Aurelia
@casualgoddess.bsky.social
Lifestyle Domme ✨
Geeky Goddess ✨
Polyamorous, kinky, millennial, experienced in FLR and open to creating new connections
Geeky Goddess ✨
Polyamorous, kinky, millennial, experienced in FLR and open to creating new connections
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The way sex in my thirties has been the best I've been having in my life?????? But oh my god when I'm ovulating I feel like a succubus fresh from HELL and HUNGRY.
Nobody prepared me for my sex drive at 30
It's drastic, too. Women hit their peak in their 30s and it doesn't really drop off. Hormone changes, body trying to make a baby before times up, even having a clearer idea of what you enjoy and a higher probability of having experienced it by that point...30+ women (in general) be horny fam 🤷🏾♂️
December 13, 2024 at 5:36 PM
The way sex in my thirties has been the best I've been having in my life?????? But oh my god when I'm ovulating I feel like a succubus fresh from HELL and HUNGRY.
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This is just your reminder for various masc subs:
You are cool. You are going hard against a pile of heavily policed gender stereotypes about what men and masculinity is supposed to do. Accepting what you want is ok takes real courage, and is admirable.
You are cool. You are going hard against a pile of heavily policed gender stereotypes about what men and masculinity is supposed to do. Accepting what you want is ok takes real courage, and is admirable.
December 12, 2024 at 7:58 PM
This is just your reminder for various masc subs:
You are cool. You are going hard against a pile of heavily policed gender stereotypes about what men and masculinity is supposed to do. Accepting what you want is ok takes real courage, and is admirable.
You are cool. You are going hard against a pile of heavily policed gender stereotypes about what men and masculinity is supposed to do. Accepting what you want is ok takes real courage, and is admirable.
December 13, 2024 at 10:10 AM
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Are regular impact toys a little too firm for you? Maybe they're too dry, or not wriggly enough?
Or maybe, like me, your formative years were right in that period of time where people were getting slapped with fish on TV a lot?
Introducing the Catch of the Day.
www.funkittoys.com/product-page...
Or maybe, like me, your formative years were right in that period of time where people were getting slapped with fish on TV a lot?
Introducing the Catch of the Day.
www.funkittoys.com/product-page...
December 11, 2024 at 8:04 PM
Are regular impact toys a little too firm for you? Maybe they're too dry, or not wriggly enough?
Or maybe, like me, your formative years were right in that period of time where people were getting slapped with fish on TV a lot?
Introducing the Catch of the Day.
www.funkittoys.com/product-page...
Or maybe, like me, your formative years were right in that period of time where people were getting slapped with fish on TV a lot?
Introducing the Catch of the Day.
www.funkittoys.com/product-page...
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Mid-coitus I attempt to disarm her by letting out a Wilhelm Scream. Her parry is frame perfect, countering with the Goofy Yell, killing me instantly.
December 11, 2024 at 6:32 AM
Mid-coitus I attempt to disarm her by letting out a Wilhelm Scream. Her parry is frame perfect, countering with the Goofy Yell, killing me instantly.
Another great quick-play daily challenge puzzle (this one for visual pattern recognition) is based on the card game SET. It was also a NYT daily game years ago, but is now on the game company's website.
SET is one of the few games where I get extremely competitive IRL 😈
www.setgame.com/set/puzzle
SET is one of the few games where I get extremely competitive IRL 😈
www.setgame.com/set/puzzle
December 11, 2024 at 7:28 AM
Another great quick-play daily challenge puzzle (this one for visual pattern recognition) is based on the card game SET. It was also a NYT daily game years ago, but is now on the game company's website.
SET is one of the few games where I get extremely competitive IRL 😈
www.setgame.com/set/puzzle
SET is one of the few games where I get extremely competitive IRL 😈
www.setgame.com/set/puzzle
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Getting to explore dark fantasies and demand suffering is great, but also making my sub call me a comedic genius every time I tell a terrible joke is pretty great too.
December 6, 2024 at 8:33 PM
Getting to explore dark fantasies and demand suffering is great, but also making my sub call me a comedic genius every time I tell a terrible joke is pretty great too.
