I can't see "her"
@icantseeher.bsky.social
The mirror shows a guy as usual. The mind nudges elsewhere. If seeing is believing, this is a recipe for self doubt. Might as well vent.
So my GPS office just called to say they're stopping the Finasteride prescriptions, despite years of no ill effects...
I'll need to have a chat with the doc.
I don't intend to stop damage control in one form of another.
Maybe not the thing to push me toward some form of DIY, but the thought lingered
I'll need to have a chat with the doc.
I don't intend to stop damage control in one form of another.
Maybe not the thing to push me toward some form of DIY, but the thought lingered
September 17, 2025 at 2:29 PM
So my GPS office just called to say they're stopping the Finasteride prescriptions, despite years of no ill effects...
I'll need to have a chat with the doc.
I don't intend to stop damage control in one form of another.
Maybe not the thing to push me toward some form of DIY, but the thought lingered
I'll need to have a chat with the doc.
I don't intend to stop damage control in one form of another.
Maybe not the thing to push me toward some form of DIY, but the thought lingered
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Happy birthday @pseudonymjones.bsky.social I think of this comic at least once a week
August 7, 2025 at 3:47 PM
Happy birthday @pseudonymjones.bsky.social I think of this comic at least once a week
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Someone sent me this with only the first 4 panels.
So I had to fix it, by adding the 5th.
So I had to fix it, by adding the 5th.
August 7, 2025 at 3:34 AM
Someone sent me this with only the first 4 panels.
So I had to fix it, by adding the 5th.
So I had to fix it, by adding the 5th.
Took the leap & have been reading RCBG.
The experience of reading it reminds me of a Genshiken reader's lamentation that he caught a reference from Sue that Madarame didn't, implying terminal otaku brain.
It's too intelligible for comfort despite technically being detached from character experiences
The experience of reading it reminds me of a Genshiken reader's lamentation that he caught a reference from Sue that Madarame didn't, implying terminal otaku brain.
It's too intelligible for comfort despite technically being detached from character experiences
August 5, 2025 at 12:23 PM
Took the leap & have been reading RCBG.
The experience of reading it reminds me of a Genshiken reader's lamentation that he caught a reference from Sue that Madarame didn't, implying terminal otaku brain.
It's too intelligible for comfort despite technically being detached from character experiences
The experience of reading it reminds me of a Genshiken reader's lamentation that he caught a reference from Sue that Madarame didn't, implying terminal otaku brain.
It's too intelligible for comfort despite technically being detached from character experiences
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We're at the 'we're very sorry we hired a trans person' stage in the UK's systematic erasure of trans people.
Horrible story. Apologising because a trans employee had the temerity to interact with a customer. What are we becoming?
www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/08...
www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2025/08...
August 5, 2025 at 7:02 AM
We're at the 'we're very sorry we hired a trans person' stage in the UK's systematic erasure of trans people.
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We are going to have the fun thing happen again where a dozen cisgender female athletes discover they have Y chromosomes.
July 31, 2025 at 1:06 PM
We are going to have the fun thing happen again where a dozen cisgender female athletes discover they have Y chromosomes.
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a lot of trans women are not actually socialized male but socialized doormat and some of them when accused of male privilege will instantly go into their trained cPTSD response of fawning and being apologetic for existing and taking up a modicum of space.
this is, of course, all done for the purpose of beating trans women into submission and making us apologize for even existing.
To reiterate what I said about this in 2021, I will never apologize for who I am, and I shouldn't be fucking expected to.
To reiterate what I said about this in 2021, I will never apologize for who I am, and I shouldn't be fucking expected to.
July 19, 2025 at 11:57 AM
a lot of trans women are not actually socialized male but socialized doormat and some of them when accused of male privilege will instantly go into their trained cPTSD response of fawning and being apologetic for existing and taking up a modicum of space.
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LinkedIn has removed hate speech protections for transgender people and people of color.
www.advocate.com/news/linkedi...
www.advocate.com/news/linkedi...
LinkedIn exposes transgender users to targeted harassment after company quietly changes hate speech policy
The changes involve edits to LinkedIn’s Professional Community Policies, specifically the “Hateful and Derogatory Content” and “Harassment and Abusive Content” sections.
www.advocate.com
July 30, 2025 at 9:12 PM
LinkedIn has removed hate speech protections for transgender people and people of color.
www.advocate.com/news/linkedi...
www.advocate.com/news/linkedi...
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If you buy a home, learn from my mistakes and keep a list of:
* the manufacturer and model of all of your faucets / fixtures
* every paint color + manufacturer + glossiness of every paint you do
* the manufacturer and model of all of your faucets / fixtures
* every paint color + manufacturer + glossiness of every paint you do
August 3, 2025 at 8:42 PM
If you buy a home, learn from my mistakes and keep a list of:
* the manufacturer and model of all of your faucets / fixtures
* every paint color + manufacturer + glossiness of every paint you do
* the manufacturer and model of all of your faucets / fixtures
* every paint color + manufacturer + glossiness of every paint you do
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NEWS: Yuna Hirasawa's autobiographical manga 'MY JOURNEY TO HER' about her experience transitioning as a transgender woman has won a prestigious Eisner Award for Best Digital Comic
🎊CONGRATULATIONS TO YUNA HIRASAWA!!🎉
yurimother.com/post/7903575...
