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Grace Hill
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not as good as I once was, but sometimes as good once as I ever was
#actuallyautistic #audhd
parent, caregiver, spouse, wfh

📍 central Appalachia, because I'm too stubborn to leave

matriarch, [redacted]
I can forgive a lot, but setting a book in the USA and making attending college, student loans, and the US healthcare system key plot points without actually understanding how those work—DNF
November 11, 2025 at 4:59 AM
FFS, I don’t need or want a drug treatment for autism. Will these assholes never stop?

How about some money for motor coordination disorders? AAC? Caregivers?
November 11, 2025 at 4:25 AM
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I love a meme targeted for my demographic
Yup, pretty much sums it up
November 11, 2025 at 3:55 AM
got 1800 words in this evening, which was a better use of my time than doom scrolling, so there's that

are they *good* words? enh. but I'm about 10% into this one, and that's generally when the grind sets in. we'll see how I liked it when it's finished
November 11, 2025 at 3:20 AM
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I don’t have a whole lot of advice for people younger than me but the earlier in life you stop worrying about what other people will think and just wholeheartedly enjoy the stuff you like the happier you’ll be
One thing people kind of tell you, but not really, about middle age:

One day you'll be like "oh [thing] looks fun but people will think I'm a loser" about a thing

And then you'll say. Wait a second.

Fuck 'em
Darn Tough turned me on to Cute Socks and I've never looked back
November 11, 2025 at 1:24 AM
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November 11, 2025 at 1:07 AM
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One of the reasons Marie Kondo's advice made everyone mad in 2018-19 (Apart from Racism™️) was that for many, getting to a point where they can even feel joy takes +5 years of therapy and access to the good drugs.

Of course, Marie addresses this...🧵
November 10, 2025 at 3:05 PM
Case in point: “In 2023, there were 338 children delivered at GVMC. For comparison, in 2005, there were 557 children delivered at GVMC. But come April 2026, that number will drop to 0. “

From there, it’s an hour drive to the nearest hospital. A lot can happen in delivery in an hour.
November 11, 2025 at 12:59 AM
if I see one more smug person from flatlandia snark about zipper merging, I'm going to write them as a villain in my next fic
November 11, 2025 at 12:42 AM
love it when I subscribe to someone and I get a notification and they're using the title of some song and I'm like, "I see you out there, fellow Xennial, I see you."
November 11, 2025 at 12:33 AM
secret joy of running kids to activities: after I drop them off, I can turn up my music as loud as I want
November 10, 2025 at 10:30 PM
Great reporting here and a 🔥 quote:

"We're able to feed everybody that we can, but there is an end to that," he said. "We don't believe it's fair that we subsidize the government's failures."

mountainstatespotlight.org/2025/11/06/s...
November 10, 2025 at 3:02 PM
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Honestly these are the nights where it is the hardest to be here. I will keep yelling at Tommy Tuberville's voicemail because I'm a stubborn bitch, but I can't talk to the only people who might try to defend me, and when the dems cave they make it bad for their states but unlivable for ours.
November 9, 2025 at 10:31 PM
SNAP is a political football, but making sure the USA ate used to be a national security issue: "up to a quarter of draftees called up via the Selective Service Act of 1940 were malnourished and unfit to serve"

Today, we can't even see feeding people as being in the national interest.
November 9, 2025 at 11:50 PM
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“This out gay man who was sixteen years old and living in Indiana when Matthew Shepard was murdered used to wish he could be straight. This proves that he is homophobic.”

Do these people hear themselves?
November 9, 2025 at 7:39 PM
fanfic not beating the neurospicy allegations:

archive.transformativeworks.org/works/815610...
November 9, 2025 at 6:32 PM
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Time to offer my annual reminder that if you're looking for affordable entertainment over the holiday season and you live anywhere near a university campus, check their performance hall schedule. They typically have interesting items year round along with holiday shows.
November 9, 2025 at 5:55 PM
Not only is mine zero (I’m going to count just owning a series of boomboxes for 9), I’ll add “had a party line” for 19.
(i got a zero lolz)

THE FABULOUS WEIRD CHECKLIST
Give yourself I point for each thing you've NEVER done.
November 9, 2025 at 5:14 PM
I’m reading this self-published space opera, and every now and then something in it amuses me. Like this bit:
November 9, 2025 at 3:58 PM
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Shakespeare was in his bag when he wrote this play.

Plus you had two Goats 🐐 in it.
November 9, 2025 at 12:29 AM
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Lloyd Didcot, 32, took the unusual step to not carefully prepare a mental script for his coffee order last Friday and, subsequently, experienced the actual, literal torture of eternal damnation for about five minutes in his local Costa.
Autistic man neglects to plan conversation in advance, experiences literal Christian hell
An autistic man who routinely plans his conversations well in advance decided to ditch the habit of a lifetime “to see what it was like”, landing him in a Biblical underworld of Christian hell,…
thedailytism.com
November 9, 2025 at 2:31 PM
Took the kids out to dinner: ordered two appetizers, seven meals, and a shared dessert. For four people. They cleaned almost every plate. I didn’t even bring home leftovers. Teenagers, oof.
November 9, 2025 at 5:35 AM
Whenever I need to feel better about the USA, I think about this book and the hope in it.
November 8, 2025 at 9:20 PM
OP is correct: “why are people”

I just watched it last night, and if I had more time, I’d go back and watch it again and give it a point by point analysis of all of the gender references I see in it. Sweet baby papaws, a gender lens analysis of the last scene alone could fill a dissertation.
*whispers* It is a faithful adaptation of an early 1800s novel by a woman about an arrogant self centered man

Why are people
November 8, 2025 at 7:13 PM
McNeill's The Milkweed Ladies was the first piece of Appalachian literature that I purposely read as an adult, and it still has a special place in my heart.

upittpress.org/books/978082...
November 8, 2025 at 5:20 PM