Jami, Part-Time Sapphic
@celestialgreen.bsky.social
Former musicologist. A little obsessed with games, cats, horror, and witchcraft. Chaotic bisexual. Incredible bibliophile. Disabled, ADHD, a little too nice for my own good. Will read tarot for you. She/they, genderqueer. (Art by StinaMarie).
My wife and I are going through my bookshelves, putting some things in storage to make room for new purchases. She leaves to go to the store, and I pick up @laurelhightower.bsky.social 's CROSSROADS.
Immediately, the X-Files Theme comes on the stereo in full shuffle. Laurel, is this a sign?
Immediately, the X-Files Theme comes on the stereo in full shuffle. Laurel, is this a sign?
November 16, 2025 at 1:45 AM
My wife and I are going through my bookshelves, putting some things in storage to make room for new purchases. She leaves to go to the store, and I pick up @laurelhightower.bsky.social 's CROSSROADS.
Immediately, the X-Files Theme comes on the stereo in full shuffle. Laurel, is this a sign?
Immediately, the X-Files Theme comes on the stereo in full shuffle. Laurel, is this a sign?
The holidays are a time when I remember that most of my family is A) dead; or B) doesn't want anything to do with me.
But I kind of miss feeling the warmth and magick of the winter. So we're inviting over friends and some queer kids from the local college who don't have supportive families.
But I kind of miss feeling the warmth and magick of the winter. So we're inviting over friends and some queer kids from the local college who don't have supportive families.
November 14, 2025 at 11:47 PM
The holidays are a time when I remember that most of my family is A) dead; or B) doesn't want anything to do with me.
But I kind of miss feeling the warmth and magick of the winter. So we're inviting over friends and some queer kids from the local college who don't have supportive families.
But I kind of miss feeling the warmth and magick of the winter. So we're inviting over friends and some queer kids from the local college who don't have supportive families.
Guys, I accidentally swallowed my gum and all I can think about is how when I was little, my mom convinced me it would clog up my butthole.
November 13, 2025 at 11:47 PM
Guys, I accidentally swallowed my gum and all I can think about is how when I was little, my mom convinced me it would clog up my butthole.
I finally paid off my credit card! But two days later, because I didn't "request a pay-off" (not obviously offered on the website) they charged me $84 of interest on literally a balance of $0.
So I paid it and closed the account. If it's that much of a fucking scam, I'll live with the credit ding.
So I paid it and closed the account. If it's that much of a fucking scam, I'll live with the credit ding.
November 12, 2025 at 7:49 PM
I finally paid off my credit card! But two days later, because I didn't "request a pay-off" (not obviously offered on the website) they charged me $84 of interest on literally a balance of $0.
So I paid it and closed the account. If it's that much of a fucking scam, I'll live with the credit ding.
So I paid it and closed the account. If it's that much of a fucking scam, I'll live with the credit ding.
I listened to a lot of Black artists as a kid. From Rhythm Nation to Free Your Mind, I loved their music, and I craved their words.
I don't know if they expected to reach a little white girl who'd never met a Black person. But I hope if we met, they'd think I turned out okay. Thanks for everything.
I don't know if they expected to reach a little white girl who'd never met a Black person. But I hope if we met, they'd think I turned out okay. Thanks for everything.
November 12, 2025 at 12:33 AM
I listened to a lot of Black artists as a kid. From Rhythm Nation to Free Your Mind, I loved their music, and I craved their words.
I don't know if they expected to reach a little white girl who'd never met a Black person. But I hope if we met, they'd think I turned out okay. Thanks for everything.
I don't know if they expected to reach a little white girl who'd never met a Black person. But I hope if we met, they'd think I turned out okay. Thanks for everything.
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Nothin else for it
October 20, 2025 at 4:02 PM
Nothin else for it
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oh! does this mean… i’m winning…
November 9, 2025 at 3:50 AM
oh! does this mean… i’m winning…
Horror mutuals: I'm hopelessly behind on horror film.
What is a horror film that's popular/a classic, but is so good that it deserves to be?
