Callalily
callalily57.bsky.social
Callalily
@callalily57.bsky.social
Genealogist. Mathematician. Book blogger. Theatre fan. I'm not so good at having "a brand." These are just my inner thoughts, inner thoughts. She/her. #hEDS
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Trump calls human beings “vermin,” “garbage,” “diseases,” “poison,” and “animals.”

Then, when I rightfully point out that the same dehumanizing language has been used by fascist regimes to justify humanity’s worst atrocities—Republicans lose their minds.

Give me a break.
Trump on Somalis: "We're gonna go the wrong way if we keep taking in garbage into our country. Ilhan Omar is garbage. She's garbage. Her friends are garbage."
December 3, 2025 at 5:07 PM
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Anyone who says "not your grandma's romance" has not one single solitary clue what their grandma was reading.
December 3, 2025 at 10:27 AM
I was away from social media for a few days. Came back, and my feed is Falkland Islands arguments and gay hockey players.
December 3, 2025 at 2:38 PM
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🔥 BREAKING: A spokesperson for Kids Can Press, the publisher of the Franklin the Turtle books, messaged me today about Secretary of Defense Pete Hegseth using the likeness and image from the books to make light of killings in the Caribbean in his post yesterday on X.
December 2, 2025 at 12:16 AM
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In 2008, when I was home from college for winter break, after I decided to come out to my parents but a few days before doing so, I went to see Gus Van Sant’s Milk, which included his exhortation to gay people everywhere to come out as an act of collective political power and a rejection of silence.
on Heated Rivalry Reddit there are fans saying the book “unintentionally” “frames the closet as bad” & “romanticizes” being out & the one thing the show ‘improves’ is using depictions of homophobia to show “the closet isn’t bad” b/c “it primarily exists for the safety” of queer people. 🤯
December 2, 2025 at 12:48 AM
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I mean, Moby-Dick is certainly /romantic/ in places, but that still doesn't qualify it for the genre, because Ishmale and Queegqueg don't get a proper HEA.
December 2, 2025 at 1:03 AM
The way this article discusses this is bizarre. It's framed like, "He's just a poor naive trusting guy who doesn't understand how anything works, and does whatever his friends do," but also "He's the owner of several small businesses, and we elected him mayor." www.kansas.com/news/state/a...
December 1, 2025 at 9:53 PM
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there’s a scene in the new documentary where Elizabeth Taylor is talking about the stigma of AIDS and how she got involved in the movement and it’s fucking everything
August 10, 2024 at 3:21 PM
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Honestly, I didn't even think about reading romance until earlier this year. Partly because I'd read some Danielle Steele and Nora Roberts lying around in beach rentals when I was a kid and they left me cold, but also, in a really big way, because of internalized misogyny
I'm not in the least surprised Crave/HBOs Heated Rivalry, based on Rachel Reid's romances, seems to be taking off in the places I hang out on bsky.

@swordsjew.bsky.social has been documenting (hilariously) his reading romance novels. It's a perfect summary of why this readership is fascinating.
November 30, 2025 at 10:07 PM
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If a Psych prof assigns students an essay response paper with explicit guidelines and then flunks a student for turning in a paper that ignores those guidelines but instead makes vague gestures to "the Bible" then THAT IS NOT A VIOLATION OF THE STUDENT'S RELIGIOUS FREEDOM.
OU has put the professor here on administrative leave:
November 30, 2025 at 8:45 PM
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New calligraphic work: "On Resisting ICE and the DHS"

This one is complex enough that I am providing a key to how it's structured, similar to those keys you see that show how a Talmud page is divided up. See the alt for the explanation.
November 30, 2025 at 4:26 PM
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The reason why people care about Leavitt’s Thanksgiving is because this gov’t is going out of its way to sell the aesthetics of MAGAism. From Hegseth’s “no beard” policy to Duffy’s airport dress code, to their support of trad wife content. The movement depends on it. And when it’s gross, it’s funny.
November 30, 2025 at 2:10 PM
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They're not hiding it, folks—straight up neo-Nazi advertising, from the font to the language to the 11 stars for the Confederacy. Then you have the DHS openly using white nationalist language of "remigrate", which means ethnic cleansing.

This is who MAGA is now.
November 30, 2025 at 6:43 AM
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As someone who works in the tech industry--absolutely.

