Haru
@sailorbye.bsky.social
they/them | elu/delu
queer going down the hill in a burning trash can | unfiltered wild thoughts I guess
queer going down the hill in a burning trash can | unfiltered wild thoughts I guess
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The hardest thing I ever had to try to convey to well-meaning parent advocates is that they were going to have to work at the pace of a tired disabled person.
December 25, 2025 at 6:45 PM
The hardest thing I ever had to try to convey to well-meaning parent advocates is that they were going to have to work at the pace of a tired disabled person.
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"But if that were true then your life would be impossible" is an entire genre of dismissals of disabled people's experiences.
It's not that they don't understand when we say how hard it is. It's that they can't believe we're still functioning at all of it's that hard.
It's not that they don't understand when we say how hard it is. It's that they can't believe we're still functioning at all of it's that hard.
"how do they ever get anything done, then?"
And yea, all praise to ADHD folks for ever getting anything done because it seems it would be impossible without that motivation and reward. The fact that you are ever able to do anything is superhuman!
And yea, all praise to ADHD folks for ever getting anything done because it seems it would be impossible without that motivation and reward. The fact that you are ever able to do anything is superhuman!
November 8, 2025 at 5:47 AM
"But if that were true then your life would be impossible" is an entire genre of dismissals of disabled people's experiences.
It's not that they don't understand when we say how hard it is. It's that they can't believe we're still functioning at all of it's that hard.
It's not that they don't understand when we say how hard it is. It's that they can't believe we're still functioning at all of it's that hard.
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Yes, disabled people deserve nice things too.
They deserve hobbies, social lies, things that bring a bit of joy to life.
Maybe the use money they’ve earned through employment to buy it.
Maybe they spend their benefits on it.
Either way, it’s their money and their right.
They deserve hobbies, social lies, things that bring a bit of joy to life.
Maybe the use money they’ve earned through employment to buy it.
Maybe they spend their benefits on it.
Either way, it’s their money and their right.
November 8, 2025 at 6:16 AM
Yes, disabled people deserve nice things too.
They deserve hobbies, social lies, things that bring a bit of joy to life.
Maybe the use money they’ve earned through employment to buy it.
Maybe they spend their benefits on it.
Either way, it’s their money and their right.
They deserve hobbies, social lies, things that bring a bit of joy to life.
Maybe the use money they’ve earned through employment to buy it.
Maybe they spend their benefits on it.
Either way, it’s their money and their right.
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School for NDs is just failing an assignment because you didn't follow the One True Way of Taking Notes but your understanding of the material is impeccable and the final product is also fine. You just didn't Do What the Teacher Said.
autism discourse in higher ed is always like “how do we handle these weirdos?” and never “wow the detail obsessed kid with empathy overload who communicates too directly keeps doing the best work”
October 28, 2025 at 6:32 PM
School for NDs is just failing an assignment because you didn't follow the One True Way of Taking Notes but your understanding of the material is impeccable and the final product is also fine. You just didn't Do What the Teacher Said.
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Bad Bunny, one of the biggest musical artists in the world, said he avoided the US in his tour because he thought ICE would set up ouside his shows.
Bad Bunny Says He Didn’t Include U.S. in Tour Dates Due to Fear of ICE Raids
Bad Bunny explained that he left the United States off his tour itinerary for fear that ICE 'could be outside [my concert].'
variety.com
September 11, 2025 at 5:51 PM
Bad Bunny, one of the biggest musical artists in the world, said he avoided the US in his tour because he thought ICE would set up ouside his shows.
@fightchatcontrol.bsky.social I’d love to be part of this change but it seems the emailing the MEPs through your website isn’t working…
September 16, 2025 at 5:15 PM
@fightchatcontrol.bsky.social I’d love to be part of this change but it seems the emailing the MEPs through your website isn’t working…
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Different accommodations work for different people.
