Kate Sloan (she/her)
@katesloan.com
📚 Author KateWritesAboutSex.com
🍆 Sex toy reviewer GirlyJuice.net
🎙️ Sex podcaster TheDildorks.com
🪄 Vibrator nerd MakingMagicSeries.com
🎶 Songwriter KateSloan.Bandcamp.com
📍 Brooklyn + sometimes Toronto
🍆 Sex toy reviewer GirlyJuice.net
🎙️ Sex podcaster TheDildorks.com
🪄 Vibrator nerd MakingMagicSeries.com
🎶 Songwriter KateSloan.Bandcamp.com
📍 Brooklyn + sometimes Toronto
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Kate Sloan (she/her)
@katesloan.com
· Nov 19
li’l introductory thread since a bunch of you folks just followed me (hi!):
I’m Kate Sloan, a writer/podcaster specializing in sex, kink, dating & relationships.
I’m a bi/queer cis femme woman from Toronto, and my pronouns are she/her. 👋🏻
I’m Kate Sloan, a writer/podcaster specializing in sex, kink, dating & relationships.
I’m a bi/queer cis femme woman from Toronto, and my pronouns are she/her. 👋🏻
“We clearly have differing views on the point of telling stories: I tell them (& want to hear them) as a means to relate. He’s telling them as a means to impress: performing aggressive hypersexuality, taking no note of how I respond” www.girlonthenet.com/blog/talk-yo...
via @girlonthenet.bsky.social
via @girlonthenet.bsky.social
Efficient dating 2: How to talk yourself out of a fuck | Girl on the Net
We're snogging at my hotel, his dick is literally in my hand, and I really want to get laid. And yet! This man still managed to talk himself out of a fuck.
www.girlonthenet.com
November 17, 2025 at 10:40 PM
“We clearly have differing views on the point of telling stories: I tell them (& want to hear them) as a means to relate. He’s telling them as a means to impress: performing aggressive hypersexuality, taking no note of how I respond” www.girlonthenet.com/blog/talk-yo...
via @girlonthenet.bsky.social
via @girlonthenet.bsky.social
NEW on the blog:
The BEST long-distance sex toys – at the best Black Friday prices!
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There's a big sale on @lovense-official.bsky.social toys right now for Black Friday, so I put together a list of my faves + the great prices you can get 'em for at the moment!
The BEST long-distance sex toys – at the best Black Friday prices!
girlyjuice.net/the-best-lon...
There's a big sale on @lovense-official.bsky.social toys right now for Black Friday, so I put together a list of my faves + the great prices you can get 'em for at the moment!
The BEST long-distance sex toys – at the best Black Friday prices!
The other day, I was on the phone with a far-away person I’m newly dating, and I whined, “How am I going to get through the next few months without fucking you?!” This person and …
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November 17, 2025 at 5:09 PM
NEW on the blog:
The BEST long-distance sex toys – at the best Black Friday prices!
girlyjuice.net/the-best-lon...
There's a big sale on @lovense-official.bsky.social toys right now for Black Friday, so I put together a list of my faves + the great prices you can get 'em for at the moment!
The BEST long-distance sex toys – at the best Black Friday prices!
girlyjuice.net/the-best-lon...
There's a big sale on @lovense-official.bsky.social toys right now for Black Friday, so I put together a list of my faves + the great prices you can get 'em for at the moment!
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If you're not devastated by this news, please read some of Alice's work.
She was a champion for justice, lifting the voices of a broad array of disabled people, and disabled joy ❤️
disabilityvisibilityproject.com/book/
She was a champion for justice, lifting the voices of a broad array of disabled people, and disabled joy ❤️
disabilityvisibilityproject.com/book/
November 17, 2025 at 4:00 PM
If you're not devastated by this news, please read some of Alice's work.
She was a champion for justice, lifting the voices of a broad array of disabled people, and disabled joy ❤️
disabilityvisibilityproject.com/book/
She was a champion for justice, lifting the voices of a broad array of disabled people, and disabled joy ❤️
disabilityvisibilityproject.com/book/
NEW on the blog:
5 Ways to Ask a New Partner About Your Favorite Kink(s)
girlyjuice.net/5-ways-to-as...
Bringing up your darkest or oddest desires with a new person can be terrifying, so here are some tried-and-true ways to do it, hopefully without freaking them out!
5 Ways to Ask a New Partner About Your Favorite Kink(s)
girlyjuice.net/5-ways-to-as...
Bringing up your darkest or oddest desires with a new person can be terrifying, so here are some tried-and-true ways to do it, hopefully without freaking them out!
