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vonky2spark.bsky.social
Oka
@vonky2spark.bsky.social
NSFW 18+ Dutch 🇳🇱
28y, Disabled♿️+ MH🧠
Queer kinky social gear head🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈,
Props a Puppy🐶, Latex, Leather, mostly locked🔒⛓️
Aro-Ace, Trans (they/them), Poly but single
Also big fan of boardgames and Pokémon
Pinned
*Bark* New pupper who this?🐶🫶🏼
Time to start exploring my playful side
Colors: 💜💚
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Negative thoughts can drift in like clouds, but your body is the ground beneath them. Feel your breath, your feet, your weight. Let the sensations anchor you while the thoughts move on. They won’t stay, your body always brings you back home.

#pawsitivity #humanpup #humanpuppy
November 28, 2025 at 6:10 PM
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Day 27/30: Chastity

A cage. Funny how that thing holds so much power.
Your pleasure is on pause for the month, hers is not.
But is it really a punishment when you serve such beauty?
You still have that cocky mouth of yours to make her moan.

With:
- @pupvixenmtl.bsky.social
- pup_kalto (Instagram)
November 28, 2025 at 2:41 AM
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One day I’ll be able to fully express how much the community, and so many within it, have helped me feel loved, appreciated and given me the strength to find myself. Until then, thank you. I love you all ❤️ #puppyplay #humanpup #gaypup #gaypuppy #paddedpup
November 27, 2025 at 7:29 PM
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You don’t deserve to be devalued: not by others and not by your own doubts. Your worth isn’t up for negotiation. Stand firm in who you are, and honour the strength you’ve earned.

#pawsitivity #humanpup #humanpuppy
November 26, 2025 at 7:43 PM
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Day 24/30: Cuckholding

Cuck, a fitting title for that subby boy you are.
You were told to watch, to never look away.
It’s a pleasure to see your superiors enjoy what was never meant for you.
You know your place.

With:
- @foxlepup.bsky.social
- @sluppylepup.bsky.social
- @pup-xander.bsky.social
November 24, 2025 at 8:37 PM
Damm these nerves are getting on my nerves which is getting on my nerves🫨🫨🫣
November 22, 2025 at 9:38 AM
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It's the scientific community's duty to fight misinformation, bioessentialism, and eugenics

That's why we're launching Beyond X&Y, an educational campaign combating the rise of unscientific political propaganda used to attack trans and intersex people

Subscribe to our newsletter at beyondxandy.org
September 23, 2025 at 8:52 PM
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Reminder that trans identities are valid and deserve respect. Our trans siblings know who they are better than the cis people trying to legislate against them, and they deserve our respect and unquestioning support.

Empathy is a verb. It’s never too late to start practicing getting better at it.
November 20, 2025 at 10:15 PM
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Something they should really do more before you are discharged after an operation is tell you what normal and abnormal looks like when it comes to healing.

Things which might be completely normal, could be totally alien to us… knowledge is power & vital in these situations.
November 22, 2025 at 9:15 AM
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Come have a drink at the Leather Social Utrecht! Leather gear is not mandatory but is highly appreciated (no Nazi/WW2 style gear)! No fee or registration, just drinks and meet fellow leather lovers. The event is a social gathering (no nudity or sex).
Check our events flyer:
linktr.ee/leathersocia...
November 22, 2025 at 7:49 AM
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Today is Trans Day of Remembrance!

I honour and acknowledge all of my brothers and sisters who have been killed and all of us who still suffer for being who they are.

It is a terrible loss that is unforgivable!

Here’s to a brighter future for you and me 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵
November 20, 2025 at 7:28 AM
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Authenticity isn’t what others decide for you. It’s who you are when you stop performing, stop shrinking, and stop living by someone else’s script. Your truth is yours alone, claim it!

#pawsitivity #humanpup #humanpuppy
November 19, 2025 at 9:01 AM
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I understand this is public. But it doesn’t give you the right to tell family members of mine *how* you THINK you know us. So keep that in mind. Thanks 🙄
November 18, 2025 at 4:34 PM
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Turns out the bit of rectum they removed had acute inflammation and was essentially diseased. Much longer it may have caused more issues.

It 100% validates my decision to ask for this operation before a professional would have suggested it to be.

Turns out we do know our bodies
November 18, 2025 at 7:37 PM
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Echoing what my husband said, if you see these pages and know us then no you don’t. Keep it to yourself, no problem talking to US in private about it if you’re a fan. But you have ZERO right to tell my BLOOD family about my Bluesky account in conversation. ✌🏻
I understand this is public. But it doesn’t give you the right to tell family members of mine *how* you THINK you know us. So keep that in mind. Thanks 🙄
November 18, 2025 at 7:52 PM
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You’re allowed to be a patchwork. My recovery has been, from years of trying tools and keeping what actually helps my brain feel safer. Messy doesn’t mean failing, it means you're trying.

#pawsitivity #humanpup #humanpuppy
November 17, 2025 at 10:01 PM
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It’s hard to find photos that I instantly love, but this stare down with @ranulf-werewolf.bsky.social is one of them. Can you tell I have a bit of a puppy crush? 😅

📸 the fabulous @caraid65.bsky.social #puppyplay #humanpup #gaypup #gaypuppy #paddedpup
November 17, 2025 at 6:09 PM
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Thank you for growing our community! 🤟💚

#deaf #pupplayfamily #pupplaycommunity #pupplay #pup #disabledpup
October 17, 2025 at 8:01 PM
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Owning your sub is not just about use and control. It is about love, respect, and care. Like and repost if you agree.
November 12, 2025 at 8:15 AM
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You made it through the week and that’s enough. You don’t need to sprint into next week; walk in gently.

Rest is part of recovery, So give yourself permission to land softly.

#StressAwearenessWeek #pawsitivity #humanpup #humanpuppy
November 10, 2025 at 2:23 AM
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If you want me to be your "daddy," just know that this is the kind of daddy I'm going to be. Not sorry. 🤷🏼‍♂️
November 5, 2025 at 7:05 PM
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You don’t have to do this alone. Sometimes the kindest thing we can do is say “I’ve got you” and mean it. Care isn’t always advice, sometimes it’s just being there. Together is how we heal.

#StrwssAwarenessWeek #pawsitivity #humanpup #humanpuppy
November 8, 2025 at 5:40 PM
Quick life update:
- Mentally doing pretty good.
- Dealing with some health issues surrounding my nerves and subsequently my heart

Also my Grandma is nearing the end of her life. Which is okay since it has come full circle for her but it still hurts that we soon have to say goodbye 🫶🏼❤️😢
November 7, 2025 at 5:06 PM
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I got asked “what’s the best way to say you’re disabled?”

Just say it. Whether you’re queer, padded, a pup, disabled, whatever. You’ll always find the right people by being honest about yourself @dynamopup.bsky.social @caraid65.bsky.social #puppyplay #humanpup #gaypup #gaypuppy #paddedpup
November 5, 2025 at 6:08 PM
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FORFUN was glad to attend and support BLUE SYMPHONY: The Body Painting and Costume Design 2025 by the Theatre Arts and Creative Entrepreneurship Program, Suan Sunandha Rajabhat University.

It was a beautiful showcase of creativity and talent.
Proud to be part of this inspiring event.
November 5, 2025 at 3:48 PM