What is a horror film that's popular/a classic, but is so good that it deserves to be?
November 8, 2025 at 8:53 PM
Horror mutuals: I'm hopelessly behind on horror film.
What is a horror film that's popular/a classic, but is so good that it deserves to be?
What is a horror film that's popular/a classic, but is so good that it deserves to be?
Yesterday? Las Vegas.
Today? THE PLAGUE.
Today? THE PLAGUE.
November 5, 2025 at 11:20 PM
Yesterday? Las Vegas.
Today? THE PLAGUE.
Today? THE PLAGUE.
One thing I've learned from a week in Vegas:
The deserts in Oregon are not arid. I didn't know what the word "arid" meant until I traveled to Nevada. My nose is bleeding, my skin is reptilian, and I can't stay fucking hydrated.
DIMENSION 20 TOMORROW, BABY
The deserts in Oregon are not arid. I didn't know what the word "arid" meant until I traveled to Nevada. My nose is bleeding, my skin is reptilian, and I can't stay fucking hydrated.
DIMENSION 20 TOMORROW, BABY
October 31, 2025 at 8:26 PM
One thing I've learned from a week in Vegas:
The deserts in Oregon are not arid. I didn't know what the word "arid" meant until I traveled to Nevada. My nose is bleeding, my skin is reptilian, and I can't stay fucking hydrated.
DIMENSION 20 TOMORROW, BABY
The deserts in Oregon are not arid. I didn't know what the word "arid" meant until I traveled to Nevada. My nose is bleeding, my skin is reptilian, and I can't stay fucking hydrated.
DIMENSION 20 TOMORROW, BABY
I’m officially claiming Emma Thompson as my ancestor. Yes, I know she’s not dead. No, I will not be taking questions at this time.
"I DON'T NEED YOU TO FUCKING REWRITE WHAT I'VE JUST WRITTEN!"
October 28, 2025 at 7:25 PM
I’m officially claiming Emma Thompson as my ancestor. Yes, I know she’s not dead. No, I will not be taking questions at this time.
Block them and move on. They came here to stir the pot and to troll us, and we shouldn't be credulous enough to fall for it.
I know we're all overwhelmed and overstimulated by terrible news right now, but let's all touch some grass and unplug for a hot minute. We're just falling into a trap.
I know we're all overwhelmed and overstimulated by terrible news right now, but let's all touch some grass and unplug for a hot minute. We're just falling into a trap.
Y’all, I am begging you to not give into rage-baiting.
Bluesky doesn’t have an algorithm. The only way anyone will see a post from someone they don’t follow on bluesky is if it’s replied to or reposted.
The way we beat trolls here is to starve them out. Block them and move on.
Bluesky doesn’t have an algorithm. The only way anyone will see a post from someone they don’t follow on bluesky is if it’s replied to or reposted.
The way we beat trolls here is to starve them out. Block them and move on.
Unblocked the White House account for a sec just to check activity, and boy is it active. People earnestly replying to obvious trolling, why.
October 19, 2025 at 8:44 PM
Block them and move on. They came here to stir the pot and to troll us, and we shouldn't be credulous enough to fall for it.
I know we're all overwhelmed and overstimulated by terrible news right now, but let's all touch some grass and unplug for a hot minute. We're just falling into a trap.
I know we're all overwhelmed and overstimulated by terrible news right now, but let's all touch some grass and unplug for a hot minute. We're just falling into a trap.
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Powerful letter from a non-verbal autistic person. Give it two minutes of your night and feel your heart expand.
October 19, 2025 at 5:15 AM
Powerful letter from a non-verbal autistic person. Give it two minutes of your night and feel your heart expand.
Okay, so I finally caught Scream (1996) today. It was a fun time.
I have to say, the whole section on "Jamie Lee, show us your tits" is certainly something (coming from someone whose name is Jami Lee, after the Scream Queen.) I had the weirdest impulse to flash the screen...
I have to say, the whole section on "Jamie Lee, show us your tits" is certainly something (coming from someone whose name is Jami Lee, after the Scream Queen.) I had the weirdest impulse to flash the screen...
