Dex Wilder
@dexwilder.bsky.social
They/them. Trans Erotic Romance.
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4 days without power...
I've read so much smut...
I've read so much smut...
January 29, 2026 at 2:27 PM
4 days without power...
I've read so much smut...
I've read so much smut...
I have overthought this
because I have been in lakes and rivers I know have multiple bodies in them (my man used to work search and rescue for the area and has stories)
and so now I'm wondering what the body to water ratio is for those locations...i fear its larger than I want to hear
because I have been in lakes and rivers I know have multiple bodies in them (my man used to work search and rescue for the area and has stories)
and so now I'm wondering what the body to water ratio is for those locations...i fear its larger than I want to hear
My roommate: i wonder what the acceptable ratio of water to dead body is?
Me: what?!
Her: you wouldn't get in a hot tub with a dead body, but you would get in the ocean. And you know it has bodies in it.
Me: I suppose.
Her: mine would be a water park.
Me: ...😨
Me: what?!
Her: you wouldn't get in a hot tub with a dead body, but you would get in the ocean. And you know it has bodies in it.
Me: I suppose.
Her: mine would be a water park.
Me: ...😨
December 17, 2025 at 1:02 PM
I have overthought this
because I have been in lakes and rivers I know have multiple bodies in them (my man used to work search and rescue for the area and has stories)
and so now I'm wondering what the body to water ratio is for those locations...i fear its larger than I want to hear
because I have been in lakes and rivers I know have multiple bodies in them (my man used to work search and rescue for the area and has stories)
and so now I'm wondering what the body to water ratio is for those locations...i fear its larger than I want to hear
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Gang, this is a Hanukkah buffet, and it’s not even particularly lavish for a crowd that size. The White House has hosted them for decades.
I wouldn’t piss on Trump if he was on fire, but y’all can find so many better things to get pissed about.
I wouldn’t piss on Trump if he was on fire, but y’all can find so many better things to get pissed about.
December 17, 2025 at 2:48 AM
Gang, this is a Hanukkah buffet, and it’s not even particularly lavish for a crowd that size. The White House has hosted them for decades.
I wouldn’t piss on Trump if he was on fire, but y’all can find so many better things to get pissed about.
I wouldn’t piss on Trump if he was on fire, but y’all can find so many better things to get pissed about.
Going into 2026 like …
December 16, 2025 at 10:17 PM
Going into 2026 like …
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Let me be clear: Publishing as a whole does not pay authors their worth and for a lot of us the only steady money we get is through Patreon money. Now, add on being an indie author.
December 16, 2025 at 4:30 PM
Let me be clear: Publishing as a whole does not pay authors their worth and for a lot of us the only steady money we get is through Patreon money. Now, add on being an indie author.
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In shit that pisses me off this morning (and thanks to
@jemzero for this) is readers shitting on authors that have a Patreon account. Transcript: shrib.com#Nickolas66v8...
@jemzero for this) is readers shitting on authors that have a Patreon account. Transcript: shrib.com#Nickolas66v8...
December 16, 2025 at 4:30 PM
In shit that pisses me off this morning (and thanks to
@jemzero for this) is readers shitting on authors that have a Patreon account. Transcript: shrib.com#Nickolas66v8...
@jemzero for this) is readers shitting on authors that have a Patreon account. Transcript: shrib.com#Nickolas66v8...
nothing like word vomiting world building to a friend who probably was not prepared when she asked where my vampires come from...
December 16, 2025 at 5:19 PM
nothing like word vomiting world building to a friend who probably was not prepared when she asked where my vampires come from...
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Faced with steep penalties, platforms have erred on the side of over-censoring. So a law intended to restrict many teenagers' access to explicit sexual content also effectively denies them information about sex education, LGBTQ+ topics, and even international conflicts.
www.eff.org/deeplinks/20...
www.eff.org/deeplinks/20...
Americans, Be Warned: Lessons From Reddit’s Chaotic UK Age Verification Rollout
Now that the Online Safety Act has gone into effect, countless problems have begun to reveal themselves, and the absurd, disastrous outcome illustrates why we must work to avoid this age-verified futu...
www.eff.org
December 16, 2025 at 3:52 PM
Faced with steep penalties, platforms have erred on the side of over-censoring. So a law intended to restrict many teenagers' access to explicit sexual content also effectively denies them information about sex education, LGBTQ+ topics, and even international conflicts.
www.eff.org/deeplinks/20...
www.eff.org/deeplinks/20...
