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URGENT. Morrigan is a Turkish trans woman who needs to get out of her home country, as her home country is rolling out policies that will outlaw being trans, queer, or otherwise 'sex-defying'. Her home situation is NOT safe either. Anything will help, thank you.

ko-fi.com/morrithemad
ahhhhh kill me already

my country has decided now that if you ever take hormones, or get body altering "trans" surgeries you will be jailed, if you are seen wearing "sex-defying" clothing, if you ask to be called a name that "doesnt fit your assigned sex", you will be jailed
February 28, 2025 at 6:50 PM
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Q:
Why is it so much easier for the US right to organize and be unified than the US left?

A:
Anti-Black racism.

The only consistent thing that the right agrees on, is this. It's what unifies them. But the US left is very anti-Black too! So they try to get the benefits, without helping Black folk.🤷🏿‍♂️
February 27, 2025 at 3:51 PM
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but yes let's all keep laughing at cis dudes' joking that one of the EOs declared all americans women at conception

because it's so funny, that ironic incorrectness, even as actual identity documents of trans people get rewritten and removed
February 21, 2025 at 6:14 PM
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watch the video she posted, she had an F passport but lost it when someone broke into her car and stole her bag. when she renewed it it had an M. how hard to you have to stretch to find a way to blame trans people?
February 21, 2025 at 7:03 PM
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hello cis friends
this is what people mean by trans genocide

if a type of person does not officially exist, then any harm against them cannot be measured or reported

this headline change isn't even being caused by an executive order

it's simply the NYT editors deciding we don't deserve to exist
February 18, 2025 at 5:00 PM
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Transmisogyny is not motivated by 'misandry.' Ever. It's not about protecting women, even cis women (harm to cis women is in fact considered acceptable collateral damage), it's about protecting the legibility of patriarchal (i.e., heterosexual) categories in order to shore up gender hierarchy.
February 16, 2025 at 7:01 PM
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it's my birthday today and it would mean the world to me if you shared this. any little bit helps 🙏
So, I've put this off for a while (I've spent the better part of the last decade trying to not be deported so I'm very broke) but I desperately need FFS. This would be life changing and life saving for me. Any little bit helps me, so please consider helping out ❤️
gofund.me/306ebd2b
Donate to Support Aria's Gender Affirming Surgery, organized by Aria Balraj
Hi! My name is Aria, and I'm trying to raise funds so I can finally fix up my face… Aria Balraj needs your support for Support Aria's Gender Affirming Surgery
gofund.me
February 16, 2025 at 1:54 PM
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The most "politically lesbian" people I know are cishet single moms who are pooling resources and not dating men after how fucking abusive their exes were.

Meanwhile, my "queer community" shits their fucking diapies every time a woman expresses that she hates her oppressors.

Good grief.
February 10, 2025 at 5:36 PM
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"Comphomo" is not a useful or responsible way of talking about homophobia against transhet women.

That homophobia is real, but its message isn't "be a lesbian."

It instead works between two extremes: "be a real man" on one side, and "shut up and take it, you girly cocksucker" on the other.
February 8, 2025 at 11:52 PM
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Compulsory manhood is a much more useful way to talk about these things. The pressure from compulsory manhood isn't to be a gay woman or a straight woman, but to be A MAN.
February 8, 2025 at 11:54 PM
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So, I've put this off for a while (I've spent the better part of the last decade trying to not be deported so I'm very broke) but I desperately need FFS. This would be life changing and life saving for me. Any little bit helps me, so please consider helping out ❤️
gofund.me/306ebd2b
Donate to Support Aria's Gender Affirming Surgery, organized by Aria Balraj
Hi! My name is Aria, and I'm trying to raise funds so I can finally fix up my face… Aria Balraj needs your support for Support Aria's Gender Affirming Surgery
gofund.me
February 8, 2025 at 4:34 PM
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LGBTQIA minors make up 40% of the endangered minor runaway population. They are 120% more likely to be unhoused. They are also uniquely at risk for exploitation and trafficking.

