Toni Widmo
@chaoshex.net
Enby Trans Woman (She/Zi/Fae) 🏳️⚧️ (HRT 2021/12/23)
Techie (Linux, Web, Full Stack, APIs)
Acolyte of 𒀭Inanna-Ishtar
Writer
Scottish Highlands 🏴
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https://bio.site/toniwidmo
https://chaoshex.net
Techie (Linux, Web, Full Stack, APIs)
Acolyte of 𒀭Inanna-Ishtar
Writer
Scottish Highlands 🏴
#TransWitchReacts
https://bio.site/toniwidmo
https://chaoshex.net
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Toni Widmo
@chaoshex.net
· Dec 4
bsky.app
Hi I am Toni, a trans woman living in Scotland.
This is my main account. I also have:
A nsfw account: @tastytoni.bsky.social
An enby spouse: @danawidmo.bsky.social
A trans domme: @gothcinnamonroll.bsky.social
A patreon: patreon.com/toniwidmo
A wonderful enby kid.
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This is my main account. I also have:
A nsfw account: @tastytoni.bsky.social
An enby spouse: @danawidmo.bsky.social
A trans domme: @gothcinnamonroll.bsky.social
A patreon: patreon.com/toniwidmo
A wonderful enby kid.
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51/ The EHRC Chief Executive, John Kirkpatrick, gave written evidence that it took less than a day to draft the guidance, and just over 24 hours in total to decide to publish it.
November 12, 2025 at 8:12 PM
51/ The EHRC Chief Executive, John Kirkpatrick, gave written evidence that it took less than a day to draft the guidance, and just over 24 hours in total to decide to publish it.
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JD Vance and RFK Jr won't rest until EVERYBODY in the USA has a headache.
JD Vance calls ibuprofen "useless medication" and implies it's not "necessary, safe and effective."
November 12, 2025 at 10:38 PM
JD Vance and RFK Jr won't rest until EVERYBODY in the USA has a headache.
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jennifer tilted her head back, tapping a finger on her chin, “if i learned anything from my own major medical event, its that no one in their right mind would interact with the medical system unless they needed to. so anyone willing to dive headfirst into it in order to transition must need to.”
October 7, 2025 at 7:50 AM
jennifer tilted her head back, tapping a finger on her chin, “if i learned anything from my own major medical event, its that no one in their right mind would interact with the medical system unless they needed to. so anyone willing to dive headfirst into it in order to transition must need to.”
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This would explain *a lot*
Mum clearly thinks social media transed her kid, and if she wasn't trans she wouldnt have been murdered in cold blood, so social media is to blame.
Smh
Mum clearly thinks social media transed her kid, and if she wasn't trans she wouldnt have been murdered in cold blood, so social media is to blame.
Smh
November 10, 2025 at 12:22 PM
This would explain *a lot*
Mum clearly thinks social media transed her kid, and if she wasn't trans she wouldnt have been murdered in cold blood, so social media is to blame.
Smh
Mum clearly thinks social media transed her kid, and if she wasn't trans she wouldnt have been murdered in cold blood, so social media is to blame.
Smh
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So does this mean content discussing authoritarianism is not allowed on Bluesky, and accounts can be banned for that?
Because that’s what it sounds like.
Because that’s what it sounds like.
False attribution. If a person is suspended it is because of their identity? Could it not be because of their content? I wrote about it here aaron.leaflet.pub/3m52nqqmk322v
Moderating With Humans, For Humans - Trust Issues
aaron.leaflet.pub
November 11, 2025 at 7:46 PM
So does this mean content discussing authoritarianism is not allowed on Bluesky, and accounts can be banned for that?
Because that’s what it sounds like.
Because that’s what it sounds like.
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Her mother misgenders her on the regular. That is insulting to her memory.
November 10, 2025 at 6:23 PM
Her mother misgenders her on the regular. That is insulting to her memory.
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Is there some other implication here than "The phone turned my child trans?"
Do you understand why that might enrage a population that has been under constant assault in this country for years?
Do you understand why that might enrage a population that has been under constant assault in this country for years?
