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Normal Human Despair
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poet. writer. educator. queer.

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November 27, 2025 at 9:58 AM
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I think that @asherelbein.bsky.social is basically right in this whole thread but it’s not just DC, it’s not just political journalism, it’s not just journalism, the problem is that we live in a society that prizes grift and vice and cares for nothing. It’s the whole thing bsky.app/profile/ashe...
Speaking as a journalist, it has long been clear — and more so all the time — that something is *rotting* in the world of New York and Washington political reporting. Actively, visibly suppurating. Oozing with maggots. Even as many of the people in that world have denied it.
November 27, 2025 at 3:31 AM
To be fair to my brain, I had two days of NOT almost crying on the exercise bike.
November 22, 2025 at 2:36 PM
Also, the actor who plays Maddy’s friend, who eventually accuses her of making a move on her and who Maddy says is like a secret agent sent to ruin her life, ALSO plays Mr. Melancholy. Refuse to believe that’s a coincidence.
November 22, 2025 at 1:29 AM
Fun fact: if you peek inside the gatefold for the vinyl, like, the cardboard sleeve after you pull the sleeved record out, they printed “THERE IS STILL TIME” on the inside.
November 22, 2025 at 1:26 AM
Oh yes. I’ve seen it plenty of times now and I never stop loving it.
November 22, 2025 at 1:21 AM
It’s why I hated a lot of the “is it horror” conversations, too. Because anyone who has ever thought they were too old to live their true life, whatever that may really be, knows exactly what makes this movie terrifying.

I will randomly think “you won’t even remember that you’re dying” and shudder
November 22, 2025 at 1:20 AM
We just sat in the car for I don’t even remember how long afterward, just existing and talking.

I make fun of Sally Sparrow’s “sad is happy for deep people” line in Doctor Who a TON, but this felt so, so beautiful and so terribly sad while still giving you hope.
November 22, 2025 at 1:20 AM
I went into it with the boyfriend thinking it would be a movie reminding me of watching Nick growing up and maybe a bit scary.

The credits rolled and the theater was silent. You could hear the human noise as we all absorbed the movie. Between the theater and the car, my boyfriend started crying
November 22, 2025 at 1:20 AM
I fucking love this movie. So much. The most BORING ASS TAKE anyone ever has is taking “adult Owen watches The Pink Opaque on streaming and it’s bad” at face value.

I want to be clear, you don’t need a canonical, definitive answer to know that’s bullshit, but we have it in the subtitles: FAKE TARA
November 22, 2025 at 1:11 AM
God, Jack Haven is so good. I knew Justice Smith was, and Jack was the most interesting character in Atypical, but Jack really slays the rebirth monologue.
November 22, 2025 at 1:00 AM