🎊CONGRATULATIONS TO YUNA HIRASAWA!!🎉
yurimother.com/post/7903575...
July 28, 2025 at 11:29 PM
NEWS: Yuna Hirasawa's autobiographical manga 'MY JOURNEY TO HER' about her experience transitioning as a transgender woman has won a prestigious Eisner Award for Best Digital Comic
🎊CONGRATULATIONS TO YUNA HIRASAWA!!🎉
yurimother.com/post/7903575...
🎊CONGRATULATIONS TO YUNA HIRASAWA!!🎉
yurimother.com/post/7903575...
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i hate the game politicians play where they back israel 100% until it starts killing too many people too fast, then they start calling for peace until the killing slows to levels acceptable for them. they're not opposing genocide, they're negotiating how quickly it should proceed
July 25, 2025 at 1:22 PM
i hate the game politicians play where they back israel 100% until it starts killing too many people too fast, then they start calling for peace until the killing slows to levels acceptable for them. they're not opposing genocide, they're negotiating how quickly it should proceed
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I can’t get over my cousin’s graduation cake.
May 25, 2025 at 2:37 PM
I can’t get over my cousin’s graduation cake.
As one trans man sung decades before transitioning, "I'm willing to go on, but not alone, not now":
youtu.be/ckkezZPUMsE
youtu.be/ckkezZPUMsE
August 3, 2025 at 8:58 PM
As one trans man sung decades before transitioning, "I'm willing to go on, but not alone, not now":
youtu.be/ckkezZPUMsE
youtu.be/ckkezZPUMsE
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If “changing your sex” were impossible, they wouldn’t need to ban it.
July 31, 2025 at 2:21 PM
If “changing your sex” were impossible, they wouldn’t need to ban it.
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Estrogen rules, dude.
August 3, 2025 at 3:31 PM
Estrogen rules, dude.
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Gender affirmation for all.
Transphobia is infuriating AND self-defeating. If you're AFAB, you're going to go through menopause...HRT has been a lifesaver for me. It may even stave off dementia!
If HRT is banned for trans folks, think it'll be easy for us cis folk to access it?
A little solidarity just might save YOUR life.
If HRT is banned for trans folks, think it'll be easy for us cis folk to access it?
A little solidarity just might save YOUR life.
August 3, 2025 at 6:44 PM
Gender affirmation for all.
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Trans people are now banned from UPenn, Harvard, Brown, Cornell, Columbia, intntnl track & field, the Olympics, chess, darts, most federal jobs, the US military & intelligence services, federal facilities, public bathrooms in most states, & many local sports. Seems bad! Let me know what I missed!
August 3, 2025 at 8:07 PM
Trans people are now banned from UPenn, Harvard, Brown, Cornell, Columbia, intntnl track & field, the Olympics, chess, darts, most federal jobs, the US military & intelligence services, federal facilities, public bathrooms in most states, & many local sports. Seems bad! Let me know what I missed!
This tends to be an oft-quoted #dorley passage, and the report below just goes to show the relevance of @badambulist.bsky.social unleashing it on the world:
August 3, 2025 at 8:27 PM
This tends to be an oft-quoted #dorley passage, and the report below just goes to show the relevance of @badambulist.bsky.social unleashing it on the world:
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let me throw some fuel on the fire that is the discourse about boys getting laid!!! current-day manopshere content is not good at getting boys laid and that's an effect of the incentives at play. you cannot build an audience of resentful little virgins if you succeed at helping them to have sex
August 1, 2025 at 8:48 PM
let me throw some fuel on the fire that is the discourse about boys getting laid!!! current-day manopshere content is not good at getting boys laid and that's an effect of the incentives at play. you cannot build an audience of resentful little virgins if you succeed at helping them to have sex
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People think that HP's rise was organic when the truth is that savvy media people saw that property had gross jelly beans and chocolate frogs and saw the immense merchandise potential
Truckloads of money were dumped into marketing HP across the earth. It would have fizzled out otherwise
Truckloads of money were dumped into marketing HP across the earth. It would have fizzled out otherwise
Honestly all of this is making tradpub seem more and more a parasitic scam
Like sure maybe you'll be a huge hit because a giant media company decides they can make a decades long franchise out of your book series and will move heaven and earth marketing it
Maybe you'll win the lottery too
Like sure maybe you'll be a huge hit because a giant media company decides they can make a decades long franchise out of your book series and will move heaven and earth marketing it
Maybe you'll win the lottery too
Their book received little marketing, the sole and only reason it blew up was because the author went viral on social media. The publisher didn't invest in it.
July 31, 2025 at 6:44 PM
People think that HP's rise was organic when the truth is that savvy media people saw that property had gross jelly beans and chocolate frogs and saw the immense merchandise potential
Truckloads of money were dumped into marketing HP across the earth. It would have fizzled out otherwise
Truckloads of money were dumped into marketing HP across the earth. It would have fizzled out otherwise
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July 31, 2025 at 3:15 PM