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Normal Human Despair
@bairfanx.bsky.social
poet. writer. educator. queer.

Display name and tag are both references to old forgotten jokes.
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Some days you just gotta Blair Witch
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a comic in pristine, unread shape. an unloved thing
November 27, 2025 at 9:58 AM
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I think that @asherelbein.bsky.social is basically right in this whole thread but it’s not just DC, it’s not just political journalism, it’s not just journalism, the problem is that we live in a society that prizes grift and vice and cares for nothing. It’s the whole thing bsky.app/profile/ashe...
Speaking as a journalist, it has long been clear — and more so all the time — that something is *rotting* in the world of New York and Washington political reporting. Actively, visibly suppurating. Oozing with maggots. Even as many of the people in that world have denied it.
November 27, 2025 at 3:31 AM
Oh no. I somehow didn’t even think of this being A Thing.
NEW: AI “recipe slop” is overrunning search and social. Food creators say Google’s AI Overviews and glossy fake food pics are drowning out real, tested recipes — collapsing traffic and setting home cooks up for disaster, especially this Thanksgiving.

Gift link: www.bloomberg.com/news/article...
AI Slop Recipes Are Taking Over the Internet -- And Thanksgiving Dinner
Food bloggers see traffic dip as home cooks turn to AI, inspired by impossible pictures
www.bloomberg.com
November 25, 2025 at 5:46 PM
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Right now the only way for the vast majority of writers and artists to make any kind of a modest living is to self-publish. All but the luckiest few are having to do this. This means the only income most of us have is from Crowdfunded projects. If you love what someone does & can afford it, pay them
November 24, 2025 at 10:45 AM
I would fake sick to stay home and watch this show, because it was on at TEN AM FOR SOME REASON
Servo.

Gridman.

Superhuman Samurai Syber-Squad.

Gridman the Hyper Agent.

TOKUSATSU!!!!
November 23, 2025 at 11:20 PM
Unlike you, I get my news from a RELIABLE source
November 22, 2025 at 3:32 PM
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“THE NON-ARTIST FIXATION ON HYPERREALISM AS THE PINNACLE OF ART IS CLEARLY PART OF THE REASON SO MANY ADULTS THINK THEY CANNOT DRAW OR CONSIDER THEMSELVES TO BE FAILURES, KAWAII, FOLK ART, DOODLES, OR OTHER EASIER ENTRY POINTS ARE CONSIDERED CHILDISH, WHICH IS WHY JAPANESE DRAWING BOOKS ARE BETTER…”
November 21, 2025 at 9:24 PM
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AOC on MTG retiring: "She's carefully timing her departure just 1-2 days after her pension kicks in and after making millions of dollars insider trading stocks for weapons manufacturers and others while in office."
November 22, 2025 at 2:36 PM
My brain: what if, when the anxiety gets to be too much, we hop on that exercise bike you never use

Me, starting to cry in the exercise bike: idk if this was the best idea.
November 22, 2025 at 2:31 PM
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"Why do you still talk about being queer online right now?"

Because fuck the state

"Why do you still talk about being autistic online right now?"

Because fuck the state

"Why do you still --"

Because fuck the state all day every day
November 22, 2025 at 1:32 PM
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“Critics who actually watch a great deal of streaming television for the purpose of appraising it these days are somewhat like children staring directly at the sun. You’re not supposed to watch it! The whole point is that it’s supposed to just be there, glowing, while you do something else.”
Everything Is Television
A theory of culture and attention
www.derekthompson.org
November 22, 2025 at 5:29 AM
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New from my distributor I foolishly read on this, my supposed week off.

@ironcircuscomics.bsky.social does a lot of library business. I'm dreading that January statement.

Gang, if you have ever wanted an Iron Circus title, now would be a wonderful time for you to grab one. 💀

store.ironcircus.com
November 21, 2025 at 4:30 PM
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Using a dishwasher rather than hand washing can save you nine days of personal time over the course of a year.
Friendly reminder that dishwashers made after 1995 or so are so water and energy efficient that even if you ran them twice fully loaded it would still use less water than handwashing the same load.

So many "green" things feel like sacrifices. Dishwashers are not one of them.
November 21, 2025 at 8:47 PM
Watching I Saw the TV Glow and thinking about when I was a kid playing Ghostbusters with my friends and how real that felt.
November 22, 2025 at 12:37 AM
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Also, please employ a vibe check clause, if you have explicit rules the worst people will game the system and get as close to the limit without crossing the line. Make sure to kick those fuckers out too.
Reminded by a conversation in a community that I'm part of: If you're forming or moderating a large social group, you NEED to have explicit and accessible policies around harassment and abuse. Social compact is absolutely not enough.
November 21, 2025 at 11:38 PM
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Rekha always had "I worked at a hot dog stand" energy 🌭
November 21, 2025 at 3:32 AM
I laughed at the absurdity of this for so long, what the fuck.
Reporter: Are you affirming that you think the president is a fascist?

Mamdani: I've spoken about --

Trump: Just say yes, it's easier than explaining.
November 21, 2025 at 10:23 PM
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Pals! A new @neverpo.st, thank god. Friend of the Show Meghal spent a year fixing an attention span broken by scrolling; hear what she learned in the process.

Then! Meghal speaks w/ the organizers of a New Luddism conference about reclaiming agency from encroaching technology.

Also: MACHINES!
🆕 Never Post! The Year I Learned to Pay Attention
Choose life
www.neverpo.st
November 21, 2025 at 7:28 PM
Really struggling with some shit right now, so I’m listening to official cast recordings of musicals my boyfriend has been in and my god he was so much better than Bob Martin as Drowsy Chaperone’s “Man in Chair.”
November 21, 2025 at 4:41 PM
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while I’m being cranky, access journalism needs to go. When the president does his “I’m alpha because I insulted you” thing somebody needs to fall on his sword and say “what the fuck is wrong with you, old man?” on a hot mic. the hero of the wizard of Oz is Toto.
November 21, 2025 at 12:11 PM
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Holy shit hell yes
November 21, 2025 at 1:28 AM
Today I reported Chicago Public Schools to the city and the state for failing to even try to fix a hostile work environment.
November 8, 2025 at 4:02 AM
Fresh officers get paid less, too. So even if they’re replaced, good for the budget.
Mamdani is already cleaning up the NYPD!
November 8, 2025 at 3:51 AM
I feel like it’s not too much to ask for people to make it clear when they’re posting something that 6+ months old.

“We talked with Morrison about All Star!” Oh, cool. Wait. I recognize this name and don’t really like the podcast, this can’t be the same thing as 6 months ago, can it?

It was.
November 8, 2025 at 3:50 AM
I am 1.5 issues into Absolute Wonder Woman and it’s clearly the best of these reimaginings so far. Beautiful illustrations, killer layouts, a unique style that leaves Diana looking both kind and fierce.
November 2, 2025 at 5:22 PM