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Nico Mara-McKay 🦇 (they/iel)
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Historian in Tkaronto (Toronto). Likes bats, monsters, sincereposting, alt text, and DEIA. Genderqueer. Trans. Autistic. 40s. 👬 🧛 nicomaramckay.com

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Ephemeral Record of queer and trans histories: patreon.com/ephemeralrecord
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tl;dr: Bluesky began with genuine promise: a new social media platform where users could feel safer, but inconsistent moderation quickly eroded trust.

When systemically marginalized users pushed back, Bluesky’s leadership minimized concerns and began to target them for bans.
Bluesky’s CEO meltdown: How leadership continues to fail its most marginalized users
tl;dr: Bluesky began with genuine promise: a new social media platform where systemically marginalized users could feel safer, but…
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But it requires not only a willingness to flunk students, but also a willingness to construct your course—and your pedagogy, and your professional persona—around an overt, articulated, emphatic set of ethical commitments.
November 29, 2025 at 2:20 PM
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I am allowed to fail students for AI use, and I do, and I say I will, repeatedly and emphatically. As a result, I wind up having to fail very few students for AI use.
I read the thread and know why they're not failing the students. They gotta let colleges fail the students for the sake of the curriculum and other students
An issue we're seeing at all levels of university is that many students are simply refusing to do *anything*. They aren't reading the syllabus, aren't following assignment guidelines, aren't engaging with material, ignoring deadlines. And this might seem like old news, but it truly has ramped up.
November 29, 2025 at 2:06 PM
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If you’ve been thinking about applying for the EHRC Commissioner roles, please, please do!

Falkner and Reindorf will soon be out and there is a real desire for representatives of our 🏳️‍⚧️ community on the Board.

Be quick though — the deadline is midday on Monday 1st December
It’s not too late, and there is a real desire for people from the trans community to apply

archive.ph/UQia8

Application details here:
apply-for-public-appointment.service.gov.uk/roles/9026?b...
November 29, 2025 at 5:58 PM
introduce yourself with five animals you've seen in the wild

raccoon
beaver
loon
moose
squirrel
introduce yourself with five animals you've seen in the wild

moose
whale
mouse
rat
snakes
introduce yourself with five animals you've seen in the wild

- bald eagles
- a MOOSE
- mama black bear and cubs
- LOONS
- whales just off the coast, not sure but maybe humpbacks
November 29, 2025 at 4:32 AM
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LRT: This is an unpopular opinion rn, but until NT society makes even a minimal effort to understand & accept #autistic communication styles, I refuse to spend my time policing “rude” autistic people, or handing out NT etiquette advice.
July 11, 2025 at 9:01 PM
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whenever a youtuber *chooses to put into the video* that they asked chatGPT something, i close the video lol.

as if i'm interested in hearing about the journey you took talking to a fucking chatbot about a problem you were trying to solve 🥴
I don’t know if anyone else notices or cares, but when I see a presentation in which the speaker uses obviously generated-AI images to illustrate their slides, it makes me immediately less confident in whatever other content they’re presenting.
November 28, 2025 at 4:32 PM
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It’s fun to think about the surgeon who will botch your surgery 20 years from now and what he’s doing at this moment. He just ran all his homework through ChatGPT. He just read that article about vaccines and autism at the CDC website. He just watched an Instagram video about the moon landing hoax.
November 21, 2025 at 4:27 AM
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Police didn’t believe a 12-year-old who said she'd been raped. Then she hit record.
Police didn’t believe a 12-year-old who said she'd been raped. Then she hit record.
“If I didn’t find the evidence for them, I wasn’t too sure they would find it.”
www.motherjones.com
November 28, 2025 at 7:02 PM
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"To disavow the label [feminist] while pursuing the substance creates a strategic inconsistency — one that weakens Canada’s credibility with partners who are doubling down on feminist approaches, including the EU, Germany, and most Nordic states."
Does Canada have a feminist foreign policy? Actually, we do. And we are proof it works - Equality Fund Fonds Égalité
Jess TomlinCEO of the Equality Fund Canada’s Prime Minister Mark Carney, since leading a new government formed earlier this year, has been focusing on investment, financial growth and diversifying tra...
equalityfund.ca
November 28, 2025 at 8:21 PM
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"International legal experts have argued that the US actions constitute a war crime."
US strikes against boats in Caribbean ‘disregard international law’, French minister says
G7 foreign ministers questioned Marco Rubio about the attacks on what the Trump administration claims are drug smugglers
www.theguardian.com
November 17, 2025 at 8:45 PM
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Trudeau-era environment minister Steven Guilbeault has published a resignation letter detailing the reasons for his departure from Carney's cabinet.

