Lilly 🏳️🌈
@lillydelvaux.bsky.social
Queer weirdo. I try too hard. Autistic, adhd, neurodivergent anxious mess in perimenopause hell. Still masking. Disabled. Current fixation is embroidery!
I'm neurodivergent and my house reflects that. Our living style reflects that. But for a week I will be hosting my mother and it feels like I am preparing for an invasion. I feel so uncomfortable and she's not even here yet.
December 22, 2024 at 9:59 PM
I'm neurodivergent and my house reflects that. Our living style reflects that. But for a week I will be hosting my mother and it feels like I am preparing for an invasion. I feel so uncomfortable and she's not even here yet.
Where are my Connecticut neurodivergent people? Or just New England? Say hello!
November 20, 2024 at 10:45 PM
Where are my Connecticut neurodivergent people? Or just New England? Say hello!
Grab a snack and a drink before proceeding
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Since bad sex toys are so common and the people who make them are so uncreative, I've decided to offer a variety of bad sex toy ideas for sale to anyone foolish enough to make them. Here goes!
Since bad sex toys are so common and the people who make them are so uncreative, I've decided to offer a variety of bad sex toy ideas for sale to anyone foolish enough to make them. Here goes!
November 15, 2024 at 12:28 AM
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Goddamn I'm pissy today for no real reason. I mean there's *gestures vaguely* but no localized tangible thing I can slap.
November 14, 2024 at 7:44 PM
Goddamn I'm pissy today for no real reason. I mean there's *gestures vaguely* but no localized tangible thing I can slap.
quote with your lockscreen
November 14, 2024 at 12:35 PM
quote with your lockscreen
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Swifties please wear well-fitting masks on public transportation and at the concert please 🙏
We already have so much COVID and mycoplasma pneumonia going around it's unreal.
We already have so much COVID and mycoplasma pneumonia going around it's unreal.
November 11, 2024 at 2:07 PM
Swifties please wear well-fitting masks on public transportation and at the concert please 🙏
We already have so much COVID and mycoplasma pneumonia going around it's unreal.
We already have so much COVID and mycoplasma pneumonia going around it's unreal.
I'm finding it hard to do anything this past week, but this is the embroidery I did last month. Yes this is pretty much my only hobby aside from reading which is hard to do lately. I follow patterns none of this is original work.
November 10, 2024 at 5:18 PM
I'm finding it hard to do anything this past week, but this is the embroidery I did last month. Yes this is pretty much my only hobby aside from reading which is hard to do lately. I follow patterns none of this is original work.
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Brain: “don’t make people uncomfortable just because it’s Father’s Day”
Mouth: “I had a dad but he’s dead now”
Mouth: “I had a dad but he’s dead now”
June 16, 2024 at 12:51 PM
Brain: “don’t make people uncomfortable just because it’s Father’s Day”
Mouth: “I had a dad but he’s dead now”
Mouth: “I had a dad but he’s dead now”
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"It’s rare to see anyone emerge from the worst throes of an eating disorder and then resurrect themselves physically, discover the positive feedback loop between literal and emotional strength, and then achieve this kind of demanding physical feat."
The strength of Taylor Swift
A critical analysis/close read of Taylor's relationship with eating and working out. Plus: It's never too late to build muscle; a Murphy-bed-style gym; an online-clothing-scammers explainer. This is L...
www.shesabeast.co
December 9, 2023 at 3:14 AM
"It’s rare to see anyone emerge from the worst throes of an eating disorder and then resurrect themselves physically, discover the positive feedback loop between literal and emotional strength, and then achieve this kind of demanding physical feat."
I am deeply sad to lose Station19. WHAT THE HELL. deadline.com/2023/12/stat...
‘Station 19’ To End With Season 7 On ABC
The upcoming seventh season will be the last for ABC's Station 19.
deadline.com
December 9, 2023 at 1:36 AM
I am deeply sad to lose Station19. WHAT THE HELL. deadline.com/2023/12/stat...
