- 33 (as of dec 2024)
- nyc
- jewish transsexual communist, natch
- failed classical composer, wannabe pianist
- with palestine until liberation
- this is a personal blog, don’t expect discourse
Don’t let me play in your face and act like shit squashed—I still don’t like you, UGLY! 😭
I've literally been in circles of men talking about this kind of topic, and they absolutely 100% see any man who gets raped as not really a man. His rapist's gender doesn't even matter, nor the context, only that he was raped. To them he's not a man, he's a weak little punchline.
Given how rational UK jurisprudence is, what does this indicate about patriarchy? Have we uncovered a fatal flaw in feminism, an example of 'female privilege'? Why aren't men safeguarded from this harm?
Well, it's simple, you see. If you're raped, you're not a man.
(Anyway, the whole piece is interesting. I'm open to some of it; people forget these days just how radical *and intentional* a look he had circa 1980-1983 when he was evangelizing the inclusive, liberationist ideology of "Uptown".)
jmellison.net/if-we-knew-t...