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Päivi Butcher AuDHD
@finnattentive.bsky.social
Late diagnosed #ADHD #Autistic #AuDHD • Raising ADHD & autism acceptance • Cardiac arrest survivor 2020, defibrillator implant, Cardiac sarcoidosis • Ulcerative colitis • MCAS suspicion • Happy Finn 😉 • She/her

📍 Tampere, Finland
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Heippa! I'm Päivi from Finland! 🇫🇮 I'm an autistic ADHDer, I love to talk about both #Autism and #ADHD. I also have #CardiacSarcoidosis, #UlcerativeColitis and likely #MCAS. I'm a #CardiacArrest survivor 2020 ❤️‍🩹 I work at a company that helps neurodivergents. Who are you? 🤗
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Get to know your mutuals! List 10 random things you like. I like:

☆ Raising ADHD and autism acceptance
☆ Concerts
☆ City holidays
☆ Sauna
☆ Cats
☆ Fazer nuts and raisins chocolate
☆ 'Me time'
☆ Comedy
☆ Summer evenings
☆ Colour grey
Get to know your mutuals! List 10 random things you like:

Sunsets
Nature
Walking (running, when fibro permits)
Chatting to fellow Aussies/ authors/ ADHDers/ autistic or queer people
Chocolate
Local radio station's ECLECTIC music
People giving a shit.
A sense of humour.
Alternative rock.
Travel.
Get to know your mutuals! List 10 random things you like:

- cats (but also just animals)
- time travel stories
- music
- coffee
- being a fuckin shithead edgelord and making dry af jokes
- Pastel mint green
- crying
- italian (all things)
- not being a cunt
- millennial dusty rose pink
November 11, 2025 at 5:55 PM
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November 12, 2025 at 3:01 PM
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The most completely mundane replies being hid in my mentions without my consent or control is absolutely ridiculous and outrageous.

@pfrazee.com y’all gotta give us back control of our own accounts this is out of hand.

Literally hid a cat picture someone sent me.
November 1, 2025 at 11:34 PM
Yes! Let us choose! @safety.bsky.app

Re: Bluesky/AI automatically hiding replies in our threads.
Just let me turn it off! Just let me turn it off! Just let me have an option!
November 12, 2025 at 6:54 AM
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PSA: scam message going around

Always check handle of sender.

Reported to BlueSky.
November 11, 2025 at 5:38 PM
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#Autistic adults (aged 50+) meet up group. Our next online session is 11am-noon on Thursday 13th November. It's an informal peer group chat. All autistic (incl self diagnosed) people aged 50 or over are welcome. It's free, but register at us06web.zoom.us/meeting/regi...
#AutisticElders #Autism
November 11, 2025 at 5:46 PM
Get to know your mutuals! List 10 random things you like. I like:

☆ Raising ADHD and autism acceptance
☆ Concerts
☆ City holidays
☆ Sauna
☆ Cats
☆ Fazer nuts and raisins chocolate
☆ 'Me time'
☆ Comedy
☆ Summer evenings
☆ Colour grey
Get to know your mutuals! List 10 random things you like:

Sunsets
Nature
Walking (running, when fibro permits)
Chatting to fellow Aussies/ authors/ ADHDers/ autistic or queer people
Chocolate
Local radio station's ECLECTIC music
People giving a shit.
A sense of humour.
Alternative rock.
Travel.
Get to know your mutuals! List 10 random things you like:

- cats (but also just animals)
- time travel stories
- music
- coffee
- being a fuckin shithead edgelord and making dry af jokes
- Pastel mint green
- crying
- italian (all things)
- not being a cunt
- millennial dusty rose pink
November 11, 2025 at 5:55 PM
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Ettette nyt unohtaisi minunkin olevan paatunut kapitalisti, tässä mainos! 😎 Takiwatangaan pääsee opastetulle visiitille tilaamalla minulta Aistiopastuksen. Aistiympäristöpalvelut tekevät työympäristöstäsi saavutettavan aistiherkille (15-20% väestöstä) ja viihtyisämmän muille.💚
November 11, 2025 at 6:44 AM
I can't wear hoodies without a zip. They're a sensory annoyance. The hood weighs and pulls the shirt back a little, I'm always having to pull the shirt down by the collar. And the hood is on the way when I wear a jacket + scarf.

I like these hoodies I have.
I could just cut the hood off! 🤔😀 #Autism
November 10, 2025 at 3:09 PM
Wanna watch 11 springer spaniel puppies on 24/7 puppy live? 🐶

#PentuLive #Finland
One of the reasons why Finland is the happiest country in the world is that the public broadcaster Yle sends a live feed of the first 8 weeks of a pack of puppies every fall. It’s already the fifth edition of ”Finland’s most therapeutic live feed”.

This is what I call value for my tax money
Pentulive 24/7 | Pentulive
Pentuliven pikkuiset kehittyvät vauhdikkaasti ja jokainen pentu on saanut nimensä! Kahdeksan viikkoa kestävässä suorassa lähetyksessä seurataan englannin­springer­spanieli Murua ja tämän pentuetta.
areena.yle.fi
November 9, 2025 at 9:30 PM
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Autism question! Does anyone have any good links/resources for, like, what to *do* when you're diagnosed autistic? How to examine your thinking/beliefs, work out what masking is, learn self compassion etc etc? Broad question, but I really should do something with this knew self knowledge.
November 9, 2025 at 4:35 PM
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A very dangerous security vulnerability found in Android -update your software.

