Arvin Carandang
@arv1194.bsky.social
🧑🏽🦯 recreational rock climber/
Sports fan 🇨🇦
Sports fan 🇨🇦
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If you're comparing how Marty deploys Demidov in the NHL to how Demidov was purposely misused in the KHL last year, you're looking for a reason to be upset about nothing
He isn't defensively sound enough to be out there defending late leads yet, and that's fine...Go outside, pet a dog or something
He isn't defensively sound enough to be out there defending late leads yet, and that's fine...Go outside, pet a dog or something
November 29, 2025 at 1:24 AM
If you're comparing how Marty deploys Demidov in the NHL to how Demidov was purposely misused in the KHL last year, you're looking for a reason to be upset about nothing
He isn't defensively sound enough to be out there defending late leads yet, and that's fine...Go outside, pet a dog or something
He isn't defensively sound enough to be out there defending late leads yet, and that's fine...Go outside, pet a dog or something
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They pretend to be clueless to avoid responsibility. 🤷♀️ Stop doing everything for them! See the "playing dumb" tactic for what it is: Control. ➡️
#NarcissticAbuse #Incompetence #Manipulation #CoerciveControl #Toxic #Accountability #HealingJourney
#NarcissticAbuse #Incompetence #Manipulation #CoerciveControl #Toxic #Accountability #HealingJourney
November 28, 2025 at 3:01 PM
They pretend to be clueless to avoid responsibility. 🤷♀️ Stop doing everything for them! See the "playing dumb" tactic for what it is: Control. ➡️
#NarcissticAbuse #Incompetence #Manipulation #CoerciveControl #Toxic #Accountability #HealingJourney
#NarcissticAbuse #Incompetence #Manipulation #CoerciveControl #Toxic #Accountability #HealingJourney
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Shoot it high, Cole. Why haven't you shot it high in a month.
November 27, 2025 at 3:56 AM
Shoot it high, Cole. Why haven't you shot it high in a month.
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"That never happened." "You're too sensitive." 🤯 Gaslighting makes you doubt your sanity. Trust your gut—your reality is real! 🛑 End the confusion.
#NarcissisticAbuse #Gaslighting #TrustYourself #HealingJourney #CoerciveControl #Toxic
#NarcissisticAbuse #Gaslighting #TrustYourself #HealingJourney #CoerciveControl #Toxic
November 23, 2025 at 3:01 PM
"That never happened." "You're too sensitive." 🤯 Gaslighting makes you doubt your sanity. Trust your gut—your reality is real! 🛑 End the confusion.
#NarcissisticAbuse #Gaslighting #TrustYourself #HealingJourney #CoerciveControl #Toxic
#NarcissisticAbuse #Gaslighting #TrustYourself #HealingJourney #CoerciveControl #Toxic
Hey everyone,
i’m currently in the midst of training for my first para rock climbing competition. Any help you could provide would be greatly appreciated. gofund.me/02d0d540c
i’m currently in the midst of training for my first para rock climbing competition. Any help you could provide would be greatly appreciated. gofund.me/02d0d540c
Donate to Para Rock Climbing Competition Fund, organized by Arvin Carandang
Hi Everyone,
My name is Arvin Carandang. I’m visually impaired and I’m current… Arvin Carandang needs your support for Para Rock Climbing Competition Fund
gofund.me
November 23, 2025 at 1:31 AM
Hey everyone,
i’m currently in the midst of training for my first para rock climbing competition. Any help you could provide would be greatly appreciated. gofund.me/02d0d540c
i’m currently in the midst of training for my first para rock climbing competition. Any help you could provide would be greatly appreciated. gofund.me/02d0d540c
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Every single trauma recovery strategy that works is a combination of self-talk, mental focus, & physical movement. Checking in w/ those three tools is where to start when trying to define the nuts & bolts of your realistic trauma recovery.
November 20, 2025 at 2:09 AM
Every single trauma recovery strategy that works is a combination of self-talk, mental focus, & physical movement. Checking in w/ those three tools is where to start when trying to define the nuts & bolts of your realistic trauma recovery.
