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Vinegrr
@vinegrr.bsky.social
Sometimes a snarky wit, sometimes political, sometimes treating this place like it's my college LiveJournal account. Supportive when I can be.
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Bodily autonomy is a human right.
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Constitutional convention for the new millennium when?
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"My sisters defend me, not the police"
Seen in Rome
October 8, 2025 at 1:42 AM
*generalized reaching into the void because if I try to reach anyone specific my brain will go into "pretending I'm fine" mode, and I don't want that*
October 6, 2025 at 5:41 PM
After 2 years and 57 days, this streak is about to come to an end. It might make it another day or two, but after that I will be off in the mountains and very much unable to continue satisfying the green owl's requirements.

If we share a friend streak on Duolingo, my apologies in advance.
June 9, 2025 at 11:15 PM
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In terms of ego, tech bros *hate* that there's other valid stuff in the world that other people could be better at than them.

In terms of money, how can you control the world if there's not One True Technology, but rather a diverse ecosystem of lots of little different types of technologies?
June 6, 2025 at 5:00 PM
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I can’t understand, after the last 30 years of it happening EVERY TIME, how people think AI is going to stay free

Once everyone’s reliant, it’ll cost a fortune we just “have” to pay

Its energy needs will cost us the only world we have

All so someone doesn’t have to write their own Reddit shitpost
It doesn't even work worth a damn. Its writing is inferior, and its Internet summaries wildly inaccurate. The only thing making it seem worthwhile is the Silicon Valley scamming to make it temporarily cheap -- when the costs catch up, any reliance built upon it will become a massive liability.
June 6, 2025 at 2:48 PM
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this is very inspirational
if this frog can do it, so can i
June 2, 2025 at 4:41 AM
Am bisexual. Can confirm.
You can probably get a bisexual at a discounted rate tho
It’s June 1, so if you haven’t reserved your homosexual yet be advised that we’re into surge pricing now.
June 2, 2025 at 2:25 AM
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Me and my houseboy noticed you from across the rave and we wanted to know… do you like LAN parties?
December 12, 2023 at 5:21 PM
Here, have a beautiful and whimsical art thread as a palate cleanser.
THREAD. When my parents' cat Bridget went missing, my dad, to try to ease his worry, painted her on a variety of historical ventures. Soon, these numbered in the dozens.

After much nagging, my dad has had some postcards printed of this brilliant series: michaelcoxmoredaysthansausages.bigcartel.com
May 26, 2025 at 11:13 PM
So somehow I might've handled a relational blip... like an adult? Who is aware of being a flawed being and is able to see and accept "flaws" in another person?

How'd I finally learn to do that?
May 26, 2025 at 1:32 AM
Gotta love having "Oh no, not again. This one was safe!" attachment trauma Stuff on the key weekend I need to be efficiently packing and moving.

Esp when doing a fast moveout is also a trauma trigger for me.
May 25, 2025 at 2:20 PM
Sadly true. Especially when it comes to people.
May 25, 2025 at 5:47 AM
The processs sucks, so I only apply for ones it looks like I could actually tolerate for more than a month, and also only ones I feel pretty confident would accept me.

Also while I have one I'm unlikely to seek anything better even if it's not a great fit.

Am I talking about job hunting or dating?
May 24, 2025 at 11:41 PM
If my bathwater is any further than one or two degrees shy of cooking me alive, why am I even in the tub?
May 24, 2025 at 4:32 AM
I love° that I can know *why* a thing feels Extra Bad, know that the current situation is not the same as the one the set up the Extra Bad feel, and yet neither of those two recognitions do anything to stop the emotional flashback.
May 24, 2025 at 3:19 AM
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Maybe it's called a corpse flower because that's a dead ballerina stuffed in a bucket.
May 23, 2025 at 5:24 AM
I'm not gonna do the full format here, but I will tell you that Kaylee was my closest match and Wash is in my top 5.

Which is funny, because I'm pretty sure my coworkers would put Zoe higher than Wash on my list. She didn't even crack my top 30.

The Genie from Aladdin comes in at 24, though 😁
Take the fictional characters quiz and post the first four you know:
openpsychometrics.org/tests/charac...

My #2 was a Rowling guy so I skipped him
May 19, 2025 at 3:14 AM
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Landlines are the manual transmissions of telephony
May 19, 2025 at 2:46 AM
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With alt-text for accessibility, because this teenage Bronze Age sheep-ankle-bone gaming champion girl deserves to be known.

#JoyScrolling
May 18, 2025 at 4:00 PM
I would say "#goals," but it turns out I actually like living in a walkable neighborhood and having many of my friends within a 30-min radius.

I'd probably be more the "two modest-nice houses close to my favorite people, and maybe a shared cabin somewhere" type, while also avoiding the public eye.
May 19, 2025 at 12:16 AM
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EVERYBODY NEEDS TO LOOK AT THIS BIG FANCY BUG
BIG BUG BIG BUG BIG BUG BIG BUG BIG BUG BIG BUG BIG BUG

(huge violet ground beetle, Carabus scabrosus)
May 18, 2025 at 5:23 PM
I love that this sounds profound when what really happened is that I thought my shadow on a blank white wall across the street was a familiar person and I almost waved to them 😂
Late-night walking around thought:

I am never alone so long as there is light to cast me a shadow.
May 18, 2025 at 9:28 PM
Late-night walking around thought:

I am never alone so long as there is light to cast me a shadow.
May 18, 2025 at 4:10 AM
Sorry folks, this TL is probably going to spend some time as a dumpster for deferred grief.

Why defer the grief?
Partly I wasn't ready for the loss. Partly, didn't want to feel angry.

Why be angry?
Because sometimes it's the only lifeline out from the pit of believing I'm fundamentally unwantable.
May 16, 2025 at 3:21 AM
Me: "I wonder if they'll text... I hope they do! I'd like to ping, but it's not my turn. Patience!"

Them: *texts me*

Me: "WTF, stop it, no. I don't like you, go away, that's too much"

🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️

...yeah, this whole "Learning to accept that I'm worthy of time & attention" thing is gonna take some work.
May 16, 2025 at 2:30 AM