It allows the phone to be hijacked for use by attackers. Antivirus etc won't help.

Unless your software security patch is a Nov date:

-Turn on Google Play Protect
-Completely turn off wifi on phone
-Turn off bluetooth
Androidista löytyi erittäin vaarallinen tietoturva-aukko - päivitä heti

Löytynyt aukko mahdollistaa puhelimen kaappaamisen hyökkääjien käyttöön. Aukko on käyttöjärjestelmän tasolla, eli sitä vastaan ei voi suojautua virustorjunnalla tai "fiksulla" sovellusten asentamisella.

#uutiset
Androidissa valtava turvallisuusaukko, joka ei vaadi käyttäjältä hölmöilyäkään - puhelimen omistaja toimi näin, heti
Android-käyttöjärjestelmästä on löydetty erittäin vakava tietoturva-aukko, joka mahdollistaa haittakoodin ajamisen puhelimessa tai tabletissa. Käyttäjien pitää asentaa tuoreimmat tietoturvapäivitykset...
www.puhelinvertailu.com
November 9, 2025 at 9:08 AM
A very dangerous security vulnerability found in Android -update your software.

It allows the phone to be hijacked for use by attackers. Antivirus etc won't help.

Unless your software security patch is a Nov date:

-Turn on Google Play Protect
-Completely turn off wifi on phone
-Turn off bluetooth
Androidista löytyi erittäin vaarallinen tietoturva-aukko - päivitä heti

Löytynyt aukko mahdollistaa puhelimen kaappaamisen hyökkääjien käyttöön. Aukko on käyttöjärjestelmän tasolla, eli sitä vastaan ei voi suojautua virustorjunnalla tai "fiksulla" sovellusten asentamisella.

#uutiset
Androidissa valtava turvallisuusaukko, joka ei vaadi käyttäjältä hölmöilyäkään - puhelimen omistaja toimi näin, heti
Android-käyttöjärjestelmästä on löydetty erittäin vakava tietoturva-aukko, joka mahdollistaa haittakoodin ajamisen puhelimessa tai tabletissa. Käyttäjien pitää asentaa tuoreimmat tietoturvapäivitykset...
www.puhelinvertailu.com
November 9, 2025 at 9:08 AM
November 8, 2025 at 11:15 PM
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What would normally be a squidgy older lady belly, the sort that easily squishes into size 16 high waisted M&S jeans, suddenly looked like this - really stretched and hard.

Apparently this is an absolutely classic sign of ovarian cancer. So now you know. And so do I. 3/
November 8, 2025 at 1:47 PM
Here googling lists of #Perimenopause again.

So I really did experience an electric shock in my head(!) a while ago as I went for a nap, I thought I probably dreamt it. I was worried of falling asleep as I wondered if there was something wrong in my brain, so I was fighting sleep. It was all weird.
November 8, 2025 at 8:38 PM
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this thing hides posts it judges as ‘rude’, by some US standard. Thereby silencing most of the conversations in Ireland and Scotland, at least.
Wondering why no one likes your posts anymore, even among your friends? It's because @jay.bsky.team and team have decided to hide a huge amount of content from all of our feeds by default.

Here's how to turn it off.

First go to the hamburger menu in the upper left corner
November 8, 2025 at 8:46 AM
This thing about being AuDHD when in general your life's pretty chaotic but certain things need to be in perfect order. (This is my experience anyway.) #AuDHD
Tervetuloa audhd elämään jossa sitä järjestystä ei autismista huolimatta ole 😭 (paitsi tärkeissä asioissa kuten korttipakoissa ja astioissa)
November 8, 2025 at 2:08 PM
Go check out your "Bluesky moderation service" settings and share the post below so we all get to see more content that was hidden from us by Bluesky without us realising!
Wondering why no one likes your posts anymore, even among your friends? It's because @jay.bsky.team and team have decided to hide a huge amount of content from all of our feeds by default.

Here's how to turn it off.

First go to the hamburger menu in the upper left corner
November 7, 2025 at 9:53 PM
Time to bring this up again.
When it finally happens, where's everyone in Tampere gonna celebrate? I'm serious. I'm not gonna sit alone in a pub that day. Which pub? 😀 #Tampere
November 7, 2025 at 5:41 PM
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Autism research has long centered white, male subjects. That bias shapes how “typical” autism is defined leaving Black autistic people misdiagnosed, overlooked, or punished instead of supported
November 6, 2025 at 6:48 PM
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Even I thought this was one of mine!
This picture is worth 1,000 words.
November 6, 2025 at 8:51 PM
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This is officially one of the strangest pictures in American history, and I do not doubt that it will be considered iconic a hundred years from now.

100% serious here.
November 6, 2025 at 8:39 PM
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Why Is There So Much Research About Us Without Us?

@drhelenkara.bsky.social and @autgeek.bsky.social outline why #neurodivergent led research is essential to building trust in communities and affirming neurodivergent ways of being.

isrf.org/blog/why-is-...
Why Is There So Much Research About Us Without Us?
isrf.org
November 6, 2025 at 11:37 AM
Lil Karelian Pie aka Lil Lunch
Lil groceries
November 6, 2025 at 4:29 PM