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big rock big river, ms ⧖ (they/them)
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Founder & Executive Director - LUSID Psych Care | Doctoral Candidate | Psychological Associate

Stolen Native, MMTIP | AuDHD, Plural | 🂡 🂡 🂡

I pledge allegiance to Liberty & Justice for all.

In US we trust.

lusidpsychcare.org
Pinned
My whole entire life I sat here trying to figure out what exactly the rules meant so I could *not* break them.

Now I am prepared to walk up to every line and do everything I know I can get away with in the pursuit of protecting the children.

And when it's not enough, I will calmly cross the line.
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At first you might not think that a muddy little boy has the right temperament for this work.

That's when you have to consider that for generations these pups have been born wild and used as worker dogs in the woods.

They will behave better out here than any other training service could hope for.
February 15, 2026 at 2:41 PM
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Update on the boy pupper!

Pics coming soon, but in the meantime, there are already expenses! So we need to keep fundraising! Two days left to meet our down payment goal 🐶🐾✨

We're at $317 out of $2,500! Only $2,183 left. 12% there & growing 🥰

Who can help bring us closer?? 🧡🩷💙

lusidpsychcare.org
February 15, 2026 at 2:39 PM
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Quite honestly, pretty bummed there was not a single valentines donation 😭🥺
Did you forget Valentine's Day??

Show your emotional intelligence by donating to something important that will last!

Three days left to meet our down payment goal 🐶🐾✨

We're now at $317 out of $2,500! Only $2,183 left. 12% there and growing 🥰

Who can help bring us closer?? 🧡🩷💙

lusidpsychcare.org
February 15, 2026 at 2:43 PM
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Sometimes shit gets weird, and its juust best to roll with it
February 15, 2026 at 6:55 AM
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Really good explainer on sexual abuse of men and boys youtu.be/xDR3daN4ig8?...
5 Sobering Facts about Male Rape
YouTube video by Stuff Mom Never Told You
youtu.be
February 15, 2026 at 7:33 AM
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3:11am EST: Moon in Aquarius forms a quindecile to Jupiter in Cancer and a parallel to Pluto in Aquarius. "Just when I thought I was out, they pull me back in." Emotional detachment from a messy situation is what you need (for now) for your healing.
February 15, 2026 at 8:11 AM
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2:21am EST: Moon in Aquarius sextile Neptune in Aries. Name your dream: don't be afraid of getting details wrong. The more intricate your vision -- the more excitement, drive, and hope you feel. Aim high and land among the stars. 00°Aq34' D 00°Ar34' D

February 15, 2026 at 7:21 AM
I get really overwhelmed really fast when the environment is disorganized.

But for see, now I have a system 🤭🤭🤭

I have learned a shit ton recently. And made a spread sheet and a wishlist 😃
February 15, 2026 at 3:33 AM
8 a day as a baseline.
February 15, 2026 at 3:25 AM
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Valentine's Day is a fine time for love.
It's also a fine time to sharpen your swords, disappear into the enchanted forest, and look for treasure in the mossy tombs of the old ones.
Nothing says love like a dangerous adventure done together.
February 15, 2026 at 3:02 AM
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10:20pm EST: OOB Moon in Capricorn semisquare Mercury in Pisces in his retrograde shadow. The ghost of your past comes knocking at the window. Better let it in and talk to it now, instead of waiting for it to get mad. No use trying to push off the inevitable reckoning.
February 15, 2026 at 3:20 AM
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be for real
That is food?
I think I recognise a tomato but what is the rest of it?
February 15, 2026 at 2:42 AM
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This has to be some kind of microaggression to see foreign food and go "ThaT's FoOd???"
That is food?
I think I recognise a tomato but what is the rest of it?
February 15, 2026 at 2:50 AM
So very grateful.
February 15, 2026 at 2:25 AM
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The Puppers are coming! The Puppers are coming 🐶🐾✨

The girl has already been selected! The boy is forthcoming as there are so many to choose from.

But that means it is fundraising time!

We need $2,500 by February 17th for the down payment!

We are almost to 10%, who can help??

lusidpsychcare.org
February 8, 2026 at 12:50 AM
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Did you forget Valentine's Day??

Show your emotional intelligence by donating to something important that will last!

Three days left to meet our down payment goal 🐶🐾✨

We're now at $317 out of $2,500! Only $2,183 left. 12% there and growing 🥰

Who can help bring us closer?? 🧡🩷💙

lusidpsychcare.org
February 14, 2026 at 3:07 PM
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L (biggest breath I can possibly hold in my middle aged lungs) MAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
lol this is gonna burst so fucking hard
February 15, 2026 at 12:30 AM
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How Indigenous ideas about non-linear time can help us navigate ecological crises. theconversation.com/how-indigeno...
How Indigenous ideas about non-linear time can help us navigate ecological crises
Māori, for instance, do not place the present at the centre; as some researchers put it, ‘there is no centre’.
theconversation.com
February 13, 2026 at 4:57 AM
Mr: Indian food night, fry bread, chana masala *looks at me cute*

Me: *giggles*
February 15, 2026 at 1:13 AM
Just watched a dude retake his Solve Two Rubiks Cubes, Drink Two Beers, Smoke Two Cigarettes record and this is what the boys should be doing.
February 15, 2026 at 12:33 AM
I swear like 87% of the backlash to this thinking is just their unprocessed trauma at not being given the proper supports, but like fuck off we aren't raising children at a handicap so you can just not heal.
This is pretty much what we do at work.

We ADHD test first, a lot, then if warranted, we do iq and learning disability tests so they can see how their brains work.

Then we recommend things like "give less assignments and ask for demonstrated proficiency of concepts" because we know this is a gift.
Rethinking ADHD as ‘hypercuriosity’
What if ADHD isn’t a deficit of attention, but an intensified curiosity? A new study explores how reframing ADHD could transform education
www.positive.news
February 14, 2026 at 11:59 PM
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This is pretty much what we do at work.

We ADHD test first, a lot, then if warranted, we do iq and learning disability tests so they can see how their brains work.

Then we recommend things like "give less assignments and ask for demonstrated proficiency of concepts" because we know this is a gift.
Rethinking ADHD as ‘hypercuriosity’
What if ADHD isn’t a deficit of attention, but an intensified curiosity? A new study explores how reframing ADHD could transform education
www.positive.news
February 14, 2026 at 6:41 PM
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6:07pm EST: OOB Moon in Capricorn semisextile Sun in Aquarius. Let your planets talk to each other and listen carefully. Anything you need to get off your chest before the New Moon Eclipse? This is your chance to settle out of court. 26°Cp15' D 26°Aq15' D
February 14, 2026 at 11:07 PM
Waiting for the data.
February 14, 2026 at 11:00 PM
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February 14, 2026 at 10:42 PM