Ruby Tuesday
@rubytuesday74.bsky.social
I should put something in my profile.
she/her.
mahm.
transbian in love.
internet plumber. 50 plus.
city girl. rapid transit kid. bicycle commuter.
fountain pen collector.
expat in America.
she/her.
mahm.
transbian in love.
internet plumber. 50 plus.
city girl. rapid transit kid. bicycle commuter.
fountain pen collector.
expat in America.
I am extremely lucky to call this amazing woman my girlfriend.
Her 2019 photo is cuter than mine. (I might be biased).
Her 2019 photo is cuter than mine. (I might be biased).
Here are three of my work headshots, 2019 and years into transition but before HRT, 2023 and less than one year on HRT, and earlier 2025, more than two years:
November 4, 2025 at 5:42 PM
I am extremely lucky to call this amazing woman my girlfriend.
Her 2019 photo is cuter than mine. (I might be biased).
Her 2019 photo is cuter than mine. (I might be biased).
Estrogen is amazing.
November 3, 2025 at 2:20 AM
Estrogen is amazing.
Trust me, I would love to be able to share a meal with friends and acquaintances.
I mask everywhere except known safe private spaces and sufficiently unpopulated outdoor spaces.
As (northern) winter approaches, that latter will become rare.
Masks reduce exposure to all respiratory diseases.
I mask everywhere except known safe private spaces and sufficiently unpopulated outdoor spaces.
As (northern) winter approaches, that latter will become rare.
Masks reduce exposure to all respiratory diseases.
Since visibility on this is a really big challenge I just wanna say that I still mask in public spaces. I wear a mask when around anyone who doesn’t practice similar precautions. If you do too, you are not alone and I appreciate you so much. If you don’t, you can *always* start again.
October 21, 2025 at 7:20 PM
Trust me, I would love to be able to share a meal with friends and acquaintances.
I mask everywhere except known safe private spaces and sufficiently unpopulated outdoor spaces.
As (northern) winter approaches, that latter will become rare.
Masks reduce exposure to all respiratory diseases.
I mask everywhere except known safe private spaces and sufficiently unpopulated outdoor spaces.
As (northern) winter approaches, that latter will become rare.
Masks reduce exposure to all respiratory diseases.
Coming out.
It's National Coming Out day.
I'm sure this surprises nobody following me. I am:
A trans woman,
A lesbian,
And (in the department of things I didn't expect to matter)
An immigrant, and
An atheist.
And I'm spending National Coming Out day in the best way I can, with my girlfriend.
It's National Coming Out day.
I'm sure this surprises nobody following me. I am:
A trans woman,
A lesbian,
And (in the department of things I didn't expect to matter)
An immigrant, and
An atheist.
And I'm spending National Coming Out day in the best way I can, with my girlfriend.
October 12, 2025 at 12:27 AM
Coming out.
It's National Coming Out day.
I'm sure this surprises nobody following me. I am:
A trans woman,
A lesbian,
And (in the department of things I didn't expect to matter)
An immigrant, and
An atheist.
And I'm spending National Coming Out day in the best way I can, with my girlfriend.
It's National Coming Out day.
I'm sure this surprises nobody following me. I am:
A trans woman,
A lesbian,
And (in the department of things I didn't expect to matter)
An immigrant, and
An atheist.
And I'm spending National Coming Out day in the best way I can, with my girlfriend.
Reposted by Ruby Tuesday
Dear Trans Kids,
You deserve to live authentically, and you're so strong and brave for doing so. Shine bright young ones, I got your back.
#Letters4TransKids
You deserve to live authentically, and you're so strong and brave for doing so. Shine bright young ones, I got your back.
#Letters4TransKids
September 25, 2025 at 2:53 PM
Dear Trans Kids,
You deserve to live authentically, and you're so strong and brave for doing so. Shine bright young ones, I got your back.
#Letters4TransKids
You deserve to live authentically, and you're so strong and brave for doing so. Shine bright young ones, I got your back.
#Letters4TransKids
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Hi Trans Kids!
