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The Roles We Play
A meditation on the shifting expectations society places on us, how our identity is a negotiation with our environment, and how our ideas of the world shape our reality.
okayfail.com
i wrote about how the social roles and expectations society imposes on us change over time, how our identity is a negotiation with our environment, how our views on gender and sexuality are always shifting, and how our mental models can blind us to reality:
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
Too overwhelmed by all of the negative news & horrible shit going on. It's hard to step back when I've spent my whole life being Online but I think I need a break. A few days at least. Cheers
February 11, 2026 at 11:23 PM
Too overwhelmed by all of the negative news & horrible shit going on. It's hard to step back when I've spent my whole life being Online but I think I need a break. A few days at least. Cheers
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Powerful start and absolutely correct all the way through.
“I’ve reviewed over 50 sticky toffee puddings” is an incredibly powerful way to begin a video
February 11, 2026 at 6:51 PM
Powerful start and absolutely correct all the way through.
spiralling again. gotta go for a walk. staring into my computer won’t calm me down or make me feel better. it’s a hard world, of course i am feeling threatened by all the evil out there. gotta step away
February 11, 2026 at 5:27 PM
spiralling again. gotta go for a walk. staring into my computer won’t calm me down or make me feel better. it’s a hard world, of course i am feeling threatened by all the evil out there. gotta step away
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my politics
February 11, 2026 at 9:39 AM
my politics
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if ur going on elons decrepit ass CSAM site or any of the AI slop meta zuck fuckery to get info on a school shooting to share the most unconfirmed transphobic engagement bait bullshit you’re the fucking problem and the people posting and those billionaires just get money off your Dumbass engagement
February 11, 2026 at 5:01 PM
if ur going on elons decrepit ass CSAM site or any of the AI slop meta zuck fuckery to get info on a school shooting to share the most unconfirmed transphobic engagement bait bullshit you’re the fucking problem and the people posting and those billionaires just get money off your Dumbass engagement
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i wrote an essay about how people started treating me differently once i became a father, and how our social roles shift as we age:
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
The Roles We Play
A meditation on the shifting expectations society places on us, how our identity is a negotiation with our environment, and how our ideas of the world shape our reality.
okayfail.com
February 10, 2026 at 2:44 PM
i wrote an essay about how people started treating me differently once i became a father, and how our social roles shift as we age:
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
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Our friends @c4tf.bsky.social have a new report examining the true levels of wealth inequality in Canada, and it's impact on our democracy.
One shocking stat: billionaire wealth grew 37.2% between 2023 and 2025 while total household wealth only grew 9.3%.
www.taxfairness.ca/en/resources...
One shocking stat: billionaire wealth grew 37.2% between 2023 and 2025 while total household wealth only grew 9.3%.
www.taxfairness.ca/en/resources...
The new robber barons: A quarter century of wealth concentration in Canada
A quarter century of wealth concentration in Canada Billionaires. Wealth taxes. Stock market booms and busts. In one form or another, wealth is in the headlines day after day. But what actually is wea...
www.taxfairness.ca
February 11, 2026 at 3:07 PM
Our friends @c4tf.bsky.social have a new report examining the true levels of wealth inequality in Canada, and it's impact on our democracy.
One shocking stat: billionaire wealth grew 37.2% between 2023 and 2025 while total household wealth only grew 9.3%.
www.taxfairness.ca/en/resources...
One shocking stat: billionaire wealth grew 37.2% between 2023 and 2025 while total household wealth only grew 9.3%.
www.taxfairness.ca/en/resources...