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In fact, an earlier version of KOSA was voted down, but has since been reintroduced.
www.stopkosa.com
#internetfreedom #badinternetbills #censorship #savespeech
www.stopkosa.com
#internetfreedom #badinternetbills #censorship #savespeech
Stop KOSA
KOSA is a censorship bill that won’t make kids safe. Instead, it'll put all internet users at risk, especially youth. If you believe in a free and open internet, tell your lawmakers to reject #KOSA!
www.stopkosa.com
December 16, 2025 at 3:52 PM
In fact, an earlier version of KOSA was voted down, but has since been reintroduced.
www.stopkosa.com
#internetfreedom #badinternetbills #censorship #savespeech
www.stopkosa.com
#internetfreedom #badinternetbills #censorship #savespeech
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Here in the US, Congress is considering KOSA, the SCREEN Act, the TAKE IT DOWN Act, the EARN IT Act, the STOP CSAM Act, and a repeal of Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act.
www.badinternetbills.com
#internetfreedom #badinternetbills #censorship #savespeech
www.badinternetbills.com
#internetfreedom #badinternetbills #censorship #savespeech
Bad Internet Bills
All of the bad internet bills. One website.
www.badinternetbills.com
December 16, 2025 at 3:52 PM
Here in the US, Congress is considering KOSA, the SCREEN Act, the TAKE IT DOWN Act, the EARN IT Act, the STOP CSAM Act, and a repeal of Section 230 of the Communications Decency Act.
www.badinternetbills.com
#internetfreedom #badinternetbills #censorship #savespeech
www.badinternetbills.com
#internetfreedom #badinternetbills #censorship #savespeech
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But in the past several months, payment processors and digital store platforms have started severely restricting the kinds of sexual and adult/18+ content allowed in their terms of service. And of course all LQBTQ+ content is at risk of getting swept up in these bans.
stop-paypros.neocities.org
stop-paypros.neocities.org
Stop payment processors from censoring games!
stop-paypros.neocities.org
December 16, 2025 at 3:52 PM
But in the past several months, payment processors and digital store platforms have started severely restricting the kinds of sexual and adult/18+ content allowed in their terms of service. And of course all LQBTQ+ content is at risk of getting swept up in these bans.
stop-paypros.neocities.org
stop-paypros.neocities.org
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Australia even took the extraordinary step of banning anyone under 16 from using any social media at all. This will probably be about as effective as the OSA, since many young people will find ways around the verification methods. And in the meantime, it puts everyone's personal information at risk.
The Australien Government has made an ad about the Social Media Ban for Under-16s, and it's surprisingly honest and informative.
Honest Government Ad | Social Media Ban
YouTube video by thejuicemedia
www.youtube.com
December 16, 2025 at 3:52 PM
Australia even took the extraordinary step of banning anyone under 16 from using any social media at all. This will probably be about as effective as the OSA, since many young people will find ways around the verification methods. And in the meantime, it puts everyone's personal information at risk.
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This is the reason I can't withdraw any of my revenue from Patreon. PayPal does not allow transactions for sexual content in the form of digital products, or outside the US.
#internetfreedom #censorship #savespeech
#internetfreedom #censorship #savespeech
December 16, 2025 at 3:52 PM
This is the reason I can't withdraw any of my revenue from Patreon. PayPal does not allow transactions for sexual content in the form of digital products, or outside the US.
#internetfreedom #censorship #savespeech
#internetfreedom #censorship #savespeech
just now learning that #SmutCember is a thing and I feel both happy it exists and like I'm missing out with only just hearing about it
December 16, 2025 at 2:51 PM
just now learning that #SmutCember is a thing and I feel both happy it exists and like I'm missing out with only just hearing about it
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I found out yesterday that there’s a holiday romance novel about fucking the Ghost of Christmas Past. I think we’re doing okay on the idea front.
(No, I don’t know the title offhand.)
(No, I don’t know the title offhand.)
America, you have spoken loud and clear: You do not like AI. But what if AI is the way to restart the world’s idea machine?
We’re running out of good ideas. AI might be how we find new ones.
What if the best use of AI is restarting the world’s idea machine?
www.vox.com
December 16, 2025 at 2:14 PM
I found out yesterday that there’s a holiday romance novel about fucking the Ghost of Christmas Past. I think we’re doing okay on the idea front.
