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If you're not trans, I don't think I can fully explain how important this is.

It's so powerful that one of the most circulated science media publications in the world has come out and said "trans children are real and providing transition care improves their lives." That's groundbreaking.
The name "Popular Science" doesn't mean we shift our coverage depending on public opinion. It means we cover relevant subjects that are rigorously researched, reliable, and grounded in reality.

And trans lives are grounded in reality.

We see y'all. No matter what.

www.popsci.com/science/tran...
First-of-a-kind study shows encouraging data for trans kids who socially transition
Ninety-four percent of participants in a new study stood firm in their trans identity after five years, and "detransitioning" is rare.
www.popsci.com
December 19, 2025 at 6:58 PM
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The high seas remain untamed for a reason

This is the reason

Netflix has a LOT of properties locked up in their streaming service that will *never* get an official physical media release, and will be quietly removed one day. All that work, gone forever.
‘She-Ra and the Princesses of Power’ is scheduled to leave Netflix on February 21, 2026.

(source: www.whats-on-netflix.com/leaving-soon...)
December 16, 2025 at 8:45 PM
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OK, who narced?
November 28, 2025 at 4:44 PM
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My superhero told me his sidekicks keep dying so I asked how many sidekicks he has and he said he just goes to the orphanage and gets a new sidekick after so I said it sounds like he’s just feeding sidekicks to the endless embrace of death and his butler started crying.
god every Saturday night. okay Alfred get the stepladder
July 6, 2025 at 7:08 PM
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I wasnt meant to work 40 hours per week I was meant to be some rich eccentric Renaissance art patron's gay slutty little live in pet artist that just wears a silk robe and cries all day while occasionally adding a brush stroke or two to the canvas
June 22, 2025 at 1:27 AM
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JUST BECAUSE THE CLOWN CAR GOES VERY FAST DOES NOT MEAN IT ISN’T FULL OF CLOWNS
the speed at which these guys have broken everything has given a lot of folks who should know better the impression that they are an unstoppable force and the only option is to negotiate the terms of surrender

just because the clown car goes very fast does not mean it isn’t full of clowns
Whatever the immediate fallout of the scandal, what is going to stick around is the impression it gives, of hapless idiots doing ridiculous things. And I think that seriously reduces the appeal of capitulating to these jokers.
March 25, 2025 at 3:59 PM
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You cannot respectability politics your way to liberation. There is no way to be so apologetic about your humanity that bigots will accept it. You can only push and push and push until you break through.
March 18, 2025 at 5:32 PM
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1. Finally some fight.

"Have you no decency!?" asked Rep. Keating after a Republican rep called Sarah McBride "Mr. McBride" repeatedly.

McBride shot back, calling the chairman "Madam Chairman."

Fireworks erupted, Dems protested, and the hearing was cancelled.

Subscribe to support my journalism.
"Have You No Decency?": Republican Calls Sarah McBride "Mister," Dems Erupt And End Hearing
During a meeting of the House Foreign Affairs Committee, a Republican representative, Rep. Keith Self, called transgender congresswoman the "gentleman from Delaware." Dems pushed back.
www.erininthemorning.com
March 11, 2025 at 8:40 PM
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But we gotta keep making plans for the future. We gotta keep living like we're gonna keep living. We have to remember our dreams so we remember why we gotta keep fighting to make them possible.
February 14, 2025 at 8:52 PM
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there are two wolves inside me and both are very tired, please be gentle
July 10, 2024 at 9:05 AM
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proving love sometimes means takin a risk. i mean EXISTING is just about the biggest risk there is. but dang what a reward to sit here for a moment and breathe the air and see the stars. what an adventure
July 6, 2024 at 4:02 AM
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Cymbalta/duloxetine does this. Any antidepressant that is an SSRI (duloxetine acts on both serotonin and norepinephrine) or is one of the older tri-cyclic antidepressants (eg amitryptiline) makes you more vulnerable to heat stress
Many common medications, including antidepressants, can reduce your heat tolerance.

If you live in a place that doesn’t usually get this hot, now is a good time to check all of your prescriptions’ side effect lists to see if they include sensitivity to heat / heat intolerance.
June 17, 2024 at 5:15 PM
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if you're a trans person I have an incredibly complex relationship to my pretransition self, who was in some ways the same person as me and in some ways a stranger, something i am willing to discuss at length at 3 AM

if you're cis i have always perfectly known my gender and so has everybody else
May 29, 2024 at 9:01 PM
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When I say centering people w/ lived experiential knowledge makes for better, more reasonable policy, this is the kind of thing I mean: consult one (1) bong-hitter, & you'd know that this is not just false, but absurdly, comically false.

Of course, that requires good faith, not punishment seeking.
In ruling that bong water is a drug mixture, the Minnesota Supreme Court justices relied, in part, on the testimony of a state patrol officer who claimed that drug users keep bong water “for future use… either drinking it or shooting it in the veins.”
Fargo woman facing 30 years in prison for bong water • Minnesota Reformer
Last year the Legislature decriminalized drug paraphernalia, even if it contains drug residue. The change represented a step back from the drug war tactics of previous decades, with an eye toward trea...
minnesotareformer.com
June 11, 2024 at 2:54 PM
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One of my favorite things about the last decades of X-Men stories and the fan base is how we went from "Magneto was Right" being the catch phrase of an extremist sect of mutants meant to be radical young terrorists to the majority opinion of both fans and also modern adaptation
May 9, 2024 at 5:21 PM
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“oh but I *want* to get thrown in jail”

no he doesn’t! jail sucks! this guy had a damn Diet Coke button on his desk in the Oval Office! he’d hate it!

what he wants is to say “ha ha throw me in jail I dare you” and then have people not do it

call his bluff
I don’t think Trump actually has a “plan” for what he’s doing.

I think the deal is he actually gets his jollies by violating rules so that he can prove to himself that he’s powerful and unstoppable and rules don’t apply to him.
April 23, 2024 at 3:43 PM
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Reskeeting with alt text
February 9, 2024 at 11:55 PM
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GOOD NEWS, EVERYONE
March 29, 2024 at 6:09 PM
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Do you live within ~50 miles of this semi-phallically-shaped object? Reskeet and follow so we can find each other!
November 19, 2023 at 12:18 AM
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actually this is a lie the hottest thing a lesbian can do is be my
wife
the hottest thing a lesbian can do is watch bar rescue
March 29, 2024 at 5:05 AM
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Magneto was right, Magneto is right.
March 21, 2024 at 7:51 PM
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musk and sacks and all those guys legitimately thought they were buying The Cathedral and would be immediately presented with the levers that made people like them and they've been going insane on uppers tearing the drywall out trying to find those levers ever since
Lol. Listening to Elon Musk on a Twitter Spaces with Missouri's AG, Elon just suggested that activists calling on advertisers to stop advertising on Twitter "might be a RICO violation" and @kenwhite.bsky.social I am required to inform you.
March 19, 2024 at 2:14 AM
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that's all
March 13, 2024 at 5:23 AM
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Why do conservatives make trans people look so fucking cool omg
March 14, 2024 at 12:58 AM