You know what I’d like to see more of in polyamory podcasts, especially those that interview “couples” is a discussion between metas without their mutual partner as one of the guests. Rarely is it anything beyond 1:1 partners, but it would be nice to see 1:1 metas or beyond.

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Queer and trans folks in Ohio - what are some local charities/organizations serving you directly? I'm preparing for this year's TTRPGs for Trans Rights bundle, and I want to make sure I'm selecting orgs that are doing on-the-ground work for our communities!

wishing all a happy new year! 🎉

for everyone wanting to make changes in their life for 2025, sharing this thread again: some of my thoughts on new year resolutions and practicing accountability. hope it is helpful. 💘✨

in 2025 we remember the words of Mary Harris Jones: we pray for the dead and fight like hell for the living

“We can realize that we all have places in our lives where we can and need to be more accountable, including being accountable to ourselves, and that the best way to learn is through doing.” @miamingus.bsky.social
www.soiltjp.org/blog/new-yea...

begging the polyvangelists to realise that polyamory is not the answer to all relationship issues, nor would the world be a better place if everyone was polyamorous. mononormativity is the issue, not monogamy.

Non-monogamy can look a lot of different ways. Tonight, for me, it looks like baking two different kinds of coffee cake - one is low glycemic for my nesting partner, and the other is a sized up batch for my other partner to potentially share with her family. I love food as a care gesture!

a part of loving a disabled person and not being ableist is believing us when we tell you where our ability/energy/spoon levels are at and not blaming us for not being able to “meet halfway”. loving a disabled person means accepting sometimes you’ll have to meet us where we are.

Every so often this Q comes back around & I gotta tap the signs:
1) Having kids is neutral; whether you want them & how you raise them matters
2)There are lots of ways to have kids in your life w/o making your own
3) Thinking w/reproductive justice helps a lot w/all of these questions/decisions

The Polyamory Discourse Season has become too commercialized. They put up the decorations in stores earlier and earlier each year

Queerly Yours is on hiatus, but there's some really great stuff in the archives, including an episode that may be helpful/resonant for folks navigating time with family during winter holidays! Check it out for some supportive, practical thoughts on the season: queerlyyourspodcast.com/2018/11/19/4...

The one problem I've had with polyamory so far...

Me: Hey Hun?

Both partners: Yeah?

Me: .... Fuck I call everyone I love Hun. 😥

Sharing my best work from 2024 over the next few posts! here’s one from the summer, called “Doing good”
#artsky #fineart #mentalhealth

organizingmythoughts.org/the-power-of...

Free downloadable 57-minute preview of the audiobook now available. Link in my bio.

Queerly Yours is a relationship advice podcast co-hosted by @phoenix24femme.bsky.social and @beatingthebinary.bsky.social! We've been on hiatus for a while (a great moment to check out past episodes!) and have some ideas percolating for episodes we'd love to do in future. queerlyyourspodcast.com