November 10, 2025 at 6:42 PM
Is there some other implication here than "The phone turned my child trans?"
Do you understand why that might enrage a population that has been under constant assault in this country for years?
Do you understand why that might enrage a population that has been under constant assault in this country for years?
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Duffield has been involved with anti-phone campaigns for a while because they have been pushed by the right wing think tanks she's affiliated with *because of her transphobia*. I would please ask you think why these people are pushing so hard on this issue right now.
November 10, 2025 at 5:54 PM
Duffield has been involved with anti-phone campaigns for a while because they have been pushed by the right wing think tanks she's affiliated with *because of her transphobia*. I would please ask you think why these people are pushing so hard on this issue right now.
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Very convenient to be able to shove the transphobia that got this girl killed under the carpet and blame phones instead and be able to deny any criticism like that
Maybe Esther doesn’t think its insulting, but its rubbing salt in the wound to the whole trans community
Maybe Esther doesn’t think its insulting, but its rubbing salt in the wound to the whole trans community
November 10, 2025 at 6:48 PM
Very convenient to be able to shove the transphobia that got this girl killed under the carpet and blame phones instead and be able to deny any criticism like that
Maybe Esther doesn’t think its insulting, but its rubbing salt in the wound to the whole trans community
Maybe Esther doesn’t think its insulting, but its rubbing salt in the wound to the whole trans community
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It is deeply insulting to Brianna Ghey's memory to pretend that a campaign backed by the likes of Rosie Duffield is doing anything to help children like her.
We've seen her reaction to a trans person discussing their suicidal ideation.
We've seen her reaction to a trans person discussing their suicidal ideation.
When Rosie Duffield is in on it I think we can safely say the anti-phone campaign in Brianna's name is actively at odds with tackling transphobia
November 10, 2025 at 5:17 PM
It is deeply insulting to Brianna Ghey's memory to pretend that a campaign backed by the likes of Rosie Duffield is doing anything to help children like her.
We've seen her reaction to a trans person discussing their suicidal ideation.
We've seen her reaction to a trans person discussing their suicidal ideation.
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By reading the news and watching the BBC, by listening to the Prime Minister and his cabinet...
Social media helps children like Brianna find community and somewhere they can be themselves. One of her classmates killed her.
This does not help children, it isolates them from support.
Social media helps children like Brianna find community and somewhere they can be themselves. One of her classmates killed her.
This does not help children, it isolates them from support.
November 10, 2025 at 5:11 PM
By reading the news and watching the BBC, by listening to the Prime Minister and his cabinet...
Social media helps children like Brianna find community and somewhere they can be themselves. One of her classmates killed her.
This does not help children, it isolates them from support.
Social media helps children like Brianna find community and somewhere they can be themselves. One of her classmates killed her.
This does not help children, it isolates them from support.
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Another alliance between Trump and Putin - and Farage and Johnson back chanting in unison with the Russian Embassy. Just like old times!
November 11, 2025 at 1:21 PM
Another alliance between Trump and Putin - and Farage and Johnson back chanting in unison with the Russian Embassy. Just like old times!
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Finished the article and it gets worse (if that was possible).
"This person only transitioned AFTER they went to [presumably WOKE] university..."
Gosh, wonder why they had to wait until leaving what sounds like a wonderfully supportive home to be their true selves... *sigh*
"This person only transitioned AFTER they went to [presumably WOKE] university..."
Gosh, wonder why they had to wait until leaving what sounds like a wonderfully supportive home to be their true selves... *sigh*
February 27, 2025 at 10:42 AM
Finished the article and it gets worse (if that was possible).
"This person only transitioned AFTER they went to [presumably WOKE] university..."
Gosh, wonder why they had to wait until leaving what sounds like a wonderfully supportive home to be their true selves... *sigh*
"This person only transitioned AFTER they went to [presumably WOKE] university..."
Gosh, wonder why they had to wait until leaving what sounds like a wonderfully supportive home to be their true selves... *sigh*
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Read half the article and then had to stop as I wanted to smash things.
The young person in question has been out with their gender identity since they were 15. Their top surgery was when they were 24.