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As soon as I realized that Worf's journey through TNG and DS9 is often about struggling against the fallout of generational trauma I became a lot more sympathetic to how messy that grumpy bitch's problem solving skills need to be.
December 10, 2024 at 10:39 AM
As soon as I realized that Worf's journey through TNG and DS9 is often about struggling against the fallout of generational trauma I became a lot more sympathetic to how messy that grumpy bitch's problem solving skills need to be.
Everyone's a sucker for eyes 👁️👁️
Quote skeet yours 💖
Quote skeet yours 💖
December 10, 2024 at 9:20 AM
Everyone's a sucker for eyes 👁️👁️
Quote skeet yours 💖
Quote skeet yours 💖
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We get to say "no." Even if it's awkward. Even if we think we should soften it with a "maybe." (If it's a "no," we're not doing anyone any favors by calling it a "maybe.")
"No" is not a dirty word. Neither are "not anymore," "not ever again," or "I changed my mind."
"No" is not a dirty word. Neither are "not anymore," "not ever again," or "I changed my mind."
December 6, 2024 at 10:36 PM
We get to say "no." Even if it's awkward. Even if we think we should soften it with a "maybe." (If it's a "no," we're not doing anyone any favors by calling it a "maybe.")
"No" is not a dirty word. Neither are "not anymore," "not ever again," or "I changed my mind."
"No" is not a dirty word. Neither are "not anymore," "not ever again," or "I changed my mind."
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Zeldalike where the final boss has a separate phase with the mechanics of every dorky little minigame you've played up to that point, reskinned as part of an epic battle for the fate of the world. Fishing minigame phase. Digging minigame phase. Cooking minigame phase. Fashion contest minigame phase.
December 10, 2024 at 7:00 AM
Zeldalike where the final boss has a separate phase with the mechanics of every dorky little minigame you've played up to that point, reskinned as part of an epic battle for the fate of the world. Fishing minigame phase. Digging minigame phase. Cooking minigame phase. Fashion contest minigame phase.
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A male dom? You mean a Histress?
December 9, 2024 at 9:17 PM
A male dom? You mean a Histress?
Dominant women are people first and foremost. If you want a relationship, female-lead or otherwise, a lot of the same skills and efforts apply.
It's not hard to stand out as a submissive guy if you're genuinely putting the person before the kink. That's why "go meet people in real life" is FLR 101
It's not hard to stand out as a submissive guy if you're genuinely putting the person before the kink. That's why "go meet people in real life" is FLR 101
When I came out of the closet and decided to try F/m dating, I was *deathly* afraid I’d find no one and end up alone.
That turned out not to be the case *at all*. I found the very most fabulous people in my life and we fell in lust and love.
Maybe I was strategic, maybe I was lucky. But in +
That turned out not to be the case *at all*. I found the very most fabulous people in my life and we fell in lust and love.
Maybe I was strategic, maybe I was lucky. But in +
December 10, 2024 at 7:59 AM
Dominant women are people first and foremost. If you want a relationship, female-lead or otherwise, a lot of the same skills and efforts apply.
It's not hard to stand out as a submissive guy if you're genuinely putting the person before the kink. That's why "go meet people in real life" is FLR 101
It's not hard to stand out as a submissive guy if you're genuinely putting the person before the kink. That's why "go meet people in real life" is FLR 101
I tried to look at/most likely buy someone's advertised bundle offer on @itch.io just a little while ago and assumed the site was having temporary issues.
This is absolutely ridiculous behavior. Shame on you, Funko, and shame on the registrar.
This is absolutely ridiculous behavior. Shame on you, Funko, and shame on the registrar.
I kid you not, @itch.io has been taken down by Funko of "Funko Pop" because they use some trash "AI Powered" Brand Protection Software called Brand Shield that created some bogus Phishing report to our registrar, iwantmyname, who ignored our response and just disabled the domain
December 9, 2024 at 8:54 AM
I tried to look at/most likely buy someone's advertised bundle offer on @itch.io just a little while ago and assumed the site was having temporary issues.
This is absolutely ridiculous behavior. Shame on you, Funko, and shame on the registrar.
This is absolutely ridiculous behavior. Shame on you, Funko, and shame on the registrar.
