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Holly Ross
@hollyross.bsky.social
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Singer-Songwriter | Music Industry Vet | Intellectual Property Paralegal | SF Girl | Very sweary | Disabled | Chronically illin’ | Wifey | Cat/Dog Mom | Queer 🏳️‍🌈 Bi+ 🏳️‍⚧️

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Holly Ross @hollyross.bsky.social · Nov 18
While this isn't my #firstpost, I saw folks introducing themselves, and I thought that was a good idea.

Hi! I'm Holly, ex-music biz, ex-intellectual property law, disabled, trying my hand at singing/songwriting. I am furious/scared about this incoming administration, but I will not lay down #resist
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terrymooreart.bsky.social
Happy Valentine's Day!
February 14, 2026 at 6:14 PM
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sicburns2.bsky.social
Say what you will about John Denver, once I heard Rocky Mountain High as a little kid that voice of his could sing any treacly garbage lyric in the world and still sound like a prayer to me #AT40
February 14, 2026 at 6:43 PM
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jewkrainian.bsky.social
that guy we all hate, looking like a thumb
February 14, 2026 at 7:26 PM
hollyross.bsky.social
Ed Sheeran creeps me out, and his face makes me sort of mad for reasons I can’t explain
February 14, 2026 at 5:45 AM
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uffdada.bsky.social
Quit trapping your thirsts. Sounds unhealthy.
February 12, 2026 at 8:19 PM
hollyross.bsky.social
Looking for a new therapist, and I’m a bit miffy that they don’t allow you to filter by:

Postmenopausal
✅ Yes
☑ No
February 12, 2026 at 2:58 AM
hollyross.bsky.social
Thong bodysuits, if you’re gonna ride all up in my junk like that, at least give me some clit stim, as opposed to rubbing my asshole raw.

#TallGirlProblems
February 12, 2026 at 2:18 AM
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imwintersmom.bsky.social
nothing makes you feel cooler than your jokes getting denied by a facebook mushroom club you joined solely so you could eventually post aggressive mycelium porn
February 11, 2026 at 8:48 PM
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ifuckedyr.mom
hey! you! look at this snail

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February 11, 2026 at 11:03 PM
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los-los.bsky.social
meetings would go smooth if these young bloods were raised to appreciate all of my 80s references
February 11, 2026 at 4:24 PM
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kmillz.lol
[flirting] wanna watch me eat all 20 inches of this ikea hot dog?
February 11, 2026 at 2:33 AM
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quinnleone.bsky.social
February 7, 2026 at 8:53 PM
hollyross.bsky.social
Pointelle is a beautiful name for a girl
February 11, 2026 at 3:06 AM
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bornmiserable.bsky.social
ATTENTION: inspired by @amybrown.xyz, the Please Ask Me About Gay shirt is out. 100% of the profits will be split among:

• National Center For Transgender Equality
• It Gets Better
• The Trevor Project
• National Queer and Trans Therapists of Color

bornmiserable.threadless.com/designs/plea...
Please Ask Me About Gay Men's T-Shirt | bornmiserable's shop of horrors
Please Ask Me About Gay on Men's T-Shirt – please ask me about gay. that's about it. inspired by a post on Bluesky by @amybrown.xyz.
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February 10, 2026 at 11:25 PM
hollyross.bsky.social
What is really going on with men right now? Here’s the hard truth most people don't want to talk about.

For the first time in modern history.

Women don’t need men to survive.

We can pay our own bills. Buy our own homes. Build our own careers. Raise our children.

So now?

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Men actually have to be good partners. Not just providers. Not just bodies in the household. Not just “I make the money so deal with it.” They have to be: Emotionally safe. Emotionally intelligent. Emotionally available. And a lot of men are…failing. For centuries, women stayed because we had to. Now we stay because we want to. And that changes everything. Here’s what the data shows: Divorce is decreasing for younger couples. Decreasing overall. But there’s ONE group where divorce is rising: Gray divorce. People 50+ Married 20–30+ years. And guess who’s filing? The Women. After decades. After kids & grandkids. After building a life. These women are walking away. Why? Because once women were allowed to: get a higher education, earn money, go to therapy, learn about mental & emotional health awareness. They realized: “I’ve been tolerating dysfunction for 30 years.” And now they’re done. Even the Gottman Institute, after 40+ years of scientific research, said something that shocks people: • The KEY predictor of relationship success or failure is the man’s behavior. Not money. Not looks. Not status. His behavior. But instead of therapy…Instead of counseling…Instead of growth… Where are many men going? To podcasts & rage influencers. Listening to: Andrew Tate, Kevin Samuels, Fresh and Fit & JustPearlyThings • Unmarried. Untrained. Unlicensed. No clinical background. No healthy marriages to model. • But plenty of blame & bitterness. Meanwhile? Healthy, happily married men get mocked as “simps.” Men like Russell Wilson - loyal, devoted & family-oriented - gets ridiculed. While dysfunctional men get defended. Make it make sense. Here’s the part nobody talks about: When women needed men economically…Men could get away with bad behavior. Now that women don’t need men. •Character matters. •Emotional maturity & intelligence matters •Kindness matters. •Accountability matters. And some men are collapsing without that old advantage & not becaus…
February 11, 2026 at 12:15 AM
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debbshock.blue
"impeach" was day one.

now I want to see that head roll like a bowling ball on live TV
February 9, 2026 at 4:01 PM
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augustreverie.bsky.social
A perk to having memory issues is forgetting wtf my problem was
February 9, 2026 at 11:50 PM
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strawbbjam.bsky.social
if ur gonna date a member of the male species just treat it like a science experiment so u don’t get disappointed. theyre only there to teach you about their kind so you can use it to your advantage in the future
February 6, 2026 at 4:17 PM
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butisitart.bsky.social
Fuck ironic detachment the time has come for earnest enthusiasm
January 31, 2026 at 5:59 PM
hollyross.bsky.social
Aw, ya’ll so sexy
February 8, 2026 at 4:33 AM
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hollyross.bsky.social
Pajama party, where my late night crew?
A portrait of a woman with long, wavy brunette hair and distinctive freckles across her nose and cheeks. She is wearing thick-rimmed, black rectangular glasses that reflect a circular light source. Her expression is a soft, slight smile with a warm lipstick shade. She is wearing a cream-colored, delicate patterned top and thin gold necklaces. The photo is taken from a high angle, with a soft purple and grey checkered background that suggests she is leaning back against pillows.
February 7, 2026 at 8:08 AM
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hollyross.bsky.social
My tuxie girl, Rhubarb, when she was wee 🖤 🤍
February 8, 2026 at 4:13 AM
hollyross.bsky.social
You’ve never been ignored the way a German Shepherd can ignore you

#CityDogFinn #CityDogAlice #GermanShepherds
Finn, a black German Shepherd, and Alice, a brindle Boxer-Shepherd mix, sit side-by-side on concrete stairs wearing colorful knit sweaters. Finn looks away to the left with his tongue slightly out, while Alice looks forward with a happy expression.
February 7, 2026 at 7:42 PM