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Everyone show me your menorahs.
December 7, 2023 at 10:30 PM
Everyone show me your menorahs.
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goooodddddammmn
December 7, 2023 at 6:51 PM
goooodddddammmn
Still looking for a better weed drink. Pamos didn't hit any faster than the average edible for me, either, and I'm not sure how I'm gonna make it thru more guava. I need about 5mg thc per serving - any recommendations?
TIL I do not like the taste of guava. It's a fun word to say. Gwaava. I decided to try a different cannabis drink: Nowadays tasted lovely but it wasn't hitting that quick-acting for me. Tried Pamos next. Peach Guava Bellini cocktail in a can. 2 hours later I'm still burping up guava. It's.. Floral??
December 4, 2023 at 11:56 PM
Still looking for a better weed drink. Pamos didn't hit any faster than the average edible for me, either, and I'm not sure how I'm gonna make it thru more guava. I need about 5mg thc per serving - any recommendations?
TIL I do not like the taste of guava. It's a fun word to say. Gwaava. I decided to try a different cannabis drink: Nowadays tasted lovely but it wasn't hitting that quick-acting for me. Tried Pamos next. Peach Guava Bellini cocktail in a can. 2 hours later I'm still burping up guava. It's.. Floral??
December 4, 2023 at 11:49 PM
TIL I do not like the taste of guava. It's a fun word to say. Gwaava. I decided to try a different cannabis drink: Nowadays tasted lovely but it wasn't hitting that quick-acting for me. Tried Pamos next. Peach Guava Bellini cocktail in a can. 2 hours later I'm still burping up guava. It's.. Floral??
Having a disability that can make me wake up injured is incredibly offensive. I assume my right hip (already a problem child) subluxed in my sleep; the referred pain going down the outside of my thigh from hip to halfway down is affecting everything from my ability to put on socks to walking.
November 24, 2023 at 4:49 PM
Having a disability that can make me wake up injured is incredibly offensive. I assume my right hip (already a problem child) subluxed in my sleep; the referred pain going down the outside of my thigh from hip to halfway down is affecting everything from my ability to put on socks to walking.
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Adhd folks I need your best advice on how to manage taking a medication every other day. Once a day, morning, but every other day. I'm concerned that a mere reminder on my phone won't be enough. Gadgets, tricks, gimme whatever you got and see if something sticks. Thank you! #adhd
November 22, 2023 at 12:02 AM
Adhd folks I need your best advice on how to manage taking a medication every other day. Once a day, morning, but every other day. I'm concerned that a mere reminder on my phone won't be enough. Gadgets, tricks, gimme whatever you got and see if something sticks. Thank you! #adhd
Adhd folks I need your best advice on how to manage taking a medication every other day. Once a day, morning, but every other day. I'm concerned that a mere reminder on my phone won't be enough. Gadgets, tricks, gimme whatever you got and see if something sticks. Thank you! #adhd
November 22, 2023 at 12:02 AM
Adhd folks I need your best advice on how to manage taking a medication every other day. Once a day, morning, but every other day. I'm concerned that a mere reminder on my phone won't be enough. Gadgets, tricks, gimme whatever you got and see if something sticks. Thank you! #adhd
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My Hanukkah rom com in the UK Kindle store right now - this is not drill!
Keep it going, gang! 99p in ebook stores for the next couple of days www.amazon.co.uk/Eight-Bright...
Keep it going, gang! 99p in ebook stores for the next couple of days www.amazon.co.uk/Eight-Bright...
November 20, 2023 at 9:38 PM
My Hanukkah rom com in the UK Kindle store right now - this is not drill!
Keep it going, gang! 99p in ebook stores for the next couple of days www.amazon.co.uk/Eight-Bright...
Keep it going, gang! 99p in ebook stores for the next couple of days www.amazon.co.uk/Eight-Bright...
Also I'm showing up with a folder of print outs lol. My last gene med test results, some online info, me typing up my med and diagnosis history as best as I can remember it, plus study on menopause and mental health/adhd.