5 Ways to Ask a New Partner About Your Favorite Kink(s)
The best advice I ever got was from my late grandmother, who used to say to me: “You don’t ask, you don’t get.” The more time that has passed, the more useful and true I hav…
girlyjuice.net
November 17, 2025 at 3:53 PM
NEW on the blog:
5 Ways to Ask a New Partner About Your Favorite Kink(s)
girlyjuice.net/5-ways-to-as...
Bringing up your darkest or oddest desires with a new person can be terrifying, so here are some tried-and-true ways to do it, hopefully without freaking them out!
5 Ways to Ask a New Partner About Your Favorite Kink(s)
girlyjuice.net/5-ways-to-as...
Bringing up your darkest or oddest desires with a new person can be terrifying, so here are some tried-and-true ways to do it, hopefully without freaking them out!
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
The confusing embarrassing liberating joy of suddenly being unable to use words when words are what you rely on most- •hnngg•
The same speaker (didn’t write down who it was, sorry!) said that in their study, bottoms tended to want tops to communicate verbally a lot, while tops valued their bottoms’ NONverbal responses v highly
Tracks w my experiences, as a bottom who loves dirty talk but goes nonverbal p quick in subspace
Tracks w my experiences, as a bottom who loves dirty talk but goes nonverbal p quick in subspace
November 16, 2025 at 5:14 PM
The confusing embarrassing liberating joy of suddenly being unable to use words when words are what you rely on most- •hnngg•
Reviewing some old notes from when I attended the AltSex conference in 2018
A study found that bottoms (in the kink sense) look for trustworthiness, warmth, confidence, & skill in their tops, while tops mostly look for self-knowledge & expressiveness in their bottoms
P interesting stuff
A study found that bottoms (in the kink sense) look for trustworthiness, warmth, confidence, & skill in their tops, while tops mostly look for self-knowledge & expressiveness in their bottoms
P interesting stuff
November 16, 2025 at 4:37 PM
Reviewing some old notes from when I attended the AltSex conference in 2018
A study found that bottoms (in the kink sense) look for trustworthiness, warmth, confidence, & skill in their tops, while tops mostly look for self-knowledge & expressiveness in their bottoms
P interesting stuff
A study found that bottoms (in the kink sense) look for trustworthiness, warmth, confidence, & skill in their tops, while tops mostly look for self-knowledge & expressiveness in their bottoms
P interesting stuff
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
I'm usually not 1 to fearmonger but this should scare LITERALLY everybody. Institutions used ai to target and debank a person BY NAME over PERFECTLY LEGAL CONTENT.
EVERYONE needs to join the fight, b/c it does not matter if your content is SFW, IF THEY DO NOT LIKE IT OR YOU, THEY WILL DEBANK YOU.
EVERYONE needs to join the fight, b/c it does not matter if your content is SFW, IF THEY DO NOT LIKE IT OR YOU, THEY WILL DEBANK YOU.
Friend tried to donate to my Throne, flagged by fraud detection at Bank of America — bank identified the transaction as specially for “giantess voretuber Ana Valens”
I suspect I faced those Patreon / Ko-fi dings b/c financial institutions have me, specifically, on record as a high risk recipient!
I suspect I faced those Patreon / Ko-fi dings b/c financial institutions have me, specifically, on record as a high risk recipient!
November 16, 2025 at 3:02 PM
I'm usually not 1 to fearmonger but this should scare LITERALLY everybody. Institutions used ai to target and debank a person BY NAME over PERFECTLY LEGAL CONTENT.
EVERYONE needs to join the fight, b/c it does not matter if your content is SFW, IF THEY DO NOT LIKE IT OR YOU, THEY WILL DEBANK YOU.
EVERYONE needs to join the fight, b/c it does not matter if your content is SFW, IF THEY DO NOT LIKE IT OR YOU, THEY WILL DEBANK YOU.
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If women are underrepresented in STEM, it's at least partly because men like this offer mentoring, then embarrass themselves by assuming their mentees must be into them, then decide the best solution is to cut ties, which sends the signal to other faculty that the mentee must not be good enough.
The emails have Summers reporting to Epstein about his attempts to date a Harvard economics student & to hit on her during a seminar she was giving.
November 16, 2025 at 12:13 AM
If women are underrepresented in STEM, it's at least partly because men like this offer mentoring, then embarrass themselves by assuming their mentees must be into them, then decide the best solution is to cut ties, which sends the signal to other faculty that the mentee must not be good enough.
