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elyssa (she/her)
@harmonycarmony.bsky.social
autistic/ADHD queer therapist in Ohio who uses colorful language and sass along with self compassion and empathy. social justice warrior🏳️‍🌈 #booktok community member! 📚
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We have each other. We are the Resistance now. All of us.
March 14, 2025 at 6:20 PM
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I can't move, even to reach things in bed, and it sucks

I was always an A-type, power through, top of the class kind of person. I was all fury and fight

Disability turns you into something different entirely. If I push, I pay dearly. Needing to do things & being helpless to do them feels horrible
February 24, 2025 at 10:34 PM
@altnps.bsky.social is amazing and my therapist read their status to me in session to make me feel better 🥰
February 25, 2025 at 1:40 AM
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Dan with our semi-weekly reminder that autism is way fuckin cooler than the measles
It's weird as a biologist to say "ignore the science part" but here we are

Science: Vaccines don't cause autism.

BUT IT DOESN'T MATTER. If vaccines caused autism I would still recommend them. Dying of preventable disease is bad. Autism isn't a disease and most of the "bad" of autism is society.
February 15, 2025 at 8:34 PM
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It took me years to admit to myself (and others) that I was disabled. My disabilities are invisible & I used a tremendous amount of energy keeping them hidden

Ableism is powerful, and internalized ableism is a difficult thing to wrestle with

If society were more inclusive, we wouldn’t be so scared
February 16, 2025 at 3:18 AM
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This is fascism.
February 15, 2025 at 7:33 PM
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*taps mic*

Therapy is NOT encouraging folks to “reframe negative feelings into positive feelings”.

1. Feelings don’t need to be qualified as good/bad.

2. Reframes only get you so far when the world is on fire. You’re NOT helping anybody therapeutically by “seeing the bright side”.

#TherapistSky
February 10, 2025 at 6:17 PM
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so many people are going to die because of this. they want us to die.
February 14, 2025 at 10:51 PM
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February 15, 2025 at 2:34 AM
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February 15, 2025 at 2:20 AM
It’s so hard to even stay informed right now because it makes it nearly impossible to function at my job without bias. This is ridiculous.
February 3, 2025 at 7:35 PM
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For everyone who voted for Trump because “he’s not a politician”…

I hope your next colonoscopy is done by a plumber.
February 1, 2025 at 11:06 PM
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Black History is American History.
February 1, 2025 at 5:39 PM
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Just a reminder that you’re one accident or illness away from becoming disabled. No one is immune to disability. We’re all vulnerable.
January 29, 2025 at 8:34 PM
absolutely worried for my entire caseload who are all Medicaid clients. None of whom would benefit from a gap in treatment.
January 29, 2025 at 2:29 AM
I’ve had to take a break from social media because I keep getting filled with despair and a sense of impending doom about the USA and I don’t know what to do about. Continuing to speak out and show love and kindness, but damn this is rough.
January 28, 2025 at 1:25 PM
I’m still re reading Iron flame with my partner(super cute connection time tbh) but Onyx Storm is staring me down from the bookshelf (of course I ordered it early!) I’m so grateful no one has posted spoilers!
January 24, 2025 at 4:19 PM
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If you're ever mad that a young and "healthy-looking" person is using a medical device or mobility aid like a cane or wheelchair.. you need to reevaluate your life.

People have disabilities young.
It's not always visible.
People have flare ups that allow for less mobility and need them.

Fuck 😤
January 24, 2025 at 7:57 AM
1,456 days left of this nonsense.
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January 24, 2025 at 4:14 PM
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it’s okay to say that obviously shitty people are shitty and treat them accordingly
December 7, 2024 at 1:00 PM
I’m still re reading Iron flame with my partner because I’m *SO PATIENT* and won’t force her to listen to me read it all in a couple sittings. I can’t wait to read Onyx Storm oh my goodness #booktok It’s sitting on my
Bookshelf
January 22, 2025 at 9:42 PM
January 19, 2025 at 5:09 PM
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I used to love reading dystopian fiction in high school.

Reaaaaally not enjoying living through dystopian reality as an adult.
January 19, 2025 at 6:47 AM
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It was never just another app.

It was Community.
It was Knowledge and News.
It was Nostalgia.
It was Entertainment.
It was Different.
It was Connection.

And yet we know that #booklovers will always find each other ❤️‍🩹🫶🏻

#booksky #tiktokban
January 19, 2025 at 5:56 AM
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Snoop Dogg is performing at the inauguration.

The biggest sell-out since Krusty the Clown.
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January 18, 2025 at 5:37 PM