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Em✨
@thelifeshewrote.bsky.social
AuDHD • exvie • aspiring indie author (romance) • ex-church staffer • 🩷💜💙 • she/her • https://linktr.ee/thelifeshewrote
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I always feel like a dorky poser around the exvies who are like 5yrs younger than me, here’s why: I was your annoying youth leader every Wed night. Buzzkill chaperone at youth convention, performing arts, and winter camp.

I’m so sorry. I was a single 20yoF in the church it was the only power I had.
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August 22, 2025 at 1:18 PM
Deep in the throes of editing/rewrites and I’m starting to feel like this guy as I rearrange chapters and write new transitions and reshape relationships between characters. #amwriting #indieauthor
a man in a blue shirt and tie is pointing at a board with papers on it .
Alt: The conspiracy theory gif- man in a blue shirt and tie is pointing at a board with papers and strings and writing all over.
media.tenor.com
August 19, 2025 at 11:39 PM
August 9, 2025 at 5:29 PM
I keep seeing authors say everyone hates their own writing/book at some point and honestly I’ve reached that point. But I think it’s also fear that something I let consume so much of my time wasn’t worth it. Don’t ask me to define that because I have no idea. My audhd brain is just letting me down.
August 7, 2025 at 5:44 PM
For the discerning child abuser?🙄
My family just used any wooden spoon that was handy. I do distinctly remember one of my parents breaking one on my brother once, which my parents deny of course because they were just “doing the best they knew how” 😒
you can straight up buy a wooden spoon with a cute message that it's meant to abuse kids with on amazon dot com
August 6, 2025 at 3:34 PM
Stop scrolling and post two characters who bring you joy and happiness
August 6, 2025 at 3:27 PM
I’ve set a self-imposed deadline to self publish my first contemporary romance novel by October 1st. I have a completed manuscript that’s in the editing phase. I have room for one more beta reader for anyone who’s an avid spicy romance reader. DMs are open.🌶️😘
#amwriting #indyauthor #romanceauthor
August 5, 2025 at 6:02 PM
CNN is gonna start a riot just for shits and giggles. I hate it here.
June 9, 2025 at 9:26 PM
I’m not good at self-promotion but one of the reasons I haven’t been around here much is that I’ve been #writing… like a lot.

What began as a couple short stories has turned into 2 novels and 2 more in the making. Never thought my first finished book would be #contemporaryromance but here we are.
June 9, 2025 at 3:03 PM
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There is literally no mystery what the “cause” of Autism is.

It’s primarily basic genetics & runs in families.

#RemoveRFK
April 17, 2025 at 10:33 AM
Have you ever spent hours searching the internet for your most favorite pen of all time that is the perfect pen but the original vendor doesn’t sell them anymore and now you’re desperate to find a duplicate? Because I have.

And yeah I’m fun at parties why do you ask?
April 8, 2025 at 7:28 PM
Cleaning out old bins in the garage and found some interesting things I’d saved in another life.😬
April 5, 2025 at 5:00 PM
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I don’t answer my phone but I sure will text you “what’s up” right after you call me
March 31, 2025 at 8:12 PM
I took my daughter to see Snow White. I have thoughts, most of them not good.
March 30, 2025 at 1:54 AM
I love my kids but other ppls kids generally stress me out. And then I feel like a shit parent for always saying no when they ask to have friends over so then I give in and say yes and then I’m literally watching the clock until they leave. Am I the only one? Am I a bad person? Asking for me.
March 25, 2025 at 8:55 PM
It’s one of those days where everything feels exhausting. Even the smallest things. My brain can’t seem to process anything today.
March 19, 2025 at 8:48 PM
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They commit crimes in broad daylight and judges go "gee, but holding them accountable could get someone hurt" and let them continue ransacking a building they have no legal purview over. God fucking dammit.
Wow. Judge Howell is worried that if she orders DOGE to leave the USIP building it could turn into an “armed standoff” over unwillingness to vacate, and points out law enforcement has shown willingness to help DOGE. Asks if we’ll need foreign mediators to come in.
March 19, 2025 at 8:26 PM
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We are at the gates of Mordor and everyone’s acting like we just left Rivendell
Kinda feels like we can stop talking about being on "the path" to authoritarianism
March 13, 2025 at 2:10 AM
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Thread 🧵: My call to action re: Gavin Newsom platforming bigots on his podcast:

CA Governor Newsom’s new podcast guest list reads like a who's who of the far right: TPUSA founder Charlie Kirk, right-wing media personality Michael Savage, and Steve Bannon.
March 13, 2025 at 1:13 AM
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How to contact the Governor:

CALL: 916-455-2841

EMAIL: www.gov.ca.gov/contact/

Please feel free to share this call to action!
Contact the Governor | Governor of California
You can contact the Governor a few different ways. The best way is through his online form.
www.gov.ca.gov
March 13, 2025 at 1:13 AM
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Please CONTACT Governor Newsom's office to tell him that throwing the LGBTQ+ community under the bus for his son or anyone else is unacceptable. Demand that he apologize for giving bigots a platform on his podcast and that he stop inviting far-right personalities in the future.
March 13, 2025 at 1:13 AM
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Twitter is down, there's another wave of folks coming over here, so once again I'm sharing my starter pack of folks who write/podcast about exvangelical things like evangelical history and Christian Nationalism.

go.bsky.app/3ZaJwqD
March 10, 2025 at 5:21 PM
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Stop stigmatizing neurodivergency.

Stop trying to "fix" us.

Stop trying to shove us into boxes we cannot fit into unless you break us into tiny pieces to do so.

STOP.

Most of all, STOP BLAMING VACCINES ON WHAT IS A GENETIC AND HEREDITARY SITUATION.

Just fucking STOP it.
March 10, 2025 at 4:01 PM
I’m a millennial and this summer will mark 30 years since I got my first job. I honestly can’t believe ppl are still writing articles like this.
I AM FORTY FUCKING FOUR I HAVE BEEN AN ADULT FOR DECADES DO YOU EVEN KNOW WHAT A MILLENNIAL IS
March 5, 2025 at 3:43 PM
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The Senate will vote TONIGHT on McMahon’s confirmation — call now and tell your Senators to vote NO! We need a Secretary who will make sure all students have the chance to learn, grow, and thrive in their schools, not put their rights at risk.
Action Alert: Stop McMahon’s confirmation! - Autistic Self Advocacy Network
The president’s pick for the new Secretary of Education is Linda McMahon. The President is trying to destroy the Department of Education, and nominating McMahon is part of his plan. Normally, we…
autisticadvocacy.org
March 3, 2025 at 3:00 PM