BJ 🏳️⚧️
@bellamyj.blacksky.app
(they/them)
Probably talking about disability. Maybe shitposting.
Probably talking about disability. Maybe shitposting.
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BJ 🏳️⚧️
@bellamyj.blacksky.app
· Sep 12
If I was a dick to you online in recent years then I apologize.
I didn't know or understand my own limitations but I'm getting a grasp on them. I allowed social media to shape my engagement with others in really unhealthy ways that made existing issues worse.
Not doing that anymore.
I didn't know or understand my own limitations but I'm getting a grasp on them. I allowed social media to shape my engagement with others in really unhealthy ways that made existing issues worse.
Not doing that anymore.
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Today's quick update [Nov 10]:
- RSF/SPLM-N (Alhilu) drone strikes reported in Um Birimbeeta, South Kordofan (red).
- Fighting has been escalating in the state, with repeated drone strikes and shelling campaigns on several cities and towns.
#KeepEyesOnSudan
- RSF/SPLM-N (Alhilu) drone strikes reported in Um Birimbeeta, South Kordofan (red).
- Fighting has been escalating in the state, with repeated drone strikes and shelling campaigns on several cities and towns.
#KeepEyesOnSudan
November 11, 2025 at 3:56 AM
Today's quick update [Nov 10]:
- RSF/SPLM-N (Alhilu) drone strikes reported in Um Birimbeeta, South Kordofan (red).
- Fighting has been escalating in the state, with repeated drone strikes and shelling campaigns on several cities and towns.
#KeepEyesOnSudan
- RSF/SPLM-N (Alhilu) drone strikes reported in Um Birimbeeta, South Kordofan (red).
- Fighting has been escalating in the state, with repeated drone strikes and shelling campaigns on several cities and towns.
#KeepEyesOnSudan
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payment is due in two weeks
My car was declared a total loss and my top surgery date is in less than 2 months, so I'm just going to put this here again because if I explain the situation any further again I'm honestly going to have another mental breakdown
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November 11, 2025 at 1:28 AM
payment is due in two weeks
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If someone is growing, don't shame them
But if someone is harming others and closed to feedback, shame is a powerful deterrent, both for them and for others who observe them
But if someone is harming others and closed to feedback, shame is a powerful deterrent, both for them and for others who observe them
There's a category of shamey correction where you don't need agreement or growth, you just need a person to stop harming others.
This is socially useful.
This is socially useful.
November 11, 2025 at 12:57 AM
If someone is growing, don't shame them
But if someone is harming others and closed to feedback, shame is a powerful deterrent, both for them and for others who observe them
But if someone is harming others and closed to feedback, shame is a powerful deterrent, both for them and for others who observe them
Geography. Geography everywhere.
I'm just here to gush about Sylvia Wynter again don't mind me.
November 11, 2025 at 12:37 AM
Geography. Geography everywhere.
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I'm just here to gush about Sylvia Wynter again don't mind me.
November 10, 2025 at 11:53 PM
I'm just here to gush about Sylvia Wynter again don't mind me.
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I've put off going to the doctor for a handful of years because the majority of doctors are just as stupid as the ones commenting in this reddit thread. Having to explain basic shit to someone who has a doctorate is nauseating
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From the healthcare community on Reddit
Explore this post and more from the healthcare community
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November 10, 2025 at 8:05 PM
I've put off going to the doctor for a handful of years because the majority of doctors are just as stupid as the ones commenting in this reddit thread. Having to explain basic shit to someone who has a doctorate is nauseating
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Can anyone point me to a study or other data showing that the majority of relinquishing parents *don’t* want to be anonymous? It’s needed for lobbying.
I can look through the citations in Relinquished by @gretchensisson.bsky.social but I’m hoping someone has quicker access to the info.
I can look through the citations in Relinquished by @gretchensisson.bsky.social but I’m hoping someone has quicker access to the info.
November 10, 2025 at 8:13 PM
Can anyone point me to a study or other data showing that the majority of relinquishing parents *don’t* want to be anonymous? It’s needed for lobbying.
I can look through the citations in Relinquished by @gretchensisson.bsky.social but I’m hoping someone has quicker access to the info.
I can look through the citations in Relinquished by @gretchensisson.bsky.social but I’m hoping someone has quicker access to the info.
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My family could use some help!
Donate to Keep a Roof Over a Family in Need, organized by Christabel Byrd
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October 25, 2025 at 12:27 AM
My family could use some help!
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Putting this out there again as my family tries to find some stability
November 10, 2025 at 5:29 PM
Putting this out there again as my family tries to find some stability
The absolute refusal, across the political spectrum, to be even mildly uncomfortable has helped make all of this possible.
It's never too late to put a mask on your face (N95).
It's never too late to clean the air.
It's never too late to put a mask on your face (N95).
It's never too late to clean the air.
COVID was the ruling classes experiment to see if people would give up on the social contract to prioritize themselves, once they saw people were willing to let disabled, elderly and poor people die for their own convenience, they have slowly taken the mask fully off day by day and now we are here.
November 10, 2025 at 5:01 PM
The absolute refusal, across the political spectrum, to be even mildly uncomfortable has helped make all of this possible.