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
some people are like:
*got cheated on while doing polyamory*
"i will never do polyamory again"
*got cheated on while doing monogamy*
"i'm gonna do monogamy even harder"
*got cheated on while doing polyamory*
"i will never do polyamory again"
*got cheated on while doing monogamy*
"i'm gonna do monogamy even harder"
November 13, 2025 at 7:56 PM
some people are like:
*got cheated on while doing polyamory*
"i will never do polyamory again"
*got cheated on while doing monogamy*
"i'm gonna do monogamy even harder"
*got cheated on while doing polyamory*
"i will never do polyamory again"
*got cheated on while doing monogamy*
"i'm gonna do monogamy even harder"
TONIGHT!
Come see me make up songs ‘n’ scenes with my troupe!
Come see me make up songs ‘n’ scenes with my troupe!
pssst… my first show with my current musical improv troupe is this Sunday ☺️ comedybar.ca/shows/studio...
hope to see you there, Toronto
hope to see you there, Toronto
STUDIO SUNDAYS | Comedy Bar
comedybar.ca
November 16, 2025 at 2:28 PM
TONIGHT!
Come see me make up songs ‘n’ scenes with my troupe!
Come see me make up songs ‘n’ scenes with my troupe!
A man on /r/RandomActsOfMuffDive lied about his age, & when I called him out on it, he proceeded to creep my entire profile & sent me a skeezy message saying he thinks I’m hot/wants to go down on me
Men will truly make moves in the weirdest circumstances. I don’t want to receive head from a liar!!
Men will truly make moves in the weirdest circumstances. I don’t want to receive head from a liar!!
November 16, 2025 at 2:19 PM
A man on /r/RandomActsOfMuffDive lied about his age, & when I called him out on it, he proceeded to creep my entire profile & sent me a skeezy message saying he thinks I’m hot/wants to go down on me
Men will truly make moves in the weirdest circumstances. I don’t want to receive head from a liar!!
Men will truly make moves in the weirdest circumstances. I don’t want to receive head from a liar!!
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
Remember if you truly despise GenAI and its outputs you need to put a lot more time celebrating and lifting all the artists not using it and trying there best and learning. Share their art like that art and just talk about the stuff you like and enjoy. Don’t let the anger of GenAi stop that.
November 16, 2025 at 4:05 AM
Remember if you truly despise GenAI and its outputs you need to put a lot more time celebrating and lifting all the artists not using it and trying there best and learning. Share their art like that art and just talk about the stuff you like and enjoy. Don’t let the anger of GenAi stop that.
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
🚨🚨 TransLash is hiring! We’re looking for a Website Content Manager and a Community Engagement Content Manager. Apply though the links below ⬇️
Website Content Manager link: https://zurl.to/R66y?source=CareerSite
Community Engagement Manager link: https://zurl.to/N1WL?source=CareerSite
Website Content Manager link: https://zurl.to/R66y?source=CareerSite
Community Engagement Manager link: https://zurl.to/N1WL?source=CareerSite
November 16, 2025 at 2:00 PM
🚨🚨 TransLash is hiring! We’re looking for a Website Content Manager and a Community Engagement Content Manager. Apply though the links below ⬇️
Website Content Manager link: https://zurl.to/R66y?source=CareerSite
Community Engagement Manager link: https://zurl.to/N1WL?source=CareerSite
Website Content Manager link: https://zurl.to/R66y?source=CareerSite
Community Engagement Manager link: https://zurl.to/N1WL?source=CareerSite
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gotta say, funniest porn stipulation of all time
no psuedo-incest allowed, but psuedo-psuedo-incest *is* allowed
like, what
no psuedo-incest allowed, but psuedo-psuedo-incest *is* allowed
like, what
Just a heads up from PornHub, mommy domme content on the site “will always be in violation of our terms” — unless it’s a “stepmommy domme” audio
November 16, 2025 at 1:23 AM
gotta say, funniest porn stipulation of all time
no psuedo-incest allowed, but psuedo-psuedo-incest *is* allowed
like, what
no psuedo-incest allowed, but psuedo-psuedo-incest *is* allowed
like, what
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
NEW on the blog:
Review: Lovense Spinel app-controlled thrusting sex machine
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The latest innovation from @lovense-official.bsky.social is a super-intense thruster/fucking machine that is somehow also portable, quiet, and long-distance-controllable!!
Review: Lovense Spinel app-controlled thrusting sex machine
girlyjuice.net/review-loven...
The latest innovation from @lovense-official.bsky.social is a super-intense thruster/fucking machine that is somehow also portable, quiet, and long-distance-controllable!!
Review: Lovense Spinel app-controlled thrusting sex machine
What is the Lovense Spinel sex machine? Regular readers of this blog already know that I adore sex toys made by Lovense, the leading company in the long-distance sex toys game. I was in an LDR with…
girlyjuice.net
November 15, 2025 at 3:23 PM
NEW on the blog:
Review: Lovense Spinel app-controlled thrusting sex machine
girlyjuice.net/review-loven...