(No, I don’t know the title offhand.)
(No, I don’t know the title offhand.)
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Hey romancelandia and fandom peeps! If you live in the U.S. right now you should know that KOSA (along with a slew of censorship bills) are advancing through congress right now. If you care about spicy books and/or fanfiction you should contact your reps right now and tell them to vote NO on KOSA!
US House Subcommittee Advances 18 Child Online Safety Bills | TechPolicy.Press
Some members expressed "fury" at the tech industry for not doing more to protect children and teens.
www.techpolicy.press
December 15, 2025 at 3:57 PM
Hey romancelandia and fandom peeps! If you live in the U.S. right now you should know that KOSA (along with a slew of censorship bills) are advancing through congress right now. If you care about spicy books and/or fanfiction you should contact your reps right now and tell them to vote NO on KOSA!
just word vomited over 1k in vampire lore in preparation for a new series rather than work on any of my WIPs...
December 16, 2025 at 12:46 AM
just word vomited over 1k in vampire lore in preparation for a new series rather than work on any of my WIPs...
Getting settled back in after a road trip always feels chaotic
December 15, 2025 at 3:54 PM
Getting settled back in after a road trip always feels chaotic
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The way people tell me not to bother speaking out against gen AI because ‘it’s too late’ like I’m sorry tell that to NFTs and other such nonsense.
Interest speaks, fam …
Interest speaks, fam …
Don't ever let anyone discourage you from taking positive action, especially when it involves your principles.
Every little bit helps.
Every little bit helps.
December 13, 2025 at 12:53 AM
The way people tell me not to bother speaking out against gen AI because ‘it’s too late’ like I’m sorry tell that to NFTs and other such nonsense.
Interest speaks, fam …
Interest speaks, fam …
Packing priorities
December 12, 2025 at 4:07 PM
Packing priorities
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lmaooooo where's the lie 😭
December 11, 2025 at 7:02 PM
lmaooooo where's the lie 😭
hahahahahahahahahahahahaha
no
when people point out its a plagiarism machine he said that should be settled in courts...
How about we don't need the courts to tell us that plagiarism and slop is bad. It just is bad. Thats it. Thats not a witch hunt. Its facts.
no
when people point out its a plagiarism machine he said that should be settled in courts...
How about we don't need the courts to tell us that plagiarism and slop is bad. It just is bad. Thats it. Thats not a witch hunt. Its facts.
December 11, 2025 at 10:45 PM
hahahahahahahahahahahahaha
no
when people point out its a plagiarism machine he said that should be settled in courts...
How about we don't need the courts to tell us that plagiarism and slop is bad. It just is bad. Thats it. Thats not a witch hunt. Its facts.
no
when people point out its a plagiarism machine he said that should be settled in courts...
How about we don't need the courts to tell us that plagiarism and slop is bad. It just is bad. Thats it. Thats not a witch hunt. Its facts.
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dang, can't a nerdy jewish lady promo indies for free without people being crunchy and presumptuous about my motives. my motives are: we have no one else to promo us! my motives are: shit is rough out there for broke, unknown indies! my motives are: HI FRIENDS!
i am not subtle about any of this 😭
i am not subtle about any of this 😭
I found your account in a “scammer” block list.
I informed the list creator that you weren’t a scammer and explained that there was a scammer using a similar name. I asked them to check your account.
They decided I had either been tricked by you or was a scammer myself 🫠 then blocked me lol 🙃
I informed the list creator that you weren’t a scammer and explained that there was a scammer using a similar name. I asked them to check your account.
They decided I had either been tricked by you or was a scammer myself 🫠 then blocked me lol 🙃
December 11, 2025 at 7:00 PM
dang, can't a nerdy jewish lady promo indies for free without people being crunchy and presumptuous about my motives. my motives are: we have no one else to promo us! my motives are: shit is rough out there for broke, unknown indies! my motives are: HI FRIENDS!
i am not subtle about any of this 😭
i am not subtle about any of this 😭
Your last saved meme is your moral philosophy
...its not wrong but it probably says something unhealthy about me
...its not wrong but it probably says something unhealthy about me
December 11, 2025 at 10:06 PM
Your last saved meme is your moral philosophy
...its not wrong but it probably says something unhealthy about me
...its not wrong but it probably says something unhealthy about me