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Leaving a bag of monopoly money near your murder scene and watching the cops fail to find it for three whole days while following an unrelated bike is what being a D&D DM is like
December 8, 2024 at 1:57 AM
Leaving a bag of monopoly money near your murder scene and watching the cops fail to find it for three whole days while following an unrelated bike is what being a D&D DM is like
When I think about "earning" submission, this is a core part - I am open with who I am; how I approach leading, learning, & kink; and why I decide what I decide for U/us.
The end goal is for you to question your way into genuinely trusting my motives, ability & judgement in leadership.
#flr #BDSM
The end goal is for you to question your way into genuinely trusting my motives, ability & judgement in leadership.
#flr #BDSM
Picard management tip: Question authority, and permit others to question yours without fear of punishment.
December 8, 2024 at 5:24 PM
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I've a whole rant about the way we treat submission as a passive process by default, but the TL;DR is making you comfortable is the skill on the sub side.
It's the same paradox of a good sex partner caring about your orgasms, but not getting weirdly demanding you have one to prove they are good.
It's the same paradox of a good sex partner caring about your orgasms, but not getting weirdly demanding you have one to prove they are good.
December 8, 2024 at 1:50 PM
I've a whole rant about the way we treat submission as a passive process by default, but the TL;DR is making you comfortable is the skill on the sub side.
It's the same paradox of a good sex partner caring about your orgasms, but not getting weirdly demanding you have one to prove they are good.
It's the same paradox of a good sex partner caring about your orgasms, but not getting weirdly demanding you have one to prove they are good.
Once you spend too much time in "what are my options?" it can feel very unnatural to try and answer an open-ended "what do I actually want?"
December 8, 2024 at 11:05 AM
Once you spend too much time in "what are my options?" it can feel very unnatural to try and answer an open-ended "what do I actually want?"
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i started watching sailor moon and i gotta say i love how every episode so far is like “hey has a big new fancy business opened in town? well theyre probably a bunch of monsters plotting to slowly kill you and everyone you love so some pretentious dickhead can get rich or smth”
December 8, 2024 at 5:22 AM
i started watching sailor moon and i gotta say i love how every episode so far is like “hey has a big new fancy business opened in town? well theyre probably a bunch of monsters plotting to slowly kill you and everyone you love so some pretentious dickhead can get rich or smth”
Yeeeessss! 😍 When I watch media where someone is clearly gathering a roster of Key Allies my mind still goes to "Ah yes, star of destiny aquired."
This game had me in a chokehold for two years. Best JRPG of all time.
#blackskyover30 𑁍 #blackskygamers
#blackskyover30 𑁍 #blackskygamers
December 8, 2024 at 7:50 AM
Yeeeessss! 😍 When I watch media where someone is clearly gathering a roster of Key Allies my mind still goes to "Ah yes, star of destiny aquired."
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Message of the day.
Therapy works. Your therapist just sucked. Go back.
Therapy works. Your therapist just sucked. Go back.
December 7, 2024 at 5:07 PM
Message of the day.
Therapy works. Your therapist just sucked. Go back.
Therapy works. Your therapist just sucked. Go back.
One of main things I love about kink is exploring devotion and romance concepts that tend to be dark or toxic in situations where there isn't mutual awareness, accountability, and consistent prioritization of actual informed consent.
What being "Mine" means is something we get to define together. 💜
What being "Mine" means is something we get to define together. 💜
"I will do anything for you"
"I will protect you"
"I will suffer for you"
"I will guide you through life"
"I will be unceasingly loyal to you"
These are all common tropes in power exchange, and also some of the romantic things we could say to each other, kinky or vanilla.
Kink is romantic.
"I will protect you"
"I will suffer for you"
"I will guide you through life"
"I will be unceasingly loyal to you"
These are all common tropes in power exchange, and also some of the romantic things we could say to each other, kinky or vanilla.
Kink is romantic.
December 7, 2024 at 11:33 AM
One of main things I love about kink is exploring devotion and romance concepts that tend to be dark or toxic in situations where there isn't mutual awareness, accountability, and consistent prioritization of actual informed consent.
What being "Mine" means is something we get to define together. 💜
What being "Mine" means is something we get to define together. 💜