The latest innovation from @lovense-official.bsky.social is a super-intense thruster/fucking machine that is somehow also portable, quiet, and long-distance-controllable!!
Review: Lovense Spinel app-controlled thrusting sex machine
girlyjuice.net/review-loven...
The latest innovation from @lovense-official.bsky.social is a super-intense thruster/fucking machine that is somehow also portable, quiet, and long-distance-controllable!!
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
OH: “It could have been such a fun night, but everything I do sucks.”
November 15, 2025 at 10:28 PM
OH: “It could have been such a fun night, but everything I do sucks.”
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
Wanted: reviewers! I'm assembling a team of readers who will commit to reviewing my BDSM-themed paranormal / urban fantasy in January 2026 on Amazon, GR, social media, and other platforms!
Sign up here: forms.gle/4WEARDmHRf...
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November 15, 2025 at 7:21 PM
Wanted: reviewers! I'm assembling a team of readers who will commit to reviewing my BDSM-themed paranormal / urban fantasy in January 2026 on Amazon, GR, social media, and other platforms!
Sign up here: forms.gle/4WEARDmHRf...
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Back in the trypophobia bathroom again
November 15, 2025 at 6:18 PM
Back in the trypophobia bathroom again
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I second this emotion (at 25 I was only just coming to understand the jewel of kink).
From a journal entry I wrote during some dating woes at age 25:
“Good kink is the jewel at the heart of the garbage fire that is dating”
“Good kink is the jewel at the heart of the garbage fire that is dating”
November 15, 2025 at 3:08 PM
I second this emotion (at 25 I was only just coming to understand the jewel of kink).
NEW on the blog:
Review: Lovense Spinel app-controlled thrusting sex machine
girlyjuice.net/review-loven...
The latest innovation from @lovense-official.bsky.social is a super-intense thruster/fucking machine that is somehow also portable, quiet, and long-distance-controllable!!
Review: Lovense Spinel app-controlled thrusting sex machine
girlyjuice.net/review-loven...
The latest innovation from @lovense-official.bsky.social is a super-intense thruster/fucking machine that is somehow also portable, quiet, and long-distance-controllable!!
Review: Lovense Spinel app-controlled thrusting sex machine
What is the Lovense Spinel sex machine? Regular readers of this blog already know that I adore sex toys made by Lovense, the leading company in the long-distance sex toys game. I was in an LDR with…
girlyjuice.net
November 15, 2025 at 3:23 PM
NEW on the blog:
Review: Lovense Spinel app-controlled thrusting sex machine
girlyjuice.net/review-loven...
The latest innovation from @lovense-official.bsky.social is a super-intense thruster/fucking machine that is somehow also portable, quiet, and long-distance-controllable!!
Review: Lovense Spinel app-controlled thrusting sex machine
girlyjuice.net/review-loven...
The latest innovation from @lovense-official.bsky.social is a super-intense thruster/fucking machine that is somehow also portable, quiet, and long-distance-controllable!!
From a journal entry I wrote during some dating woes at age 25:
“Good kink is the jewel at the heart of the garbage fire that is dating”
“Good kink is the jewel at the heart of the garbage fire that is dating”
November 15, 2025 at 3:05 PM
From a journal entry I wrote during some dating woes at age 25:
“Good kink is the jewel at the heart of the garbage fire that is dating”
“Good kink is the jewel at the heart of the garbage fire that is dating”
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
Oh wow @reuters.com got the photo here:
November 14, 2025 at 9:25 PM
Oh wow @reuters.com got the photo here:
Reposted by Kate Sloan (she/her)
It cannot be remembered enough that these were the same people who got worked up about drag brunches
November 14, 2025 at 3:08 PM
It cannot be remembered enough that these were the same people who got worked up about drag brunches
NEW for premium subscribers:
A love letter to sadists
katesloan.email/archive/a-lo...
...because I let myself be vulnerable with them, but also because they let themselves be vulnerable with me
A love letter to sadists
katesloan.email/archive/a-lo...
...because I let myself be vulnerable with them, but also because they let themselves be vulnerable with me
A love letter to sadists
Dear sadistic doms & tops, You get a bad rap, but I know (and hopefully you also know) that you conjure magic. When you sink your teeth into my neck, or drag...
katesloan.email
November 14, 2025 at 7:25 PM
NEW for premium subscribers:
A love letter to sadists
katesloan.email/archive/a-lo...
...because I let myself be vulnerable with them, but also because they let themselves be vulnerable with me
A love letter to sadists
katesloan.email/archive/a-lo...
...because I let myself be vulnerable with them, but also because they let themselves be vulnerable with me