Dear Dr. NerdLove, I've been dating a woman for about a month and a half, and things are great between us. She's wonderful and kind and hilarious and the sex is amazing. Here's my eternal struggle, though: I totally jump all in with new relationships way too fast. She and I have had many conversations about how to slow things down and be responsible about this, but no matter what we say, we end up spending tons of time together and are both falling hard. We're both concerned that it's all happening too fast but we also don't want to limit

Relationships can be tricky to maintain under the best of circumstances. Long distance relationships, on the other hand, are even harder. When you and your partner are hundreds or thousands of miles apart then you're dealing with new levels of difficulty. Long distance relationships are increasingly common these days as jobs and school make us increasingly nomadic. Advances in communication technology has become a big part of bridging the distance and keeping love alive. But just because you're spending hours on Skype with your honeybunny doesn't mean that you're keeping your relationship alive and healthy. However, 'difficult' doesn't mean 'impossible' and

She's been single for a long time, and making some big changes to her life hasn't made a difference. How can she finally turn her luck around?

She's been single for a long time, and making some big changes to her life hasn't made a difference. How can she finally turn her luck around?

 Hey Doc, I come to you seeking advice on my issue with casual sex. Currently I'm 27 and I'm starting to notice some issues when it comes to hooking up with girls I'm not romantically involved with. When I was younger (18-23) it was easier for me to dissociate feelings with sex. I would be perfectly okay with no communication or not seeing someone again after a one night stand. Now things aren't as easy and I find myself becoming emotionally attached to the women I sleep with even though I know they're not someone I'd be in a relationship

In my time, I've been lucky enough to make friends with a number of awesome women who've been in the public eye. From cosplayers to fetish pin-ups, burlesque dancers to lingerie models and the occasional reality TV star, much of their careers involved a heavy online presence. At the same time, being friends with them gave me a front row seat to the horny dudes hitting on them. Of course, this behavior isn't restricted to women in the public eye. Almost every woman with a social media presence and pictures online has experienced thirsty guys wanting to talk about how she makes his penis feel.

Hey doc, Long time listener, first time writing yada yada.. I need your advice about girls and sex things. I'm a 24 year old guy. I have a wonderful girlfriend whom I just shared a 4 year anniversary with, but for the past 9 - 12 months her sex drive has been basically non existent. I'll openly admit to having a high sex drive, and paired with hers this isn't making me the most cheerful guy every day of the week, but I love her very much and want to make her happy. So I deal. I also know that

If you were to ask me about the one thing that determines whether a couple will have a successful relationship, I’d think you were crazy. I mean: trying to boil down all of the complexities of a relationship into one single line of advice? My average column hits 2200 words and you think I'm someone who can boil things down to a soundbite? Something you can slap on a bumper-sticker? But as it turns out, there’s an answer. And it’s deceptively simple. It’s how the two of you choose to look at your relationship. One of the biggest mistakes people

All his exes agree: he's a sanctimonious asshole who makes everything a debate. But is he actually doing anything wrong?

Dear Dr. NerdLove, I'm in my late twenties, married, and very happy with my relationship. Both my spouse and I have a best friend we'll call Keith. Keith has been our BFF for over 10 years, and I love him so very much. He's befriended my spouse and I right after we started dating - so I've never been single around him, and he's witnessed the whole gamut of my spouse's and my relationship: falling in love, having arguments, making up, getting engaged, getting married, buying a house, etc. He's a big part of our life: he hangs out with

All his exes agree: he's a sanctimonious asshole who makes everything a debate. But is he actually doing anything wrong?

All his exes agree: he's a sanctimonious asshole who makes everything a debate. But is he actually doing anything wrong?

It seems that it's time to talk about good ideas and bad ideas when it comes to approaching women. See, last week, an example of holy hopping sheep shit never do this from 2013 called 'How To Talk To A Woman Who's Wearing Headphones' resurfaced. The Internet was, to put it mildly, not impressed. Part of the PUA site The Modern Man, this article promises to help men succeed in approaching women who rudely insist on wearing headphones and being unapproachable. Now, I've written before about why you don't want to approach women wearing headphones.  However, the article itself ((Which I won't be linking to, thanks)) is