This is breathtakingly evil.
New — The National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) was told this week by DOJ that they'd lose their funding if the org didn't remove any mentions of LGBTQIA+ issues from their public materials, I've learned. Staff were told they need to deadname trans kids in their reports to comply.
February 7, 2025 at 4:00 AM
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As late as the 1980s it was common for transwomen seeking transition care to be required to adopt a highly stereotyped existence, not just in presentation and, of course, sexual orientation, but also in one's choice of career. Engineer MtF? Nope, you gotta be a secretary or librarian or similar.
February 8, 2025 at 2:28 AM
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Trans girl comphet is pretty damn real, it delayed my transition for a significant time because the idea of "trans woman who is a lesbian" was just Not Accessible to me

Comphomo? Touch grass. Realize that "trans woman who is a lesbian" breaks cishet brains the first time you bring it up.
February 8, 2025 at 12:38 AM
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The freeze itself acutely affected gender-based violence nonprofits, which often depend on federal funding. Staff felt the executive orders directly targeted their work, especially grants that address domestic violence in culturally specific populations.
Life-Saving Domestic Violence Nonprofits Rocked by Trump’s Funding Freeze
Fear that their access to federal funds will be restricted has prompted some to proactively edit their online presence.
buff.ly
February 7, 2025 at 6:08 PM
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Lots of fear and uncertainty on my skyline for the last few days, but it's more crucial now than ever that we keep the focus on CONCRETE ACTION that everyone can be taking in the face of this mess.

I've collected a short list of folks who've helped me to keep my focus on that crucial benchmark.
February 6, 2025 at 2:00 AM
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Trans people constitute somewhere between .5% &1.5% of the U.S. population.

In Trump’s first 16 days in office, he’s issued 5 executive orders targeting this tiny population, including today’s order banning trans athletes.

Trump’s unhealthy obsession with trans people is both bizarre & dangerous.
February 6, 2025 at 12:51 AM
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south korea's first four truly democratically elected presidents (KIM young-sam 김영삼, KIM dae-jung 김대중, ROH moo-hyun 노무현, LEE myung-bak "2MB") all protested and worked against the dictatorships, were arrested, and imprisoned. Some, like KIM dae-jung, even had assassination attempts
February 5, 2025 at 4:54 PM
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Breaking news: Lambda Legal and ACLU are suing on behalf of PFLAG and GLMA to end Trump's illegal executive order banning trans care under 19 years old.

The suit has been brought in Maryland.

A similar suit was brought on behalf of PFLAG to end child abuse investigations in TX 3 years ago.
Families and doctors sue over Trump's order to halt funding for gender-affirming care
President Donald Trump's effort to ban federal funding for gender-affirming care for young people is facing a legal challenge.
apnews.com
February 4, 2025 at 7:15 PM
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gonna be cringe here for a bit and say that the fact that someone with a massive platform is even *acknowledging* our existence much less defending us means a whole fucking lot right now

needed this to start my week.

ty, chappell 💕
February 3, 2025 at 3:15 PM
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On May 10, 1933, Nazis burned the library of The Institute for Sexual Science.

The Institute was founded by Dr. Magnus Hirschfeld. Its community clinic pioneered healthcare for queer, trans, & intersex people.

The Institute was targeted & attacked as part of a Nazi government censorship program.
February 2, 2025 at 12:10 AM
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"California law is unaffected by recent changes to federal policy and continues to provide safeguards against discrimination and harassment based on gender, gender expression, gender identity, and sexual orientation. ....Our commitment to safeguarding the rights of all students persists."
February 1, 2025 at 6:50 AM
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I think both of these are about me
broke: getting a neovagina to transition to chaser

woke: getting a neovagina to tease women with to be chased
February 1, 2025 at 1:45 PM