October 17, 2025 at 10:16 PM
Okay, so I finally caught Scream (1996) today. It was a fun time.
I have to say, the whole section on "Jamie Lee, show us your tits" is certainly something (coming from someone whose name is Jami Lee, after the Scream Queen.) I had the weirdest impulse to flash the screen...
I have to say, the whole section on "Jamie Lee, show us your tits" is certainly something (coming from someone whose name is Jami Lee, after the Scream Queen.) I had the weirdest impulse to flash the screen...
I'm going to Las Vegas at the end of the month (sort of a late 40th birthday trip to see Dimension 20's live show.) I've strictly promised myself: I can only bring three books.
Now, I have a TBR that is approximately 3 bookCASES large. Double-stacked. It's bad, y'all. What's a girl to do?
Now, I have a TBR that is approximately 3 bookCASES large. Double-stacked. It's bad, y'all. What's a girl to do?
October 17, 2025 at 1:40 AM
I'm going to Las Vegas at the end of the month (sort of a late 40th birthday trip to see Dimension 20's live show.) I've strictly promised myself: I can only bring three books.
Now, I have a TBR that is approximately 3 bookCASES large. Double-stacked. It's bad, y'all. What's a girl to do?
Now, I have a TBR that is approximately 3 bookCASES large. Double-stacked. It's bad, y'all. What's a girl to do?
I clearly need Bo around for when my male friends/family question every little thing I do. Just to pop up and say "can we unpack why you think you know better?"
Be like Bo.
Be like Bo.
Male Friend, watching me sew: That seems inefficient.
Me: Oh, what would you change?
Friend: I dunno but there's gotta be a better way.
Me: ...Okay, well since this is thousands of years of innovations manifest, I want you to ponder what that way is and also unpack why you think you know better.
Me: Oh, what would you change?
Friend: I dunno but there's gotta be a better way.
Me: ...Okay, well since this is thousands of years of innovations manifest, I want you to ponder what that way is and also unpack why you think you know better.
October 16, 2025 at 4:45 AM
I clearly need Bo around for when my male friends/family question every little thing I do. Just to pop up and say "can we unpack why you think you know better?"
Be like Bo.
Be like Bo.
At this point, my daily social media habits are as follows:
*opens up Bluesky*
"Yup, still terrible."
*closes Bluesky*
And then I go back to my life, doing the best I can to make small differences, adding my drop to the bucket.
And reading horror novels, ofc
*opens up Bluesky*
"Yup, still terrible."
*closes Bluesky*
And then I go back to my life, doing the best I can to make small differences, adding my drop to the bucket.
And reading horror novels, ofc
October 11, 2025 at 10:27 PM
At this point, my daily social media habits are as follows:
*opens up Bluesky*
"Yup, still terrible."
*closes Bluesky*
And then I go back to my life, doing the best I can to make small differences, adding my drop to the bucket.
And reading horror novels, ofc
*opens up Bluesky*
"Yup, still terrible."
*closes Bluesky*
And then I go back to my life, doing the best I can to make small differences, adding my drop to the bucket.
And reading horror novels, ofc
Welp, I'm 40 now. Do I need to change my wardrobe, or start eating senior cat food, or...?
October 7, 2025 at 10:05 PM
Welp, I'm 40 now. Do I need to change my wardrobe, or start eating senior cat food, or...?
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I'm genuinely starting to think that the people who say they want to see American's really fight back are really saying they want a specific kind of visible, stereotypical depiction of protest, and have zero zero tolerance for the kind of groundwork it takes to make change happen.
October 6, 2025 at 11:03 PM
I'm genuinely starting to think that the people who say they want to see American's really fight back are really saying they want a specific kind of visible, stereotypical depiction of protest, and have zero zero tolerance for the kind of groundwork it takes to make change happen.
I want to be on social media to converse with my mutuals and people I care about, but does it seem to anyone else like everyone on this site is out to make absolutely every little comment into a fucking pedantic debate? Even on topics other than politics.