It's never too late to put a mask on your face (N95).
It's never too late to clean the air.
It's never too late to put a mask on your face (N95).
It's never too late to clean the air.
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COVID was the ruling classes experiment to see if people would give up on the social contract to prioritize themselves, once they saw people were willing to let disabled, elderly and poor people die for their own convenience, they have slowly taken the mask fully off day by day and now we are here.
November 10, 2025 at 2:43 PM
COVID was the ruling classes experiment to see if people would give up on the social contract to prioritize themselves, once they saw people were willing to let disabled, elderly and poor people die for their own convenience, they have slowly taken the mask fully off day by day and now we are here.
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People were saying Covid was the litmus test and this country failed. HARD.
November 10, 2025 at 2:49 PM
People were saying Covid was the litmus test and this country failed. HARD.
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That’s what’s been so….debilitating about the last 5 years for me, knowing that as shit gets worse here, people who exist on the fringes of society like me are going to be thrown to the wolves. I can say that because I saw it happen once Covid started. It’s been wild.
November 10, 2025 at 2:53 PM
That’s what’s been so….debilitating about the last 5 years for me, knowing that as shit gets worse here, people who exist on the fringes of society like me are going to be thrown to the wolves. I can say that because I saw it happen once Covid started. It’s been wild.
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“I embraced my duckbill N95 identity at school and I credit my N95s, along with vaccinations and air purifiers, with helping me stay healthy!” —Norah Mason teaches special education in a 500-plus person elementary school.
Interviewed by @msjulieslam.bsky.social
Interviewed by @msjulieslam.bsky.social
November 10, 2025 at 4:16 PM
“I embraced my duckbill N95 identity at school and I credit my N95s, along with vaccinations and air purifiers, with helping me stay healthy!” —Norah Mason teaches special education in a 500-plus person elementary school.
Interviewed by @msjulieslam.bsky.social
Interviewed by @msjulieslam.bsky.social
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The Biden Administration reduced the COVID isolation guidelines from 10 days to 5 (when many are infectious for 14 days) because of a letter from the CEO of JetBlue. Fauci defended this decision as "preserving societal function." Sure didn't help anyone who went on to be disabled by Long COVID!
Maybe important to note it was the disruption in air travel that Democrats couldn't stand and not, you know, 40+ million people not knowing where their next meal was coming from.
November 10, 2025 at 4:19 PM
The Biden Administration reduced the COVID isolation guidelines from 10 days to 5 (when many are infectious for 14 days) because of a letter from the CEO of JetBlue. Fauci defended this decision as "preserving societal function." Sure didn't help anyone who went on to be disabled by Long COVID!
I'd be dead if not for the people I've found online.
Tern is right. It’s great having an informed online community that’s adapted to the ongoing pandemic reality and is doing everything possible to stay safe.
I know it’s been a tough ride, but please know you are not alone.
Source: x.com/1goodtern/st...
I know it’s been a tough ride, but please know you are not alone.
Source: x.com/1goodtern/st...
November 10, 2025 at 8:43 AM
I'd be dead if not for the people I've found online.
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Tern is right. It’s great having an informed online community that’s adapted to the ongoing pandemic reality and is doing everything possible to stay safe.
I know it’s been a tough ride, but please know you are not alone.
Source: x.com/1goodtern/st...
I know it’s been a tough ride, but please know you are not alone.
Source: x.com/1goodtern/st...
November 10, 2025 at 6:25 AM
Tern is right. It’s great having an informed online community that’s adapted to the ongoing pandemic reality and is doing everything possible to stay safe.
I know it’s been a tough ride, but please know you are not alone.
Source: x.com/1goodtern/st...
I know it’s been a tough ride, but please know you are not alone.
Source: x.com/1goodtern/st...
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By any other name..
#Photography #landscape #travel #wildlife #abstract #astro #macro
#bloomscrolling
#Photography #landscape #travel #wildlife #abstract #astro #macro
#bloomscrolling
November 9, 2025 at 10:24 PM
By any other name..
#Photography #landscape #travel #wildlife #abstract #astro #macro
#bloomscrolling
#Photography #landscape #travel #wildlife #abstract #astro #macro
#bloomscrolling
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"What is this life if full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare."
- W.H. Davies.
Don't you love the simplicity of this dahlia? 💮
#dahlia
#dailyflowers 🌱
#flowerreport
#bloomscrolling
We have no time to stand and stare."
- W.H. Davies.
Don't you love the simplicity of this dahlia? 💮
#dahlia
#dailyflowers 🌱
#flowerreport
#bloomscrolling
November 10, 2025 at 12:29 AM
"What is this life if full of care,
We have no time to stand and stare."
- W.H. Davies.
Don't you love the simplicity of this dahlia? 💮
#dahlia
#dailyflowers 🌱
#flowerreport
#bloomscrolling
We have no time to stand and stare."
- W.H. Davies.
Don't you love the simplicity of this dahlia? 💮
#dahlia
#dailyflowers 🌱
#flowerreport
#bloomscrolling
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November 10, 2025 at 1:32 AM