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🏳️‍🌈Gosh Darnit of the New Jersey Darnits😷
@goshdarn.bsky.social
parent. internet crank. autistic. future ghost. artist when my kid gets distracted. I may own 80 Cats in a Dog Suit. they/them. lesbian.
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There's a lot of new followers here, so let me reintroduce myself.

I'm Seamus/Shea a trans masc non-binary, autistic parent of an autistic young man. We live with his prescribed orange emotional support cat, Professor Pumpkin Cat and a supernatural nuisance we call The Shadow Thing.
The ex called. His stepdaughter keeps throwing a fever, and now him and his wife are getting sick.

Agent K has been a snot factory all day, and I'm starting to feel like crap myself.

So... it sounds like something went around their Christmas party, and it's finally hitting everyone.
January 3, 2026 at 2:58 AM
Agent K has stopped wearing his Santa hat, but hasn't gone back to his Pac-Man baseball cap.

Time to see if I can convince him to wear a winter hat.
January 2, 2026 at 2:08 PM
I've been sniffing all weekend and K came home congested. We just took some vitamin C powder and zinc capsules.

From now until February, I'll also be sleeping propped up almost sitting straight.
January 2, 2026 at 2:48 AM
It just struck me that this is the first holiday season since we divorced that I didn't have to block Nick for his abusive calls and texts, and force him to put everything in writing via email.
January 2, 2026 at 2:35 AM
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Mayor Mamdani has nullified every executive order issued by Eric Adams after he struck his corrupt bargain with Trump to secure dismissal of the indictment against him.
January 1, 2026 at 10:58 PM
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Reminder that free will exists and New Year’s resolutions don’t have to suck. Resolve to eat every kind of cheese, pet every dog you see, resolve to take pictures of clouds and look up what you see. No one needs to be a “better version of themselves” when they can visit every local brewery.
January 1, 2026 at 11:21 PM
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January 1, 2026 at 7:10 PM
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it doesn't have to be on a big day, but you can still pick today to not drink💜
January 1, 2026 at 7:40 PM
My New Years wish is to see more art in person.
January 1, 2026 at 7:41 PM
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I hope 2026 is kind to us all
January 1, 2026 at 4:09 PM
I've yet to watch the Boy Aquarium show, but I've put it behind the Hive Mind horror show.
January 1, 2026 at 7:38 PM
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happy birthday horses
January 1, 2026 at 6:50 PM
I had insomnia last night and couldn't sleep until 4 AM. Woke at 8 AM for some water and went back to sleep, and then woke at noon.

I feel really well rested, but lost half the day.

Gonna take down the tree before Agent K comes home today.
January 1, 2026 at 7:34 PM
Oddly enough the Stranger Things finale gave a totally 80s movie ending. I'm just glad Netflix stayed the course and didn't cancel it after two seasons.

Maybe now they can pour that production budget back into their other shows and give us some seasons three or four.
January 1, 2026 at 5:54 AM
When you watch the ball drop, just know all those people crammed together are wearing adult diapers and they either smell of urine or urine and shit.
January 1, 2026 at 2:33 AM
I have such a craving for tomato, cucumber, and red onion salad with feta cheese and black olives.

I should have picked some up while I was out and still had money.

I just want cold salad for dinner.
January 1, 2026 at 12:44 AM
First time I've seen a sugar free Valentines candy heart box. Seen at Walmart.
December 31, 2025 at 6:51 PM
BJs was as crowded and awful as expected.
December 31, 2025 at 5:47 PM
December 31, 2025 at 4:03 PM
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I’ve spent this morning morbidly watching the MTV channels close down and the final songs played were:
MTV Music - Video Killed the Radio Star (Buggles)
Club MTV - Don’t Stop the Music (Rihanna)
MTV 90s - Goodbye (Spice Girls)
MTV 80s - Together in Electric Dreams (Oakey and Moroder)
December 31, 2025 at 10:34 AM
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Are you a fan of trans journalism? Are you an enjoyer of ranked lists? If you are either of those things, or both, we've got the end of year feature for you.

Read our list of the best ten and worst five examples of journalism on trans issues of 2025.

www.assignedmedia.org/breaking-new...
The Ten Best (and Five Worst) Pieces of Trans Journalism of 2025 — Assigned
The trans community has been plagued with a surplus of news in 2025. Here’s Assigned Media’s list of the best and worst of journalism on this beat.
www.assignedmedia.org
December 16, 2025 at 11:41 AM
New Shadow Thing incident. 👻 Pretty mild interaction.
Shadow Thing incident.

I glanced in the full length mirror and was like, "What's that long white hair by my ear?" It was my hearing aid wire.
December 30, 2025 at 7:24 PM
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There are steps outlined on the linked page but they do require effort, access, and advance planning. Just wanted to emphasize that this will also apply to things like medical appeals that use a postmark date.
Relevant to anyone who sends time-sensitive payments, taxes, legal documents, or ballots through the U.S. Postal Service: the USPS has changed its rules for postmarking mail; postmark date might be days later than actual date of mailing, unless customers take specific steps: nstp.org/article/usps...
USPS Announces Changes to the Postmark Date System
The United States Postal Service (USPS) has adopted a final rule (FR Doc.
nstp.org
December 30, 2025 at 1:36 PM
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Timeline cleanse.
December 29, 2025 at 8:26 PM