Yet every step of the way their TERF mother was "shocked and surprised." Not supportive at all.
The young person in question has been out with their gender identity since they were 15. Their top surgery was when they were 24.
Yet every step of the way their TERF mother was "shocked and surprised." Not supportive at all.
February 27, 2025 at 9:47 AM
Read half the article and then had to stop as I wanted to smash things.
The young person in question has been out with their gender identity since they were 15. Their top surgery was when they were 24.
Yet every step of the way their TERF mother was "shocked and surprised." Not supportive at all.
The young person in question has been out with their gender identity since they were 15. Their top surgery was when they were 24.
Yet every step of the way their TERF mother was "shocked and surprised." Not supportive at all.
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Plus the usual crap like implying that doctors don't know what they're doing and that a physical fix can't be the solution to "psychological distress"
The alternative, of course which they're hinting at but too cowardly to name, is psychological treatment, AKA conversion "therapy" AKA Torture.
The alternative, of course which they're hinting at but too cowardly to name, is psychological treatment, AKA conversion "therapy" AKA Torture.
February 27, 2025 at 9:49 AM
Plus the usual crap like implying that doctors don't know what they're doing and that a physical fix can't be the solution to "psychological distress"
The alternative, of course which they're hinting at but too cowardly to name, is psychological treatment, AKA conversion "therapy" AKA Torture.
The alternative, of course which they're hinting at but too cowardly to name, is psychological treatment, AKA conversion "therapy" AKA Torture.
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Not a single word, of course, from the _adults_ whose bodies are being discussed in such a disgusting manner.
I'm not surprised that at least one of the them has gone no contact. These parents have failed at the most basic level of parenting. They can't even tolerate their kids, let alone love them
I'm not surprised that at least one of the them has gone no contact. These parents have failed at the most basic level of parenting. They can't even tolerate their kids, let alone love them
February 27, 2025 at 9:49 AM
Not a single word, of course, from the _adults_ whose bodies are being discussed in such a disgusting manner.
I'm not surprised that at least one of the them has gone no contact. These parents have failed at the most basic level of parenting. They can't even tolerate their kids, let alone love them
I'm not surprised that at least one of the them has gone no contact. These parents have failed at the most basic level of parenting. They can't even tolerate their kids, let alone love them
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And of course the Mail neglects to mention that nearly 100% of those who transition are happy with their decision.
They literally want trans people to be unhappy, many to the point of suicide.
They literally want trans people to be unhappy, many to the point of suicide.
February 27, 2025 at 11:33 AM
And of course the Mail neglects to mention that nearly 100% of those who transition are happy with their decision.
They literally want trans people to be unhappy, many to the point of suicide.
They literally want trans people to be unhappy, many to the point of suicide.
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"Healthy breasts" [Mail]
One of the 'girls' mentioned here is 24. Another is 22. Another is 21.
The mother of the 24yo is 'livid' and discusses where they would have 'discarded' these breasts. Doesn't seem to care her child is happy.
They're all referred to as 'daughters' and 'her'.
One of the 'girls' mentioned here is 24. Another is 22. Another is 21.
The mother of the 24yo is 'livid' and discusses where they would have 'discarded' these breasts. Doesn't seem to care her child is happy.
They're all referred to as 'daughters' and 'her'.
February 27, 2025 at 8:32 AM
"Healthy breasts" [Mail]
One of the 'girls' mentioned here is 24. Another is 22. Another is 21.
The mother of the 24yo is 'livid' and discusses where they would have 'discarded' these breasts. Doesn't seem to care her child is happy.
They're all referred to as 'daughters' and 'her'.
One of the 'girls' mentioned here is 24. Another is 22. Another is 21.
The mother of the 24yo is 'livid' and discusses where they would have 'discarded' these breasts. Doesn't seem to care her child is happy.
They're all referred to as 'daughters' and 'her'.
