Fäe
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graham linehan hasn't been 'thrown in jail for speaking out'. there's a bunch of hunger striking palestine protesters who have been tho.
December 13, 2025 at 8:35 AM
graham linehan hasn't been 'thrown in jail for speaking out'. there's a bunch of hunger striking palestine protesters who have been tho.
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Reading this, Glinner doesn't come across as the worst party here, not by a long shot. It's the paper that would publish this. Whatever you think of Graham Linehan as a person, it's the editor who read this screed and decided to publish it anyway who is the most malign and ill-intentioned here.
Graham Linehan has such little self-awareness he *really* doesn’t understand how totally unhinged he seems in his ‘woe is me’ batshit crazy ranting! 😬
He’s the ‘cautionary tale’ of what obsessive ‘gender critical’ transphobia leads to: no friends, no life, and spaghetti carbonara for one!
He’s the ‘cautionary tale’ of what obsessive ‘gender critical’ transphobia leads to: no friends, no life, and spaghetti carbonara for one!
December 12, 2025 at 4:12 PM
Reading this, Glinner doesn't come across as the worst party here, not by a long shot. It's the paper that would publish this. Whatever you think of Graham Linehan as a person, it's the editor who read this screed and decided to publish it anyway who is the most malign and ill-intentioned here.
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Which views the BBC considers unacceptably political in its presenters is particularly telling, isn't it?
Very sad that I felt I had no choice but to resign from The Infinite Monkey Cage - a victory for the transphobes and other bigots - I did it because so much of the media has chosen to believe the kind and empathetic people are a fiction - they are real and so often unrepresented.
December 13, 2025 at 12:38 AM
Which views the BBC considers unacceptably political in its presenters is particularly telling, isn't it?
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i saw the new epstein photo release and remembered the president is one of the most prominent pedophiles in the world and nothing will be done about that, oh well
December 13, 2025 at 3:49 AM
i saw the new epstein photo release and remembered the president is one of the most prominent pedophiles in the world and nothing will be done about that, oh well
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It’s fucking crazy that we are losing to these guys when they’re already drenched in sweat only 11 months into their regime. Shaky hands and weak wrists, they’re choking and pumping the brakes because they’re clueless over what to do next at what will be remembered as the height of their power.
NEW: The Trump-Vance White House has falsely accused an ally of Pope Leo — Sr. Norma Pimentel — of illegal activity tied to migrant aid, and cut off all federal funding to Catholic Charities in Texas.
Church leaders say it’s a targeted, political reprisal against Pope Leo and the Catholic Church.
Church leaders say it’s a targeted, political reprisal against Pope Leo and the Catholic Church.
Trump-Vance White House Targets Beloved Nun in Texas, Retaliates Against Catholic Charities
Catholic Charities of the Rio Grande Valley — praised by Pope Leo as an “agent of hope” — now faces a six-year federal funding ban. Church leaders say it’s a vendetta by the Trump-Vance White House.
www.thelettersfromleo.com
December 13, 2025 at 5:24 AM
It’s fucking crazy that we are losing to these guys when they’re already drenched in sweat only 11 months into their regime. Shaky hands and weak wrists, they’re choking and pumping the brakes because they’re clueless over what to do next at what will be remembered as the height of their power.
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The problem with being trans is that even allies know nothing about us. Because nobody wants to hear us talk, or read our literature, or let us report on ourselves. Our books are banned, our interviews shelved. Cis people write the entire narrative on us - allies and opponents.
December 12, 2025 at 2:45 PM
The problem with being trans is that even allies know nothing about us. Because nobody wants to hear us talk, or read our literature, or let us report on ourselves. Our books are banned, our interviews shelved. Cis people write the entire narrative on us - allies and opponents.
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male socialization is when you talk back
December 11, 2025 at 8:57 PM
male socialization is when you talk back
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There will come a time where journalists will pretend they never took part in the anti-trans pogroms
Never let them forget how they blatantly distorted reality to never admit a transphobic pos LOST on every front except a minor pyrrhic point
Never let them forget how they blatantly distorted reality to never admit a transphobic pos LOST on every front except a minor pyrrhic point
Days ago, all the Scottish papers hailed a massive victory for Peggie when it was partial. Today they're pretending she lost and must appeal. When the Supreme Court decision was questioned, it was a threat to the judiciary. Now it's apparently a moral obligation. Same voices, same loud megaphones.
Scotland's papers: Growing doctors crisis and Peggie fight continues
A review of the front page stories from the daily newspapers in Scotland.
www.bbc.co.uk
December 12, 2025 at 8:09 AM
There will come a time where journalists will pretend they never took part in the anti-trans pogroms
Never let them forget how they blatantly distorted reality to never admit a transphobic pos LOST on every front except a minor pyrrhic point
Never let them forget how they blatantly distorted reality to never admit a transphobic pos LOST on every front except a minor pyrrhic point
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This should be the biggest story in the country right now. The sitting US President was extorting state lawmakers from his own party by threatening to withhold public money if they didn’t gerrymander for him.