He directly cites today's MOU:
November 27, 2025 at 9:55 PM
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What makes historic collections difficult? And how do researchers work with “difficult” collections?

New CFP from Paper Trails here:

blogs.ucl.ac.uk/special-coll...

Deadline for proposals 31/1/2026
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Call for Papers: Difficult Collections | UCL UCL Special Collections
UCL Homepage
blogs.ucl.ac.uk
November 27, 2025 at 6:21 PM
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42 Merry, Bright And Made-In-Canada Gifts #Canada

From decadent fudge to quirky pottery, there's something to surprise and delight everyone on your list.

chatelaine.com/holiday/made...
The Best Made-In-Canada Gifts For Everyone On Your List - Chatelaine
Check holiday shopping off your list with these delightful homegrown treasures.
chatelaine.com
November 27, 2025 at 3:40 PM
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There is a suicide epidemic in the autistic community.

We are 11x more likely to take our own lives.

35% have tried.

Suicidal thoughts happen to most of us (66%)

Let’s remember that & support each other and work together to fight the stigma against us neuronormative society.
November 27, 2025 at 9:02 AM
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Dan Levy openly says that Schitt's Creek would not have survived anywhere except the CBC because it was weird and took a season or so to find its feet... Just for reference if you wanna know the ROI on this approach to supporting creative things.
Canada made weird tv shows because it was all being done with government funded art grant money so they fell in this wacky middle ground between “shoestring budget” and “no expectation to generate shareholder value” which is really the best way to make art
November 27, 2025 at 1:20 AM
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(In case you wonder why I always use the slightly awkward phrasing of "people in/from the US" instead of "Americans," it's because there are 35 countries in North, Central, and South America, and it seems absurd to suggest there's only one, especially when it's not even the biggest.)
September 18, 2023 at 6:22 PM
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Scientists: have you been the target of an online harassment campaign, doxxing, or weaponized FOIA requests? I'd like to talk to you about steps you had to take to protect your digital security for an upcoming Nature story. (You can be anonymous if necessary.)

RTs appreciated.
November 26, 2025 at 12:18 AM
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I once asked a bookseller at a large indie store how many people would have to buy a book for it to get the attention of the store buyer and cause an additional order and they said: Three.
I see some book piracy discourse, and, to make a positive argument in favor of buying books, your marginal ability to influence what books get published and support the careers of writers you like is massive compared to most other forms of media.
November 25, 2025 at 11:07 PM
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The thing about the Linehan case is that either the Judge is sympathetic to 'gender critical' ideology or British law thinks it's perfectly acceptable for a 57 year old man to stalk, doxx and physically attack a 17 year old girl.

Both explanations are horrifying.
November 25, 2025 at 6:47 PM
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Hello network. This is real shit. I’m looking for transgender, nonbinary, or gender nonconforming front and back end web designers for a project to help trans people get housing in NJ. This is a paid opportunity.

Please share this if you see it, and my DMs are open for more information. Tysm 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵
November 25, 2025 at 3:15 PM
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when we say we want more streets to be pedestrianized, this is what we mean
November 25, 2025 at 4:46 PM
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I do think young people should have access to puberty blockers if they want them but they should also have access to full, normal HRT if they want. Trans people should be able to go through puberty at the same age as and alongside their peers.
November 25, 2025 at 9:45 AM
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Let’s make it Trans Joy Tuesday again!

For the trans people out there, please share something happy going on with you to offset all the bad stuff.

Whether it’s big or small, trans related or not, please share your joy!
November 25, 2025 at 12:23 PM
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Every allistic review of the Murderbot Diaries: A stunningly human portrayal of robot interiority!

Every autistic reading the Murderbot Diaries: This robot is autistic.
November 23, 2025 at 6:50 PM