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If "female socialization" is your shorthand for being treated like whipped dogs who never learn to act right, that is something that applies to queer kids pretty intensely!
Heck, call it "queer socialization". The universial experience of society attempting to beat us into the closet or the grave.
Heck, call it "queer socialization". The universial experience of society attempting to beat us into the closet or the grave.
December 12, 2025 at 5:57 AM
If "female socialization" is your shorthand for being treated like whipped dogs who never learn to act right, that is something that applies to queer kids pretty intensely!
Heck, call it "queer socialization". The universial experience of society attempting to beat us into the closet or the grave.
Heck, call it "queer socialization". The universial experience of society attempting to beat us into the closet or the grave.
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"Male socialization" is kind of meaningless, then, insofar as we *all* are taught that Boys Are Better Than Girls.
It *does* affect the respective behavior of boys and girls, who learn exactly what they're allowed to get away with, and how much, but people forgot how this affects queer kids.
It *does* affect the respective behavior of boys and girls, who learn exactly what they're allowed to get away with, and how much, but people forgot how this affects queer kids.
December 12, 2025 at 5:55 AM
"Male socialization" is kind of meaningless, then, insofar as we *all* are taught that Boys Are Better Than Girls.
It *does* affect the respective behavior of boys and girls, who learn exactly what they're allowed to get away with, and how much, but people forgot how this affects queer kids.
It *does* affect the respective behavior of boys and girls, who learn exactly what they're allowed to get away with, and how much, but people forgot how this affects queer kids.
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Mothers who tell their daughters to care more about looking pretty than doing well at school are socialized patriarchal.
Teachers of all genders who help their girl students less than the boy students with math and science are socialized patriarchal.
We are all marinated in this bullshit together.
Teachers of all genders who help their girl students less than the boy students with math and science are socialized patriarchal.
We are all marinated in this bullshit together.
December 12, 2025 at 5:53 AM
Mothers who tell their daughters to care more about looking pretty than doing well at school are socialized patriarchal.
Teachers of all genders who help their girl students less than the boy students with math and science are socialized patriarchal.
We are all marinated in this bullshit together.
Teachers of all genders who help their girl students less than the boy students with math and science are socialized patriarchal.
We are all marinated in this bullshit together.
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Socialization theory has been so utterly mangled that people don't fundamentally understanding it's not Girl or Boy Programming, it's absorbing the dominant cultural values we grow up with.
If you grow up in a patriarchal society, you are socialized patriarchal.
If you grow up in a patriarchal society, you are socialized patriarchal.
My spicy socialization take is that we mostly use the phrase "female socialization" to refer to raising someone to be a people-pleaser so they don't get hit, and as people constantly at risk of getting hit, trans femmes receive it as much as anyone else
“Male Socialization” of trans femmes isn’t a real thing. Invoking it just shows you’re a bozo trying to misgender us.
Trans people were never really socialized as our AGAB. At best, we were pressured to mimic norms that gave us dysphoria.
It’s an obvious TERF / Blanchardist dog whistle. Do better.
Trans people were never really socialized as our AGAB. At best, we were pressured to mimic norms that gave us dysphoria.
It’s an obvious TERF / Blanchardist dog whistle. Do better.
December 12, 2025 at 5:52 AM
Socialization theory has been so utterly mangled that people don't fundamentally understanding it's not Girl or Boy Programming, it's absorbing the dominant cultural values we grow up with.
If you grow up in a patriarchal society, you are socialized patriarchal.
If you grow up in a patriarchal society, you are socialized patriarchal.
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i guess i'm not surprised given how gleefully reactionaries and MRAs call "describing patriarchal society" as "gender essentialism"
December 16, 2025 at 6:30 AM
i guess i'm not surprised given how gleefully reactionaries and MRAs call "describing patriarchal society" as "gender essentialism"
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December 17, 2025 at 12:04 AM
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Chomsky and Foucault debating the meaning of the term Ephebophilia
December 18, 2025 at 10:43 PM
Chomsky and Foucault debating the meaning of the term Ephebophilia
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It’s like “oh women have to be sexually available to men or else the men will destroy the fabric of society” damn ok
December 19, 2025 at 9:02 PM
It’s like “oh women have to be sexually available to men or else the men will destroy the fabric of society” damn ok
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My sense is that the “male loneliness crisis” is not really about addressing men’s emotional needs but rather the relatively newfound absence of having someone to perform domestic labor for you quietly in the background now that there is a longer gap between your mother and your wife doing it
December 17, 2025 at 3:48 PM
My sense is that the “male loneliness crisis” is not really about addressing men’s emotional needs but rather the relatively newfound absence of having someone to perform domestic labor for you quietly in the background now that there is a longer gap between your mother and your wife doing it
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One of the reasons why it irks me when people refer to gender violence as “interpersonal violence.” It’s intimate, sure, but gender violence is in fact very *impersonal*—it’s specifically about stripping women of their personal qualities and dignity in order to reduce them to their gendered status.
