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(they/her) giving this a shot
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Like vaccines denialists, I feel being able to say "birth is totally safe" with a straight face can only be the result of a generation that both
1) Has no living relatives that remember when that was not the case, and
2) Does not own a library card/history book.
November 23, 2025 at 4:03 AM
i love the feeling of a small being, twitching in its sleep against me because it feels safe and warm. it also makes being unable to sleep more bearable.
#cats #insomnia
November 21, 2025 at 11:27 AM
apartment living is so dehumanizing
November 13, 2025 at 6:03 PM
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every few years it's revealed that the NYT was sitting on information about some horrific thing that public knowledge of would have changed the country's course and for some reason a ton of people still give them money. you can play those games on other sites
November 12, 2025 at 10:41 PM
Got to see Jay Kay at a Titans viewing party on Monday. They are so charming and absolutely stunning. #dragula
#drag #DragulaTitans
November 12, 2025 at 11:41 PM
@ohheydj.bsky.social couldn't figure out how to send this on insta, but:
November 12, 2025 at 9:03 AM
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We joke about the Torment Nexus and all that, but...

The truth is science fiction warned us endlessly not to let fear control us.

"Fear is the mind killer"
"Fear is a path to the Dark Side"
etc.

Silicon Valley claimed to love SF, then built a machine to amplify fear as a means to control people.
November 8, 2025 at 7:49 PM
banging pots and pans together
I'm begging event organizers that are advertising on the internet: PUT YOUR *SPECIFIC* LOCATION FRONT AND CENTER ON THE FLYER.

For the love of all that is holy, we're on THE INTERNET... you could be LITERALLY anywhere with internet service. PLEASE! state/city, prov/city, or whatever is relevant. 🤦
November 7, 2025 at 9:13 PM
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If I ordered pronouns for the table would you have some
November 5, 2025 at 3:57 AM
I'm begging event organizers that are advertising on the internet: PUT YOUR *SPECIFIC* LOCATION FRONT AND CENTER ON THE FLYER.

For the love of all that is holy, we're on THE INTERNET... you could be LITERALLY anywhere with internet service. PLEASE! state/city, prov/city, or whatever is relevant. 🤦
November 3, 2025 at 7:09 PM
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As I regularly note, "AI" at this point is an umbrella marketing term for a bunch or generative/machine learning/other formerly differently-termed processes that (of course) have no actual intelligence behind them. It means nothing useful for how the underlying computing proceeds. Thus the quotes.
I love how you used quotation marks around "AI." If you've been doing that all along, I'm kicking myself for not noticing. It's a misleading or just lying marketing term and we shouldn't accept and repeat it without pushback. Generative LLMs are not AI.
November 3, 2025 at 5:07 PM
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Dancing Thru Grief - limited edition of 50. Now available as November’s Print.
November 2, 2025 at 5:21 PM
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our baby Veilguard is 1 year old! time flies...
Happy birthday, have a long happy life boo! we will be together for many years 🎉🥳💝

#dragonage #veilguard #dragonageveilguard #datv
October 31, 2025 at 6:10 AM
we went to see Frankenstein (2025) tonight and immediately, upon arriving at home, watched the new dragula titans episode. i'm having many feelings and am also feeling a teensy bit overstimulated. 🪦⚰️🥀
October 28, 2025 at 6:25 AM
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Hi, this is what Eric's mom made for his sister's Halloween party....... It's rice crispy treats. Eric refused to eat them lol but they were delicious
October 26, 2025 at 6:29 PM
baby @melme.bsky.social was like "i'm moving to the Arctic" after this one
watching a personal formative film, The Blob (1988) for the first time in a long time
October 27, 2025 at 12:44 AM
watching a personal formative film, The Blob (1988) for the first time in a long time
October 26, 2025 at 4:13 AM
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some of yall should try treating trans men like regular dudes and not like little baby gender-curious women
October 26, 2025 at 12:51 AM
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And if you want to order them already printed, you can get them printed by a union shop 15 different languages! $40 for packs of 100, get a thousand for $95!
October 25, 2025 at 9:55 PM
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Excellent rule for life in general, really.

Cops are literally trained to manipulate information out of you. And for all the chatter I see about their nefarious, underhanded methods for this, the truth is, most don't need to bother, because a lot of you volunteer that shit willingly.
PSA for everyone going to protests
October 25, 2025 at 10:08 AM
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I'm unreasonably upset at this flattening of Garak into Fashion Lizard,he was the Enigmatic Fashion Lizard and this cannot be erased
October 25, 2025 at 3:58 AM
finally watching the substance (2024)
October 24, 2025 at 4:10 AM
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This is not something I want to do, but as someone who was food insecure for a long time, here are some ways to get the most out of what you can get.

-if you have dietary restrictions or food aversions, spend some time thinking about what foods are safe. It sounds obvious, but—
October 23, 2025 at 9:31 PM
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October 23, 2025 at 8:14 PM
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Just a thought: How about we stop shaming the poor for buying things that may not be essential, and start shaming the rich for making a profit off things that are essential?
October 23, 2025 at 8:19 PM