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Here's to everyone reading who is doing the hardest, most honest work of your life in trauma recovery, literally battling to stay alive day to day-- & who is being told by some idiot in your life to quit "playing the victim" & improve your "mindset."
I see you.
I see you.
November 20, 2025 at 2:06 AM
Here's to everyone reading who is doing the hardest, most honest work of your life in trauma recovery, literally battling to stay alive day to day-- & who is being told by some idiot in your life to quit "playing the victim" & improve your "mindset."
I see you.
I see you.
Nothing beats a nice whisky buzz
November 20, 2025 at 1:35 AM
Nothing beats a nice whisky buzz
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Everyone is into mental health awareness until it involves dealing with the actual difficult symptoms and behaviours caused by severe mental illness
November 19, 2025 at 3:01 PM
Everyone is into mental health awareness until it involves dealing with the actual difficult symptoms and behaviours caused by severe mental illness
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Hey everyone
I’m currently in the process of training for my first para-rock climbing competition. Any help you can provide would be greatly appreciated. thanks.
gofund.me/28eda4ee8
I’m currently in the process of training for my first para-rock climbing competition. Any help you can provide would be greatly appreciated. thanks.
gofund.me/28eda4ee8
Donate to Para Rock Climbing Competition Fund, organized by Arvin Carandang
Hi Everyone,
My name is Arvin Carandang. I’m visually impaired and I’m current… Arvin Carandang needs your support for Para Rock Climbing Competition Fund
gofund.me
November 17, 2025 at 5:27 PM
Hey everyone
I’m currently in the process of training for my first para-rock climbing competition. Any help you can provide would be greatly appreciated. thanks.
gofund.me/28eda4ee8
I’m currently in the process of training for my first para-rock climbing competition. Any help you can provide would be greatly appreciated. thanks.
gofund.me/28eda4ee8
Hey everyone
I’m currently in the process of training for my first para-rock climbing competition. Any help you can provide would be greatly appreciated. thanks.
gofund.me/28eda4ee8
I’m currently in the process of training for my first para-rock climbing competition. Any help you can provide would be greatly appreciated. thanks.
gofund.me/28eda4ee8
Donate to Para Rock Climbing Competition Fund, organized by Arvin Carandang
Hi Everyone,
My name is Arvin Carandang. I’m visually impaired and I’m current… Arvin Carandang needs your support for Para Rock Climbing Competition Fund
gofund.me
November 17, 2025 at 5:27 PM
Hey everyone
I’m currently in the process of training for my first para-rock climbing competition. Any help you can provide would be greatly appreciated. thanks.
gofund.me/28eda4ee8
I’m currently in the process of training for my first para-rock climbing competition. Any help you can provide would be greatly appreciated. thanks.
gofund.me/28eda4ee8
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😭 The Perpetual Victim Role
When a narcissist abuses you, their first line of defense is to play the victim. They cry, shift the blame, and act hurt to manipulate sympathy and avoid accountability. Don't fall for the crocodile tears—it's a tactic, not true remorse. 🎭
#NarcissisticAbuse
When a narcissist abuses you, their first line of defense is to play the victim. They cry, shift the blame, and act hurt to manipulate sympathy and avoid accountability. Don't fall for the crocodile tears—it's a tactic, not true remorse. 🎭
#NarcissisticAbuse
November 15, 2025 at 5:59 PM
😭 The Perpetual Victim Role
When a narcissist abuses you, their first line of defense is to play the victim. They cry, shift the blame, and act hurt to manipulate sympathy and avoid accountability. Don't fall for the crocodile tears—it's a tactic, not true remorse. 🎭
#NarcissisticAbuse
When a narcissist abuses you, their first line of defense is to play the victim. They cry, shift the blame, and act hurt to manipulate sympathy and avoid accountability. Don't fall for the crocodile tears—it's a tactic, not true remorse. 🎭
#NarcissisticAbuse
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When the Habs start the game with bunch of shots and have zero goals to show for it, you just know the opposing team is scoring first
November 14, 2025 at 12:41 AM
When the Habs start the game with bunch of shots and have zero goals to show for it, you just know the opposing team is scoring first
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The best Pope
NEW: During a Vatican audience, a prominent same-sex couple told Pope Leo XIV they were married.