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I assume you’ve seen this, but for any that haven’t…
How to make streets safer with just a brick
YouTube video by About Here
youtube.com
February 11, 2026 at 4:04 PM
I assume you’ve seen this, but for any that haven’t…
post on reddit: cars keep blowing past the crosswalk where my kids go to school and its extremely unsafe, what do we do?
me: throw bricks at them. i'm not kidding
reddit: you've been banned for 3 days for threatening violence
🤔
me: throw bricks at them. i'm not kidding
reddit: you've been banned for 3 days for threatening violence
🤔
February 11, 2026 at 3:54 PM
post on reddit: cars keep blowing past the crosswalk where my kids go to school and its extremely unsafe, what do we do?
me: throw bricks at them. i'm not kidding
reddit: you've been banned for 3 days for threatening violence
🤔
me: throw bricks at them. i'm not kidding
reddit: you've been banned for 3 days for threatening violence
🤔
a friend of mine asked why was this impacting me so much (i spent several days spiralling last week, feeling disabled) since i already believed most of these people were evil
& there’s something wounding about knowing just how disposable these people think we are
& there’s something wounding about knowing just how disposable these people think we are
What I‘d have said last night if I hadn‘t been so tired is that I think women and femmes (and maybe people who care about us) who aren’t even following this are taking more damage than we realize from pervasive contact with this stuff, which is real Lynchian void shit.
I am working on entirely other things but I do have to be online to do it and the sheer volume of coverage of all these powerful men reiterating in a million ways that women and girls are meaningless toys is getting to even me.
February 11, 2026 at 3:46 PM
a friend of mine asked why was this impacting me so much (i spent several days spiralling last week, feeling disabled) since i already believed most of these people were evil
& there’s something wounding about knowing just how disposable these people think we are
& there’s something wounding about knowing just how disposable these people think we are
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hi, church boy here. this isn't funny, Christians only do this when they're in extreme distress
HOOOOOO boy.
Rep. LaMonica McIver (D-N.J.): "Do you consider yourself a religious man?"
Lyons: "Yes ma'am."
McIver: "How do you think Judgement Day will work for you with so much blood on your hands?"
"Do you think you're going to hell, Mr. Lyons?"
Rep. LaMonica McIver (D-N.J.): "Do you consider yourself a religious man?"
Lyons: "Yes ma'am."
McIver: "How do you think Judgement Day will work for you with so much blood on your hands?"
"Do you think you're going to hell, Mr. Lyons?"
February 10, 2026 at 6:21 PM
hi, church boy here. this isn't funny, Christians only do this when they're in extreme distress
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it's probably a good sign for our democracy that every member of congress who has been in the secret epstein document room walks out saying stuff like "every powerful person in the country knew, they're all rapists and pedophiles, they should be tossed into a pit and crushed under boulders"
February 10, 2026 at 10:41 AM
it's probably a good sign for our democracy that every member of congress who has been in the secret epstein document room walks out saying stuff like "every powerful person in the country knew, they're all rapists and pedophiles, they should be tossed into a pit and crushed under boulders"
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I tried to take a photo of a grasshopper on my windshield, but now it looks like a gigantic bug destroying the town.
February 10, 2026 at 6:10 AM
I tried to take a photo of a grasshopper on my windshield, but now it looks like a gigantic bug destroying the town.
i wrote an essay about how our social roles are determined by our society’s modes of production, and how when these change over time so does our sense of identity and our relationship to each other:
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
The Roles We Play
A meditation on the shifting expectations society places on us, how our identity is a negotiation with our environment, and how our ideas of the world shape our reality.
okayfail.com
February 10, 2026 at 2:47 PM
i wrote an essay about how our social roles are determined by our society’s modes of production, and how when these change over time so does our sense of identity and our relationship to each other:
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
i wrote an essay about how people started treating me differently once i became a father, and how our social roles shift as we age:
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
The Roles We Play
A meditation on the shifting expectations society places on us, how our identity is a negotiation with our environment, and how our ideas of the world shape our reality.
okayfail.com
February 10, 2026 at 2:44 PM
i wrote an essay about how people started treating me differently once i became a father, and how our social roles shift as we age:
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
i wrote an essay about how gender is not a spectrum — it’s a high-dimensional vector space whose manifolds we climb and descend over our lives (plus, some history):
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
The Roles We Play
A meditation on the shifting expectations society places on us, how our identity is a negotiation with our environment, and how our ideas of the world shape our reality.
okayfail.com
February 10, 2026 at 2:41 PM
i wrote an essay about how gender is not a spectrum — it’s a high-dimensional vector space whose manifolds we climb and descend over our lives (plus, some history):
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
i wrote about how the social roles and expectations society imposes on us change over time, how our identity is a negotiation with our environment, how our views on gender and sexuality are always shifting, and how our mental models can blind us to reality:
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
The Roles We Play
A meditation on the shifting expectations society places on us, how our identity is a negotiation with our environment, and how our ideas of the world shape our reality.
okayfail.com
February 9, 2026 at 6:05 PM
i wrote about how the social roles and expectations society imposes on us change over time, how our identity is a negotiation with our environment, how our views on gender and sexuality are always shifting, and how our mental models can blind us to reality:
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
okayfail.com/2026/the-rol...
