big rock big river, ms ⧖ (they/them)
banner
bigrockbigriver.bsky.social
big rock big river, ms ⧖ (they/them)
@bigrockbigriver.bsky.social
Founder & Executive Director - LUSID Psych Care | Doctoral Candidate | Psychological Associate

Stolen Native, MMTIP | AuDHD, Plural | 🂡 🂡 🂡

I pledge allegiance to Liberty & Justice for all.

In US we trust.

lusidpsychcare.org
Pinned
My whole entire life I sat here trying to figure out what exactly the rules meant so I could *not* break them.

Now I am prepared to walk up to every line and do everything I know I can get away with in the pursuit of protecting the children.

And when it's not enough, I will calmly cross the line.
I get really overwhelmed really fast when the environment is disorganized.

But for see, now I have a system 🤭🤭🤭

I have learned a shit ton recently. And made a spread sheet and a wishlist 😃
February 15, 2026 at 3:33 AM
8 a day as a baseline.
February 15, 2026 at 3:25 AM
Reposted by big rock big river, ms ⧖ (they/them)
Valentine's Day is a fine time for love.
It's also a fine time to sharpen your swords, disappear into the enchanted forest, and look for treasure in the mossy tombs of the old ones.
Nothing says love like a dangerous adventure done together.
February 15, 2026 at 3:02 AM
Reposted by big rock big river, ms ⧖ (they/them)
10:20pm EST: OOB Moon in Capricorn semisquare Mercury in Pisces in his retrograde shadow. The ghost of your past comes knocking at the window. Better let it in and talk to it now, instead of waiting for it to get mad. No use trying to push off the inevitable reckoning.
February 15, 2026 at 3:20 AM
Reposted by big rock big river, ms ⧖ (they/them)
be for real
That is food?
I think I recognise a tomato but what is the rest of it?
February 15, 2026 at 2:42 AM
Reposted by big rock big river, ms ⧖ (they/them)
This has to be some kind of microaggression to see foreign food and go "ThaT's FoOd???"
That is food?
I think I recognise a tomato but what is the rest of it?
February 15, 2026 at 2:50 AM
So very grateful.
February 15, 2026 at 2:25 AM
Reposted by big rock big river, ms ⧖ (they/them)
The Puppers are coming! The Puppers are coming 🐶🐾✨

The girl has already been selected! The boy is forthcoming as there are so many to choose from.

But that means it is fundraising time!

We need $2,500 by February 17th for the down payment!

We are almost to 10%, who can help??

lusidpsychcare.org
February 8, 2026 at 12:50 AM
Reposted by big rock big river, ms ⧖ (they/them)
Did you forget Valentine's Day??

Show your emotional intelligence by donating to something important that will last!

Three days left to meet our down payment goal 🐶🐾✨

We're now at $317 out of $2,500! Only $2,183 left. 12% there and growing 🥰

Who can help bring us closer?? 🧡🩷💙

lusidpsychcare.org
February 14, 2026 at 3:07 PM
Reposted by big rock big river, ms ⧖ (they/them)
L (biggest breath I can possibly hold in my middle aged lungs) MAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
lol this is gonna burst so fucking hard
February 15, 2026 at 12:30 AM
Reposted by big rock big river, ms ⧖ (they/them)
How Indigenous ideas about non-linear time can help us navigate ecological crises. theconversation.com/how-indigeno...
How Indigenous ideas about non-linear time can help us navigate ecological crises
Māori, for instance, do not place the present at the centre; as some researchers put it, ‘there is no centre’.
theconversation.com
February 13, 2026 at 4:57 AM
Mr: Indian food night, fry bread, chana masala *looks at me cute*

Me: *giggles*
February 15, 2026 at 1:13 AM
Just watched a dude retake his Solve Two Rubiks Cubes, Drink Two Beers, Smoke Two Cigarettes record and this is what the boys should be doing.
February 15, 2026 at 12:33 AM
I swear like 87% of the backlash to this thinking is just their unprocessed trauma at not being given the proper supports, but like fuck off we aren't raising children at a handicap so you can just not heal.
This is pretty much what we do at work.

We ADHD test first, a lot, then if warranted, we do iq and learning disability tests so they can see how their brains work.

Then we recommend things like "give less assignments and ask for demonstrated proficiency of concepts" because we know this is a gift.
Rethinking ADHD as ‘hypercuriosity’
What if ADHD isn’t a deficit of attention, but an intensified curiosity? A new study explores how reframing ADHD could transform education
www.positive.news
February 14, 2026 at 11:59 PM
Reposted by big rock big river, ms ⧖ (they/them)
This is pretty much what we do at work.

We ADHD test first, a lot, then if warranted, we do iq and learning disability tests so they can see how their brains work.

Then we recommend things like "give less assignments and ask for demonstrated proficiency of concepts" because we know this is a gift.
Rethinking ADHD as ‘hypercuriosity’
What if ADHD isn’t a deficit of attention, but an intensified curiosity? A new study explores how reframing ADHD could transform education
www.positive.news
February 14, 2026 at 6:41 PM
Reposted by big rock big river, ms ⧖ (they/them)
6:07pm EST: OOB Moon in Capricorn semisextile Sun in Aquarius. Let your planets talk to each other and listen carefully. Anything you need to get off your chest before the New Moon Eclipse? This is your chance to settle out of court. 26°Cp15' D 26°Aq15' D
February 14, 2026 at 11:07 PM
Waiting for the data.
February 14, 2026 at 11:00 PM
Reposted by big rock big river, ms ⧖ (they/them)
February 14, 2026 at 10:42 PM
I do not care if you are happy to be lost in cognitive distortions so you can hide from your gift.

My energy is for people doing the work *shrugs*
This is pretty much what we do at work.

We ADHD test first, a lot, then if warranted, we do iq and learning disability tests so they can see how their brains work.

Then we recommend things like "give less assignments and ask for demonstrated proficiency of concepts" because we know this is a gift.
Rethinking ADHD as ‘hypercuriosity’
What if ADHD isn’t a deficit of attention, but an intensified curiosity? A new study explores how reframing ADHD could transform education
www.positive.news
February 14, 2026 at 10:44 PM
White lady not talking to me like that so she can ignore her control issue with colonization.

Fuck no, goodbye.
February 14, 2026 at 10:41 PM
Reposted by big rock big river, ms ⧖ (they/them)
February 14, 2026 at 10:30 PM
Okay chat, 20 minutes. That was a solid menace break buahahaha
Did a good job doing my work so I'm having a 5 minute menace break as a treat.
February 14, 2026 at 10:21 PM
I always forget I can drive to California whenever 😂
February 14, 2026 at 10:20 PM
*sigh*
happy valentines day to the lovers and the biters 💗
February 14, 2026 at 10:17 PM
Omg Mister has never seen all the valentines day food at chains here. Showing him and he's face palming at heart lasagna 💀
February 14, 2026 at 10:09 PM