I don’t know how else to say it…
I don’t know how else to say it…
December 12, 2025 at 4:21 AM
This should be the biggest story in the country right now. The sitting US President was extorting state lawmakers from his own party by threatening to withhold public money if they didn’t gerrymander for him.
I don’t know how else to say it…
I don’t know how else to say it…
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"Look, I have a doctor's note that says I'm allowed to be a filthy degenerate mentally ill pervert! Please don't hate me!"
And they do indeed suck to interact with and be around. They think everyone into neopronouns or bodily autonomy or "not going all the way" makes them look bad. It's annoying.
And they do indeed suck to interact with and be around. They think everyone into neopronouns or bodily autonomy or "not going all the way" makes them look bad. It's annoying.
December 12, 2025 at 6:36 AM
"Look, I have a doctor's note that says I'm allowed to be a filthy degenerate mentally ill pervert! Please don't hate me!"
And they do indeed suck to interact with and be around. They think everyone into neopronouns or bodily autonomy or "not going all the way" makes them look bad. It's annoying.
And they do indeed suck to interact with and be around. They think everyone into neopronouns or bodily autonomy or "not going all the way" makes them look bad. It's annoying.
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So now, 'transmed' is just a word thrown around amongst scared people who have different levels of anxiety about their relationship to transness, who might be scared of transition or think it's icky, or who might be projecting their fear of having their HRT taken away onto other scared trans people.
December 12, 2025 at 6:43 AM
So now, 'transmed' is just a word thrown around amongst scared people who have different levels of anxiety about their relationship to transness, who might be scared of transition or think it's icky, or who might be projecting their fear of having their HRT taken away onto other scared trans people.
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Transmeds, insofar as you want to concern yourself with the beliefs of trans people and not cis gatekeepers, are basically the most insecure people in our community. They are riddled with self-hate, which gives them an authoritarian mindset. They plead with wider cis society that they're just sick.
December 12, 2025 at 6:35 AM
Transmeds, insofar as you want to concern yourself with the beliefs of trans people and not cis gatekeepers, are basically the most insecure people in our community. They are riddled with self-hate, which gives them an authoritarian mindset. They plead with wider cis society that they're just sick.
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Transmeds are trans people who believe there is a very rigid and defined criteria for being trans. What's the criteria? Whatever the doctors you have access to say.
It's about being a cuck for the medical-psychiatric complex that oppresses and restricts our access to care. Not online drama.
It's about being a cuck for the medical-psychiatric complex that oppresses and restricts our access to care. Not online drama.
December 12, 2025 at 6:34 AM
Transmeds are trans people who believe there is a very rigid and defined criteria for being trans. What's the criteria? Whatever the doctors you have access to say.
It's about being a cuck for the medical-psychiatric complex that oppresses and restricts our access to care. Not online drama.
It's about being a cuck for the medical-psychiatric complex that oppresses and restricts our access to care. Not online drama.
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If "female socialization" is your shorthand for being treated like whipped dogs who never learn to act right, that is something that applies to queer kids pretty intensely!
Heck, call it "queer socialization". The universial experience of society attempting to beat us into the closet or the grave.
Heck, call it "queer socialization". The universial experience of society attempting to beat us into the closet or the grave.
December 12, 2025 at 5:57 AM
If "female socialization" is your shorthand for being treated like whipped dogs who never learn to act right, that is something that applies to queer kids pretty intensely!
Heck, call it "queer socialization". The universial experience of society attempting to beat us into the closet or the grave.
Heck, call it "queer socialization". The universial experience of society attempting to beat us into the closet or the grave.
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Notably, boys have gendered limitations placed on them too: they can't act too much like girls without being punished.
So what happens to boys who act too much like girls and girls who act too much like boys? Or the children who show more affinity for their own gender than simple homosociality?
So what happens to boys who act too much like girls and girls who act too much like boys? Or the children who show more affinity for their own gender than simple homosociality?
December 12, 2025 at 5:56 AM
Notably, boys have gendered limitations placed on them too: they can't act too much like girls without being punished.
So what happens to boys who act too much like girls and girls who act too much like boys? Or the children who show more affinity for their own gender than simple homosociality?
So what happens to boys who act too much like girls and girls who act too much like boys? Or the children who show more affinity for their own gender than simple homosociality?
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"Male socialization" is kind of meaningless, then, insofar as we *all* are taught that Boys Are Better Than Girls.
It *does* affect the respective behavior of boys and girls, who learn exactly what they're allowed to get away with, and how much, but people forgot how this affects queer kids.
It *does* affect the respective behavior of boys and girls, who learn exactly what they're allowed to get away with, and how much, but people forgot how this affects queer kids.
December 12, 2025 at 5:55 AM
"Male socialization" is kind of meaningless, then, insofar as we *all* are taught that Boys Are Better Than Girls.
It *does* affect the respective behavior of boys and girls, who learn exactly what they're allowed to get away with, and how much, but people forgot how this affects queer kids.
It *does* affect the respective behavior of boys and girls, who learn exactly what they're allowed to get away with, and how much, but people forgot how this affects queer kids.
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Socialization theory has been so utterly mangled that people don't fundamentally understanding it's not Girl or Boy Programming, it's absorbing the dominant cultural values we grow up with.