Don't let anyone tell you they know more about who you are than you do. You are an expert on who you are. The only one that counts.
xoxo
#Letters4TransKids
Don't let anyone tell you they know more about who you are than you do. You are an expert on who you are. The only one that counts.
xoxo
#Letters4TransKids
September 24, 2025 at 10:00 PM
Hi Trans Kids!
Don't let anyone tell you they know more about who you are than you do. You are an expert on who you are. The only one that counts.
xoxo
#Letters4TransKids
Don't let anyone tell you they know more about who you are than you do. You are an expert on who you are. The only one that counts.
xoxo
#Letters4TransKids
Reposted by Ruby Tuesday
Dear trans kids:
Your people are out there. You will love and argue and do so many stupid things, just like everyone else. The best part? They will love you for simply being you.
You will never walk alone. That's not a promise. It's a guarantee.
#Letters4TransKids
youtu.be/ATYh0icMDtw?...
Your people are out there. You will love and argue and do so many stupid things, just like everyone else. The best part? They will love you for simply being you.
You will never walk alone. That's not a promise. It's a guarantee.
#Letters4TransKids
youtu.be/ATYh0icMDtw?...
You'll Never Walk Alone (Mono) (2002 Remaster)
YouTube video by Gerry & The Pacemakers - Topic
youtu.be
September 25, 2025 at 5:13 PM
Dear trans kids:
Your people are out there. You will love and argue and do so many stupid things, just like everyone else. The best part? They will love you for simply being you.
You will never walk alone. That's not a promise. It's a guarantee.
#Letters4TransKids
youtu.be/ATYh0icMDtw?...
Your people are out there. You will love and argue and do so many stupid things, just like everyone else. The best part? They will love you for simply being you.
You will never walk alone. That's not a promise. It's a guarantee.
#Letters4TransKids
youtu.be/ATYh0icMDtw?...
Reposted by Ruby Tuesday
September 24, 2025 at 4:26 PM
Reposted by Ruby Tuesday
hi friends
i told you on sunday i had a low-commitment ask for you in this week's trans tuesday
it's the #Letters4TransKids
so far only 2 folks besides me have done it
it doesn't have to be long! but please take a few minutes to let them know we're out here trying to make things better for them
i told you on sunday i had a low-commitment ask for you in this week's trans tuesday
it's the #Letters4TransKids
so far only 2 folks besides me have done it
it doesn't have to be long! but please take a few minutes to let them know we're out here trying to make things better for them
Welcome to #TransTuesday!
Time for TRANS KIDS 2: THE INTAKE EXAM AND TRANS FLIGHT
And I'm bringing back #Letters4TransKids
Use the hashtag and post yours, and let them know you've got their backs!
www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/09/23/t...
Time for TRANS KIDS 2: THE INTAKE EXAM AND TRANS FLIGHT
And I'm bringing back #Letters4TransKids
Use the hashtag and post yours, and let them know you've got their backs!
www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/09/23/t...
September 25, 2025 at 11:40 AM
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Welcome to #TransTuesday!
Time for TRANS KIDS 2: THE INTAKE EXAM AND TRANS FLIGHT
And I'm bringing back #Letters4TransKids
Use the hashtag and post yours, and let them know you've got their backs!
www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/09/23/t...
Time for TRANS KIDS 2: THE INTAKE EXAM AND TRANS FLIGHT
And I'm bringing back #Letters4TransKids
Use the hashtag and post yours, and let them know you've got their backs!
www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/09/23/t...
September 23, 2025 at 3:58 PM
Welcome to #TransTuesday!
Time for TRANS KIDS 2: THE INTAKE EXAM AND TRANS FLIGHT
And I'm bringing back #Letters4TransKids
Use the hashtag and post yours, and let them know you've got their backs!
www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/09/23/t...
Time for TRANS KIDS 2: THE INTAKE EXAM AND TRANS FLIGHT
And I'm bringing back #Letters4TransKids
Use the hashtag and post yours, and let them know you've got their backs!
www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/09/23/t...
Reposted by Ruby Tuesday
Hey trans kids,
Things are kinda bad and it’s OK to feel weird about the future!