Even if it doesn't work for others,
even if don't think it will work for you,
even if "you can manage without it,"
low-cost accommodations for managing aspects of our neurodivergent experiences are WORTH TRYING
Even if it doesn't work for others,
even if don't think it will work for you,
even if "you can manage without it,"
low-cost accommodations for managing aspects of our neurodivergent experiences are WORTH TRYING
June 22, 2025 at 2:26 PM
Different accommodations work for different people.
Even if it doesn't work for others,
even if don't think it will work for you,
even if "you can manage without it,"
low-cost accommodations for managing aspects of our neurodivergent experiences are WORTH TRYING
Even if it doesn't work for others,
even if don't think it will work for you,
even if "you can manage without it,"
low-cost accommodations for managing aspects of our neurodivergent experiences are WORTH TRYING
Me and my queer kinky neurodivergent atiny friends
June 5, 2025 at 5:48 PM
Me and my queer kinky neurodivergent atiny friends
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Não só é uma coisa engraçada virar adulto e perceber que ninguém fica realmente "adulto" e tal
Mas nossa tem uma galera que realmente faz questão de agir de formas que nem uma criança faria, superam muito elas na birra inclusive, sé louco.
Mas nossa tem uma galera que realmente faz questão de agir de formas que nem uma criança faria, superam muito elas na birra inclusive, sé louco.
April 1, 2025 at 4:27 PM
Não só é uma coisa engraçada virar adulto e perceber que ninguém fica realmente "adulto" e tal
Mas nossa tem uma galera que realmente faz questão de agir de formas que nem uma criança faria, superam muito elas na birra inclusive, sé louco.
Mas nossa tem uma galera que realmente faz questão de agir de formas que nem uma criança faria, superam muito elas na birra inclusive, sé louco.
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Gente se encharquem de arte, colem pôsteres nas paredes, pintem coisas, ouçam música (muita música), vejam filmes malucos, façam cerâmica, leiam autores controversos, poesias vagabundas, colem lambe-lambe, qualquer coisa que os façam sentir vivos e tornem a vida menos miserável.
March 8, 2025 at 7:31 PM
Gente se encharquem de arte, colem pôsteres nas paredes, pintem coisas, ouçam música (muita música), vejam filmes malucos, façam cerâmica, leiam autores controversos, poesias vagabundas, colem lambe-lambe, qualquer coisa que os façam sentir vivos e tornem a vida menos miserável.
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I wish I had realized my autistic discomfort of change was why I tried so hard to stop myself and my spouse from radical changes of self expression, shutting down both of our ability to experience euphoria. Living life unaware of your needs can cause very maladaptive behaviors.
March 3, 2025 at 2:27 PM
I wish I had realized my autistic discomfort of change was why I tried so hard to stop myself and my spouse from radical changes of self expression, shutting down both of our ability to experience euphoria. Living life unaware of your needs can cause very maladaptive behaviors.
some people have nothing else besides the fucking audacity… does it hurt to say something nice or kind? will you perish? what’s the drill?
February 23, 2025 at 8:49 AM
some people have nothing else besides the fucking audacity… does it hurt to say something nice or kind? will you perish? what’s the drill?
it’s funny to be a trans audhd person because then you get the hyperfixations that change your lifestyle: I have a massive hyperfixation on ateez and San to be point I want to go back to the gym and tackle my dysphoria
February 17, 2025 at 11:53 AM
it’s funny to be a trans audhd person because then you get the hyperfixations that change your lifestyle: I have a massive hyperfixation on ateez and San to be point I want to go back to the gym and tackle my dysphoria
I mourn. I mourn the bed that was always comfy and good to sleep in at any moment, the constant quiet and cleanliness, my free time, the easy quick healthy meals, my space, my routine… god knows that I mourn everything since then
February 9, 2025 at 11:54 PM
I mourn. I mourn the bed that was always comfy and good to sleep in at any moment, the constant quiet and cleanliness, my free time, the easy quick healthy meals, my space, my routine… god knows that I mourn everything since then
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Isso pra mim tem a ver com a manutenção de um lugar de crítica muito confortável. Precisa nem ser astrologia, mesmo na psicologia eu observo a galera que se arvora o arauto da ciência bater na psicanálise (por motivos errados muitas vezes) e poupar a psiquiatria e o complexo industrial farmacêutico.
