Calamita's Secret
@calamitas-secret.bsky.social
A mid-30s transfem's NSFW account. There will be serious topics and kink mixed with the silly, so proceed at your own caution.
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You can’t tell if someone is disabled just by looking at them.
There’s no such thing as the “genuinely disabled”.
You are not entitled to a person’s entire medical history just so you can decide whether to believe them or not.
People are not faking disability, most are trying to fake being well.
There’s no such thing as the “genuinely disabled”.
You are not entitled to a person’s entire medical history just so you can decide whether to believe them or not.
People are not faking disability, most are trying to fake being well.
December 4, 2025 at 5:52 AM
You can’t tell if someone is disabled just by looking at them.
There’s no such thing as the “genuinely disabled”.
You are not entitled to a person’s entire medical history just so you can decide whether to believe them or not.
People are not faking disability, most are trying to fake being well.
There’s no such thing as the “genuinely disabled”.
You are not entitled to a person’s entire medical history just so you can decide whether to believe them or not.
People are not faking disability, most are trying to fake being well.
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As a pornographer myself, I feel... weird about creators who make distinctions between porn and other adult/sexual content. If you defend porn, your work will ALSO be defended. Don't be afraid to get down in the mud with us. You're gonna end up here anyway.
there is plenty of sexual content on steam. the problem isn't that valve is denying sexual content (though, as a near-monopoly, that would also be a problem) it's that valve is denying specifically sexual content that is non-pornographic, most notably in the horror genre.
It's pretty clear everyone would rather strawman me than have an actual conversation.
The content in Horses is sexual and well within Valve's right to say it violates their sexual content policies.
Horses has every right to exist. Valve has every right not to distribute it.
The content in Horses is sexual and well within Valve's right to say it violates their sexual content policies.
Horses has every right to exist. Valve has every right not to distribute it.
December 3, 2025 at 7:55 PM
As a pornographer myself, I feel... weird about creators who make distinctions between porn and other adult/sexual content. If you defend porn, your work will ALSO be defended. Don't be afraid to get down in the mud with us. You're gonna end up here anyway.
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WHY WOULD YOU RELEASE AN UPDATE THAT DELETES EMBEDDED LINKS YOU GOD DAMN FUCKING CLOWNS
got another nonconsensual update from patreon that changed the way posts are formatted so all the formatting on all my old blog posts is ratfucked
I hate this company so much, man, it's like trying to climb up a flight of stairs while someone is just dumping tubs of lard from the top
I hate this company so much, man, it's like trying to climb up a flight of stairs while someone is just dumping tubs of lard from the top
December 4, 2025 at 5:59 AM
WHY WOULD YOU RELEASE AN UPDATE THAT DELETES EMBEDDED LINKS YOU GOD DAMN FUCKING CLOWNS
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The current FDA is indistinguishable from wellness influencer Instagram because that’s exactly what they want to be
This story of Marty Makary in a cold tub was posted on Gary Brecka's (wellness influencers) Instagram less than a day ago. Contrasts oddly with today's FDA leadership news.
December 4, 2025 at 5:22 AM
The current FDA is indistinguishable from wellness influencer Instagram because that’s exactly what they want to be
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Most of us living with chronic illness have been forced out of the ER without care.
Told there’s “nothing wrong” and to leave or have security called.
We say we don’t feel safe going home, it never matters
Mercedes Wells didn’t feel safe, and she gave birth in her truck
Patients deserve better
Told there’s “nothing wrong” and to leave or have security called.
We say we don’t feel safe going home, it never matters
Mercedes Wells didn’t feel safe, and she gave birth in her truck
Patients deserve better
December 4, 2025 at 6:01 AM
Most of us living with chronic illness have been forced out of the ER without care.
Told there’s “nothing wrong” and to leave or have security called.
We say we don’t feel safe going home, it never matters
Mercedes Wells didn’t feel safe, and she gave birth in her truck
Patients deserve better
Told there’s “nothing wrong” and to leave or have security called.
We say we don’t feel safe going home, it never matters
Mercedes Wells didn’t feel safe, and she gave birth in her truck
Patients deserve better
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just like me fr
December 3, 2025 at 1:14 AM
just like me fr
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Someone should give me a cursed and entrancing crown shaped object
December 4, 2025 at 3:24 AM
Someone should give me a cursed and entrancing crown shaped object
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it finally happened -- a good student of mine vanished from class about six weeks ago. this student reappeared today and explained that they had been in ICE detention in another state during that time. ICE needs to end. ICE needs to end. ICE needs to end.
