Queer, Autistic, Disabled, and proud.
LDA (Late Discovery Adoptee) & Adoption Abolitionist
Loud bitch 💗✨
sincerely, a fellow adoptee.
Presuming that the ability to answer these questions matters. But I can’t. 1/2
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Presuming that the ability to answer these questions matters. But I can’t. 1/2
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Another attack on the First Amendment, our neighbors, and our democracy.
Y'all know that "look at me! I'm a saviour!" shit is Christian fundamentalist trash, right?
That you sound like a mega church pastor?
Do I need to check your hard drive?
Stop.
Y'all know that "look at me! I'm a saviour!" shit is Christian fundamentalist trash, right?
That you sound like a mega church pastor?
Do I need to check your hard drive?
it costs LITERALLY nothing to change your language and be more inclusive towards adoptees.
yet anytime we bring that up, suddenly we're being "unreasonable" or "too sensitive". 🫠
Did you know that adoptees are more likely to be abused, disowned or even murdered by their adoptives?
So like, is that a threat?
Because it fucking sounds like one.
If you mean "sponsor" or "support" just fucking say that instead of signalling what a saint you are.
it costs LITERALLY nothing to change your language and be more inclusive towards adoptees.
yet anytime we bring that up, suddenly we're being "unreasonable" or "too sensitive". 🫠
It's not on us to eat it or try to ignore it.
It's on you to stop perpetuating ideals and language that support white supremacy, colonialism, and the saviour complex.
And you're refusing.
What does that make you.
It's not on us to eat it or try to ignore it.
It's on you to stop perpetuating ideals and language that support white supremacy, colonialism, and the saviour complex.
And you're refusing.
What does that make you.
You just don't care about us enough to bother.
And we see it CONSTANTLY
You just don't care about us enough to bother.
And we see it CONSTANTLY
If y'all haven't cancelled your subscriptions yet, what are you doing? What do you "need" to watch so badly? /genq
If y'all haven't cancelled your subscriptions yet, what are you doing? What do you "need" to watch so badly? /genq
My classes for Race, Media and International Affairs 101 begin Monday, October 6th!
We are expanding the class size (but not by much!)
So you still have a chance to enroll! www.resistancesummerschool.com/fall-2025-re...
My classes for Race, Media and International Affairs 101 begin Monday, October 6th!
We are expanding the class size (but not by much!)
So you still have a chance to enroll! www.resistancesummerschool.com/fall-2025-re...
I will not politely provide answers to questions about why the sale or transfer of children or the erasure of identities or people & media pushing the fairytale narrative is all wrong.
I will not politely provide answers to questions about why the sale or transfer of children or the erasure of identities or people & media pushing the fairytale narrative is all wrong.
It takes time and energy for me to handhold people through why dehumanizing and commodifying us is wrong, and frankly, I should be compensated.
It takes time and energy for me to handhold people through why dehumanizing and commodifying us is wrong, and frankly, I should be compensated.
sincerely, a fellow adoptee.
sincerely, a fellow adoptee.
Lily Lake, Estes Park, Colorado
Lily Lake, Estes Park, Colorado
1. Make them fire you
2. Don’t go along to get along
3. Don’t apologize, have confidence in your own integrity and the importance of your role
4. Always escalate the conflict
1. Make them fire you
2. Don’t go along to get along
3. Don’t apologize, have confidence in your own integrity and the importance of your role
4. Always escalate the conflict
This is a huge win.
apnews.com/article/swed...
This is a huge win.
apnews.com/article/swed...