Boytits Ascendant
@boytits.bsky.social
queer. trans. anarchist. they/them. anti-tankie. anti-dirtbag. altruistic individualist. agency maximizing consequentialist. southerner on the west coast. aggressively pro youth lib. "nominally polyamorous" 👀
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Boytits Ascendant
@boytits.bsky.social
· Jan 20
"Not having friends anymore is worse than BEING SENT TO LITERAL PRISON FOR YEARSSS" 😭😭😭 - every abuser and apologist ever
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he met 4 trans women for lunch and banned polyamory what did they tell him
In a new doctrinal note, Pope Leo and the Vatican sharply reject polygamy and growing Western polyamory, praising monogamy as an exclusive union between one man and one woman.
Pope Leo and the Vatican reject polygamy in sweeping doctrinal praise of monogamy
In a new doctrinal note, Pope Leo and the Vatican sharply reject polygamy and growing Western polyamory, praising monogamy as an exclusive union between one man and one woman.
www.sltrib.com
November 27, 2025 at 6:42 PM
he met 4 trans women for lunch and banned polyamory what did they tell him
Ok guys, I bought the pattern and some fabric so we are maybe actually doing this 😬🫣
The ADHD is trying to convince me that if I just buy that pattern and some scrap fabric I will definitely use the sewing machine I bought in 2018.
November 27, 2025 at 6:46 PM
Ok guys, I bought the pattern and some fabric so we are maybe actually doing this 😬🫣
The ADHD is trying to convince me that if I just buy that pattern and some scrap fabric I will definitely use the sewing machine I bought in 2018.
November 25, 2025 at 7:40 PM
The ADHD is trying to convince me that if I just buy that pattern and some scrap fabric I will definitely use the sewing machine I bought in 2018.
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if there was one lesson i could impart to young women it would be this one:
November 24, 2025 at 9:14 PM
if there was one lesson i could impart to young women it would be this one:
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someone should invent a cough drop that works well AND tastes good
November 25, 2025 at 5:59 AM
someone should invent a cough drop that works well AND tastes good
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It continues to bother me how much Leopold II, one of the most evil men of all time and a ghoul on par with Hitler, is so completely ignored
November 24, 2025 at 2:39 AM
It continues to bother me how much Leopold II, one of the most evil men of all time and a ghoul on par with Hitler, is so completely ignored
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In *normal times* the prosecution of Des for possession of zines would be The Issue of the entire North American radical milieu for a year, similar to Stop Cop City. There would be benefits and actions in every town, pushing back on this existential threat. archive.is/202511231336...
archive.is
November 23, 2025 at 7:51 PM
In *normal times* the prosecution of Des for possession of zines would be The Issue of the entire North American radical milieu for a year, similar to Stop Cop City. There would be benefits and actions in every town, pushing back on this existential threat. archive.is/202511231336...
To say nothing of the ethical implications of meeting with Trump, nor what it means about Mamdani as a person or a politician:
1.) It is really fucking funny that Trump likes him
2.) If we were REALLY clever, we would all pretend like it wasn't funny at all and we hate it so he would double down
1.) It is really fucking funny that Trump likes him
2.) If we were REALLY clever, we would all pretend like it wasn't funny at all and we hate it so he would double down
November 24, 2025 at 2:46 AM
To say nothing of the ethical implications of meeting with Trump, nor what it means about Mamdani as a person or a politician:
1.) It is really fucking funny that Trump likes him
2.) If we were REALLY clever, we would all pretend like it wasn't funny at all and we hate it so he would double down
1.) It is really fucking funny that Trump likes him
2.) If we were REALLY clever, we would all pretend like it wasn't funny at all and we hate it so he would double down
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remember: you will never stop being punished for believing the wrong survivor. escape is impossible. the wrong abuser is effectively your own personal kiwifarms.
November 24, 2025 at 12:51 AM
remember: you will never stop being punished for believing the wrong survivor. escape is impossible. the wrong abuser is effectively your own personal kiwifarms.
Tbqh visiting Mexico in November was the wrong choice bc now I know The Truth, which is that oregon has shitty weather and I've been deluding myself for over 10 years, lol
November 23, 2025 at 11:58 PM
Tbqh visiting Mexico in November was the wrong choice bc now I know The Truth, which is that oregon has shitty weather and I've been deluding myself for over 10 years, lol
Perennially at the overcrowded grocery store right before The Bad Holiday bc I always forget when The Bad Holiday is 🙃
November 23, 2025 at 11:20 PM
Perennially at the overcrowded grocery store right before The Bad Holiday bc I always forget when The Bad Holiday is 🙃
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lubna and her children need to make rent as quickly as possible!! please help if you can 🖤
I am writing to you from the heart of pain, cold, and darkness…
I am a mother who has lost everything, displaced many times with my children,and now we face eviction because I cannot pay $800 rent.
Please… from a heart weighed down by sorrow and fear, don’t leave me alone💔
chuffed.org/project/155233
I am a mother who has lost everything, displaced many times with my children,and now we face eviction because I cannot pay $800 rent.
