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B. A. Balfour
@ashadeferal.bsky.social
Bookish orc girl
My dog’s emotional support animal
British against my will
Bigender (She/Her)
Fibromyalgia combatant. Original posts can be infrequent at times

pfp by SPiNDLE https://bsky.app/profile/aidenr0.bsky.social
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Y'all i got a stupid ticket like an idiot but I still have to pay my bills and stuff. If you can afford to pick up a comm this month, you'd make my day. Here are some samples <3

#artist #artsky #commsopen
November 20, 2025 at 2:14 PM
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You are safe to clock me. I'd actually hate it if another trans person noticed that I was trans and decided *not* to talk to me for that reason. I want my people to notice me. Reskeet this if you're proudly and gladly clocked.
November 19, 2025 at 6:35 PM
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The debate over whether this is 'fascism' is a silly semantic one in which a small minority mean 'completed fascist authoritarianism' and the vast majority mean 'the people in power say and do things that demonstrate completed fascist authoritarianism is what they want to achieve.'
November 17, 2025 at 9:06 AM
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NEW: Epstein survivors release the most powerful PSA I have ever seen.

Make this go viral so every member of the House of Representatives sees it.
November 16, 2025 at 11:43 PM
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There is a trend of video game narratives where women are prominent to be overly focused on motherhood and the 'natural' nurturing urges we're all supposed to harbor. It happens even when the woman in question wears power armor and blasts aliens with a giant arm cannon.
The entire fandom’s (and Retro Studios) initial assumption: “Oh she hunts down the baddest monsters in the galaxy and gets paid for it, right?”

Nintendo: “What? No. She’s like humanity’s motherly guardian. What are you talking about.”

www.nintendolife.com/news/2022/04...
November 16, 2025 at 6:18 AM
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Rejoice, 'tis the day of my birth! I shall partake in the tradition of humbly asking celebratory reblogs of mine art 😌🎨
November 9, 2025 at 8:17 AM
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If you love someone, tell them.

If you miss someone, reach out.

If you can spend time together, do it.

One day, you’ll wish you had more of those moments.
November 8, 2025 at 2:17 PM
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Been a while since i shared my trans & non binary starter pack
Help out by reposting to give some creators and businesses a boost 💙
Trans people are doing it tough so this helps lots
go.bsky.app/4DUhFUd
November 8, 2025 at 5:13 AM
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#SelfPromoSaturday time once again!
Show off your artwork, TTRPG projects, sale, rpg kickstarter or anything you're proud of!

- No GenAI/Tech bro stuff (blocked if you do)
- Like and share
- NSFW = OK but hide/spoiler/etc it!
- Alt-text as much as possible please!
a cartoon says show me what you got with skulls flying around
Alt: a cartoon floating head from "rick and morty" says show me what you got with skulls flying around
media.tenor.com
November 8, 2025 at 7:34 AM
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For some reason the media is not mentioning that the reason GTA6 is being delayed is they fired 40 staff over threats of unionization and now the rest of their staff are revolting
November 6, 2025 at 9:21 PM
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After hundreds of hours of reading and research, my 2025 Starter Guide to transfeminine literature is finally live!

No matter your experience level, there's a book for you! 🏳️‍⚧️📚 #transbooks

The list covers a vast range of genres. There are 78 handcrafted recs on this list, and I've read all but two.
Start Here (2025 Edition)
Are you questioning your gender and searching for fiction that’ll help you figure out what a transition might look like? Are you a trans woman or a femmeby who’s never seen herself on the tradition…
thetransfemininereview.com
November 7, 2025 at 2:11 AM
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The full weight of western capitalism is about to laser focus on NYC. The robber barons failed to win and will panic. They will sabotage NYC because the system cannot allow Mamdani's term to be successful. They cannot allow people to believe things can be better. Your job now is to hold the line.
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November 5, 2025 at 6:05 AM
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i've decided to just start outright lying whenever i want to talk about work, but a different lie every time. things at the auto body shop are going great. i love my job selling vacuums door to door. being a shepherd in the himalayas really suits me
November 4, 2025 at 2:02 PM
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There’s no such thing as the “genuinely disabled”

Disability is dynamic

Some disabilities are invisible. Some change day to day

You won’t always know a person is disabled unless they tell you

It’s a minority group you can join at any time, not a moral failing.
October 30, 2025 at 5:38 AM
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not many birds tonight but my favorite type of lighting
October 24, 2025 at 8:05 PM
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To celebrate #asexualawarenessweek I'm hosting an aspec #artshare

🟣 Aspec ppl: Share this post & comment with your art, all forms welcome (NO AI)
BONUS if it includes aspec characters!
🟣 Non-aspec ppl: Share this post and discover some amazing artists
🟣 Like/share/comment on others

And have fun!!
a hand holds a small asexual flag on a purple background
ALT: a hand holds a small asexual flag on a purple background
media.tenor.com
October 22, 2025 at 7:39 PM
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Apropos of nothing: It is vitally important to always have a person in your life that will not hesitate to, honestly and kindly, tell you when you are completely full of shit.
October 22, 2025 at 1:27 PM
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What’s your favorite media by trans artists? The weirder and more niche the better. I want suggestions!
October 22, 2025 at 8:10 AM
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Nothin else for it
October 20, 2025 at 4:02 PM
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Brb just writing a screenplay about a struggling inflatable costume factory in a wholesome but dying American small town that unexpectedly helps save democracy, and democracy saves it right back.
October 18, 2025 at 6:28 PM
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Its my birthday!!! As is bsky tradition, I would be so appreciative if people would share some of my art to help celebrate!! 🥳🎉
October 18, 2025 at 7:02 AM
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Satoshi Kon would have turned 62 today ;_;
Fanart by Jinou (x.com/Jinou_rakugaki)
October 12, 2025 at 7:46 PM
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weirdo sexologists would rather invent elaborate lore on the corrupting influence of crossdressing than apply "sometimes topics of deep shame are sexualized as a coping mechanism" to trans women in line with how it works for everyone else
October 12, 2025 at 4:59 PM
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October 11, 2025 at 4:37 PM
@keezyyoung.bsky.social I just finished Sunflowers. I think it might be the thing I now share with loved ones to help them understand what it’s like on an emotional level.

It’s one of few pieces of media that have helped me feel less alone in my experiences. Thanks for making it 💚
October 9, 2025 at 9:54 PM