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GM: Charisma check.
Mamdani: [rolls natural 20]
GM: that’s a d6 how did you
Mamdani: [direct to camera] Did you know you can check out board games at your local public library? 😊
Mamdani: [rolls natural 20]
GM: that’s a d6 how did you
Mamdani: [direct to camera] Did you know you can check out board games at your local public library? 😊
February 7, 2026 at 5:01 AM
GM: Charisma check.
Mamdani: [rolls natural 20]
GM: that’s a d6 how did you
Mamdani: [direct to camera] Did you know you can check out board games at your local public library? 😊
Mamdani: [rolls natural 20]
GM: that’s a d6 how did you
Mamdani: [direct to camera] Did you know you can check out board games at your local public library? 😊
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I'm sorry the guy changing the rules on the fly is named what
I stand with County Executive Calvin Ball as he signs emergency legislation today prohibiting privately owned buildings from being used as ICE detention centers.
Howard County chose dignity, accountability, and its people. Tune into our event now:
bit.ly/4a2VtHw
Howard County chose dignity, accountability, and its people. Tune into our event now:
bit.ly/4a2VtHw
Redirecting...
bit.ly
February 7, 2026 at 2:34 PM
I'm sorry the guy changing the rules on the fly is named what
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this made me so happy
December 22, 2025 at 12:22 AM
this made me so happy
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From: jeevacation@gmail.com
To: Tony Hoare
u shd let an refrence b empty. it wl b a clean way to reprasent mptyness nd shuld b ez to implamint
To: Tony Hoare
u shd let an refrence b empty. it wl b a clean way to reprasent mptyness nd shuld b ez to implamint
February 6, 2026 at 4:42 AM
From: jeevacation@gmail.com
To: Tony Hoare
u shd let an refrence b empty. it wl b a clean way to reprasent mptyness nd shuld b ez to implamint
To: Tony Hoare
u shd let an refrence b empty. it wl b a clean way to reprasent mptyness nd shuld b ez to implamint
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At this point I'd believe that he's responsible for undefined behavior in C++
February 6, 2026 at 1:50 AM
At this point I'd believe that he's responsible for undefined behavior in C++
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"The “anti-woke” movement was not a genteel intellectual inquiry, made by disinterested parties who cared deeply about free speech. It is a social circle of powerful people who feel threatened by #MeToo."
www.theverge.com/tech/874721/...
www.theverge.com/tech/874721/...
How the men in the Epstein files defeated #MeToo
The emails show the “anti-woke” crusaders are afraid of accountability.
www.theverge.com
February 6, 2026 at 2:59 PM
"The “anti-woke” movement was not a genteel intellectual inquiry, made by disinterested parties who cared deeply about free speech. It is a social circle of powerful people who feel threatened by #MeToo."
www.theverge.com/tech/874721/...
www.theverge.com/tech/874721/...
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check out these detailed maps by Isabeaux Graham showing land-use and demographics along the Eglinton Line 5 corridor
higher res here: schoolofcities.utoronto.ca/maps-of-line...
#toronto #transit #maps #gis
higher res here: schoolofcities.utoronto.ca/maps-of-line...
#toronto #transit #maps #gis
February 6, 2026 at 3:12 PM
check out these detailed maps by Isabeaux Graham showing land-use and demographics along the Eglinton Line 5 corridor
higher res here: schoolofcities.utoronto.ca/maps-of-line...
#toronto #transit #maps #gis
higher res here: schoolofcities.utoronto.ca/maps-of-line...
#toronto #transit #maps #gis