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Eva wants more from life 🏳️‍⚧️(she/her)
@emcarlsen.bsky.social
GenX (52) trans woman trying to stay sane in the midst of madness. Landback. Abolish prisons. Defy your granfalloons. I post my wins.

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The first step was accepting that I was powerless over my gender identity and that my life had become unmanageable.

The second step was coming to believe that transition could restore me to sanity.

And it has.
I invited a handful of transfem friends over for dinner tonight, and everyone seemed to have a pretty good time. One of these days, I'll start to suspect that people actually like me.
November 11, 2025 at 7:08 AM
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We can't vote Schumer out until 2028 but we can make him being the senate majority leader a litmus test for 2026 candidates. Every single Dem senate candidate should be forced to go on the record and state they will not vote for him as majority leader.
November 10, 2025 at 4:17 AM
Gender is a performance and mine is They Live.
gender is a performance and mine is Waiting for Godot
gender is a performance and mine is a vaudeville variety show
November 9, 2025 at 1:58 AM
Yeah. I've had people who say they understand traumatic childhood absolutely shit themselves after one five minute story. I've seen therapists look like scared kittens. I had ulcers by the time I was 9. Rageaholics and covert narcissists make awful parents, especially for a trans girl in the 1970s.
Some of u guys act feral & edgy but then talk abt how u have loving & supporting parents & it’s like ok poser my culture not your costume
November 7, 2025 at 6:27 PM
Wtf are "biological pronouns"? Did I miss something?
November 7, 2025 at 4:09 AM
I passed my syphillis test today. I guess I'll need a new excuse for the dumb shit I do.
November 6, 2025 at 6:43 AM
I'm just sitting here munching on popcorn, watching the leopards eat each other's faces this morning.
November 5, 2025 at 6:45 PM
I live in a rural county an hour or so from Seattle. The county has 3 towns big enough to style themselves "cities," and I live in the smallest of them. This town has a reputation for being reactionary. There was a "concerned citizens group" who targeted a school board member who was not a ...
November 5, 2025 at 10:13 AM
Today, I voted and did about 2 hours of doordash driving, all the while wondering why my underwear felt less comfortable than usual. Then, while waiting for an order at Denny's, I went into the bathroom.

Turns out, I put my lace panties on backward this morning.
November 5, 2025 at 7:08 AM
I just met a very oblivious egg on Grindr tonight. I completely disregarded the egg prime directive.
November 4, 2025 at 6:24 AM
Would it count as crossdrrssing if I did an Angel Dust cosplay?
November 3, 2025 at 8:04 AM
I've been getting into Hazbin Hotel, and just got to tge Loser Baby song, and I'm laughing, crying and feeling called out.
NSFW
youtu.be/9sVoglgJjRg?...
Loser, Baby Sing-Along | Hazbin Hotel | Prime Video
YouTube video by Prime Video
youtu.be
November 1, 2025 at 7:42 PM
Seconded
Go fuck yourself
November 1, 2025 at 5:16 PM
Klingon punk singer: "Nazi Punks have no honor."
Klingon Top Gun pilot: "Today is a good day to do a fly-by."
Klingon Sylvester Stallone impersonater: "Today is a good day to Sly!"
October 31, 2025 at 5:24 AM
I applied for a new job today. Being underpaid for elder care is running out of charm.
October 27, 2025 at 7:21 PM
What's it like inside your head?
October 27, 2025 at 9:13 AM
Six seven is no soap, radio. Iykyk
October 27, 2025 at 7:31 AM
Ah, a hot poker for Kissinger's ass down in Hell. How lovely.
October 26, 2025 at 1:28 AM
The primary thing one can learn from history is that learning from history is rare.
Those who do learn from history are doomed to have people tell them they’re overreacting
Those who don’t learn from history are doomed to repeat it.
October 25, 2025 at 3:13 PM
So there is a downside to having a therapist who understands transgender & neurodivergence issues: they see through my self-deprecating bs and tell me I need to try to show myself the same grace I show my friends. It turns out, I'm far less cryptic & mysterious than I believed. Took only 3 visits. 😳
October 24, 2025 at 9:54 PM
I have a consult for my FFS in Seattle on December 5, in the morning, in Seattle. I also have a therapy appointment at noon. I'm hoping there is a kind and generous moot in the city who can provide me a mirror to do my makeup and a private space to do my telehealth therapy. I'll be very grateful.
October 23, 2025 at 7:15 PM
It turns out, I find thong underwear comfortable. That's unexpected.
October 23, 2025 at 7:16 AM
I'm really looking forward to the next Democratic administration naming it the Barack Obama Ballroom.
October 23, 2025 at 1:36 AM
How 'bout those Mariners?
October 21, 2025 at 3:09 AM
Am I the only one eager to see the Aussie Man reaction to this video?
#NoKings event in Fairhope, Al.
A woman was arrested for "lewd conduct" because she was dressed in penis suit with a sign that said "No dick-tator"
3 cops on a 53 yo woman.
October 19, 2025 at 7:21 AM