Important to understand that sexual violence is political violence, enacted specifically to enforce class, race, and, yes, gender hierarchies.
I sometimes feel like they don’t want to end poverty or reduce inequality because they believe they’re entitled to a class of people they can prey upon
November 14, 2025 at 5:15 PM
One of the reasons why it irks me when people refer to gender violence as “interpersonal violence.” It’s intimate, sure, but gender violence is in fact very *impersonal*—it’s specifically about stripping women of their personal qualities and dignity in order to reduce them to their gendered status.
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A lot of the (often quite powerful!) guys emailing Epstein were asking him for dating advice, which seems to suggest that they saw his own sex life as aspirational.
The emails have Summers reporting to Epstein about his attempts to date a Harvard economics student & to hit on her during a seminar she was giving.
November 15, 2025 at 11:40 PM
A lot of the (often quite powerful!) guys emailing Epstein were asking him for dating advice, which seems to suggest that they saw his own sex life as aspirational.
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Due to being a refugee, I only get invited to interviews for menial and service jobs. Because of my disability, I can't work those. I live on modest and sporadic freelance earnings and can't afford surgical expenses. Please help if you can 🙏
#HelpSky #MutualAid
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#HelpSky #MutualAid
gofund.me/25003d6e4
Donate to Help Emma Get Gender-Affirming Surgery, organized by Em Zakharuk
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November 11, 2025 at 3:07 PM
Due to being a refugee, I only get invited to interviews for menial and service jobs. Because of my disability, I can't work those. I live on modest and sporadic freelance earnings and can't afford surgical expenses. Please help if you can 🙏
#HelpSky #MutualAid
gofund.me/25003d6e4
#HelpSky #MutualAid
gofund.me/25003d6e4
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Remember how in the Business Insider story about all his sexual abuse allegations he chased after a fleeing, naked teenager trying to avoid rape going "Stop running away from me. Stop running away from me."
now that's what I call a Mamdani endorsement. Don't threaten New Yorkers with a good time, Dave. www.yahoo.com/news/article...
Dave Portnoy Threatens To Move Barstool Sports Out of New York City If Zohran Mamdani Becomes Mayor: ‘I Hate This Guy So Much’
Portnoy, 48, admitted that he has already asked his "finance guy" to begin looking at potential office spaces outside of the city.
www.yahoo.com
November 4, 2025 at 7:02 PM
Remember how in the Business Insider story about all his sexual abuse allegations he chased after a fleeing, naked teenager trying to avoid rape going "Stop running away from me. Stop running away from me."
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A 34-year-old as a politician: My god he's like a baby. It's like they just elected an infant to be their mayor.
A 34-year-old as an athlete: You have to admire the bravery of him attempting that dunk, knowing full well the grim reaper is right behind him.
A 34-year-old as an athlete: You have to admire the bravery of him attempting that dunk, knowing full well the grim reaper is right behind him.
November 5, 2025 at 5:45 AM
A 34-year-old as a politician: My god he's like a baby. It's like they just elected an infant to be their mayor.
A 34-year-old as an athlete: You have to admire the bravery of him attempting that dunk, knowing full well the grim reaper is right behind him.
A 34-year-old as an athlete: You have to admire the bravery of him attempting that dunk, knowing full well the grim reaper is right behind him.
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Childbearing is physically dangerous & painful for women; childrearing is an exhausting, degraded, isolating, and impoverishing endeavor that annihilates women’s other opportunities & goals. When women are free, they choose fewer children. There is no way to make them have more that is not violent.
September 2, 2025 at 4:33 PM
Childbearing is physically dangerous & painful for women; childrearing is an exhausting, degraded, isolating, and impoverishing endeavor that annihilates women’s other opportunities & goals. When women are free, they choose fewer children. There is no way to make them have more that is not violent.