But when you feel unloved & misunderstood, know that there are people out there who will understand & love you. Even if it takes time, you’ll find them. Reach for that future. It’s there, I promise. #letters4transkids
Things are kinda bad and it’s OK to feel weird about the future!
But when you feel unloved & misunderstood, know that there are people out there who will understand & love you. Even if it takes time, you’ll find them. Reach for that future. It’s there, I promise. #letters4transkids
hi friends
i told you on sunday i had a low-commitment ask for you in this week's trans tuesday
it's the #Letters4TransKids
so far only 2 folks besides me have done it
it doesn't have to be long! but please take a few minutes to let them know we're out here trying to make things better for them
i told you on sunday i had a low-commitment ask for you in this week's trans tuesday
it's the #Letters4TransKids
so far only 2 folks besides me have done it
it doesn't have to be long! but please take a few minutes to let them know we're out here trying to make things better for them
Welcome to #TransTuesday!
Time for TRANS KIDS 2: THE INTAKE EXAM AND TRANS FLIGHT
And I'm bringing back #Letters4TransKids
Use the hashtag and post yours, and let them know you've got their backs!
www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/09/23/t...
Time for TRANS KIDS 2: THE INTAKE EXAM AND TRANS FLIGHT
And I'm bringing back #Letters4TransKids
Use the hashtag and post yours, and let them know you've got their backs!
www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/09/23/t...
September 24, 2025 at 10:02 PM
Hey trans kids,
Things are kinda bad and it’s OK to feel weird about the future!
But when you feel unloved & misunderstood, know that there are people out there who will understand & love you. Even if it takes time, you’ll find them. Reach for that future. It’s there, I promise. #letters4transkids
Things are kinda bad and it’s OK to feel weird about the future!
But when you feel unloved & misunderstood, know that there are people out there who will understand & love you. Even if it takes time, you’ll find them. Reach for that future. It’s there, I promise. #letters4transkids
Reposted by Ruby Tuesday
trans kids—
i know the world's scary right now. i know the platitudes get old. i know it's hard to keep going. but you're gonna get to the other side of this and realize that openly being yourself is what you need more than anything.
you deserve to find joy in who you are.
#Letters4TransKids
i know the world's scary right now. i know the platitudes get old. i know it's hard to keep going. but you're gonna get to the other side of this and realize that openly being yourself is what you need more than anything.
you deserve to find joy in who you are.
#Letters4TransKids
September 25, 2025 at 4:47 PM
trans kids—
i know the world's scary right now. i know the platitudes get old. i know it's hard to keep going. but you're gonna get to the other side of this and realize that openly being yourself is what you need more than anything.
you deserve to find joy in who you are.
#Letters4TransKids
i know the world's scary right now. i know the platitudes get old. i know it's hard to keep going. but you're gonna get to the other side of this and realize that openly being yourself is what you need more than anything.
you deserve to find joy in who you are.
#Letters4TransKids
Reposted by Ruby Tuesday
Hi trans kids:
You are already more brave and powerful than I was at your age. You've seen who you are and you've declared it for the world. I know things are scary right now but you've jumped such a hurdle, and you should be so proud of how strong and beautiful that makes you.
#Letters4TransKids
You are already more brave and powerful than I was at your age. You've seen who you are and you've declared it for the world. I know things are scary right now but you've jumped such a hurdle, and you should be so proud of how strong and beautiful that makes you.
#Letters4TransKids
hi friends
i told you on sunday i had a low-commitment ask for you in this week's trans tuesday
it's the #Letters4TransKids
so far only 2 folks besides me have done it
it doesn't have to be long! but please take a few minutes to let them know we're out here trying to make things better for them
i told you on sunday i had a low-commitment ask for you in this week's trans tuesday
it's the #Letters4TransKids
so far only 2 folks besides me have done it
it doesn't have to be long! but please take a few minutes to let them know we're out here trying to make things better for them
Welcome to #TransTuesday!
Time for TRANS KIDS 2: THE INTAKE EXAM AND TRANS FLIGHT
And I'm bringing back #Letters4TransKids
Use the hashtag and post yours, and let them know you've got their backs!
www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/09/23/t...
