Emi 🔜 Con Zero 11/21-11/23
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queeringsmite.bsky.social
Emi 🔜 Con Zero 11/21-11/23
@queeringsmite.bsky.social
they/them • (gender)queer • disabled • japanese • prison abolitionist • pro GM & TTRPG reviewer • wear a mask & free Palestine

https://queeringsmite.carrd.co/
business inquiries: EmiRunsGames@gmail.com
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New pinned! Hi, I'm Emi. Paladin lover, TTRPG reviewer, and pro GM specializing in games with fairy tale energy.

Trans, abolitionist, disability justice centered, even/especially when I'm talking about games.

TTRPG folks—drop an intro! Say hi! Always open to new friends & collaborators.
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Let them fight is praxis. Some people don't seem to recognize this.
November 16, 2025 at 3:39 PM
in today's session, the PCs killed their local healer (several of them still bleeding out btw) and then joined a cult. this is HEART, of course
November 17, 2025 at 1:23 AM
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Respect Alice Wong’s call here:
“When I am in public spaces and see most people unmasked either because they think the virus is a hoax, that masking is virtue signaling & a sign of weakness, aren't thinking about it, or that they simply don’t care, I feel like an expendable burden not worth saving.”
COVID Isn’t Going Anywhere. Masking Up Could Save My Life.
"When I am in public spaces and see most people unmasked, I feel like an expendable burden not worth saving."
www.teenvogue.com
November 15, 2025 at 5:09 PM
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I hope Alice’s memory is never sanitized. She supported free Palestine. She believed in deep pleasure for disabled people, sexual, aesthetic & otherwise. She was unflinching in calling out people’s bullshit. Don’t let the mainstream turn her into some desexualized defanged inspiration porn!!!
November 16, 2025 at 11:27 AM
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Too often mutual aid requests stall while a person is alive, and then when they pass the goal is met quickly.

It’s hard to ask for help and as a community we need to commit to helping in life & in death.

We need to fund treatments, housing, food & caregivers… not just funerals.
November 16, 2025 at 6:23 AM
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This excerpt from "Year of the Tiger: An Activist’s Life," by Alice Wong, is a love letter to disabled Asian American women and girls who feel alone and yearn for connection.
What I Wish I’d Known Growing Up As an Asian American Disabled Girl
You are enough.
www.teenvogue.com
November 15, 2025 at 2:16 PM
in today's session, the most chaotic duo of the party was left alone together, and well. the consequences (they killed someone) (they made a deal w a cold-blooded murderer) (they did bad carpentry) (they got matching axes)
November 16, 2025 at 1:24 AM
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One way I have found to mourn someone is to set up a monthly sustaining donation to a mutual aid effort they cared about. If you can join me in honoring Alice Wong, @sfdirewolf.bsky.social with a sustaining donation today, please do. Thank you Alice, and I will not let the bastards grind me down.
November 15, 2025 at 12:34 PM
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Alice Wong was one of the most effective people challenging the Whiteness of disability communities and its many flaws, but who believed fiercely in us as a community, in disabled people as oracles.

Alice brought so much to so many of us, it’s hard to measure the kind of gratitude I have for that.
November 15, 2025 at 1:34 PM
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"As disabled oracles, we continue to build and create on the knowledge and dreams of our ancestors. They left their mark on the planet as will we. After we’re long gone, we will show up in other ways. Someone will see and discover us and we’ll be speaking with them from the past."

Rest well Alice 💛
November 15, 2025 at 9:44 AM
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In the last chapter of Alice’s memoir, “Year of the Tiger,” she wrote her own future obituary.

The wonderful “oracle, storyteller, cyborg, trouble-maker, activist, night owl” we loved so much closed it with:

“Enjoy all of Alice’s good shit, and may you create some good shit as well.”
November 15, 2025 at 7:27 AM
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ALSO.
If you're just coming across this news now, and thinking about what you can do to support disabled people like Alice in your community.

WEAR A MASK.
November 15, 2025 at 6:42 AM
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The incredible, indomitable, inspirational Alice Wong has left us.

I'm so grateful to have known her on social media, and so grateful for all the words she shared with us and all the actions she encouraged us into making.

May we live up to her example.

(so you don't have to go to Instagram)
November 15, 2025 at 6:13 AM
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‘Death remains my intimate shadow partner. It has been with me since birth, always hovering close by. I understand one day we will finally waltz together into the ether. I hope when that time comes, I die with the satisfaction of a life well-lived, unapologetic, joyful, & full of love.’
—Alice Wong
November 15, 2025 at 6:12 AM
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Heartbroken to hear of @sfdirewolf.bsky.social ‘s transition to be a crip anscestor AND feeling so honored to have been alive in the time as this brilliant human, and gotten to learn from her.

May her memory continue to always be a blessing.
November 15, 2025 at 5:50 AM
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I don’t want to formulate words yet, but my friend Alice Wong, @sfdirewolf.bsky.social of the Disability Visibility Project, has passed.

Here are the words she left behind:
www.instagram.com/p/DREMDNBjnq...
Alice Wong on Instagram: "ID: Yellow background with black text "This is Alice's friend Sandy Ho, posting. Per Alice's wishes, this message is being shared at the time of her passing. Hi everyone, it ...
423 likes, 73 comments - alicatsamurai on November 14, 2025: "ID: Yellow background with black text "This is Alice's friend Sandy Ho, posting. Per Alice's wishes, this message is being shared at the t...
www.instagram.com
November 15, 2025 at 5:57 AM
weekly post: god I love Draw Steel. tonight we had an exciting water combat! the PCs got to punch a bunch of fish! but also an exciting negotiation!! which is maybe my favorite mechanic in the game
November 15, 2025 at 5:41 AM
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Stop using the word "woke" the way white conservatives do. "Staying woke" just means to be aware of the ways structural inequality and police violence harm Black (and sometimes other oppressed) communities.

The term you all want is "politically correct"
"my least woke opinion is---"

That's enough. We've had enough people indulging in the "thrill of a little conservatism", as a treat. Of considering reactionary thought to be a salacious and taboo in a world descending into reactionary mania.

Give me your MOST woke opinions. We're bringing it back.
November 14, 2025 at 7:29 PM
watching this panel about making your first game. will this get me to actually finish the game I'm working on? well...😬 all things are possible...
November 14, 2025 at 11:44 PM
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Hello friends! Want to hear a little more about how Convention Zero came together and entice your friends who are still on the fence to come celebrate with us, tune in tonight at twitch.tv/role_d5 !
November 14, 2025 at 8:41 PM
apropos of nothing I don't believe in "system neutral" adventures. system flexible? maybe. but you can't tell me I can run your OSR dungeon with Under Hollow Hills. that's just not true
November 14, 2025 at 8:30 PM
it's one week until CON ZERO! who am I seeing there?? who's coming to play HEART or DRAW STEEL w me??
November 14, 2025 at 8:14 PM
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networking is an incredibly important part of maintaining a professional presence in your creative industry, but it can be daunting. have you tried being completely fucking ridiculous online
November 13, 2025 at 8:18 PM