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The stuff Jeffrey Epstein’s friends felt comfortable saying and drawing in grotesque detail with their names attached knowing they would not face consequences is the kind of thing I think of when I think about rape culture and how sexual violence against girls and young women is actually glorified
September 9, 2025 at 3:22 AM
The stuff Jeffrey Epstein’s friends felt comfortable saying and drawing in grotesque detail with their names attached knowing they would not face consequences is the kind of thing I think of when I think about rape culture and how sexual violence against girls and young women is actually glorified
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A non-Western culture cannot be a complex society with its own castes, classes, conflicts, and contradictions. It has to be enlightened, simpler, happier, more primitive but all the more wise and enriching for it.
Y'know, orientalism.
That's all Westerners can do. Orientalism or xenophobia.
Y'know, orientalism.
That's all Westerners can do. Orientalism or xenophobia.
November 3, 2025 at 9:06 AM
A non-Western culture cannot be a complex society with its own castes, classes, conflicts, and contradictions. It has to be enlightened, simpler, happier, more primitive but all the more wise and enriching for it.
Y'know, orientalism.
That's all Westerners can do. Orientalism or xenophobia.
Y'know, orientalism.
That's all Westerners can do. Orientalism or xenophobia.
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If you talk about misogyny in a non-Western culture, you are immediately assumed to be dismissing that culture as evil and barbaric, worthy of being nuked from orbit. This runs the high risk of you being called racist!
So, in order to prevent this, Westerners ignore any issues completely.
So, in order to prevent this, Westerners ignore any issues completely.
November 3, 2025 at 9:05 AM
If you talk about misogyny in a non-Western culture, you are immediately assumed to be dismissing that culture as evil and barbaric, worthy of being nuked from orbit. This runs the high risk of you being called racist!
So, in order to prevent this, Westerners ignore any issues completely.
So, in order to prevent this, Westerners ignore any issues completely.
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Brianna Ghey was not murdered in cold blood by a phone. Or a social media app. She was murdered in cold blood with knives plunged into her 28 times by two 15-year-olds fed a constant stream of hate and dehumanization by UK corporate media and the UK government.
Two teenagers were radicalized by the transphobic political climate into seeing a 15 year old girl as less than human. They killed the girl, and then the girl's grieving mother chose to embark on a moral panic crusade against "self-harm", acquitting the actual perpetrators of her daughter's demise.
November 3, 2025 at 2:06 PM
Brianna Ghey was not murdered in cold blood by a phone. Or a social media app. She was murdered in cold blood with knives plunged into her 28 times by two 15-year-olds fed a constant stream of hate and dehumanization by UK corporate media and the UK government.
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Saw an article that described this reputation protection pageantry as "ruthless" on Charles' part & lost a contact rolling my eyes. This is why men rarely face any meaningful repercussions. When the slightest inconvenience is seen as "ruthless" it's deemed sufficient justice, if not "too far."
Andrew Mountbatten Windsor should be interviewed by police
November 1, 2025 at 5:46 PM
Saw an article that described this reputation protection pageantry as "ruthless" on Charles' part & lost a contact rolling my eyes. This is why men rarely face any meaningful repercussions. When the slightest inconvenience is seen as "ruthless" it's deemed sufficient justice, if not "too far."
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women make life worth living
November 1, 2025 at 7:11 PM
women make life worth living
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the masses yearn for a night time holiday with free food and feasting and festivities and merriment cool weather and spooky vibes and haunted explorations and dressing up in costumes that are either terrifying or arousing
halloween is the best holiday because it’s the one that’s the most community focused. also because it’s the horniest
November 1, 2025 at 3:21 AM
the masses yearn for a night time holiday with free food and feasting and festivities and merriment cool weather and spooky vibes and haunted explorations and dressing up in costumes that are either terrifying or arousing
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it's the apathy that kills me. no one fucking cares. sympathy is the right of cis men, rapists especially, and the rest of us are dog food who should accept that our bodies do not belong to us and stop whining about how they use their discretion over us.
October 31, 2025 at 1:01 AM
it's the apathy that kills me. no one fucking cares. sympathy is the right of cis men, rapists especially, and the rest of us are dog food who should accept that our bodies do not belong to us and stop whining about how they use their discretion over us.
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men can get away with anything they want. women's bodies are 100% disposable. metoo was a flash in the pan that they will punish us for forever. we will never be free.
October 31, 2025 at 12:59 AM
men can get away with anything they want. women's bodies are 100% disposable. metoo was a flash in the pan that they will punish us for forever. we will never be free.