Rabia
@rahbeeuh.bsky.social
Neighborhood safe space unicorn 🦄• AuDHD (Autistic w/co-occurring ADHD) • T2D survivor • multiply disabled • Thoughts be on super bass • #bawdyHD • blerd (she/her)
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With my birthday coming up I made a wishlist for those who'd like and/or have the means to send a gift. My birthday wishlist can be found here:
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Time is a scary thing sometimes. It's even scarier when one cannot gauge its passage.
November 16, 2025 at 6:22 PM
Time is a scary thing sometimes. It's even scarier when one cannot gauge its passage.
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This is from a 70-minute Zoom interview I did with Alice for The Viral Underclass in the summer of 2020. I will transcribe it and make it freely available soon, so that people can learn from Alice in her own words.
“With so many marginalized communities, we’re basically the oracles…we’re the ones who see shit before it happens.” In June 2020, I interviewed Alice Wong for TVU before she lost her ability to speak. I asked her how she’d first learned of SARS-CoV-2. She began with the 2016 election of Trump:
November 16, 2025 at 4:31 PM
This is from a 70-minute Zoom interview I did with Alice for The Viral Underclass in the summer of 2020. I will transcribe it and make it freely available soon, so that people can learn from Alice in her own words.
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“With so many marginalized communities, we’re basically the oracles…we’re the ones who see shit before it happens.” In June 2020, I interviewed Alice Wong for TVU before she lost her ability to speak. I asked her how she’d first learned of SARS-CoV-2. She began with the 2016 election of Trump:
November 15, 2025 at 10:36 AM
“With so many marginalized communities, we’re basically the oracles…we’re the ones who see shit before it happens.” In June 2020, I interviewed Alice Wong for TVU before she lost her ability to speak. I asked her how she’d first learned of SARS-CoV-2. She began with the 2016 election of Trump:
This. Is. So. Annoying.
November 16, 2025 at 5:48 PM
This. Is. So. Annoying.
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We learn languages in community. That's why your app isn't teaching you how to speak a foreign language, because you're not using the language in community. That's why you can't use AAVE without sounding foolish to Black people, because we learn it in a community context & we learn the rules it has.
November 16, 2025 at 4:22 PM
We learn languages in community. That's why your app isn't teaching you how to speak a foreign language, because you're not using the language in community. That's why you can't use AAVE without sounding foolish to Black people, because we learn it in a community context & we learn the rules it has.
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That's why I'm committed to mutual aid, I don't feel above people who need help, I feel like them, & sometimes need help myself.
That probably has at least something to do with your commitment to mutual aid though! 🫂
November 16, 2025 at 5:14 PM
That's why I'm committed to mutual aid, I don't feel above people who need help, I feel like them, & sometimes need help myself.
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I'd also point out (gently) that the language of failure applied to the only two women nominated by a major US party is inherently problematic.
Personally, I think the idea that all women should be measured by the failures of Hillary Clinton and Kamala Harris is actually a sort of sexist doomerism.
Former first lady Michelle Obama said America is "not ready for a woman" president during a conversation at her New York book event. https://cnn.it/43ApuKZ
November 16, 2025 at 1:03 AM
I'd also point out (gently) that the language of failure applied to the only two women nominated by a major US party is inherently problematic.
As I finished my re-watch of Desperate Housewives yesterday, I was taken aback by the introduction of a non-speaking Autistic character named Laura Delfino. Completely forgot about her. Sad bc they added her in the 2nd to last episode as a throwaway. Buckle up I've got thoughts! 🫣😁
November 16, 2025 at 4:57 PM
As I finished my re-watch of Desperate Housewives yesterday, I was taken aback by the introduction of a non-speaking Autistic character named Laura Delfino. Completely forgot about her. Sad bc they added her in the 2nd to last episode as a throwaway. Buckle up I've got thoughts! 🫣😁
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Leading up to what'll be another trip around the sun, I've made a birthday wishlist and would appreciate (for those who are able) to send me a gift(s). 🎉🎉🎉🎉 www.giftster.com/gift/VVTrn/
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November 10, 2025 at 7:38 PM
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Thoughts on this list? @dismoviepod.bsky.social @kitteninacave.bsky.social
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With her book Popcorn Disabilities soon to hit shelves, author Kristen Lopez offers a starter pack of twenty films about disability—from the good (The Best Years of Our Lives) to the not-so-good (Rain...
