doctor to say that" and she asked who else had so I said "several GPs" and she... you know those motionless double takes?
November 7, 2025 at 2:44 AM
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I've long criticised the dehumanising and patriarchal partner income test embedded everywhere in the Australian welfare state. The tax on love really does hurt families, and has a real impact on relationship formation or termination.

www.reddit.com/r/Centrelink...
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November 7, 2025 at 2:39 AM
👁️ I hate it here.
November 10, 2025 at 9:01 AM
MRI soon.
I am having a pretty good hair day.
Hopefully learn something about my pulsatile tinitus
I think my hair just craves moisture.
Slept with it wet, with leave in conditioner and tied up,
And it looked like this.
Gained a little frizz over the day.
November 10, 2025 at 6:20 AM
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November 10, 2025 at 5:41 AM
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November 10, 2025 at 1:44 AM