If you grow up in a patriarchal society, you are socialized patriarchal.
If you grow up in a patriarchal society, you are socialized patriarchal.
My spicy socialization take is that we mostly use the phrase "female socialization" to refer to raising someone to be a people-pleaser so they don't get hit, and as people constantly at risk of getting hit, trans femmes receive it as much as anyone else
“Male Socialization” of trans femmes isn’t a real thing. Invoking it just shows you’re a bozo trying to misgender us.
Trans people were never really socialized as our AGAB. At best, we were pressured to mimic norms that gave us dysphoria.
It’s an obvious TERF / Blanchardist dog whistle. Do better.
Trans people were never really socialized as our AGAB. At best, we were pressured to mimic norms that gave us dysphoria.
It’s an obvious TERF / Blanchardist dog whistle. Do better.
December 12, 2025 at 5:52 AM
Socialization theory has been so utterly mangled that people don't fundamentally understanding it's not Girl or Boy Programming, it's absorbing the dominant cultural values we grow up with.
If you grow up in a patriarchal society, you are socialized patriarchal.
If you grow up in a patriarchal society, you are socialized patriarchal.
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Something I have to reiterate is that you are being straight up lied to about trans people and our healthcare on an unfathomable scale, this instance reporting is already being torn to shreds by other people commenting, but the frequency of this kind of reporting is astonishing, it's neverending.
You might think from the headline that this is a story about a trans kid suffering medical consequences from a large drug dose but nope! It is just an interview with an estranged father who is angry that his child happily transitioned.
archive.ph/Tmthz
archive.ph/Tmthz
December 11, 2025 at 1:17 AM
Something I have to reiterate is that you are being straight up lied to about trans people and our healthcare on an unfathomable scale, this instance reporting is already being torn to shreds by other people commenting, but the frequency of this kind of reporting is astonishing, it's neverending.
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A lot of tranny problems would be solved if people realised that being a woman isn’t something to be ashamed of
December 11, 2025 at 11:34 AM
A lot of tranny problems would be solved if people realised that being a woman isn’t something to be ashamed of
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The last number I saw was that the UK media are putting out 154 articles about trans people - almost all misinformation - every single month on average.
It feels like at least one of those breaks through each week to become a huge conversation. It's exhausting.
medium.com/@mimmymum/tr...
It feels like at least one of those breaks through each week to become a huge conversation. It's exhausting.
medium.com/@mimmymum/tr...
December 11, 2025 at 2:32 PM
The last number I saw was that the UK media are putting out 154 articles about trans people - almost all misinformation - every single month on average.
It feels like at least one of those breaks through each week to become a huge conversation. It's exhausting.
medium.com/@mimmymum/tr...
It feels like at least one of those breaks through each week to become a huge conversation. It's exhausting.
medium.com/@mimmymum/tr...
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transgender for every member of your family!!!
December 11, 2025 at 7:24 AM
transgender for every member of your family!!!
Trans people who are actual transmeds are somewhat rare nowadays, and that's because the right has become so radicalized on trans issues that there's not really a point in being a pick-me... They made it very clear that they want to ban your healthcare, no matter how many diagnoses you have 🤷♀️
December 11, 2025 at 3:30 PM
Trans people who are actual transmeds are somewhat rare nowadays, and that's because the right has become so radicalized on trans issues that there's not really a point in being a pick-me... They made it very clear that they want to ban your healthcare, no matter how many diagnoses you have 🤷♀️
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Transmedicalism is when I wanted HRT in 2003 and the cis man doctor told me that I wasn't trans because I wore jeans, was able to have intercourse with a cis woman, and didn't respond to his flirting with me
He insisted i needed therapy and refused to even put me on the path of maybe qualifying
He insisted i needed therapy and refused to even put me on the path of maybe qualifying
December 11, 2025 at 8:37 AM
Transmedicalism is when I wanted HRT in 2003 and the cis man doctor told me that I wasn't trans because I wore jeans, was able to have intercourse with a cis woman, and didn't respond to his flirting with me
He insisted i needed therapy and refused to even put me on the path of maybe qualifying
He insisted i needed therapy and refused to even put me on the path of maybe qualifying
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Fascists don't call me "transsexual."
They call me a "biological male (who identifies as a woman)," "man," "trans identified male," "AMAB," "male-socialized," "transwoman" and "a transgender"
I insist on using the term transsexual to describe myself to emphasize that I'm in fact *not* male
They call me a "biological male (who identifies as a woman)," "man," "trans identified male," "AMAB," "male-socialized," "transwoman" and "a transgender"
I insist on using the term transsexual to describe myself to emphasize that I'm in fact *not* male
December 10, 2025 at 9:30 PM
Fascists don't call me "transsexual."
They call me a "biological male (who identifies as a woman)," "man," "trans identified male," "AMAB," "male-socialized," "transwoman" and "a transgender"
I insist on using the term transsexual to describe myself to emphasize that I'm in fact *not* male
They call me a "biological male (who identifies as a woman)," "man," "trans identified male," "AMAB," "male-socialized," "transwoman" and "a transgender"
I insist on using the term transsexual to describe myself to emphasize that I'm in fact *not* male