Tenho birra de "cientista" e "divulgador" que escolhe bater na astrologia e deixa de lado os "economistas do mercado", as empresas q fazem greenwashing, as de "tecnologia" q roubam dados da população, etc
Pra eles o único problema é a astrologia
Pra eles o único problema é a astrologia
February 5, 2025 at 3:55 PM
Isso pra mim tem a ver com a manutenção de um lugar de crítica muito confortável. Precisa nem ser astrologia, mesmo na psicologia eu observo a galera que se arvora o arauto da ciência bater na psicanálise (por motivos errados muitas vezes) e poupar a psiquiatria e o complexo industrial farmacêutico.
Lately I am as delulu as they come. Being delulu with ateez to save me from the current horrors 😌
February 5, 2025 at 12:03 AM
Lately I am as delulu as they come. Being delulu with ateez to save me from the current horrors 😌
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Hey. real talk.
taking action is really scary. but so are the actions of the government.
we are going to be scared. we have to pick.
Would you rather be scared organizing? or would you rather be scared paralyzed?
it will be hard either way. but shared burdens make lighter loads and all that.
taking action is really scary. but so are the actions of the government.
we are going to be scared. we have to pick.
Would you rather be scared organizing? or would you rather be scared paralyzed?
it will be hard either way. but shared burdens make lighter loads and all that.
January 29, 2025 at 3:35 PM
Hey. real talk.
taking action is really scary. but so are the actions of the government.
we are going to be scared. we have to pick.
Would you rather be scared organizing? or would you rather be scared paralyzed?
it will be hard either way. but shared burdens make lighter loads and all that.
taking action is really scary. but so are the actions of the government.
we are going to be scared. we have to pick.
Would you rather be scared organizing? or would you rather be scared paralyzed?
it will be hard either way. but shared burdens make lighter loads and all that.
Not me showing my therapist my Choi San pc saying it’s my “emotional support San” and they replying with “BABYYYYYY” 🥺😭
January 28, 2025 at 11:33 PM
Not me showing my therapist my Choi San pc saying it’s my “emotional support San” and they replying with “BABYYYYYY” 🥺😭
I keep my mental sanity by staying delulu with k-pop men and queer fictional characters thank you very much
January 21, 2025 at 10:20 AM
I keep my mental sanity by staying delulu with k-pop men and queer fictional characters thank you very much
Amo
Show do ATEEZ
As pessoas atrás de mim falando em BL e omegaverse kkkk
Show do ATEEZ
As pessoas atrás de mim falando em BL e omegaverse kkkk
January 19, 2025 at 1:05 AM
Amo
Show do ATEEZ
As pessoas atrás de mim falando em BL e omegaverse kkkk
Show do ATEEZ
As pessoas atrás de mim falando em BL e omegaverse kkkk
Adoro ter sonhos bem fanfic da minha cabeça
January 16, 2025 at 8:28 AM
Adoro ter sonhos bem fanfic da minha cabeça
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I am a climate scientist and this is correct ⬇️
Occasional reminder that there’s no, “it’s too late, its over” for anthropogenic climate change. Every molecule of CO2 that doesn’t go into the atmosphere makes a difference. Preventing 0.1 degree of warming makes a difference. Every bit of climate resilience we build together makes a difference.
January 9, 2025 at 3:06 AM
I am a climate scientist and this is correct ⬇️
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31 de dezembro dia de encerrar ciclos pois não há melhor dia pra eu me mat
December 30, 2024 at 10:30 PM
31 de dezembro dia de encerrar ciclos pois não há melhor dia pra eu me mat
de prenda de Natal quero ser marmita do Gabriel Leone e da Carla Salle, pode? pfv, nunca pedi nada 🥺👉👈
December 24, 2024 at 6:58 PM
de prenda de Natal quero ser marmita do Gabriel Leone e da Carla Salle, pode? pfv, nunca pedi nada 🥺👉👈