I don't have the spoons for this, y'all.
I don't have the spoons for this, y'all.
October 2, 2025 at 4:36 AM
I want to be on social media to converse with my mutuals and people I care about, but does it seem to anyone else like everyone on this site is out to make absolutely every little comment into a fucking pedantic debate? Even on topics other than politics.
I don't have the spoons for this, y'all.
I don't have the spoons for this, y'all.
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Go make something rad today.
Go learn something new today.
Go tell someone you love them today.
Get on the dance floor of life and flex all your moves.
The fascist can never move like you can. Never love like you can. Never see the future you will create.
Be happy, be loved, be human.
Go learn something new today.
Go tell someone you love them today.
Get on the dance floor of life and flex all your moves.
The fascist can never move like you can. Never love like you can. Never see the future you will create.
Be happy, be loved, be human.
September 23, 2025 at 2:32 PM
Go make something rad today.
Go learn something new today.
Go tell someone you love them today.
Get on the dance floor of life and flex all your moves.
The fascist can never move like you can. Never love like you can. Never see the future you will create.
Be happy, be loved, be human.
Go learn something new today.
Go tell someone you love them today.
Get on the dance floor of life and flex all your moves.
The fascist can never move like you can. Never love like you can. Never see the future you will create.
Be happy, be loved, be human.
I've been suffering from a PTSD episode since yesterday. A friend's husband is giving me a lot of old triggers and I haven't been able to shake loose of the panic in my body, of feeling trapped and unable to escape.
I'm watching a playthrough of Silent Hill F, and I feel my body calming.
I'm watching a playthrough of Silent Hill F, and I feel my body calming.
September 25, 2025 at 9:29 PM
I've been suffering from a PTSD episode since yesterday. A friend's husband is giving me a lot of old triggers and I haven't been able to shake loose of the panic in my body, of feeling trapped and unable to escape.
I'm watching a playthrough of Silent Hill F, and I feel my body calming.
I'm watching a playthrough of Silent Hill F, and I feel my body calming.
My sister and I are both ADHD. But we don't know where it came from, because we're the first to get diagnosed.
All I can think is how my grandmother would constantly burn my grilled cheese because she'd walk away and forget it was on. Maybe it came from somewhere, after all?
All I can think is how my grandmother would constantly burn my grilled cheese because she'd walk away and forget it was on. Maybe it came from somewhere, after all?
September 17, 2025 at 8:13 PM
My sister and I are both ADHD. But we don't know where it came from, because we're the first to get diagnosed.
All I can think is how my grandmother would constantly burn my grilled cheese because she'd walk away and forget it was on. Maybe it came from somewhere, after all?
All I can think is how my grandmother would constantly burn my grilled cheese because she'd walk away and forget it was on. Maybe it came from somewhere, after all?
I cried a lot in therapy today. I cried because two Black men were found hanged in Alabama. Because gun violence exists. Because I can't even help my own friend in an abusive marriage. My heart is too soft for this world, friends. I keep going because I don't know what the hell else to do.
September 16, 2025 at 11:20 PM
I cried a lot in therapy today. I cried because two Black men were found hanged in Alabama. Because gun violence exists. Because I can't even help my own friend in an abusive marriage. My heart is too soft for this world, friends. I keep going because I don't know what the hell else to do.
I'm so discouraged today. America is *gestures wildly at everything*. And I found out that a friend of mine is in an abusive relationship and doesn't know how to get out.
And then Athena comes to me, her voice gentle: "you can't do everything, Jami. You're only obligated to do your part."
And then Athena comes to me, her voice gentle: "you can't do everything, Jami. You're only obligated to do your part."
September 15, 2025 at 8:21 PM
I'm so discouraged today. America is *gestures wildly at everything*. And I found out that a friend of mine is in an abusive relationship and doesn't know how to get out.
And then Athena comes to me, her voice gentle: "you can't do everything, Jami. You're only obligated to do your part."
And then Athena comes to me, her voice gentle: "you can't do everything, Jami. You're only obligated to do your part."