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Trans guy🏳️‍⚧️🫖, autistic🌿,
adoptee💔, earnest poster✌🏻
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No Time For Pie
octotaco
Licence to Cut Hair
December 26, 2025 at 3:57 AM
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Make a Bond movie casual

Leafraker
Make a Bond movie casual

Her Majesty's Laundry Service
Make a Bond movie casual

Maybe Say Something
December 26, 2025 at 3:08 AM
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make a Bond movie casual

Goldpinkie
make a Bond movie casual

Dr. Sorta
make a Bond movie casual

Quantum of Shoelace
December 26, 2025 at 3:03 AM
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One last post of Freida photoshop bonus content.

Freida as food, and a curling stone.
December 26, 2025 at 2:10 AM
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It's my first Christmas without Mom. Of course it's bringing up feelings. Mostly, I'm reminded of how I chose to be a different kind of mom.
If you need a mom-type person today, here's what I try to give my kid. I give it to you today too. Apply as needed:
December 25, 2025 at 4:07 PM
December 23, 2025
Wordle 1,648 2/6*

⬛⬛⬛🟨⬛
🟩🟩🟩🟩🟩

Whoa, that was some super weird luck
December 24, 2025 at 11:44 PM
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If any truly tiny Canadian businesses have had success with shipping to the US, please let me know.
Christmas Eve fit. Earrings by @loxy.bsky.social (please, let Canada ship to us normally again!)
December 24, 2025 at 10:33 PM
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Hey, can you start listing things you like? It always turns things around for me. I'll start. The smell of snow. Twilight. Hot cup of tea. Twinkly lights. Pillows. Baking. And of course dogs and cats!
December 24, 2025 at 9:25 PM
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You are doing your best. 🫂
December 24, 2025 at 8:55 PM
But not today, first order of business is to make the best of this damn holiday and get through tomorrow. Who’s with me?
December 24, 2025 at 8:45 PM
Relationships take work. I’m going to have to talk about things like an adult again. Yaaaaay
December 24, 2025 at 8:43 PM
I’m not doing a great job dealing with today but I am doing my best, or maybe not, idk
December 24, 2025 at 8:33 PM
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Arguing with my parents about whether “the grinch” is his name, his job, or his ethnicity. Mom contends that the song calls him “mr. grinch” (name); I counter that “mr. claims adjuster” (job) or “mr. man” (gender) are a normal nickname convention, so not it’s not conclusively his proper name
December 25, 2024 at 12:28 AM
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I knit scarves and dishcloths,
I can not read a pattern,
Crochet still evades me,
Might as well be Latin,
Every year I try it,
I read the dummy books,
But it confuses and befuddles,
I’m all thumbs and hooks.

#thingstowriteabout scarf
December 24, 2025 at 8:25 PM
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In the book’s discussion of the “rehoming” of adopted children we find, once again, the likening of adoptees to house pets.

Both domains share a vocabulary: #adoption, rescue, Gotcha Day, forever home, rehoming, etc.
December 24, 2025 at 8:14 PM
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sitting in a comfortable chair on Christmas Eve, drinking tea, reading about the overdiagnosis of adopted children with Reactive Attachment Disorder
December 24, 2025 at 7:52 PM
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Freida photoshop bonus content.

I posted this photo on my FB and a friend asked if they could submit it to a cat photoshopping group. Here are some of my favourites.

This first group is the fashion category.
December 24, 2025 at 8:04 PM
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The bug eyed,
And the scary,
The bald,
And very hairy,
Monster feet,
And reputation,
I have no nerves,
Or trepidation,
Under bed,
And in the books,
I won’t judge you,
By your looks.

#thingstowriteabout monster
December 23, 2025 at 9:43 PM
My neighbor can’t have candy and he just regifted me a box of Belgium chocolates. It’s the best chocolate I’ve ever tasted! It’s sooooo good omg

The brand is Deavas
Fresh Cream Belgium Chocolates, fair trade
December 23, 2025 at 8:54 PM
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I hate calling and speaking to humans for stuff, but it completely restores my faith in the process* when they’re genuinely helpful

*the process being human interaction
December 22, 2025 at 9:17 PM
I thought I’d let myself be messy but weirdly I’ve been doing more housework rather than less. It feels nice
December 22, 2025 at 6:16 AM
Taking the entire week off and it’s already been helping me process a backlog of thoughts and emotions. I’m going to have my life figured out by Friday then I’ll be unstoppable 🪄
December 22, 2025 at 6:14 AM
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Happy Winter Solstice! And now we turn back towards the light.
December 21, 2025 at 9:42 PM
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Me @ me
December 21, 2025 at 10:34 PM