Hello autistic brain. Now adhd brain better not forget the whole folder.
Hello autistic brain. Now adhd brain better not forget the whole folder.
Tomorrow is yet another 1st appt w a new psych prescriber. My neurodivergent therapist assures me she's one of the best. I have to drive an hour ish both ways for the 1st appt but that's OK. Just want someone w experience treating tricky cases. Also hoping she listens re: menopause & adhd.
November 21, 2023 at 2:28 AM
Also I'm showing up with a folder of print outs lol. My last gene med test results, some online info, me typing up my med and diagnosis history as best as I can remember it, plus study on menopause and mental health/adhd.
Hello autistic brain. Now adhd brain better not forget the whole folder.
Hello autistic brain. Now adhd brain better not forget the whole folder.
Tomorrow is yet another 1st appt w a new psych prescriber. My neurodivergent therapist assures me she's one of the best. I have to drive an hour ish both ways for the 1st appt but that's OK. Just want someone w experience treating tricky cases. Also hoping she listens re: menopause & adhd.
November 21, 2023 at 2:26 AM
Tomorrow is yet another 1st appt w a new psych prescriber. My neurodivergent therapist assures me she's one of the best. I have to drive an hour ish both ways for the 1st appt but that's OK. Just want someone w experience treating tricky cases. Also hoping she listens re: menopause & adhd.
I've had a frustrating work thing happen and I feel like I need to vent about the situation to an outsider and get validation that I in fact am not wrong and get feedback on how I can foolproof even more in the future but it's not something I can share publicly. Neurodivergent struggles I guess.
November 17, 2023 at 8:22 PM
I've had a frustrating work thing happen and I feel like I need to vent about the situation to an outsider and get validation that I in fact am not wrong and get feedback on how I can foolproof even more in the future but it's not something I can share publicly. Neurodivergent struggles I guess.
I don't even remember how long my chronic fatigue lasted after mono but I had it at the end of 10th grade and that was also my last year doing marching band. Also, my then-doctor's treatment was monthly IV Vit C shots. High doses of Vit C (or Quercitin supplement) now get me thru MCAS flares 🤔
In university, I had mono for a month immediately followed by post-viral exhaustion for almost a year. I would never say this to anyone. I was incapable of walking around the block for months. It was AWFUL. My post-viral experience 3 decades ago is a big reasons I do not play around with Covid.
I also really like replies to folks with long covid that are like: Its *only* disabling for like 6 months to two year and then *usually* gets better.
No one who has spent 6 months to two years contending with post-viral illness would ever say this.
No one who has spent 6 months to two years contending with post-viral illness would ever say this.
November 15, 2023 at 8:42 PM
I don't even remember how long my chronic fatigue lasted after mono but I had it at the end of 10th grade and that was also my last year doing marching band. Also, my then-doctor's treatment was monthly IV Vit C shots. High doses of Vit C (or Quercitin supplement) now get me thru MCAS flares 🤔
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Hello everyone - please meet my second book baby, Eight Bright Lights, out today!
open.substack.com/pub/fallsint...
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Rom com lovers - my debut novel is out today!
A feel-good festive rom com with a twist
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November 9, 2023 at 7:02 AM
Hello everyone - please meet my second book baby, Eight Bright Lights, out today!
open.substack.com/pub/fallsint...
open.substack.com/pub/fallsint...
This edible is hitting weird and I feel like I can feel my pulse in every vein in my upper torso and upper arms. It's fucking weird.
November 3, 2023 at 12:59 AM
This edible is hitting weird and I feel like I can feel my pulse in every vein in my upper torso and upper arms. It's fucking weird.
Am I depressed, or does 'New Years Day' from Taylor Swift make everyone want to sob? youtu.be/KkvTYrFIxNM?...
November 1, 2023 at 9:56 PM
Am I depressed, or does 'New Years Day' from Taylor Swift make everyone want to sob? youtu.be/KkvTYrFIxNM?...