The pope responded with overwhelming kindness — and a conversation about the day’s Wordle.
This quiet moment may signal something bigger: the kind of Church Pope Leo intends to build.
The pope responded with overwhelming kindness — and a conversation about the day’s Wordle.
This quiet moment may signal something bigger: the kind of Church Pope Leo intends to build.
Pope Leo Meets Prominent Married Gay Couple — And Talks Wordle
The story of Brian and Alex is more than a Wordle moment. It’s a sign of the Church Pope Leo is building.
www.thelettersfromleo.com
November 13, 2025 at 7:21 AM
The best Pope
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I love Fall. The crisp air, the radiant colors, the bleak realization that everything dies
September 25, 2023 at 5:27 PM
I love Fall. The crisp air, the radiant colors, the bleak realization that everything dies
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I don't know baseball but I'm invested enough to want to throw up
November 2, 2025 at 3:55 AM
I don't know baseball but I'm invested enough to want to throw up
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Bolduc destroys Sanderson with a picture perfect body check. McDermid streaks across the ice to hit Bolduc with no puck in sight and try to fight him.
Embarrassing that Ottawa keeps that guy in the lineup.
Embarrassing that Ottawa keeps that guy in the lineup.
November 1, 2025 at 11:28 PM
Bolduc destroys Sanderson with a picture perfect body check. McDermid streaks across the ice to hit Bolduc with no puck in sight and try to fight him.
Embarrassing that Ottawa keeps that guy in the lineup.
Embarrassing that Ottawa keeps that guy in the lineup.
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Put that man in the T-shirt cannon and pull the trigger
Some drunken jackass just ran out onto the field, unveiling an American flag in centre field and then ate some turf. #Bluejays
November 1, 2025 at 2:00 AM
Put that man in the T-shirt cannon and pull the trigger
#StoryOfMyLife. This is precisely the type of attitude that I experienced from my wife’s family. And it sucks.
✅ Instead of owning their actions, they demand gratitude for their mere presence in your life. They minimize your feelings, frame their abuse as a favor, and make you feel indebted for the "privilege" of their time. They use obligation to silence your complaints.
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl
#NarcissisticAbuse #CoersiveControl
October 27, 2025 at 1:23 PM
#StoryOfMyLife. This is precisely the type of attitude that I experienced from my wife’s family. And it sucks.
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You don't owe anyone any apologies for taking your time. Survivors committed to working a realistic, sustainable trauma recovery understand the value of slowing down.
If someone's trying to rush you, they're telegraphing they don't understand (or care) how recovery happens.
If someone's trying to rush you, they're telegraphing they don't understand (or care) how recovery happens.
October 26, 2025 at 12:46 AM
You don't owe anyone any apologies for taking your time. Survivors committed to working a realistic, sustainable trauma recovery understand the value of slowing down.
If someone's trying to rush you, they're telegraphing they don't understand (or care) how recovery happens.
If someone's trying to rush you, they're telegraphing they don't understand (or care) how recovery happens.
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Hockey fans should file a class action lawsuit against sports interaction for the insanely awful ads they’ve forced on us the last few years.
October 25, 2025 at 11:39 PM
Hockey fans should file a class action lawsuit against sports interaction for the insanely awful ads they’ve forced on us the last few years.
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Would love to see Ivan Demidov shoot the puck more, he only has 7 shots in 8 games this season, tied with Kaiden Guhle.
October 24, 2025 at 2:09 AM
Would love to see Ivan Demidov shoot the puck more, he only has 7 shots in 8 games this season, tied with Kaiden Guhle.
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PSA: Drake belongs to the Raptors he has nothing to do with the Blue Jays don’t associate him with the Blue Jays thank you
The Jays do not have to avenge Drake
October 21, 2025 at 3:19 AM
PSA: Drake belongs to the Raptors he has nothing to do with the Blue Jays don’t associate him with the Blue Jays thank you