Time for TRANS KIDS 2: THE INTAKE EXAM AND TRANS FLIGHT
And I'm bringing back #Letters4TransKids
Use the hashtag and post yours, and let them know you've got their backs!
www.tillystranstuesdays.com/2025/09/23/t...
September 24, 2025 at 6:47 PM
Hi trans kids:
You are already more brave and powerful than I was at your age. You've seen who you are and you've declared it for the world. I know things are scary right now but you've jumped such a hurdle, and you should be so proud of how strong and beautiful that makes you.
#Letters4TransKids
You are already more brave and powerful than I was at your age. You've seen who you are and you've declared it for the world. I know things are scary right now but you've jumped such a hurdle, and you should be so proud of how strong and beautiful that makes you.
#Letters4TransKids
Reposted by Ruby Tuesday
Hey kids
You're gonna feel scared. That's okay. I was scared too.
But you're also gonna feel joy. A joy so big you're gonna wonder if you'd ever really felt joy before.
It'll make you wonder what other beautiful things are hiding in your heart.
And you'll find those too.
#letters4transkids
You're gonna feel scared. That's okay. I was scared too.
But you're also gonna feel joy. A joy so big you're gonna wonder if you'd ever really felt joy before.
It'll make you wonder what other beautiful things are hiding in your heart.
And you'll find those too.
#letters4transkids
Hi trans kids:
You are already more brave and powerful than I was at your age. You've seen who you are and you've declared it for the world. I know things are scary right now but you've jumped such a hurdle, and you should be so proud of how strong and beautiful that makes you.
#Letters4TransKids
You are already more brave and powerful than I was at your age. You've seen who you are and you've declared it for the world. I know things are scary right now but you've jumped such a hurdle, and you should be so proud of how strong and beautiful that makes you.
#Letters4TransKids
hi friends
i told you on sunday i had a low-commitment ask for you in this week's trans tuesday
it's the #Letters4TransKids
so far only 2 folks besides me have done it
it doesn't have to be long! but please take a few minutes to let them know we're out here trying to make things better for them
i told you on sunday i had a low-commitment ask for you in this week's trans tuesday
it's the #Letters4TransKids
so far only 2 folks besides me have done it
it doesn't have to be long! but please take a few minutes to let them know we're out here trying to make things better for them
September 24, 2025 at 9:24 PM
Hey kids
You're gonna feel scared. That's okay. I was scared too.
But you're also gonna feel joy. A joy so big you're gonna wonder if you'd ever really felt joy before.
It'll make you wonder what other beautiful things are hiding in your heart.
And you'll find those too.
#letters4transkids
You're gonna feel scared. That's okay. I was scared too.
But you're also gonna feel joy. A joy so big you're gonna wonder if you'd ever really felt joy before.
It'll make you wonder what other beautiful things are hiding in your heart.
And you'll find those too.
#letters4transkids
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September 25, 2025 at 1:54 PM
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This is for the trans kids out there who feel like they don't belong or don't have the best support.
#Letters4TransKids
Anyone else that wants to show the kids that you support them and will fight for them or just want to share your transition story, feel free to use the above hashtag!
#Letters4TransKids
Anyone else that wants to show the kids that you support them and will fight for them or just want to share your transition story, feel free to use the above hashtag!
September 29, 2025 at 1:30 PM
This is for the trans kids out there who feel like they don't belong or don't have the best support.
#Letters4TransKids
Anyone else that wants to show the kids that you support them and will fight for them or just want to share your transition story, feel free to use the above hashtag!
#Letters4TransKids
Anyone else that wants to show the kids that you support them and will fight for them or just want to share your transition story, feel free to use the above hashtag!
Reposted by Ruby Tuesday
Dear trans kids:
There's so much love in the world. I know you mostly see the hate and the struggle and the cruelty, but there is such love too, and like all beauty, it is quiet.
But it is there, waiting for you to find it.
#Letters4TransKids
There's so much love in the world. I know you mostly see the hate and the struggle and the cruelty, but there is such love too, and like all beauty, it is quiet.
But it is there, waiting for you to find it.