December 3, 2025 at 11:38 PM
it finally happened -- a good student of mine vanished from class about six weeks ago. this student reappeared today and explained that they had been in ICE detention in another state during that time. ICE needs to end. ICE needs to end. ICE needs to end.
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Did you know that the FBIs rules allow them to recruit children to be informants?
Me neither.
Me neither.
Essential reading:
theintercept.com/series/the-f...
theintercept.com/series/the-f...
The FBI’s Secret Rules
theintercept.com
December 4, 2025 at 4:55 AM
Did you know that the FBIs rules allow them to recruit children to be informants?
Me neither.
Me neither.
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"It isn't REALLY a ban, they could always just sell it elsewhere" is fundamentally the same argument as "they aren't TECHNICALLY a monopoly" in that they both completely overlook the material realities and impacts of companies like Steam across an entire industry and ecosystem
One of the many things worth thinking about re: Steam's ban on Horses is how it highlights is the centralization problem caused by having such a monolithic (and maybe mono-something-else) retail giant.
Independent studios with even humble commercial aspirations are chained to Valve's whims.
Independent studios with even humble commercial aspirations are chained to Valve's whims.
December 4, 2025 at 5:30 AM
"It isn't REALLY a ban, they could always just sell it elsewhere" is fundamentally the same argument as "they aren't TECHNICALLY a monopoly" in that they both completely overlook the material realities and impacts of companies like Steam across an entire industry and ecosystem
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Are we in a game of chicken to see how far a handful of freaks can push things until we bring back consequences and / or guillotines? How have we hyper-normalized them saying this shit out loud in public?
Palantir CEO Says Making War Crimes Constitutional Would Be Good for Business
Palantir CEO Says Making War Crimes Constitutional Would Be Good for Business
Alex Karp vows to use his "whole influence" on immigration and defense policy.
gizmodo.com
December 4, 2025 at 4:48 AM
Are we in a game of chicken to see how far a handful of freaks can push things until we bring back consequences and / or guillotines? How have we hyper-normalized them saying this shit out loud in public?
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December 1, 2025 at 5:53 AM
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It’s always validating getting emails from developers who watched a video and felt like their frustrations were thoroughly voiced.
I could never claim to actively speak for any other workers in the industry, but it means a lot that when I do speak, others feel heard.
I could never claim to actively speak for any other workers in the industry, but it means a lot that when I do speak, others feel heard.
December 3, 2025 at 9:39 PM
It’s always validating getting emails from developers who watched a video and felt like their frustrations were thoroughly voiced.
I could never claim to actively speak for any other workers in the industry, but it means a lot that when I do speak, others feel heard.
I could never claim to actively speak for any other workers in the industry, but it means a lot that when I do speak, others feel heard.
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Maybe instead of committing atrocities, we could just make the rich pay their fair share and have universal healthcare and affordable housing instead.
Idk, just spitballing here.
Idk, just spitballing here.
Palantir CEO Says Making War Crimes Constitutional Would Be Good for Business
Palantir CEO Says Making War Crimes Constitutional Would Be Good for Business
Alex Karp vows to use his "whole influence" on immigration and defense policy.
gizmodo.com
December 4, 2025 at 4:31 AM
Maybe instead of committing atrocities, we could just make the rich pay their fair share and have universal healthcare and affordable housing instead.
Idk, just spitballing here.
Idk, just spitballing here.
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November 24, 2025 at 11:07 PM
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December 3, 2025 at 8:50 PM
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An experienced organizer I really respect once reminded folks "you can't always win, but you can always, always inflict a cost. Those add up."
You cannot match the size and resources of these organizations that are abandoning trans youth and sacrificing trans lives, but you have one advantage they do not: an ability to maintain a relentless focus upon them.
Make it your work, every week, to think about how you can punish them.
Make it your work, every week, to think about how you can punish them.
December 3, 2025 at 10:21 PM
An experienced organizer I really respect once reminded folks "you can't always win, but you can always, always inflict a cost. Those add up."
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QRP with something with horns
December 4, 2025 at 12:25 AM
QRP with something with horns
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how am i supposed to not have dysphoria if i cant have visible hydraulics in my collarbone and elbow joints
December 4, 2025 at 12:33 AM
how am i supposed to not have dysphoria if i cant have visible hydraulics in my collarbone and elbow joints
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Gift art for @foxlunarius.bsky.social
December 4, 2025 at 12:17 AM
Gift art for @foxlunarius.bsky.social
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OC CMSN
December 3, 2025 at 4:10 PM
OC CMSN
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