Women are seen to exist in a kind of perpetual emotional and moral debt, owing care, attention, sexual access, or empathy to men who are not seen to owe this back to women in equal quantities.

The sense that women have excessive moral obligations to men—to care for their feelings, to defer to their interests—but can legitimately make only minor claims in such care from others is central to how misogyny actually perpetrates itself as an ideology.

RIP Tom Lehrer, one of the single most talented, prescient, hilarious, and underappreciated satirists this country ever produced. a man who actually called it like he saw it youtu.be/JPrAuF2f_oI

Just....fuck.

Ah fuck we got the Philip K Dick future 😞

Can we nip this "Alligator Alcatraz" shit in the bud? We don't need to adopt their cutesy marketing when talking about the concentration camp in the Florida Everglades

Thinkinge of askinge Chat GPT a questioun about your plannes, thoughtes, ideas? Trye a tarot deck ynstead. Cheaper, bettir for the environment, bettir resultes, not evil.

Wrote this piece for Harpers Bazaar about the life, legacy, and hate-induced murder of Jonathan Joss through the eyes of being a Two-Spirit Native person this Pride.

I hope you take a read. For Him. For all of us. 🪶

Nice video and story about how to live with black bears in CT. My town has a black bear hanging out this summer, so these reminders are timely. The advice should be applicable to other states as well.

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eight years ago today we all watched the glory of zendaya falling madly in love with tom holland and the internet was never the same

Hey everybody, you may have seen me asking that question to RFK Jr. about increased autism diagnoses among nonwhite people. I wrote a whole book about autism, neurodiversity and why we need to move on from talking about vaccines. Buy it here.
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Just sent my annual "you gotta do a better job protecting LGBTQ+ kids" email to the principal at my kid's school. I'm tired.

On a recent flight my seatmates learned I was a writer and asked my opinion on AI. They didn't understand genAI is based on work stolen from authors, and they DEFINITELY didn't know about the energy costs. Both shocked them. People just don't know.

And lo, the trailer did drop: www.apple.com/tv-pr/news/2... #murderbot

I wrote about this a bit in my last book but it really shakes me that a defining feature of this catastrophic era is that we just keep going to work. We work through pandemics, we work through natural disasters, we work through economic calamity, we work through coups, we work, we work, we work.

On every day, of course. But for this day especially, also of course.

massively depressing that the big scandal is that the shithead guy from the atlantic got texted accidentally and not the part where they're raining more death on yemen