#Letters4TransKids
September 25, 2025 at 2:42 PM
Dear trans kids:
There's so much love in the world. I know you mostly see the hate and the struggle and the cruelty, but there is such love too, and like all beauty, it is quiet.
But it is there, waiting for you to find it.
#Letters4TransKids
There's so much love in the world. I know you mostly see the hate and the struggle and the cruelty, but there is such love too, and like all beauty, it is quiet.
But it is there, waiting for you to find it.
#Letters4TransKids
Reposted by Ruby Tuesday
Trans kids,
Many of you won’t read this, because you don’t know you’re trans yet. You just think you’re wrong or broken. You’re not. You’re beautiful and wonderful. You just don’t fit into the box everyone expects you to. Embrace yourself first, and you’ll find your place.
#Letters4TransKids
Many of you won’t read this, because you don’t know you’re trans yet. You just think you’re wrong or broken. You’re not. You’re beautiful and wonderful. You just don’t fit into the box everyone expects you to. Embrace yourself first, and you’ll find your place.
#Letters4TransKids
September 26, 2025 at 2:52 AM
Trans kids,
Many of you won’t read this, because you don’t know you’re trans yet. You just think you’re wrong or broken. You’re not. You’re beautiful and wonderful. You just don’t fit into the box everyone expects you to. Embrace yourself first, and you’ll find your place.
#Letters4TransKids
Many of you won’t read this, because you don’t know you’re trans yet. You just think you’re wrong or broken. You’re not. You’re beautiful and wonderful. You just don’t fit into the box everyone expects you to. Embrace yourself first, and you’ll find your place.
#Letters4TransKids
Reposted by Ruby Tuesday
Wrote this pre-caffeinated and fighting brainworms, but I still got their backs. #Letters4TransKids
September 24, 2025 at 3:51 PM
Wrote this pre-caffeinated and fighting brainworms, but I still got their backs. #Letters4TransKids
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My letter scan speak to anyone but specifically Black trans kids because I need them to know they are loved too! Especially them!
#Letters4TransKids
#Letters4TransKids
September 24, 2025 at 10:15 PM
My letter scan speak to anyone but specifically Black trans kids because I need them to know they are loved too! Especially them!
#Letters4TransKids
#Letters4TransKids
#Letters4TransKids
because none of us can do this alone.
because none of us can do this alone.
September 24, 2025 at 6:56 PM
#Letters4TransKids
because none of us can do this alone.
because none of us can do this alone.
[deletes rant about (gestures broadly)]
I'm back with lyrics posting again. Also, trauma dump? This does not fit my existing music threads.
My love, she throws me like a rubber ball
Oh-oh, the sweetest thing
She won't catch me or break my fall
Oh-oh, the sweetest thing
"Sweetest Thing" by U2.
(1/6)
I'm back with lyrics posting again. Also, trauma dump? This does not fit my existing music threads.
My love, she throws me like a rubber ball
Oh-oh, the sweetest thing
She won't catch me or break my fall
Oh-oh, the sweetest thing
"Sweetest Thing" by U2.
(1/6)
September 21, 2025 at 11:01 PM
[deletes rant about (gestures broadly)]
I'm back with lyrics posting again. Also, trauma dump? This does not fit my existing music threads.
My love, she throws me like a rubber ball
Oh-oh, the sweetest thing
She won't catch me or break my fall
Oh-oh, the sweetest thing
"Sweetest Thing" by U2.
(1/6)
I'm back with lyrics posting again. Also, trauma dump? This does not fit my existing music threads.
My love, she throws me like a rubber ball
Oh-oh, the sweetest thing
She won't catch me or break my fall
Oh-oh, the sweetest thing
"Sweetest Thing" by U2.
(1/6)
It's 2025 y'all.
from work:
"Good Morning everyone,
When you respond, please stop using reply all."
That is all.
from work:
"Good Morning everyone,
When you respond, please stop using reply all."
That is all.
July 14, 2025 at 4:39 PM
It's 2025 y'all.
from work:
"Good Morning everyone,
When you respond, please stop using reply all."
That is all.
from work:
"Good Morning everyone,
When you respond, please stop using reply all."
That is all.