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November 14, 2025 at 3:27 PM
Thoughts on this list? @dismoviepod.bsky.social @kitteninacave.bsky.social
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I picked an interesting time last year to take a break from social media –during the time a certain rapper begged another to "drop, drop, drop" I wanted to join in the commentary but I needed to protect my well-being. It was quite the time 😂
November 10, 2025 at 7:30 PM
I picked an interesting time last year to take a break from social media –during the time a certain rapper begged another to "drop, drop, drop" I wanted to join in the commentary but I needed to protect my well-being. It was quite the time 😂
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Not Like Us should be our The Rains of Castamere
November 10, 2025 at 7:19 PM
Not Like Us should be our The Rains of Castamere
Leading up to what'll be another trip around the sun, I've made a birthday wishlist and would appreciate (for those who are able) to send me a gift(s). 🎉🎉🎉🎉 www.giftster.com/gift/VVTrn/
Giftster | wish list registry
Money is tight – make your gifts right. This free online service ensures every dollar is spent on gifts really needed or wanted. Not a shopping site, but a private wish list sharing service for you...
www.giftster.com
November 10, 2025 at 7:24 PM
Leading up to what'll be another trip around the sun, I've made a birthday wishlist and would appreciate (for those who are able) to send me a gift(s). 🎉🎉🎉🎉 www.giftster.com/gift/VVTrn/
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They live in a bubble where our reality doesn't touch them. They not like us.
seems to me that those democrats inclined not to fight perceive themselves as living through a somewhat ordinary cycle of presidential overreach and backlash and not something much more significant and dangerous
November 10, 2025 at 1:17 PM
They live in a bubble where our reality doesn't touch them. They not like us.
@thacalebdume.bsky.social Omgsh you're here! Hey Caleb ✌🏾
November 10, 2025 at 7:03 PM
@thacalebdume.bsky.social Omgsh you're here! Hey Caleb ✌🏾
Until it sinks in (if ever) 😭
How many times does the same thing have to happen before reality sinks in?
November 10, 2025 at 6:59 PM
Until it sinks in (if ever) 😭
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When I asked Speaker Mike Johnson about Trump holding a Mar-a-Lago Gatsby-themed party he said "I reject the premise of the question" and said "The president had an annual Halloween league party every year at Mar a Lago. That's what he went back to, his obligatory tradition."
November 4, 2025 at 4:05 PM
When I asked Speaker Mike Johnson about Trump holding a Mar-a-Lago Gatsby-themed party he said "I reject the premise of the question" and said "The president had an annual Halloween league party every year at Mar a Lago. That's what he went back to, his obligatory tradition."
With my birthday coming up I made a wishlist for those who'd like and/or have the means to send a gift. My birthday wishlist can be found here:
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Rabia's birthday wishlist | Rabia Shay | GiftList
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November 8, 2025 at 7:11 PM
With my birthday coming up I made a wishlist for those who'd like and/or have the means to send a gift. My birthday wishlist can be found here:
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My food situation is critical. I'm completely out of food, hungry, freezing, and in severe pain. The stress and pain are overwhelming, and I can't stop crying. I urgently need to get groceries today. Any mutual aid helps me eat. Thank you.
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October 30, 2025 at 9:21 PM
My food situation is critical. I'm completely out of food, hungry, freezing, and in severe pain. The stress and pain are overwhelming, and I can't stop crying. I urgently need to get groceries today. Any mutual aid helps me eat. Thank you.
tamilove21 on Cash App, Venmo, and PayPal
tamilove21 on Cash App, Venmo, and PayPal
Please help if you can 🙏🏾
My food situation is critical. I'm completely out of food, hungry, freezing, and in severe pain. The stress and pain are overwhelming, and I can't stop crying. I urgently need to get groceries today. Any mutual aid helps me eat. Thank you.
tamilove21 on Cash App, Venmo, and PayPal
tamilove21 on Cash App, Venmo, and PayPal
November 1, 2025 at 12:05 AM
Please help if you can 🙏🏾
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My food situation is critical. I'm completely out of food, hungry, freezing, and in severe pain. The stress and pain are overwhelming, and I can't stop crying. I urgently need to get groceries today. Any mutual aid helps me eat. Thank you.
tamilove21 on Cash App, Venmo, and PayPal
tamilove21 on Cash App, Venmo, and PayPal
November 1, 2025 at 12:03 AM
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November 1, 2025 at 12:01 AM
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thanksgiving weekend for my household.
So just to clarify, Christmas trees go up tomorrow on the 1st, right?
October 31, 2025 at 11:32 PM
thanksgiving weekend for my household.
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You thought you were tired of people having their hands out for mutual aid? You ain't seen nothing yet come tomorrow inn this country.
October 31, 2025 at 12:41 PM
You thought you were tired of people having their hands out for mutual aid? You ain't seen nothing yet come tomorrow inn this country.