They are testing the waters. These are top-down orders. The ONLY way to stop it is a visceral negative reaction. Write articles. Post your rage. Email. Post. @. All those things.

Only you have the power to kill it.
Let me give some insight on this, as a producer in the dub industry who worked with major streamers, who's witnessed first-hand where this push for AI is coming from.

tl;dr: Only CEOs want this. Tell them how much you hate it. Be loud, email, call, @, post. You will kill this.

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The only thing less human than these AI dub performances is the decision to sign off on them

A company this big can pay human actors a decent wage, not produce slop that intentionally removes the human element.
November 30, 2025 at 5:07 AM
At least four of these are standard math courses you’ll find at any university, with descriptions trying to make them sound a bit more interesting. Most of the rest definitely sound like things I’d be interested in, as a mathematician.
ruin your thanksgiving by reading new york magazine's take on mathematics
November 30, 2025 at 4:24 AM
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this reminds me of the Bridgerton response and how people were so confused that the main characters *changed* after season one, like writing essays about why that was a bad choice

which seems like a logical thing to them, but an *insane* thing to say to anyone who understands genre romance.
but this? shut the fuck up. guess what, my man, gorgeous young 22 year olds like to fuck. And queer people deserve love stories that are sexy and horny. a "chaste kiss" please be for real.
November 30, 2025 at 2:57 AM
Just saw someone in a facebook genealogy group ask a vague “Can you help me find out about my ancestor?” question with just the person’s name, no dates or places or anything. Someone else responded by asking Grok and linking to the “answer.”
November 30, 2025 at 3:34 AM
"These people had sex, and then they need to figure out what to do with all their feelings" is a plot. It is character development. It is relationship development. The figuring out of the feelings is what's happening in the story.
This is why non-romance people need to read more romance, honestly: will-they-won’t-they is fine but it is not the same narrative as “they did and then they did again and then they keep going but eventually someone’s gonna find out and then they’re REALLY fucked.”
but this? shut the fuck up. guess what, my man, gorgeous young 22 year olds like to fuck. And queer people deserve love stories that are sexy and horny. a "chaste kiss" please be for real.
November 30, 2025 at 3:13 AM
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A study by Dayforce shows 87% of executives use AI for work, compared to 57% of managers and just 27% of employees.

I think this explains the massive disconnect we see in how CEOs talk about AI versus everyone else. It also raises the question of how useful it truly is for frontline work?
Execs are embracing AI more than their employees are, new research suggests
Research from HR software company Dayforce suggests that executives are leaning into AI far more than their employees.
www.businessinsider.com
November 28, 2025 at 10:58 AM
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These people do as they do because they enjoy defilement. They select the most viscerally abhorrent statements and stances because they enjoy our distress and find power in usurping and defiling symbols and figures that are higher and nobler than anything they could produce.
November 29, 2025 at 6:58 PM
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The best way to understand what the modern Republican party is doing is gleeful civic blasphemy.
"Western civilization," the font, the 11 stars - 11 states in the confederacy, for the record.

Why is this never news? Why are we letting our government agencies do this sort of thing while the news agencies report on hallucinated trade deals and act like everything is normal
November 29, 2025 at 6:53 PM
I keep seeing FB groups where people post photos of their kids and ask other people to use AI to make the photos "right" -- sometimes it's just getting rid of the jam on their cheek, but a lot of them are basically creating an entirely imaginary image to replace their actual child.
It’s infuriating to me that I need to evaluate media to determine whether it’s AI generated now. The great “time saver” technology wastes incalculable time and energy for people who want to retain their grasp on reality
November 30, 2025 at 12:13 AM
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Hot take: nobody has ever unironically used terms of venery. They were invented in the 14th century as a bit, a way for rich hunters with nothing better to do to show off how much smarter than you they were. Calling a group of ravens "an unkindness" instead of "a flock" is obscurantist and annoying
November 29, 2025 at 9:31 PM
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Turning Point at OU posted this girl's essay in full and man is it rough
November 29, 2025 at 3:43 PM
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Sometimes I think about how violent, sex negative, and weirdly vanilla dark romance is. I also wish I could explain proper gang/mafia related codes of ethics vs an MMC who is just violent and emotionally abusive. Loving a bad man is different than he’s not bad because I love him.
November 29, 2025 at 5:21 PM