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Some of us remember when Maitlis said that primary age school kids are having gender confirmation surgery. The BBC anti Trans bias goes back nearly a decade #BBCTransphobia
November 11, 2025 at 1:24 PM
Some of us remember when Maitlis said that primary age school kids are having gender confirmation surgery. The BBC anti Trans bias goes back nearly a decade #BBCTransphobia
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It is very hard to dismiss the fact that senate democrats caving was an intentional gift to Donald Trump. He went to the Supreme Court trying to starve 42 million Americans and we all saw it. And as people fought that, they caved. They are not merely collaborators but wolves in sheep’s clothing.
anyway if dems think I'm gonna forget this shit in 5 months, they're wrong. if they think I'm gonna forget it in 5 years, they're wrong. they have fully convinced me that purging the party of these inept losers in the senate is more important than retaking the senate in the next election cycle
November 11, 2025 at 4:54 AM
It is very hard to dismiss the fact that senate democrats caving was an intentional gift to Donald Trump. He went to the Supreme Court trying to starve 42 million Americans and we all saw it. And as people fought that, they caved. They are not merely collaborators but wolves in sheep’s clothing.
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“Incredible stuff that’s been done here”
This is how Emily Maitlis describes her work which helped shut down the only source of NHS transition healthcare for trans youth.
“Ideological capture” indeed, but not by LGBT people.
This is how Emily Maitlis describes her work which helped shut down the only source of NHS transition healthcare for trans youth.
“Ideological capture” indeed, but not by LGBT people.
November 11, 2025 at 12:24 PM
“Incredible stuff that’s been done here”
This is how Emily Maitlis describes her work which helped shut down the only source of NHS transition healthcare for trans youth.
“Ideological capture” indeed, but not by LGBT people.
This is how Emily Maitlis describes her work which helped shut down the only source of NHS transition healthcare for trans youth.
“Ideological capture” indeed, but not by LGBT people.
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Oh. That's the first I heard of this. That sucks so much, ugghhhh.
I hate how real this comic always seems to be...
I hate how real this comic always seems to be...
November 11, 2025 at 1:23 PM
Oh. That's the first I heard of this. That sucks so much, ugghhhh.
I hate how real this comic always seems to be...
I hate how real this comic always seems to be...
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After yesterday’s surrender, we’re launching the largest Democratic primary program that we’ve ever run.
We will not back any Senate primary candidate unless they call for Schumer to step down as Minority Leader.
If you’re as pissed as we are, join this campaign to rebuild the Democratic Party. 👇
We will not back any Senate primary candidate unless they call for Schumer to step down as Minority Leader.
If you’re as pissed as we are, join this campaign to rebuild the Democratic Party. 👇
Democratic leaders have failed us again. It's time to get new leaders.
After yet another capitulation by Chuck Schumer and Senate Democrats, it's clear we need new leadership capable of mounting a serious opposition to Trump's authoritarian regime. We're launching our la...
www.indivisible2026.org
November 11, 2025 at 12:00 AM
After yesterday’s surrender, we’re launching the largest Democratic primary program that we’ve ever run.
We will not back any Senate primary candidate unless they call for Schumer to step down as Minority Leader.
If you’re as pissed as we are, join this campaign to rebuild the Democratic Party. 👇
We will not back any Senate primary candidate unless they call for Schumer to step down as Minority Leader.
If you’re as pissed as we are, join this campaign to rebuild the Democratic Party. 👇
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This is literally what the slogan "nothing about us without us" originated out of in the disabled people's movement and I think trans rights organising can sometimes miss our connections to the social harms of medical authority and disablement.
November 11, 2025 at 9:17 AM
This is literally what the slogan "nothing about us without us" originated out of in the disabled people's movement and I think trans rights organising can sometimes miss our connections to the social harms of medical authority and disablement.
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I genuinely think that trans people need to fight a bigger fight about research ethics governing our treatment. "Trans rights are human rights" is vague.
No research without consent is specific.
No research without consent is specific.
It's right that trans people should be able to refuse to be subjects in research being conducted with an aim of reducing their options in life, reducing their comfort and wellbeing.
November 11, 2025 at 9:03 AM
I genuinely think that trans people need to fight a bigger fight about research ethics governing our treatment. "Trans rights are human rights" is vague.
No research without consent is specific.
No research without consent is specific.