Ashley Strosnider
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Ashley Strosnider
@ashleystro.bsky.social
writer, thinker, coffee drinker.
look, I know everything is political, but I do miss the days when The Discourse was Just Some Random Shit
November 18, 2025 at 2:59 PM
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I'm not a real doctor
But I am a real worm
I am an actual worm
I live like a worm
November 17, 2025 at 6:11 PM
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editors, now more than ever!
November 17, 2025 at 4:44 PM
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What these sweeps do to people’s lives is absolutely devastating. I found it difficult to absorb in the space of a single read.
November 12, 2025 at 5:41 PM
When I worked at summer camp, it was hot, so kids never wore three-piece suits, but my favorite teens were no-contest the "that guy" ones, in whatever form that took during early aughts Kentucky summers. I love this dude & wish him well
November 9, 2025 at 7:10 PM
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As many have pointed out, Mamdani didn't stand apart from our trans brothers and sisters. He didn't play the "Gee, gosh, it sure is complicated," milquetoast moderate card. And he crushed.

The way forward is together, not over the bodies of our own.
November 5, 2025 at 2:52 AM
good god did I ever need something good to happen. good job, everybody!
November 5, 2025 at 3:07 AM
I don’t have any tattoos, but did this man not have any friends?? That’s what I can’t stop wondering, among other obvious questions others have posed
October 22, 2025 at 2:37 AM
thirty to fifty
October 21, 2025 at 11:01 PM
The neighbor who has chickens in their side yard in my city block is doing such a service. It’s the ultimate third-space. One neighbor stopped to warn me not to feed them (I wasn’t! I wouldn’t! I was just fascinated by their molting!), and another stopped to ask me if this was my farm. I wish!
October 19, 2025 at 7:31 PM
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your analysis of this political moment is going to fail if you keep using reductionist labels like "wine mom". first of all, there are dozens of factions just within that one term, from whiskey women to chardonnay chicas, and understanding their unique informal coalitions can take decades of study
October 19, 2025 at 12:48 AM
I saw a frog and a unicorn and listened to so many fired-up New Jerseyans yell into mics that my own accent was so out of whack my Jersey husband told me, “quick, say Pikeville. OK, now you’re back to baseline.” Much respect for the pissed off NY/NJ energy, though, which is clearly contagious.
October 18, 2025 at 9:03 PM
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Take note of all these people turning out for protests in small towns in red states.

Remember them the next time you’re inclined to write an area off because “they voted for this.”
October 18, 2025 at 4:29 PM
one thing I've been having myself stop and think about a lot lately: if my child self could've known how many Real Live Book Authors she'd consider friends when she grew up, she'd have been SO excited about just that fact alone. Which is to say, we're both proud to know y'all
October 16, 2025 at 2:35 PM
A random lady we sold my grandmother's sewing machine to in 2022 just (clearly accidentally) texted me a link to a reel about the LEGO factory. I hadn't saved her number. I've long regretted selling the sewing machine (though we had to at the time). Can I...reply and ask if she'll sell it back?
October 15, 2025 at 2:42 PM
I loved this! Matt's newsletter is my favorite, I love Amber's work, and as a kitchen-sink writer myself who thinks all novels should be as big + weird as we can make them, I super loved this very tactical take on how, exactly, one might wrangle all the tidbits into something legible and lovely
Thank you to Matt for letting me answer my most-asked craft question in his craft newsletter! (If you don’t subscribe to No Failure, Only Practice, you should probably remedy that btw.)
Happy pub day to @ambersparks.bsky.social and her excellent novel HAPPY PEOPLE DON'T LIVE HERE! Thanks to Amber for guest-posting at No Failure, Only Practice with a craft essay on "How to Write a Novel with the Kitchen Sink Thrown In," a fun look at what to do with your many/too-many obsessions.
October 14, 2025 at 9:10 PM
The best argument against ledes or headlines in the form of a question, imho, is that lots of people are going to just say "no," and you've lost them immediately. I think it goes without saying, but no, I absolutely do NOT want to see Marilyn Monroe in Game of Thrones. Why would I? Why would anyone?
October 14, 2025 at 3:51 PM
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*Lil Jon Voice* States' Rights to What
October 10, 2025 at 12:26 AM
Accidentally bought grape juice instead of apple at the corner store, and I'm thinking of my grandma, who loved grape juice mostly because it was purple, iirc, and she loved everything purple. She always had cinnamon rolls when we visited, always wore earrings. She was kind. Her name was Irene.
October 9, 2025 at 2:32 PM
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[the opening bars of "Forgot About Dre" start playing ominously]
October 9, 2025 at 11:40 AM
As an editor, I always always wanna back writers and help you find the best wildest weirdest versions of your voices and stories, but I will also always real talk you, bc as a reader of many things, I have too often caught myself whispering over a page, “who let them do this to themselves and why?”
An actual hot take: Too many authors are afraid of editors watering down their voice or whatever and not afraid enough of editors letting you put any old slop on the page.
October 8, 2025 at 11:10 PM
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Today is a day when arts degrees are worthless, but the product of those degrees is so valuable it would kill an entire industry if they were made to pay for it.
October 8, 2025 at 10:29 AM
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Do you like writing the whimsical in your short fiction? Do you amuse your readers, or make them muse? If so, send me a story at Necessary Fiction! I'm guess editing this month: necessaryfiction.submittable.com/Submit
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October 7, 2025 at 11:23 AM
the world is bad and I had a migraine for 8 days, but I felt better today and took my partner out for omakase for his birthday and the nice and super talented chef let me sear some tuna with a blowtorch!!
October 4, 2025 at 2:37 AM
taking a few small forays out of my lit events hiatus, and it’s going ok, but idk, y’all, still feeling like awp might be a bridge too far?
September 29, 2025 at 10:53 PM