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Q (they/them)
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Queer, nonbinary, Jewish(ish) parent of 2 kids, 2 cats, and a service doodle-in-training. MSW '24 🧑‍🎓 Neurodivergent, hEDS. likes≠endorsements
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can’t help but notice it’s ‘they’ when a single mother might manage to use SNAP benefits for food that actually tastes good but it’s ‘we’ when a handful of ketamine addicts wanna ruin the economy
November 25, 2025 at 4:28 PM
Teen couldn't go to school today because flu, strep, and COVID are running rampant in our area. 10% of students at her school were fully out sick yesterday and more went home throughout the day. Wondering what it could have been like if more people had continued masking seasonally (or at all 🫠)
Patient came in with sore throat. While waiting for rapid Strep test result we glanced back at the Covid-19 RAT result: positive. Reminder that masking in health care makes sense, if you don’t want everyone in your waiting room to go home sick, your staff to get sick, and physicians to get sick.
November 25, 2025 at 5:49 PM
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Every American should have this in their wallet:
November 25, 2025 at 5:01 PM
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Quiet part, meet out loud.
Rep. Salazar on Venezuela: "We're about to go in ... we need to go in ... Venezuela for the American oil companies will be a field day"
November 24, 2025 at 9:49 PM
Thinking a lot about an episode (s8, ep4 if you want to listen) of @marketplace.org How We Survive where they talked about how we don't actually need to do things like this to increase the amount of food we grow, we just need to be responsible with the food that we're already growing
The EPA has approved two new pesticides with "forever chemicals" that will be used on food.

The agency has also announced plans for four additional approvals.

The approved pesticides will be used on vegetables such as romaine lettuce, broccoli and potatoes.
November 24, 2025 at 7:13 PM
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Children are not therapy
Wives are not therapy
Marriage is not therapy

only therapy is therapy
November 24, 2025 at 5:23 PM
Caught this story on NPR the other night and it has haunted me since. THIS HAPPENED IN 2024!!! WTAF DENMARK?! www.bbc.com/news/article...
Greenlandic families fight to get children back after parenting tests banned
The Danish government has banned the use of parental competency tests on Greenlandic families after decades of criticism.
www.bbc.com
November 24, 2025 at 4:20 AM
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Holiday reminders:

- If someone has a new relationship, they’ll tell you. You don’t need to ask.
- If someone is pregnant and they want to share that, they’ll tell you. You don’t need to ask.
- If someone’s body has changed, they’re aware. You don’t need to point it out.
November 23, 2025 at 11:58 PM
Uh...you okay GrubHub??
November 23, 2025 at 11:36 PM
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A handy guide to grabbing all the text in a screenshot for your alt text! bsky.app/profile/pixe...
Hey, friends, I’m gonna show you a way to make your alt text of word-dense screenshots more useful.

I’m showing you the iOS version of this — if anyone wants to post the Android version in comments, feel free.

So…let’s say here’s a poem I like, & I want to share it.

Check the alt text.
November 23, 2025 at 5:41 PM
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" If you know someone who has been detained and released by ICE, our REBUILD Program provides FREE therapy to help them regain stability and support." www.darknessrisingproject.org/help-me-find...
REBUILD - Darkness Rising Project
Need help finding a Black therapist? We can help.
www.darknessrisingproject.org
November 22, 2025 at 10:32 PM
I was telling my extremely offline neighbor about all the wild things I saw when I opened bluesky at 1am last night and she had never even heard of Olivia Nuzzi. I feel a bit like a monster for giving her a tl;dr
November 22, 2025 at 10:06 PM
Noticed that the credit card reader at the vet made an awful high-pitched sound and then tried to explain to the receptionist why I was listening to the cc reader and the more I tried to explain the more she responded like she did not believe me at all and was just humoring me. a+ peopling today
November 21, 2025 at 12:11 AM
Saw news on FB about Clarkston schools being on shelter-in-place lockdown because ICE was in the area and the majority of the people in the comments were furious at ICE for disrupting their community and terrorizing their kids. If you've lost the messaging war in 98% white Clarkston, you're screwed
November 20, 2025 at 7:06 PM
Cleaned the house today instead of taking a nap (I'm back to 4ish hours of sleep per night) and I know that Future Me is going to be really happy that I made that choice but Current Me is miserable 🫠
November 19, 2025 at 8:11 PM
FB keeps showing me posts from groups where people submit photos and ask members to Photoshop people in/out of the photos. 90% of replies are "I fed this into AI, here you go!" Stop feeding AI data without consent, and start considering what a bad person might do with your cousin's/SIL's/ex's image!
This is a nuts story. An AI chatbot and image platform left millions of images exposed. They show what people are actually using the AI for: taking random women's yearbook, graduation, and social media photos and making super realistic hardcore porn with them
www.404media.co/ai-porn-secr...
Massive Leak Shows Erotic Chatbot Users Turned Women’s Yearbook Pictures Into AI Porn
Chatbot roleplay and image generator platform SecretDesires.ai left cloud storage containers of nearly two million of images and videos exposed, including photos and full names of women from social me...
www.404media.co
November 19, 2025 at 5:19 PM
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The silence of the Harper’s Letter crowd has been a DEAFENING tell.
New: Reuters has tallied job losses, suspensions and investigations stemming from the reaction to Charlie Kirk's Sept. 10 assassination. Its findings: More than 600 Americans have been punished, and the figure is likely to be an under-count.

www.reuters.com/investigatio...
November 19, 2025 at 1:55 PM
Update: air frying the leftovers was the right move
November 19, 2025 at 2:49 AM
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November 18, 2025 at 2:33 PM
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Where are the learning loss people? It’s hard to learn at school if you’re afraid to go because the secret police might kidnap you.
Charlotte-Mecklebburg Schools, according to reports, saw 15% of its students absent today amid Border Patrol operations in Charlotte. If that percentage of 15% happens Tuesday in Wake County due to the Border Patrol coming to Raleigh, 24.000 students could be absent from school. #nced #ncpol #wcpss
November 18, 2025 at 4:23 PM
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Five seconds ago we were about to go to war with nigeria for allegedly not protecting persecuted christians and now here comes DHS with OPERATION HO-HO-HEROD
"Agencies within the U.S. Department of Homeland Security, including ICE, ERO, and CBP intend to implement a comprehensive plan to target Spanish-speaking churches across the country during the upcoming holiday season between Thanksgiving, Nov. 27, and Christmas, Dec. 25."
Exclusive: Trump DHS Plans Immigration Raids on Churches Over Holidays
The Trump Dept. of Homeland Security is briefing federal agencies on plans for immigration enforcement operations inside churches over holidays.
thisweekinworcester.com
November 18, 2025 at 6:40 AM
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✨The 2025 Ryan's Community Giving Guide for Southeast Michigan is now live ✨

If you've ever wondered who is doing work that needs your support when #givingtuesday comes around, or you want to find folks doing vital work, the 6th annual guide is here to help. Grab the pdf at henyard.com/giving
November 18, 2025 at 2:39 AM
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Really worried what bombshell Lizza will drop next:
November 18, 2025 at 2:19 AM
I got hooked on frozen Yachaejeon but they were a little pricey so I picked up pancake mix last week at Galleria to see if I could (semi)-DIY them. I can't believe how good they turned out with just bagged pre-cut broccoli coleslaw mix! Can't wait to make them with leftover roasted veg this winter
November 18, 2025 at 1:47 AM