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I regret to inform everyone that BOOTS on Netflix is an accurate portrayal of being a faggot in the Marines.
January 2, 2026 at 2:37 AM
And just like that I'm 10,000 words into my novel.
January 1, 2026 at 10:02 PM
This is a plot from The Wire
In this in-depth interview Billie Jean Sweeney — a former editor at The New York Times — details how the paper shifted towards openly promoting anti-trans hatred, why this was directed from the very top, how some staff pushed back and the immense damage done by the NYT legitimizing bigotry.
'A directive from above': Former NYT editor lays out how the paper pushes anti-trans bigotry
In this in-depth interview, former New York Times editor Billie Jean Sweeney details how the paper shifted towards openly promoting anti-trans hatred, how some staff tried to stop it, how it's directe...
transnews.network
January 1, 2026 at 7:20 PM
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one hope is have for 2026 is that more folks join Paper Cult Club, an indie tabletop-focused forum i truly adore papercult.club
papercult.club
January 1, 2026 at 6:36 PM
I've been writing off and on for 27 years now that's silly to think
January 1, 2026 at 4:05 PM
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update
January 1, 2026 at 5:19 AM
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UHHHH

GUYS???
January 1, 2026 at 7:50 AM
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2026 is the year you don't give up on your drawing goals.

Let my bootcamp help take some of the guesswork out of learning portraits. I use short, structured drills designed to work with a busy schedule.

New Year's sale = last discount until next winter 🤍 👉 bit.ly/sylportrait
January 1, 2026 at 5:00 AM
2025 felt like getting my ass kicked every week but I had the love and support of my partner so it's been both the worst and best year I've ever had. Still here.
January 1, 2026 at 6:47 AM
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December 19, 2025 at 3:02 AM
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the 2000s and 2010s were full of people in the entertainment world being rightly fired for saying things that pale in comparison to what comes from prominent Republicans today and the main difference is that major national news media have accepted "Republicans are racist" as no longer newsworthy
the racism coming from the entire conservative movement targeting the somali community is so goddam disgusting and its just being completely ignored
December 31, 2025 at 7:00 PM
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been thinking about this lou reed interview again recently
i’ve been watching old lou reed interviews and i’m obsessed with this 50 year old interview and his response to being asked if he identifies as a transvestite or homosexual
December 30, 2025 at 3:45 AM
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THE DAY CARES ARE LOCKED BECAUSE YOU MADE A GENERATION-LONG EFFORT TO MAKE IT AS EASY AS POSSIBLE TO KILL THE CHILDREN INSIDE THEM YOU ABSOLUTE FUCKING GHOULS
these fucking people. they pass laws to make sure every person with a screw loose who wants an Armalite can show up to the day care armed & ready to kill, then complain that the day cares are locked to protect the children inside
CNN: “Surely you don’t think a daycare should be unlocked.”

SHIRLEY: “There should be a reception area.”

CNN: “No, every day care is locked.”

SHIRLEY: “Fair point.” 🤔

He shows up to a day care with masked men and wonders why they don’t let him in.
December 31, 2025 at 7:30 PM
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Here's another one I like. This one's from Sam Morril:
December 31, 2025 at 7:23 PM
I was treated by this in my workspace before I went back to working at home. Feels much better to be able to curate my environment as a trans woman
In response to "who is saying this"---

Okay, so like. Everyone? Even progressives, allies, cis queer people, and yes, trans people treat trans women as simply men-in-drag and consider the inclusion of trans women in women's spaces to be a kind of wedge into gender-neutrality.

It's pervasive!
There are a lot of things people get wrong about trans women but "making this space welcoming to cis men will make it more welcoming to trans women!" is I think the most wrong and also most common thing that a lot of folks are maddeningly attached to.
December 31, 2025 at 6:17 AM
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i too have begun watching the straight man hockey podcasts discuss heated rivalry. this is the forum of athens to me
December 30, 2025 at 7:16 PM
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One day I'll do a video on my journal I made for my game of Tangled Blessings (a solo journaling rpg)

This is only book one of a planned trilogy.
December 31, 2025 at 12:34 AM
The only ttrpg discourse I'm interested in is about actionable things people can enable like dei, wage equity and labor rights
December 30, 2025 at 8:51 PM
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Statement Re: OU Discrimination Investigation

Today, my client, Mel Curth, submitted her appeal of the University's Institutional Equity Office finding that she engaged in arbitrary and capricious grading of a student's assignment in violation of that student's religious liberty.
December 30, 2025 at 4:36 PM
One of the most depressing things for me was trying (and failing) to convince my business mentor years ago about this. A person who "practices" zen that has no regard for labor rights.

He was coaching his cadre of influencer students to use AI daily.
I don't know who needs to hear this, but opposing GenAI is not about opposing technology, it's about opposing capitalists.

GenAI is not a technology: it's a massive automation of theft, masquerading as an industry, run by grifters.

Don't hate computers, hate the capitalists behind the curtain.
December 30, 2025 at 4:55 PM
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I think it's really worth noting that literally ZERO mainstream media outlets were talking about Trump claiming a land strike on Venezuela until a few others and I noticed this post here on Sunday and started asking questions. That goes completely unacknowledged in coverage.
Trump says this December 26 in an interview with John Catsimatidis that the US destroyed a drug trafficking plant in Venezuela on Christmas Eve.

“They have a big plant. A building from where the boats leave. Two nights ago we hit them hard.”
December 30, 2025 at 3:43 PM
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Some hack loser with an AI profile pic is cool with throwing trans people on the fire because it doesn’t directly hurt him? I’m shocked.
December 30, 2025 at 2:53 PM
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USPS quietly changed its postmark rules — mail is no longer dated when you drop it off. The “official” date is when it hits automated sorting — sometimes days later

Which could have major implications for mail in voting — it’s a clever way to disenfranchise voters that’s going largely overlooked
December 29, 2025 at 7:14 PM
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You might consider, in ttrpgs we all earn so little that this kind of thing doesn't matter; you sending a friend $19.17 every 6 months isn't much in the grand scheme of things, but the goal is bigger than that, it's about setting standards. You do this, I do this, in 10 years? Everyone does this.
We're always refining, but the SPG Royalty Process shakes out like this; We ask everyone to keep rough track of how many hours they spend on work, and how that time is spent across pieces of work. If someone struggles with this, we ask them to estimate it at the end of the project.
Would love to hear more about it!
December 29, 2025 at 11:21 PM
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