Please… from a heart weighed down by sorrow and fear, don’t leave me alone💔
chuffed.org/project/155233
November 23, 2025 at 10:52 PM
lubna and her children need to make rent as quickly as possible!! please help if you can 🖤
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I don’t know what the policy move is here, but we need to fucking do better on treating pregnant people like people
part of the price for not doing so is, some of them will join weird cults
part of the price for not doing so is, some of them will join weird cults
November 22, 2025 at 3:17 PM
I don’t know what the policy move is here, but we need to fucking do better on treating pregnant people like people
part of the price for not doing so is, some of them will join weird cults
part of the price for not doing so is, some of them will join weird cults
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Free birth is eugenic *and* it exists not because birthing people want their babies to die, but because there are so many horror stories floating around about doctors disrespecting birthing people in what is one of the most vulnerable states any human can experience.
November 22, 2025 at 2:42 PM
Free birth is eugenic *and* it exists not because birthing people want their babies to die, but because there are so many horror stories floating around about doctors disrespecting birthing people in what is one of the most vulnerable states any human can experience.
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Please hear me when I say that
1) these anti-medical woo birth movements have been a primary feeder into anti-vaxx eugenic movements
2) they pre-date the age of social media
3) they exist because we have not addressed medical sexism and specifically obstetric violence
1) these anti-medical woo birth movements have been a primary feeder into anti-vaxx eugenic movements
2) they pre-date the age of social media
3) they exist because we have not addressed medical sexism and specifically obstetric violence
Influencers made millions pushing ‘wild’ births – now the Free Birth Society is linked to baby deaths around the world
Influencers made millions pushing ‘wild’ births – now the Free Birth Society is linked to baby deaths around the world
A year-long investigation reveals how mothers lost children after being radicalised by uplifting podcast tales of births without midwives or doctors
As Esau Lopez was asphyxiated for the first 17 minutes of his life on Earth, the atmosphere in the room remained serene, even ecstatic. Acoustic music crooned from a speaker in a modest two-bedroom apartment in a suburb of Pennsylvania. “You are a queen,” murmured one of three friends in the room.
Only Esau’s mother, Gabrielle Lopez, felt something was wrong. She was pushing hard, but her son would not be born. “Can you help [him] out?” she asked, as Esau crowned. “Baby is coming,” the friend replied. Four minutes later, Lopez asked again, “Can you grab [him]?” Another friend murmured, “Baby is safe.” Six minutes passed. Again, Lopez asked, “Can you grab [him]?” Continue reading...
www.theguardian.com
November 22, 2025 at 2:38 PM
Please hear me when I say that
1) these anti-medical woo birth movements have been a primary feeder into anti-vaxx eugenic movements
2) they pre-date the age of social media
3) they exist because we have not addressed medical sexism and specifically obstetric violence
1) these anti-medical woo birth movements have been a primary feeder into anti-vaxx eugenic movements
2) they pre-date the age of social media
3) they exist because we have not addressed medical sexism and specifically obstetric violence
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And so often I see these ppl quoting Michel but completely missing the part where he is observing data on a population level, and still acknowledging that in any given large population, a number of ppl will still NEED medical intervention to survive birth.
November 22, 2025 at 2:47 PM
And so often I see these ppl quoting Michel but completely missing the part where he is observing data on a population level, and still acknowledging that in any given large population, a number of ppl will still NEED medical intervention to survive birth.
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How do I know this? Because we spoke about it at length after I developed sepsis in labour and had a crash section. Two things are both true: much medical intervention in birth is unnecessary, and also, certain inventions save many, many lives.
November 22, 2025 at 2:39 PM
How do I know this? Because we spoke about it at length after I developed sepsis in labour and had a crash section. Two things are both true: much medical intervention in birth is unnecessary, and also, certain inventions save many, many lives.
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I’m gonna come right out on here on main and say that my father-in-law, who most of these people hero worship, fully believed in the role of medical intervention where necessary, and in the importance of birth attendants who can recognise that ‘when necessary’ part
Influencers made millions pushing ‘wild’ births – now the Free Birth Society is linked to baby deaths around the world
Influencers made millions pushing ‘wild’ births – now the Free Birth Society is linked to baby deaths around the world
A year-long investigation reveals how mothers lost children after being radicalised by uplifting podcast tales of births without midwives or doctors
As Esau Lopez was asphyxiated for the first 17 minutes of his life on Earth, the atmosphere in the room remained serene, even ecstatic. Acoustic music crooned from a speaker in a modest two-bedroom apartment in a suburb of Pennsylvania. “You are a queen,” murmured one of three friends in the room.
Only Esau’s mother, Gabrielle Lopez, felt something was wrong. She was pushing hard, but her son would not be born. “Can you help [him] out?” she asked, as Esau crowned. “Baby is coming,” the friend replied. Four minutes later, Lopez asked again, “Can you grab [him]?” Another friend murmured, “Baby is safe.” Six minutes passed. Again, Lopez asked, “Can you grab [him]?” Continue reading...
www.theguardian.com
November 22, 2025 at 2:38 PM
I’m gonna come right out on here on main and say that my father-in-law, who most of these people hero worship, fully believed in the role of medical intervention where necessary, and in the importance of birth attendants who can recognise that ‘when necessary’ part
Maybe this is a hot take, but I truly believe in my heart of hearts that for some jobs it should just straight up say in the handbook that yr allowed to be stoned on the clock.
Like the taco bell employees? They should be allowed to be stoned at work
Like the taco bell employees? They should be allowed to be stoned at work
November 22, 2025 at 5:41 AM
Maybe this is a hot take, but I truly believe in my heart of hearts that for some jobs it should just straight up say in the handbook that yr allowed to be stoned on the clock.
Like the taco bell employees? They should be allowed to be stoned at work
Like the taco bell employees? They should be allowed to be stoned at work