Lydia Hekataia
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Lydia Hekataia
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uncanny forest entity in the form of a woman

she/fae/it
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life is short, let women drink your blood
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Guy says "you can totally run a murder mystery in D&D!" and then when asked how, they describe a freeform improv roleplay session where they occasionally randomly sat down to fight some monsters in empty square rooms (the only thing you actually do in D&D 5e) between events
Criticizing D&D for anything is the most frustrating thing in the world because talking to the system's ardent defenders is like talking to an insane person

"If you don't like it you can just houserule it to be different" Why would I not just? Play a different game?
November 27, 2025 at 7:20 PM
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The value of reading history is you know that in 1860 there were abolitionists who were so demoralized that they thought chattel slavery would be permanent. 5 years later those still alive had lived to see its end.
November 12, 2025 at 8:05 PM
got incorrectly reassessed by the CRA and they're claiming i owe them over $1.5k of my canada worker's benefit payments back, except i have clear evidence that they're wrong lmao.

wonder how many months it'll take to clear that up 🙄
November 12, 2025 at 12:29 AM
i think the people running the show believe they have reached a point where they have consolidated enough power that trump has outlived his usefulness and is only a hindrance to their further efforts. trump will be gone, the media will fall in line and say the vance admin should be given a chance.
October 19, 2025 at 3:24 AM
no kings seems to have no theory of change, just "if we get millions of people to call trump fat and gay the government will stop being mean"

"everyone is 12 now" theory remains undefeated
October 19, 2025 at 12:31 AM
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Oslo University Hospital caught using trans patients' journals for research purposes:
- Without the patients' consent to participate in research
- Affecting minors
- 1700 of them
- Taking highly sensitive information from said journals

This is a HUGE breach.
October 8, 2025 at 6:51 AM
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We really hit on something with the 12 year old theory of governance because that’s really the entire political project. It’s being 12 years old and not even normal 12 year olds but real pieces of shit 12 year olds
October 7, 2025 at 1:24 PM
can't wait for the "dismember 50 asari journalists" quest in mass effect 4: the war for neom
September 29, 2025 at 1:37 PM
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I have said many times, Sanderson is personally nice, but so what. Nice is cheap. He pumps money into a hate organization. That he can launder his own reputation effectively is the only think separating him from Rowling.
September 28, 2025 at 6:20 PM
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i DEEPLY hate the term. it's patronizing, it's a stupid euphemism, it plays into the transphobic notion that cis people are humoring us, it's epistemological oppression to avoid saying the word trans, 90% of the shit cis people do isn't called "gender affirming", etc

it's fucking trans healthcare.
high key i hate the term "gender affirming care"
September 26, 2025 at 3:09 AM
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*trans girl*: "so not only is a concept of gender as complex and diverse important, at a young age this can help develop theory of mind earlier and with increased empathy. The world would be a kinder place if we simply accepted that people are who they say they are."

*cis person*: "as a Hufflepuff
September 24, 2025 at 11:41 PM
unfortunately the current turn of events is pretty much ensuring the (already likely) outcome that fox news and the entire right wing propaganda industry is allowed to continue existing, if the current administration is removed.
September 18, 2025 at 7:45 PM
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I don't know if anyone else is seeing this happen but a fringe of cis women following the widespread "groyper" speculation around Charlie Kirk are basically True Crime-ifying trans women more generally, talking about "transmaxxing" (a phenomenon that has next to no substance to it as a real thing)..
September 18, 2025 at 1:44 AM
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They saw that there was no pushback (outside from by trans people online) to the way that they painted trans people as responsible for the shooting, and they realized that they don't have to actually stop- and that no one else is going to make them stop.
They're going to keep going until they get trans people killed. They want trans people murdered en mass.
September 14, 2025 at 10:30 PM
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society after forcing a generation of kids to grow up in Eldritch Horror Forest: i cant believe they roll their eyes whenever we freak out at pictures of eldritch horrors! whats wrong with them? whoever raised them must be so disappointed

yog’shohoth’athoth: *wiping eyes* those’re my girls!
September 12, 2025 at 8:10 PM
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It'd be nice if there was a moment of reflection from the many cis people who just witnessed the WSJ attempt to initiate a pogrom against trans Americans at the behest of a fascist influencer.

But I won't hold my breath.
September 12, 2025 at 7:41 PM
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This is simply untenable. There is no way forward with media and political classes captured by the right. Every time someone commits a crime you have to pray it's not an undesirable or it's purge time, then when it turns out to be themselves again they just shrug and wait for the next one.
September 12, 2025 at 7:55 PM
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There once was a man named Charlie
A who had many a Nazi rally
And on one of those days
While bashing the gays
He was given the result of his policy
September 11, 2025 at 3:15 AM
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Our politics seems to be entering a phase of "right supremacy" where only the lives of right-wingers have value. Assassinating the leader of a state legislative body in her own damn home was business as usual, but all of America has to have a reckoning if it's a far-right online influencer.
September 11, 2025 at 2:34 AM
RIP BOZO
September 10, 2025 at 7:47 PM
"kids today aren't prepared for the real world!!!"

sir, you want to ban them from reading the word "gay" in a non-derogatory context until they turn 16. you want to ban them from learning what sex is.
September 9, 2025 at 10:47 PM
a whole bunch of twitter right-wingers going inactive after the cables in the red sea getting cut is certainly not making me less confident that saudi arabia is a major player in the global fascist conspiracy, for the purpose of ensuring their continued profit from oil.
September 8, 2025 at 9:55 PM
funny how "we don't need a perfect candidate to win!" is always an argument in favour of running conservative candidates that alienate minorities, and never an argument in favour of running progressive candidates that alienate conservatives.
August 24, 2025 at 6:07 PM