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she/they
really wish they would tbh
November 9, 2025 at 7:51 AM
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heads up to anyone who holds trans kids near: amy harmon from the nyt is searching for and having a hard time finding people to interview to find out exactly what trans kids are doing when their care is limited or cut off, and for purposes of community safety, please shut the fuck up around her.
November 5, 2025 at 8:54 PM
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A List of Things Said to Have Been Ruined by Women

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November 6, 2025 at 8:43 PM
It's just never not bedtime routine time 🫠☠️😭
November 5, 2025 at 11:57 PM
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Still waiting for the live cam of all the billionnaires packing up their NYC apartments to move to Ohio
November 5, 2025 at 3:40 AM
Okay we need to bring back parent shaming on instagram because what do you mean you tuck your baby in with blankets and stuffys?!?!?! Don't do that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Get a swaddle or sleep sack omg
November 5, 2025 at 5:35 AM
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From Evan: it's a huge night of hope for the trans community. The Republicans went all in on anti-trans ads in multiple races and so far there's no sign it got them anything.

Perhaps the page can be turned on blaming us for Harris' loss last year.
November 5, 2025 at 1:51 AM
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November 5, 2025 at 2:41 AM
we need to respect Jersey a tiny but more. Long Island has always been the real Jersey.
November 5, 2025 at 2:44 AM
the bubby told me "you're one of the reasons zohran won!" with the biggest smile and I know this sounds like a fake thing but I SWEAR she said I. I promised her I'd wake her up to tell her and she is the sweetest.
November 5, 2025 at 2:24 AM
2 million people in NYC about to lose SNAP, consider donating to Astoria Food Pantry
Donate Physical Items
Donate Food
www.astoriafoodpantry.com
October 31, 2025 at 1:11 AM
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October 30, 2025 at 2:46 AM
despite the sometimes exhausting mental (and physical) load, the day i no longer need to be doing kids clothing shopping/rotation/mending/replacing is going to be fucking dark
October 30, 2025 at 6:32 AM
damn instagram truly so toxic, you like a few baby memes and it starts shoving insane baby "facts" and "tips" down your throat. wild.
October 28, 2025 at 7:38 PM
I know the world is on fire and also it's 3 am but can I interest you in a conversation about the boy band to kpop choreography evolution and somehow I also make it about SOPHIE???
October 25, 2025 at 7:10 AM
I love it even more now
npr.org NPR @npr.org · Oct 25
Del Toro's new Frankenstein adaption reimagines Mary Shelley's 1818 Gothic novel. Frankenstein was like a tech bro: "creating something without considering the consequences," he explains. n.pr/3L5exuu
Filmmaker Guillermo del Toro says 'I'd rather die' than use generative AI
Del Toro's new Frankenstein adaption reimagines Mary Shelley's 1818 Gothic novel. Frankenstein was like a tech bro: "creating something without considering the consequences," he explains.
n.pr
October 25, 2025 at 6:30 AM
ya know I have been horrified by lots of the death of higher ed talk but when underfunded city school districts that compete with private schools etc have the guts not to fold over universities with BILLIONS in their endowments... yes to education but f these guys
The University of Virginia has capitulated to Trump on transgender and race (affirmative action) issues.

The details are currently sparse, but reporting suggests they've agreed to define trans people out of existence and ban trans students from facilities.
www.politico.com/news/2025/10...
October 23, 2025 at 2:28 AM
It's giving Mitchell's vs the machines
October 23, 2025 at 2:18 AM
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Cuomo can say Kościuszko but not Mamdani?
October 23, 2025 at 12:09 AM
Whatever, I feel uncomfortably seen by too much and I love it and it's hilarious. And honestly, Lena Dunham actually is a voice of a generation, and how frustrating she can be is part of what makes her truly a millennial icon. Cause we're a mess.
October 23, 2025 at 1:07 AM
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oooh. Bookmarking this! "How to turn off AI tools in Apple, Google, Microsoft, and more." Step-by-step instructions from Consumer Reports.
How to Turn Off AI Tools Like Gemini, Apple Intelligence, Copilot, and More via @ConsumerReports
AI features are crowding into Google search, Gmail, iPhones, Windows laptops, and other products. If you're suffering from AI overload, these settings can help.
www.consumerreports.org
October 15, 2025 at 8:53 PM
Tbh, sad if any TERFs are genuinely trying to engage with feminism (most aren't). One of the great feminist milestones of my life, an expansive moment when I knew & felt I was grappling with The Real Shit, was turning a critical eye to gender & looking outside instead of within its social frameworks
October 17, 2025 at 12:59 AM
Gotta feel SUPER confident that you're making the right choice if you feel the need to voluntarily offer suicide prevention services alongside it.
October 16, 2025 at 9:13 PM
I need to workshop my PTO bits because these entire thing is crazy. If we lived in a wealthier neighborhood there'd be an exposé in NY Mag or the Times guaranteed.
October 16, 2025 at 1:13 AM
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I just found out about Posting Through It a short while ago, and it's cemented itself as a must-listen podcast in just a few episodes.

The interview with @gbbranstetter.bsky.social last week was extraordinary. Gillian does a beautiful job of bringing clarity to the argument.
042: What Did Trans People Ever Do to You? feat. Gillian Branstetter
Podcast Episode · Posting Through It · 10/06/2025 · 1h 15m
podcasts.apple.com
October 13, 2025 at 1:28 PM